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Linda
 

Hi everyone,

Does anyone know on which tapes, if any, Abraham talks about graves,
burial,
and/or cemeteries? Is it just a waste of land or what? I'm curious
what their
thoughts are.

Thanks for any input.

Linda

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from a resonse to Alana

 

--- Alana Sugar <afsugar@...> wrote:
Ilana,
I appreciate this email. And in answer to your question about
being happy if I never find a mate, my answer is: Yes. I can be
happy, as I am very happy with my life as I am creating it now.
I love my life, but that does not mean that I do not have desires
for other
things, one of which is a mate.
You are always going to have unfulfilled desires. It is a very
good place to be! But once you identify a desire you need to
release your attachment to the manifestation. It works like this:
I want a mate. I have a desire for a mate. I like having a
desire. I know that the universe is already working to fulfill
this desire and so I know that at some point it will manifest. I
am in no hurry about it. I want to take full advantage of this
desire while it lasts. I want to see in how many ways can I have
fun with this desire? How many different detailed visions can I
create around it?

And then, each time you sit down to create a vision, before you
get started, ask yourself Am I doing this in order to make
something manifest? if the answer is yes, tell yourself: Whats
the hurry? Life is good! I have this delicious desire to have fun
with! I wouldnt want it to manifest right away before I had a
chance to really play with it! It would be like having a Quicky
Like being a sculptor who presses a button and voila, there is
the finished master piece No. I want to take my time and enjoy
every bit of it. I hope I can hold off the manifestation until I
feel that I am ready to move on to something else

I get
disappointed because I have such a strong desire and I know so
well the feeling of it, yet my expectation and belief that it
will
happen is not there.
How does the following feels I am not ready to deal with this
one. I am going to write it on the universe side of the place mat
and forget about it for 3 months. During these 3 months my only
goal around this subject will be to be happy where I am. After 3
months I will check how I feel about it and if I feel comfortable
I will start playing with it, ready to let go again and back into
focusing on happiness the moment that if I find myself getting at
all impatient.

Or I would like to feel confident that it will happen. I know
that I have a strong desire. I know that the universe knows all
about it. I know that LOA is working very hard to bring me the
manifestation that matches that desire because it is certainly
there is my vibration. I also know that in my discomfort I cause
LOA to work just as hard to keep me in this uncomfortable place
of not having what I want. I understand that with LOA working in
opposite directions there is not going to be much movement. But
what if I let go of my discomfort? What if I kept myself focused
on things that I already have that I delight in? what if I gave
myself permission to be truly happy exactly where I am? LOA will
continue to work to match my desire, and it will also work to
bring me more things to enjoy Same direction, no conflict The
manifestation would be inevitable! So, can I keep myself happy
while the universe does its work? Well, at least this is totally
within my direct control. I will work on that one. I will get the
LOA to help me by taking a few moments each morning to get myself
into a happy place. I will watch my negative declarative
statements and turn them into asking. I will do focus wheels
whenever I get myself in a funk for the sole purpose of getting
back into a happy mood. I dont have to be perfect, but I do
have to be persistent and committed and willing to start again
and again and again. I can do these things. The more I do them
the easier it will get. This is going to be fun!

So, again, your question provokes great thought in me.
Let me try to answer once again: If there were never a mate
(and there
may never be), I would be complete within my self, but still
sad in
some way as by my very nature I love to be in love and I love
to
share and I love intimacy and expression of passion and I love
the feeling
of family and connectedness to family.
This is where you are, and while it is understandable, it is
obviously not a match to what you want, or you would be living
it. So, your work is to shift from where you are to the vibration
that IS a match, which is: I am in a perfect place, there is no
lack in my experience, my happiness is not at stack. I am having
so much fun and I am feeling eager for more. For example, I like
the idea of a mate. I think I will play with it for a while and
see how it feels

The reason to take the mate out of the equation is to get
yourself to make peace with where you are, to recognize the
perfection of it. Here I stand in this perfect place with a
perfect balance of wonderful manifestations to enjoy and
magnificent unfulfilled desires to play with! Every place I will
ever stand in is going to be a perfect place of unfulfilled
desires. I love being alive!

So, yes, I am complete in
myself and I know and feel that, however, no, because I would
be sad
knowing that I could have created whatever I wanted in my life
and did
not create the one thing that meant the most.
And if you felt sadness, it would mean that at that moment you
are holding a thought that is not a match to your desire, and it
is high time to reach for other thoughts! In fact, you will never
really know that you have failed because it is never too late. My
99 years old aunt has a new boy friend who is madly in love with
her! And the idea of time running out is based on the statistics
of a society mired in resistance. I had this thing about getting
older and what if I wanted another baby maybe I should have one
now before its too late Too Late! What kind of resistance is
that? I can live for as long as I want and have babies for as
long as I want all it takes is choosing happy thoughts and
looking around for new desires to keep life energy flowing! And
if I dont get around to it this time, there is always next time!
I will have more babies an endless number of them, in fact.

