Ray W4BYG said this is an FT-60? HT and the FT-60 only has 1 connector although it does have 4 terminals on that 1 connector. Some of you are referring to the 2 connector plug that is used on the Baofeng and Quansheng radios and they do have to be pushed in hard at least the first time. I'm thinking you may be confusing him by your comments. Ray W4BYG, are you sure you are using the correct connector that has 4 terminals on it and not a 3 terminal connector? This may ne a silly question but it is something to just double check.
Dean - KC9REN