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beautiful dharma Connee...thanks again. :o)

NetPaul

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From: Connee Chandler <connee@...>
To: abe <Abraham-Hicks@...>
Subject: Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Connee changes her mind
Date: Friday, July 09, 1999 1:24 PM

From: Connee Chandler <connee@...>

Hi, Paul,

I'd like to add a little info that I haven't mentioned lately, before you

go

off too far on the path of my having had a perfectly loving human mother,

so

all that was needed was for me to recognize it through the dark veil of

my

cultural conditioning. I grew up in an alcoholic/dysfunctional home,

and

learned about victimization from my Mom who battered me as a child, as

she had

been battered as a child. And then, when she started breaking blood

vessels in

her hands from hitting me so hard, (I was about two) and she realized

that she

might literally kill me before I would conform to her expectations, she

turned

to what I later learned to call psychological abuse to control me. She
transcended her upbringing in a very powerful way that day. She always

did the

very best she could, given her current vibration, to be loving to me.

She

honestly believed that teaching me the rules of society was the most

loving

gift she could give me. It was the highest thought she knew at the time.

What I got so powerfully today is that the unconditional love has always

been

there, shining clearly inside what I have judged from later time to be

abuse.

And I know now can learn to focus so clearly on the love that it is all I

need

to remember in my relationship with her.

In my role as a teacher, I suspect that if people only hear what you seem

to

have heard here, that my mom was always outstandingly loving, then it is

easy

to dismiss my growth, because it seems it would be easy to feel the love

if

you have a purely loving mother. She was quite human in her mistakes,

but she

was *always* as loving as she could possibly be, given her upbringing. I
totally missed that part for many years, because I was so focused on
remembering the experiences of being hurt, with the assistance of a

string of

very well meaning therapists. From now on, I can do the opposite.

Totally

miss the hurt, because I am so focused on remembering the love.

I'm not saying that my Mom wasn't perfect from a spiritual perspective.

She

absolutely was and is. She is an extraordinary woman. She raised

another

child, my cousin's who died, for his first two years when she was in her

70s,

and she was and is perfectly loving to him. She transcended her

upbringing

again in that one. I admire her tremendously. I am grateful that I am

finally

learning to love her unconditionally myself.

My life is about learning to grow in love in my awareness of love and God

in

all Its guises. I am grateful for your response, so I could make myself

more

clear.

Love and hugs,

Connee


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Hi, Paul,

I'd like to add a little info that I haven't mentioned lately, before you go
off too far on the path of my having had a perfectly loving human mother, so
all that was needed was for me to recognize it through the dark veil of my
cultural conditioning. I grew up in an alcoholic/dysfunctional home, and
learned about victimization from my Mom who battered me as a child, as she had
been battered as a child. And then, when she started breaking blood vessels in
her hands from hitting me so hard, (I was about two) and she realized that she
might literally kill me before I would conform to her expectations, she turned
to what I later learned to call psychological abuse to control me. She
transcended her upbringing in a very powerful way that day. She always did the
very best she could, given her current vibration, to be loving to me. She
honestly believed that teaching me the rules of society was the most loving
gift she could give me. It was the highest thought she knew at the time.

What I got so powerfully today is that the unconditional love has always been
there, shining clearly inside what I have judged from later time to be abuse.
And I know now can learn to focus so clearly on the love that it is all I need
to remember in my relationship with her.

In my role as a teacher, I suspect that if people only hear what you seem to
have heard here, that my mom was always outstandingly loving, then it is easy
to dismiss my growth, because it seems it would be easy to feel the love if
you have a purely loving mother. She was quite human in her mistakes, but she
was *always* as loving as she could possibly be, given her upbringing. I
totally missed that part for many years, because I was so focused on
remembering the experiences of being hurt, with the assistance of a string of
very well meaning therapists. From now on, I can do the opposite. Totally
miss the hurt, because I am so focused on remembering the love.

I'm not saying that my Mom wasn't perfect from a spiritual perspective. She
absolutely was and is. She is an extraordinary woman. She raised another
child, my cousin's who died, for his first two years when she was in her 70s,
and she was and is perfectly loving to him. She transcended her upbringing
again in that one. I admire her tremendously. I am grateful that I am finally
learning to love her unconditionally myself.