So what if you could have created it and didnt? It only means
that you were busy with other things, all of which are equally
important and valuable yes, even the resistance and the pain
and there is no real end point! Life goes on and on and on, and
every moment is a new beginning, and even if it stretch from life
time to the next so what?

We are meant to love and
interact with one another so I cannot say that I would be
completely
happy without any feelings of desire at all, because that would
not be true.
I do not know what We are meant means. It is my understanding
that there are no shoulds about any of this, it is all for the
purpose of more and more joy. Joyful co-creating may be as good
as it gets, but you certainly do not fulfill the purpose of joy
by diminishing your current joy or expecting to diminish your
future joy over any of this.

And if that is what it takes for me to have my desire
fulfilled, then it may not come to be because I don't believe I
can ever
come to the point of not wanting to share my love in that way.
It is certainly not necessary for you to stop wanting. Wanting is
good! But it is just as clearly necessary for you to stop making
your happiness conditioned on it. You need to learn to be
completely happy in your unfulfilled desire.

The only alternative I know of that will allow what you want to
come to you is to take you attention off this subject altogether,
or as much as you can manage.

Abe demonstrated that approach in the LA workshop I want a
mate! (turning away) I will think of this, I will think of that,
I will think of this I want a mate! (turning away) ) I will
think of this, I will think of that, I will think of this I want
a mate! (turning away) ) I will think of this, I will think of
that, I will think of this What was that thing I wanted? Oh,
here it is!


In fact, I don't believe that others who have relationships
necessarily came to
that point before finding their mates. My sisters certainly
did not.

I expect that your sisters wanted to have relationships. The
question is not if they had a desire, but how they felt about it.
On the vibrational meter, you need to be somewhere between
peaceful and passionate in order to be in a state of allowing.
When you are yearning or doubtful or even a little bit sad, you
are not in a state of allowing. You need to find thoughts that
put you on the side of the vibrational meter that allows what you
want to manifests, and everything that we have been saying to you
is about ways to get onto that side of the meter.

With love,

Ilana-Ora

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Re: focus wheel (how to)

David W. Gordon
 

Steve wrote:

From: "Steve" <steve@...>

Hi,
My name is Steve, and I am new to this list. I keep reading about people doing a focus wheel, when they feel that they are not manifesting the change they want in there life. Please could somebody tell me how to do a focus wheel, because it seems a very effective thing to do, and I would find it very useful as I learn how to manifest the things I want in my life. Thanking you all
Steve .
Hi Steve,

Here is a good oportunity to resend this URL, for all the newbies that haven't seen it.



This has a full and complete list of all the processes we know of,
and the Focus Wheel, like Prego Sauce, is IN there!

The Focus Wheel is a process that simply works. Period.

This is a wonderful co-creation, done with love.


InJoy!
david.


focus wheel (how to)

 

Hi,
My name is Steve, and I am new to this list. I keep reading about people doing a focus wheel, when they feel that they are not manifesting the change they want in there life. Please could somebody tell me how to do a focus wheel, because it seems a very effective thing to do, and I would find it very useful as I learn how to manifest the things I want in my life. Thanking you all
Steve .


Re: forwarded question on creating relationship

Margie
 

At 12:24 PM 8/2/99 -0700, Ilana Goldman wrote:
The key is always, always, always to find a way to be happy in
the now, regardless. Leting go of the desire altogether is far
more effective than thinking of it from a place of needing it in
any way.

Hi all,

Ilana, as always, you write great stuff. I practice the above by saying to
myself: "I want to feel better. Now, what thought feels better?"
Sometimes it's focusing on something completely different and trusting the
universe to help me through the crack of least resistance. I know for
myself, if I haven't made significant progress toward my goal in 30 days,
the only reason it's not showing up is because I have resistance. And
resistance is usually pushing against something I don't want. All I have
to do is acknowledge that I have some resistance and ask the Universe for
help. The Universe really does know what we want - it's communicated to
them every time we flow positive emotion. The Abe processes are not meant
to tell the Universe what we want; they are meant to help us get in
vibrational harmony with what we want. In my opinion, these processes are
all about releasing resistance and changing habits of thought that no
longer serve us.

I currently spend about an hour a day working on my vibration through the
powerful focus of writing. And I'm grateful to the Abe processes for
helping me to manifest this time for me, for my most important part of my
day.


I have a few thoughts to add on manifesting relationships. I have an
incredibly wonderful, fulfilling, fun, glorious, co-creative relationship
with a man who is my lover and my friend. We met two years ago, and we're
getting married in 3 weeks. I met Tom after I released my resistance to
being alone, and I released some resistance to my previous boyfriend. I
know we were destined to meet someday, but I don't think it would have been
this soon if it hadn't been for the Abe principles, and I absolutely know
our relationship wouldn't haven't become so wonderful so fast if I hadn't
walked around saying "I want to feel better - now, which thought feels
better" for the first 6 months. Good grief - the stuff that came up when
he did my laundry for me! Things were moving way too fast for me to
figure out just where my feelings of unworthiness were coming from and to
try to analyze them away. I wanted to change my vibration and my habits of
thought as soon as the negative emotion showed up.

Sometimes if felt better to think about something else, sometimes it felt
better to have a good cry, sometimes it felt better to do a focus wheel,
and sometimes it felt better to go take a nap. Every situation called for
different thoughts and actions. But I always, always, always got an answer
whenever I asked the Universe to help me feel better when I couldn't find
the thoughts on my own.

For me, when I'm feeling negative emotion (focusing on something that is
not true):

"I want to feel better" = I want to connect to my source energy and
communicate with my higher self to get in touch with my own guidance - the
guidance from the Universe.

and "What thought feels better?" = What can I focus on that will get me
connected to my true self so I can experience this moment from my highest
perspective.

....
I've always liked the closed-door analogy that Abe gave some time ago.
Alana, I hope you don't mind if I use you as an example.

Alana, if you've been having dream manifestations, it means your lover is
just around the vibrational corner. He (or She) is standing outside the
door with roses and a box of candy. But if you're inside staring at the
closed door and feeling anger or yearning or sadness, you're adding more
locks to the door. If you can take your attention away from the door, then
the universe will start opening it for you. This doesn't always mean that
you have to take your attention away from your lover or the relationship
you want - it means take your attention away from the resistance. However,
if you can't separate the desire from the resistance, you'll feel better if
you take your attention away from the desire.

Once the door starts opening, you'll start seeing signs and small
manifestations. The more you appreciate these, the more the door starts to
open. However, if you look at the signs and they just make you more aware
that you don't have the whole thing yet, then the door starts to close.
And you get to start all over again, but always from a place of higher
desire and clarity. We never get it done. And we're always doing it
right.

And remember, when he does show up, he'll bring with him a whole new set of
doors of resistance for you to keep opening.

For me (and as Ilana said), the joy truly is in the opening of the door. I
love finding the feeling place of a vision and then watching the door start
to open. Nothing is more wonderful than the flowing of the energy and the
'becoming' of something more. The universe truly does line up
circumstances and events in ways beyond our imagination - if we're
releasing our resistance along the way. And I believe once we get the hang
of releasing resistance, it just keeps getting easier and easier and easier.

I want to say one more thing about finding a pure feeling place. For me, I
know I haven't made it to a pure feeling place about my desires until I can
answer an honest yes to this one question: Does the feeling place that I'm
in right now feel so good, so fulfilling, so satisfying and so real that I
don't need this thing to show up in my physical existence? Ever.

If I can answer yes to that question, then I know I'm in vibrational
harmony with my desire and all I have to do is bask in this feeling place
whenever I want. And... I smile to myself because now I know that it can
not _not_ come. Not because I need it to come, but because I'm now a
vibrational match to it, Law of Attraction must bring my vision and me
together.

It happened to me powerfully two years ago when I got to the feeling place
of feeling fulfilled without a significant relationship in my life. I kept
asking the Universe to help me release my resistance to being alone. One
day I looked around and noticed that I had a wonderful group of male
friends to hang out with to satisfy my social/fun needs, a handsome sex
partner in town to satisfy my sexual needs, many great female friends who
satisfied my intimacy needs, a male roommate who supported me in my career
needs, and one male client who satisfied my security/protection needs. I
looked around in gratitude and said, "I'd prefer to have all this wrapped
up in one man, but God, if you need me to remain single for some higher
purpose, then that's ok, because I really have everything I need."

I can still remember that exact moment. I remember where I was sitting and
how great it felt to acknowledge every desire that I wanted from a
relationship and realize it was all around me. My soul mate vision could
remain in my head and I'd see it manifest in all sorts of different people.
I was in a place of pure desire, pure connection, pure love. And then I
heard the universe say back to me:
"you don't have to be alone"

I knew I was in a different vibration. I could feel it. I wasn't just
pretending anymore, I could really feel whole and complete in myself. And
what a perfect place this was to start my relationship with Tom. I didn't
need him to be anything or do anything. I looked at Tom and his home and
his lifestyle, and thought, "wow, I'm really attracting some good stuff
here." My expectations were nothing but fun and joy and feeling good.
This was perfect for Tom, too because he had just given up on women, and he
didn't want to be taken advantage of again. Our relationship unfolded
perfectly.

It is still unfolding perfectly. It is going to keep getting better -
because it must. Cycles of appreciation, contentment, then some minor
boredom/resistance, rockets of desire, releasing of resistance, flowing of
energy, alignment and satisfaction and appreciation... and it all starts
over again. This is how it works for me, and I really like it this way.
Tremendous flowing of energy, with minor bouts of resistance in between.
Sleeping is my main method of pivoting now. And the universe helps me out
by letting the resistance show up only in the evenings. It keeps getting
easier and easier to express who I really am. I can see this happening for
everyone who asks, and everyone who makes the effort to connect to our
source energy.