My life is about learning to grow in love in my awareness of love and God in
all Its guises. I am grateful for your response, so I could make myself more
clear.

Love and hugs,

Connee

I'm not getting any messages - <oh no, the challenge of the email lists
continues onnnnnnnnnn. LOL>

did anyone get this?

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.....you are the -lord god- of your own realities.

Each Energetic Being (in other words....human) has their own Space/Time
universe.
this applies to this phase of existence, and to all other phases as
well.
---dreams, astral, spiritual, after "death", before "birth",
etc....

this is the only meaning to the phrase "Wake Up".

if you don't wake up, then instead of living and creating in your own
Space/Time
universe, you Default to other Energetic Being's Space/Time universe.

how do you get to your own Space/Time universe?

simple......................just by remembering that each second, what
you are
looking at is your own Space/Time universe and you can change it to
whatever
you want. Period.

why is this utter simplicity NOT known over the eons and eons of earth
life?

"to feed the lust of power over".

just do a simple surface history check, and the "Control over" will
stare at you glaringly in the face.

========= "The Matrix, is the world that has
been pulled over your Eyes" =============

Dear
Dbabeofallawesomeandoutstandingdudespiercingtheveilsofunlimitedwisdomandjoy,


Your magnificently deft management of the list transition instills in me a
trust in thee beyond the scope of words to convey.

YOU LIGHT UP THE ETHERS WITH YOUR EXCELLENCE.

Pbaskin

Dbabeofdudes wrote:

In other words, will be zapped without incident. It shall then be but a

fond memory, >with new worlds of consciousness and communication coming to
foreshadow the likes >of which we have not

seen!!!!

Hi David -

I noted when I hit the reply button to connee's email a minute ago, that
the reply was being sent to HER rather than the list. This is an option on
onelist you can control. You might actually want it set the other way, so
that all replies go to the list by default.

Also, a point of clarification. I believe that now that we are a onelist
list, there are two additional benefits.

First, there is no longer a limit on post size. I once posted a goddam
thesis to the seth list, all about "Who Created Littleton", and it took it
just fine.

Second, I think that there are no limits to how many posts onelist will
accept daily. Once again, I have had experience with high volume on
sethnet. For those who get the digest form, it looks to me like onelist
automatically creates a new digest every 25 posts. Some days when the
action there was hot n heavy, I'd get 3 digests.

So, postaholic that I can be, I'm thrilled that we're on onelist now.
Thanks David!

Connee wrote <snips>

What an awesome trip this has been! It's really gotten me in
touch with how my fear was leading, my sense that I would miss
something good, like love and approval, if I didn't follow the
traditional path.

And I was able to tell her how much I have always wanted to
please her and others, and have struggled in my decisions to go
my own way, certain that I would be disapproved of for doing it,
yet always feeling even more strongly that I have to follow my
internal guidance. So many times in my life, I have been torn
apart by my belief that I would not be loved for doing what I was
guided to do.

And she shared with me that, all this time, she has admired me
for my strength and my self knowing! In fact, now that I think
of it, she *has* told me in the past that she sees me as a role
model for being a powerful woman who is able to get what she
wants in her life. I just was never able to hear it as approval
or appreciation and take it into my heart, because I was holding
so tightly to a limiting belief that she would prefer that I be
conventional.

In fact, now that I am in this vibrational space of allowing her
approval, I remember how bewildered she was when I came home from
college crying, telling her that I needed to change the major
that she had advised me to sign up for. The same thing happened
when I decided to get divorced. I expected her to reject me, and
yet all she ever wanted was for me to be happy, and she was very
supportive. And I can see that as I have tried, and failed, for
47 years to live the life I thought she wanted me to live,
thinking her love conditional, all the while, she has just kept
wanting me to be happy, even when she didn't have a clue as to
why I wanted to do this or that, and loved me unconditionally
through it all.

What an incredible gift of grace, a healing for my life and my
heart! It has been my limiting beliefs all along that have kept
out the love that is always pouring out to me.

Thank you Connee for sharing that powerful piece of deconstruction
work/play.

A thought or two: You have apparently been gifted with a wonderful and
loving mother...yet somehow you got some kind of conditioning laid up in
ocean of mind about having to please her...or some mysterious
THEM...instead of yourself.