Love and lots of great sex,
Margie


Re: forwarded question on creating relationship

Vilik Rapheles
 

Dear Ilana,

Have you heard the tape where Esther wants rain for her gardens? And she
goes out on the deck and imagines it, so sweetly, for five minutes, and it
rains the next day?

I kiss your feet (beautifully shod in new shoes to go with your new
waredrobe no doubt) for these posts you have gifted me with, the the
understanding contained within. THANK YOU! Please keep writing.

~^^V^^~

At 12:24 PM 8/2/99 -0700, Ilana Goldman wrote:
From: Ilana Goldman <ilanagoldman@...>

Dear Alana,

I want rain. My garden soil is parched and huge fissures are
forming. I have a big garden wich takes a lot of time and work
to water. I have created rain in the past. I know I can do it!
And yet - here I stand...

Your letter has sparked a wonderful discussion that really moved
my own understanding forward. As long as I think of rain in order
to create rain I am blocking it from coming. As long as I think
of rain as a solution to some problem I am blocking it from
coming. The only way I can think of it which does not block it is
for the pleasure of it.

So I seperated it in my mind from issue of the garden.

I decided to think of the garden as if a rain was not an option,
and make peace with it. As soon as I did that I was inspired to
go outside and water, and I can tell you that there are some
plants out there which are very grateful... :)

With the issue of the garden out of the way, I no longer feel any
urgency around the subject of rain. Which means that now, if I
wish, I can play with the subject of rain for the fun of it. I
can appreciate rain, I can remember what it feels like when it
rains, I take it as far as I feel like and then drop it and let
LOA take care of the rest.

The key is always, always, always to find a way to be happy in
the now, regardless. Leting go of the desire altogether is far
more effective than thinking of it from a place of needing it in
any way.

Can you be happy in your life even if the lover you want will
never come? As long as the answer to that is no you are still in
a needy place. Never mind expectations and beliefs - they will do
you no good until you get yourself to the place of being happy
now!

I am not saying to tell yourself it will never happen - but to
tell yourself you are in no hurry for it to happen because your
life, right now, is already perfect. Let it happen when it will,
think about it if it gives you pure pleasure, focus on other
things otherwise.


--- Alana Sugar <alana.sugar@...> wrote:
Dear Ilana-Ora

I want to thank you so much for responding to my question. You
are
right: I can not tell myself it will never happen. I get a
horrible
sinking feeling. So, I must relax and learn to allow. And I
have
discovered since hearing from all of you that it is simply that
my level
of expectation and belief is not there. My desire and passion
is
there. The feeling place is there. Now, I want the knowing.
That is
what I want.

Thank you so much for your love.

Alana
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Re: forwarded question on creating relationship

Ilana Goldman
 

Dear Alana,

I want rain. My garden soil is parched and huge fissures are
forming. I have a big garden wich takes a lot of time and work
to water. I have created rain in the past. I know I can do it!
And yet - here I stand...

Your letter has sparked a wonderful discussion that really moved
my own understanding forward. As long as I think of rain in order
to create rain I am blocking it from coming. As long as I think
of rain as a solution to some problem I am blocking it from
coming. The only way I can think of it which does not block it is
for the pleasure of it.

So I seperated it in my mind from issue of the garden.

I decided to think of the garden as if a rain was not an option,
and make peace with it. As soon as I did that I was inspired to
go outside and water, and I can tell you that there are some
plants out there which are very grateful... :)

With the issue of the garden out of the way, I no longer feel any
urgency around the subject of rain. Which means that now, if I
wish, I can play with the subject of rain for the fun of it. I
can appreciate rain, I can remember what it feels like when it
rains, I take it as far as I feel like and then drop it and let
LOA take care of the rest.

The key is always, always, always to find a way to be happy in
the now, regardless. Leting go of the desire altogether is far
more effective than thinking of it from a place of needing it in
any way.

Can you be happy in your life even if the lover you want will
never come? As long as the answer to that is no you are still in
a needy place. Never mind expectations and beliefs - they will do
you no good until you get yourself to the place of being happy
now!

I am not saying to tell yourself it will never happen - but to
tell yourself you are in no hurry for it to happen because your
life, right now, is already perfect. Let it happen when it will,
think about it if it gives you pure pleasure, focus on other
things otherwise.


--- Alana Sugar <alana.sugar@...> wrote:
Dear Ilana-Ora

I want to thank you so much for responding to my question. You
are
right: I can not tell myself it will never happen. I get a
horrible
sinking feeling. So, I must relax and learn to allow. And I
have
discovered since hearing from all of you that it is simply that
my level
of expectation and belief is not there. My desire and passion
is
there. The feeling place is there. Now, I want the knowing.
That is
what I want.

Thank you so much for your love.

Alana
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Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

Ilana Goldman
 

Dear Queena,

Thank you for a great post.

When we think of a desire it is like picking up a stick that has
the desire on one end and the contrast on the other. Abe say
that if as we pick up the stick we find that we are focused more
on the contrast we better lay down the stick. The universe will
indeed have an easier time delivering what we want to us if we
never pick up that stick again, than if we keep picking it up
from our awareness of the contrast. And the point is each time
we pick up a stick with the intention of creating what we want,
we are coming from our awareness of the contrast!

It is not at all surprising that everything that you want is
coming to you. Your post really boosted my commitment to be
willing to put down those sticks

So why bother picking up any sticks at all? Why does Abe spend so
much energy teaching us to focus and to envision and to pretend?
If all that mattered was the manifestations we could all do what
you are doing forever more and have everything that we want
manifest. But manifestations are not the main event. The main
event is the joy of the journey the joy of summoning PPE toward
our desires.

The quality of our lives as well as our very survival depend on
the following two factors how much energy are we summoning,
and of the energy summoned, how much are we allowing to flow
through us.

The more energy we summon, the more alive we are.

A major contrast gives birth to powerful desires which summon
plenty of life giving energy. But personally I prefer a life with
milder contrasts. So, how can I summon plenty of energy without
the experience of major contrast?

I focus on a desire! I pick up one of the sticks and see if I can
hold it without focusing on the contrast. If I can, then I have
identified a desire that I can focus on for as long as I wish,
milk it for all its worth for as long as it lasts (which means
until it manifests.)

Or, in other words I focus on a desire for the joy of it,
rather than to make something happen. And naturally, the only
reason to go through the exercise is if indeed it gives me joy.

Every fulfilled desire provides us with new contrasts. Focusing
on the desire and imagining living with its fulfillment is an
opportunity to experience some of those contrasts in our
imagination rather than fully manifested. So another benefit of
focusing on a desire is that it enables me to fine tune it before
it manifests.

I do like the idea of asking myself if I could be happy with
having it or not. This is a great way to notice which end of the
stick I am holding. But once I found my way to being happy
regardless I can hold that particular stick in confidence.

I think that what you are doing is working so well for you at
this point is that you do have a desire that you are intensely
and happily focused upon the desire to be joyful, the desire to
master being an allower.

I clearly share this desire, but it is no longer so intense
because the contrast those times when I am in noticeable
disconnection is getting milder and rarer. I have no major
contrasts in my life today and I have made peace with most of
the contrast that I still have. So the question is what next?
I want to feel alive! I want passion! I want excitement! I want
something to look forward to eagerly! I could get myself into a
funk and create some greater contrast (done that!!) or, I could
find myself a stick that feels good.

How about this one? I would love some rain! Am I truly happy
regardless? Not yet I am worried about my garden, I am
frustrated about having to work hard to water it when I should be
able to get it to rain

Goody! By looking for a resistance free stick I stumbled on some
resistance and now I have a chance to release it. So Ill do a
focus wheel first. And then Ill see if I can think of rain for
the fun if it. If I still cant, I will write it on the universe
side of the mat and look for something else to focus on Or maybe
Ill first go outside and water &#61514;

With love and appreciation,

Ilana-Ora

Queena wrote:

In it, the question appeared on whether one could be truly happy,
Joyful,
fulfilled without the fullfilment of any desires. Can you be
happy just as
you are right here, right now in this very moment?

Then I started to understand about Preferences. Those desires &
wants that
don't come with my Happiness at stake. I started viewing every
desire as
whether I could be happy with having it or not.

<snip>

Until finally I reached a point where I could just groove on me,
happy to be healed with nothing to look forward to and nothing to
want. Before I knew it, I was(am) constantly high, constantly
Blissed out on the Joy of just being Here.

<snip>

"I always remember that I have everything I need to enjoy my here
and now -
unless I am letting my consciousness be dominated by demands and
expectations
based on the dead past or the imagined future."
Since wanting for nothing & accepting that Everything is allowed
including
me. My plain old happiness is based on nothing but having the
LOVE of Self
and this Love is expanding exponentially to include Everything &

Everyone. There is just so much Beauty here to get lost in.
The most incredible part and the point is that my Preferences
have started to
Manifest WITHOUT Intent & Focus. Yeah I said it, without Intent &
Focus. I
feel free for I know the Universe already knows what I want
better than I do.

I've been blessed with so much, More time, deeper Love between my
husband &
I. Yes and even more money coming exactly when I need it. All The
Time.
Things that need to get done & I have no means of doing it,
resolve
themselves. People of like mind just flowing into my life out of
nowhere.
More Everything when I gave up the emotion packed desires of
Everything!

<snip>

I'm at the point where I AM ENOUGH NOW, just me with no wants, no
past, no
future.But Manifesting continues...without effort, without
trying. The Universe
knows what I want better than I & that in itself makes me happy.