My take and experience is that this kind of conditioning is absolutely
ENDEMIC in women, and not a few men, too. So even tho it was never the
intention or the action of this primary caretaker of yours, somehow the
mass consciousness laid these tracks down...and finding em...and
deconstructing em...has become a part of the heroic journey for you.

I've no doubt that you're gonna get this tremendous WHOOOSH of pure
creative power now .

Very kewl. :o)

Love,

NetPaul

...whose working on some major deconstruction of his own...to be continued.

Hi, friends,

I just got a private email of support and began to write, and all
this great, healing stuff spilled out about what I have learned
from deciding to go to Ministerial School, and then deciding
against it. So I wanted to share it with all of you.

What an awesome trip this has been! It's really gotten me in
touch with how my fear was leading, my sense that I would miss
something good, like love and approval, if I didn't follow the
traditional path.

And just now, I was explaining my decision not to go to my Mom,
and said that I realized I needed to follow my heart rather than
worrying about what other people thought of my nontraditional
path, and she interrupted and said, "But you always have done
that and it never worried you before!"

And I was able to tell her how much I have always wanted to
please her and others, and have struggled in my decisions to go
my own way, certain that I would be disapproved of for doing it,
yet always feeling even more strongly that I have to follow my
internal guidance. So many times in my life, I have been torn
apart by my belief that I would not be loved for doing what I was
guided to do.

And she shared with me that, all this time, she has admired me
for my strength and my self knowing! In fact, now that I think
of it, she *has* told me in the past that she sees me as a role
model for being a powerful woman who is able to get what she
wants in her life. I just was never able to hear it as approval
or appreciation and take it into my heart, because I was holding
so tightly to a limiting belief that she would prefer that I be
conventional.

In fact, now that I am in this vibrational space of allowing her
approval, I remember how bewildered she was when I came home from
college crying, telling her that I needed to change the major
that she had advised me to sign up for. The same thing happened
when I decided to get divorced. I expected her to reject me, and
yet all she ever wanted was for me to be happy, and she was very
supportive. And I can see that as I have tried, and failed, for
47 years to live the life I thought she wanted me to live,
thinking her love conditional, all the while, she has just kept
wanting me to be happy, even when she didn't have a clue as to
why I wanted to do this or that, and loved me unconditionally
through it all.

What an incredible gift of grace, a healing for my life and my
heart! It has been my limiting beliefs all along that have kept
out the love that is always pouring out to me. I'm sure this is
true of all the relationships in my life, not just the one with
my Mom. She truly is a remarkable woman. I love the shifts the
vibration of our relationship have taken over the past few years
to open me up to the love that is there for me, and to allow me
to show the love I have always felt for her.

Just have to mention that David and I set our new goal last week
for our fiscal/spiritual year, July 1, 1999 to June 30, 2000 to
be: to expand our capacity to live in joy! What incredible
healings have already come from making that bold statement to the
Universe. I am so grateful.

Thanks for being here to listen.

Love and hugs to all,

Connee

Hi!

Just wanted to say bye until Monday. We're off to a wedding in Florida
(Steve's 70 year-old mom is marrying her 86 year-old groom! :) )

See ya' then.

Love & Light,

Dawn






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Dear ones,

I had questions sent to me private email and I will answer them here (minus
the senders' identity to honor private mail status). I am making a post
because others may be silent and what is asked here is good to know.

This was the note:

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Hi David,

I was a bit disturbed to find I had been moved to a new list,
as I'm sure other people were. There was no warning of this and it
came as a shock.
Am I right in understanding that the JDC list has simply been moved
to ONElist, and not merged with any other list. ?

Why was it necessary?
Do we have to have the ONElist sponsor blurb ?

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To sender and all,

The ONLY thing that is different is the server itself. The list constituency
is EXACTLY the same, not one more JDC'er is here. Nothing was "merged".

It is on Onelist for a vast multitude of very good reasons:
...lots more features, less cost. The service: As good or better!
(on the cost: it is the difference of $348.00/year - versus - Free ),
and "Free" is why there is a blurb at the bottom of each email.
It is all about advertising, and there is only a quiet little line there to support
all Onelist offers, and that is a lot.