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A softening look at contrast

Vilik Rapheles
 

A look at contrast ... forwarded from Christopher Wynter...

Thought

If there wasn't any rain, there wouldn't be any rainbows ...

A Question

Why is it that when most people, most of the time, feel emotion rising in
their
body ...
they label it, define it, try and explain it ...

A Discussion

Tears come in many forms ...
They may be labelled grief ...
alternatively...
They may be the expression of
the joy of the release of some long forgotten discomfort ...

depending on your judgement.

A Furthur Question

Are fear and anger ....
merely the symptoms ...
associated with the repression of tears ...

Due to self judgement ...

Whose ... ?
Who did you learn it from ...?
Whose belief are you acting out ...?

with respect

Christopher Wynter
Hobart Tasmania
wynter@...


Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

Carla DeMarco
 

I'm at the point where I AM ENOUGH NOW, just me with no wants, no past, no
future.
But Manifesting continues...without effort, without trying. The Universe
knows what I want better than I & that in itself makes me happy.
Thanks for this Queena, and Ted and Vilik. Your words start to help clear some
confusion I've had regarding desire since coming across Abe's teachings. The last
set of spiritual teachings I was involved in were of a Far Eastern nature. We
were striving for desirelessness -- and to have no thought at all! We were
continually trying to retrain our focus on thought back to mediation, breath,
etc., all the time, not just while sitting. No thought, no desire. Being "in your
mind" was a bad thing.

Then I come across Abe's very different concepts. Different, but certainly
easier, more natural, more filled with life! I said a big "yes" to them even
though they didn't "fit" with what I'd been told previously. I knew that in time
the gap in my understanding would be bridged. You are helping that happen.

Love,
Carla


Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

 

Ilana,

Good thoughts and thanks for sharing the next step to becoming content/happy
with what is present in our lives.

Gratitude, acceptance, appreciation of even the mud puddle which my foot
slips into has brought less mud puddles my way (unless of course, I Am
choosing to play in them) and more smooth, well lit walkways.

Enjoy the day!

Patty


my impressions.....

 

Sorry, I am new at sending replies to all -

Patty


Center for Creative Thought

 

<< "THE CREATION CENTER"
(Staffed by Conscious Creators (in training)
Funded by the Universe
The Leading Edge of Creation!!! --Open to all possibilities--

Help Needed!! As a group we will Consciously Create this enterprise, and in
creating it we will learn how powerful we are and then share this with our
fellows. If anyone is interested Private Email me at: jonan@... >>

-----------------------------

(The reason I am responding to the LIST is that this relates to my prosperity
game, and to the creations I envision flowing dollars toward.)

If your project is in any way a match to mine, then I have already "helped",
and will continue to do so. I'm real excited about how this works!! When I
visualize and create with my prosperity game, I am creating in "real life". I
am creating thought banks that others may tap into, and which will one day
"manifest".

What follows are quotes from my prospeerity game document.


CREATIVE THOUGHT CENTER - CENTER OF CREATIVE THOUGHT

(CREATIVE THOUGHT EMINATES OUT FROM THIS CENTER)

Here is an area where I am really on the leading edge

I am creating a Creative Thought Center

The Center is in a beautiful building with the perfect architecture for small
and large groups to come together

The building is surrounded by beautiful gardens and landscaping

There are many sliding doors opening from the inside to beautiful private
garden areas, with private spaces and places appropriate for talking
informally

From the private garden areas one can flow easily out onto the beautiful
grounds surrounding the center

The center is located on the water, on a hill, near a stream, with the woods
behind it

Inside are beautiful comfortable lounges and meeting rooms of all sizes,
equipped with all the latest and best furniture and equipment.

Everything indoors and out is designed for people of all ages, sizes and
abilities... all deliberate creators feel good here

We organize and offer classes and seminars and conferences from the Center

The Center and it's marvelous equipment are available 24 hours a day for use
by deliberate creators

I have an apartment in one wing of the Center; I am the first Director

My Center is the model for many other Centers across the U.S. and around the
world

This is my work - So be it

I love it, Universe! - I am with you, Universe!

Great teaching and learning and sharing takes place here

Great fun and upliftment and bliss will take place here

Lets go!

Lets begin....actually, we DID begin!

We began today.

I am thrilled with this vision.

Thank you Universe!!



Why do I want it?

Because I want to share this knowing, this way of life

I want to uplift all those who are seeking knowing

I want to choose what is taught and done

I want to choose how it is taught and done

I want this as my legacy

I want to use my teaching skills

I want to move thought beyond

I want to teach about the inner being, the inner guidance

I want to teach it fully, the way Abraham teaches it!!

I want people to become creative, feel creative and express themselves

I want great energy flowing into my community, and back to the Universe from
my community!

-----

That's my vision. I'd like to see yours!!

Jane (ME)


Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

 

Quenna,

When I read the following notes, (I always remember that I have everything I
need to enjoy my here and now - unless I am letting my consciousness be
dominated by demands and expectations
based on the dead past or the imagined future."

Since wanting for nothing & accepting that Everything is allowed including
me. My plain old happiness is based on nothing but having the LOVE of Self
and this Love is expanding exponentially to include Everything &
Everyone.There is just so much Beauty here to get lost in.)

I had to re read a few times to really see what you were saying as so much
of what I do is see everything in my life the way I expect it to be rather
than as it "is". I love living/thinking where I want to be as I seem to draw
it closer to me.
For a very long time, I had been caught up in what"is" and found much
frustration, hurt, disarray etc in the world and people around me.

Now, I stay happy and find that those in my world (immediate, day to day
world includes 6 children ages 8,8, 14, 16, 18, 19 and husband) are now at a
higher, happier vibration than before. The children seem to manifest
everything and everybody they want in their lives without resistence. One
will say I hope a get the opportunity to go somewhere, and viola they receive
a phone call/email from someone they least expect to contact them who invites
them off on whatever adventure they verbalized. I can tell you story after
story of bringing things into my life and those around me by raising the
thought to what I choose or desire ( preferences?)

Individuals who consumed much of my time with unhappiness in their own world,
have moved on out of my life. I very seldom have contact with them even if
they had been "friends of long standing". For those "ain't it awfuls" that
float my way, I now acknowledge them and send them on their way. Often when
people are complaining about this or that around them, I now respond that
whatever they are concerned about won't matter in 6 months, 6 years probably
6 minutes so just forget it. Now seldom do I hear all the "ain't it awfuls".


Abe , as well as TCIM, CWG, Jesus and many others say that being grateful
increases your field of attraction. That is where I believe you are with
this, Queena. You accept and enjoy all in your current world just as Jesus
blessed what was in his hands or in front of him and multiplied it many times
over.


Thanks for the post. Go Girl !