And now.... TA-DA....((((((More good news))))))))....

As I mentioned yesterday, I really and truly *love* an ad-free list,
(or an ad-free anything for that matter), which is what I paid for on LSoft.
For only $59.40 per year, ($4.95 per month), Onelist removes the "blurb".
The check went in the mail yesterday for that. When Onelist gets it,
they will remove the blurb line there. Look for that benefit in a week or so. YAY!
This is a gift I give to myself, as you all are, and I want no compensation for it.
On Onelist it is just more gift for less. <g>

Onto another private email question:

"Is there presently an archive anywhere that reaches back further, and if so,
how far back does it go, and will it be maintained, and how can I get into
it?"

One BIG benefit is that Onelist stores all posts forever, (amazing but true!)
All anyone has to do is click it over to:



to see anything posted. It is neatly indexed by date and subject title there.
The email address of the sender is also truncated there for privacy. As far as what
was posted before just recently when this list was moved; I have stored
all archives since October 15, 1998 on my laptop. I have stuff much before that,
but every one since then, and I will do a search of them if asked. That is
why I stored them. I also felt moved to do that since I was the list administationist.
Now anyone can search anytime of the day or night. There isn't much there now because
this list is new to Onelist.

Another benefit, as I mentioned yesterday, is that Onelist has a "no attachment"
feature. This is indeed good news. What we get here is *only* text, and that is
insured. There is no way to receive a virus or megafiles sent to the list.
It leaves this sort of thing for private email or other lists, not here! I really like that one!

Onelist does offer a "shared file" area, where anyone can go to upload a file, or pick one up.
This is done at the discretion of the list subscriber,
...and *never* sent to directly to the inbox of the subscribers directly.
Again: "Is good"!

There are LOTS more benefits, but I will leave it at that for now.

Much love and growth,
InJoy!

david.

How full, to awaken to another morning,
my heart is with gratitude

Overflowing to go forth in LOVE
the Light vibrates in my spirit

believing higher and higher
that the desires of my heart are
rushing to me

In magnificent proportions
health, love, prosperity, financial abundance,
flows in
then fills my life with the next wave of unfulfilled desire
and so...
I create more and more JOY

On peaceful angels wings
in the comfort of Knowing
I view the beauty of God's Universe..
Feeling the clouds on my skin
the sky sings a song of
.."and do it is"

Basking in the Light of gratitude....

Nori

Trixi Summers wrote:

From: Trixi Summers <Landex@...>

Hey David - Do I need to sign off the old site?

Trixi

Good Question, Trixi, as usual. Good questions always draw life force.

No. No need to do that. It will be returned to PPE peacefully easily, and completely without
resistance,
in a natural way, totally free and running with the Angels all on it's own, as it clearly makes its
transition
into the worlds of the beyond for e-lists.

In other words, will be zapped without incident. It shall then be but a fond memory, with new
worlds of consciousness and communication coming to foreshadow the likes of which we have not
seen!!!!


Thanks for asking.


Love,
david.

focus1 wrote:

From: "focus1" <focus1@...>

[Attachments have been removed from this message]

Quick note to all,

I don't know what was attached here, but please know that attachments to the list don't post.
This insures safety for all, and really: "Is good". (to quote Star).

The way to send text from another source, is from a reply to it, or copy and paste it, rather than
"attach" it to the list in whatever form. That way, everyone can read it in this universal format.

Many thanks for understanding this,
david.

Thanks to each and every ONE who sent warm love towards Daniel and me...

We continue to FEEL it...and it is indescribably sweet.

YOU ARE ETERNAL LIGHT.

Pblissin

Hey David - Do I need to sign off the old site?

Trixi

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Please remember my companion cat Angel this week. She lost her voice nearly
two weeks ago, has been on antibiotics but it has barely returned. Monday
the vet wants to sedate her to look down her throat.

We have been through many changes in the past several months, we just get
back home to our condo in VA Beach and my parents come to visit, so she and
Codie have not had a chace to settle in.

Please send Angel PPE and LOVE for her health, healing and highest good. I
would prefer that she not have to be sedated...I am allowing, I am open and
allowing and believing. I know all is truly well.

Thanks for your help
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