Lots of love,

Patty


Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

Vilik Rapheles
 

Life has started to Live Thru Me. The flow is constant. I want badly to
share
some examples of this ease. But this post has gotten too long.
~~~~~~~
Darling Queena!

It is so good to hear from you. Oh please go on and on and on! Your writing
so beautifully conveys the feelingtone of what you are saying.

"Life has started to Live Thru Me".

Last week Trixi talked about surrendering to NP and letting IB live her life.

I have been thinking about this. It seems to me that Abe has a dual
message. One part is connecting with ATI and IB, finding joy in the moment,
and an absolute sense that all is well. The other is conscious creation.
They weave in and out of each other, and are at the same time separate and
distinct and one and the same. I think a lot of us start with the conscious
creation theme, and somewhere along the way we happily stumble across what
is actually means to feel that *all is well*, which is to be complete in
the moment.

Interestingly, just this evening I experienced a new level of this. I had
written my last post and gone out to dinner at a favorite restaurant. I
love the fisherman's stew, which is usually chock full of fish, potatoes,
and other good things. But this time when it came it was just, well, soupy.
And our waiter seemed to be having a hard time keeping up and kind of
disappeared. I started to think a thought or two about how it wasn't what I
wanted...

AND I CAUGHT MYSELF! Right there, I caught myself thinking thoughts that
were taking me down an unhappy road. And I changed them, right there, when
they were still "embryonic" and malliable. I appreciated, I enjoyed. I
thought kind thoughts about the waiter and even sent him a little Reiki.
And I got SOOOOO blissful! So peacfully blissful, like I was floating in
palpable PPE.

When I was just about done I thought, it would be really nice to have
another cup of soup, and not pay for it. So I sent that energy out in a
very gentle way. When the waiter came back, I told him I liked the soup
"piled high" and would like to order another cup. He said, of course, and
you won't be charged.

So I got bliss in the moment, and I got to create. It was so sweet.

Smile smile smile! ):):):):)

So this is what I'm thinking. When I get into a bad state it is often
because I have been thinking thoughts that are not at all subconscious, but
kind of below the surface. And by the time I realize what's happening, it
already has a force in a certain direction. To gently recognize and turns
those thoughts around early on seems to be the key. I think whatever anyone
uses to help that happen, is wonderful. Because from that state of "all is
well" we have CHOICE. I don't need the soup a certain way to be happy. I AM
happy. AND I have a preference. AND I get to create it.

AND AIN'T LIFE GRAND!

So let's hear more from you, Sistah Queena! So very nice to know how sweet
things are for you, and how much fun you're having in the EnAnon tub. I'd
join you, but keeping up with my current lists keeps me on my toes. Give my
love to everybody there, and don't get too waterlogged!

And Juls, I did love your post to me, and the love and wisdom that so
lavishly pours forth from you. I will try your ideas. They are excellent.
Cookie is sitting in a drawer next to me as I write. And Flame is right her
beside me on the desk. They say hi to Juls!

Love to ALL!

~^^V^^~


Oprah:The Engagement website!

 

Hey everyone,
For those of you who weren't to see the show or able to download the
pics we had sent months ago....check out our engagement webpage ...
pretty cool if I say so myself! Hope everyone is doing well!!!!....Love,
Mike and Heather


Re: live talk

David W. Gordon
 

500-NRG-FLOW wrote:

Well it seems when ya set an event on the calendar in egroups it
sends everyone mail. Oops.

It also seems that people are already using the live talk thing,
and plan to meet again on Tuesday at 8PM Eastern.
Hi Crystal,

I want to make it known that YOU are the father of this list, and
you also were the prime catalyst for me to be turned on to Live Audio
Chat, and vision Abraham speaking directly LIVE to us here.

Thank you!

I just set up this Monday night (August 2nd), on the "calendar" feature egroups provides.
This all new to me, too. Egroups sure has a lot of features to explore. Onelist has many
of them too, but in a different way, and it does not have a Chat room for typing, or a
way for Live Audio teleconferencing.

When you set up a time on the calendar, (which for the time being at least),
is available to all on subscribed to egroups, is sends the message to all
that are subscribed to Egroups.

My thinking is to have a regular main merry-meet on the Live Talk channel
on egroups on every Saturday night at 10PM Eastern time, (7PM Pacific),
and then also additional regular meeting times every Tuesday and Thursday at 8PM
Eastern time.

If nobody shows up for it, okay, ...at least the time is set at a regular interval.

For now, I just emailed the group there to meet Monday, (tomorrow) night
at 8PM also. You will have to download a plug-in for your browser even if you want to listen only.

The possibility exists for a little "alignment" of everyone there, and there is
bound to be confusion at first. I am hoping that there will be almost all
listeners there, and that those speaking will do so in turn. Otherwise,
it will "cover" the one whose turn it is to speak. It will definitely need a
moderator to keep it controlled so that all can hear without interference.

Enjoy the play, and be there to listen mostly, for now.

The intention is to line up whatever is needed to do an online workshop
from Abraham, with complete ease and clarity, for all of those seekers, at all
corners of the world.

That is my desire, Universe.
Make it so!

Love,
david.


Loneliness

Jane Petersen
 

Hi :)

I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts about the topic of
"loneliness."?

I know that loneliness is fear. Fear of being alone. But I never
took my mind any farther than that. Can it be, that loneliness is
the fear of losing all connection to G-d, InnerBeing, whatever?

And so, if external actions are made to try to connect with people,
and maybe all that is accomplished is distraction from that
loneliness (fear) and not a real connection, IB to IB, then it can
only increase the discomfort? That if we _don't_ connect IB to IB to
one another, that only makes the fear and the sense of being
disconnected all the more intense? That maybe in Western society it
is much more the norm to NOT be connected to ANYONE else's IB?

Am I making sense? I am in ABE pre-school, so please forgive me if
this is too elementary a topic.

light and love
Jane Petersen


live talk

500-NRG-FLOW
 

Well it seems when ya set an event on the calendar in egroups it
sends everyone mail. Oops.

It also seems that people are already using the live talk thing,
and plan to meet again on Tuesday at 8PM Eastern.

So, relative to the live voice chat on Monday in egroups, never mind.

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500-NRG-FLOW energyflow@...
Personal guidance in the art of thought projection.
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Re: Ilana's post and feeling good

Juls
 

Hey Vilik,

What about re-writing that past association, how can you see it differently?
Can you see it from another's point of view? How can you see that childhood
thing in another light? Can you see it as being good in some way, that it
led to something else that was magnificent?

For example:

I took a gig for a long term photodocumentary on a freighter a few years
back, which led me getting Pasha- my first dog- they refused to train him
which led to him getting hit by the car, which led to him being paralyzed,
which led me to getting in to dogs and leaving my photojournalism career
behind, which led me learning how to teach dogs using very gentle
techniques, which led to me learning about Abe, when I really got Abe that
led to Pasha dying, which led me to exploring death which I'd never had call
to do before, which led to me deciding to start my own pet care business,
which led me to letting Pasha go on what would have been his 3rd birthday,
which led to Cordy come in to my life, which led to me getting the idea for
The Farm, which will lead to me doing a billion other things.

In and of themselves, many of these things just truly sucked and were
horrible to go thru for me, but they ALL led to tremendously wonderful
things happening and me taking a whole new and different path in my life so
that I am now living with the most magnificent dog in the world and creating
the most wonderful place in the world.

So, can you see how all of those icky things led to something wonderful so
that once you get the associations you can actually bless and be thankful
for them instead of fearing their re-occurrence or re-association in your
life?

I can actually go back from where I am now all the way back to when I was
given up for adoption when I was first born, but the above is just the short
version. I think if you try it you will be amazed at how all of that old
baggage is actually what your wings are made of, each a feather of a
different size and colour. Play with it and see what you come up with.

LOVE YA- Juls