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Re: Retreat details
just back from a truly wonderful week in the mountains at my power
place. this was a very special trip. my mom lives at the base of the mountain and i met my oldest daughter and her family there, my sister came over from atlanta, and my mom and my sister got to meet our latest addition, our wee faerie, savannah (now seven months old!)! we got great photos of four generations of women in the family! i can't wait til they're back from being developed! i took my daughter, son-in-law, grandsons and savannah swimming down in the river by my power place. having a ball with the boys, i swam for two hours nonstop ... which i felt as soon as i climbed out on dry land and began the hike back up the ravine! holy jimeneez! and i had been riding horses the day before, another thing my leggies are not used to doing! yikes! i can see the headlines: wonder shawoman rescued and carried out of deep woods by forest rangers (actually, that has an intriguing ring to it... heehee ... but none of my fantasies for now!) one of the most beautiful of many memorable moments with my family in the mountains was looking at my daughter stretched out asleep on a huge boulder at my power place with our wee baby lying naked across her chest. i remembered so clearly falling asleep in Nature nursing my little ones... including the "little one" that was now lying there asleep with HER little one! there is such awesome magic to being a crone! the goddess goes on! while we were down at the river i swam off a ways with savannah and then held her up to the sky, to the river, to the directions, to the trees and stones and all my relations. it felt very very special to introduce my grandbaby to my special woods friends at this most special place on the planet where my heart sings so clearly :-) i am teaching the boys how to remember their seeing; i know savannah could see even more clearly than i! tyler is only six, so he quickly picked up the rhythm of the woods and was pointing out the fairies sitting on rocks and the like to me :-) ahhhh :-) it was truly wonderful! margie, i'm not feeling my physical presence at your shasta retreat, so i will join david in expanding my heart and essence to very much be there in spirit. i do feel that i will be there physically and will bless your medicine wheel at some point :-) i don't feel it for this august. so another retreat is in the works already! yea! tell "marge-in-charge" (a subpersonality of margie's) that my virgo greatly admired and appreciated both the detail and the generosity of spirit in your retreat posts! those people who are about to get to meet you physically are in for a wonderful treat! you are a very special and wonderful goddess! blessings to each and all :-) sonreya :-) |
Re: greetings!
Juls
Hi Nirav,
Focus on what you want to Do with the money and not the money itself. So if you want to build a new house, focus on what it would be like to be in the new house, the colours and furnishings and the day you move in, it's all complete and gorgeous and live there in your mind. Or whatever it is that you want to do with the cash. If you just want the cash, then play with what it would be like to have the cash, all of the things that you could do with it, the places you would go, the freedom it would give you, the billions of options it would open up for you, etc etc. And then notice what you are thinking and feeling when you think about cash, is it always, Not Enough or is it REALLY Only Money, only a simple way to do transactions? LOVE YA- Juls |
Re: Illness and Abe
Juls
HI Ro,
Welcome!!! First of all, they don't have any cures that a pill will take care of, doesn't mean they aren't curable. Your body, as does everything else, goes with what you believe it will do, if you believed that rubbing peanut butter on your nose would cure cancer, AIDS, Fibro, Migraines, etc then it would, the pills and medical treatments are only what we use as our excuse to allow wellness back in, nothing more and nothing less, so what you need to find is something that YOU BELIEVE will cure what ails you. I have a friend in Australia who had a leg blown off in Vietnam, he has regrown 6-8 inches of it so far by eating lizards, they can grow their tails back so it makes sense to him that eating them will supply his body with whatever it needs to grow his leg back. Be creative with this, but within your belief system. If it helps any, he has grown back his entire knee bit and part of his shin in a few years. So nothing is impossible. The steps to creating ANYTHING that you want are 1- identify what you Don't want 2- Identify what you Do want from what you don't want 3- Imagine, dream about, live AS IF you already had what you Do want, talk about having it, make plans as if you already had it, feel what it would be like to have it, appreciate anything and everything around you that you can appreciate to get you in to the receiving mode and bit by bit you will believe that you have it, 30 days max if you have a majority of thoughts believing that you have it already. 4- physical manifestation. 5- celebrate and something new will come along that you don't want and repeat. So what would it feel like to have a body that you didn't think about? If you made plans to go roller blading for instance and it never occurred to you that you couldn't do it? What would it feel like to bounce out of bed in the morning feeling vital and vibrantly alive, raring to go with excitement bumps all over your body for the adventures in a new day? Instead of focusing on curing your illnesses, what about focusing on feeling vibrant and vitality rushing thru your body? Or pick something that you've always wanted to do that you haven't done because of your body and focus on doing that and forget about your body. Just like when you want something that costs a lot of money, it works better to focus on what you want to do with the money than the money, the experience that you are after and go there and forget about the cash flow. What would you do in the morning if you woke up feeling 110%, just oozing vibrancy and vitality and great good health and a great feeling body? Go there and live there and forget about reality, it changes second by second anyway and you make your own reality so make it Wonderful Does that help? LOVE YA- Juls |
Re: Illness and Abe
Ro
Does that help?Puuurrrr Juls :) yes yes, just what I needed to get "centered" and focused around this. I have noticed learning this Abe stuff, I get caught up in "doing" and not "being". It requires me to think about the process, ya know? So I got tired this morning and took a break :) Thank you, will print this out so I can get focuses. Focus on vitality and a healthy body, NOT curing the disease. Lovely sharing about your friend eating lizards..giggle.! Makes sense to me!!! Blessings and joy! Dance, dance, dance! Love Ro |
Illness and Abe
Ro
Hello, Ro again, and new as a reminder :)
I have fibromyalgia and benign positional vertigo. BOTH have no cure! I am trying to take in all that I have read and learned online about Abe, how to go into appreciation with these health issues, and "pivot", and create something new. Why have I chosen two health issues that have no cure? I am clear of some appreciation for them. They help me to monitor how I move my body. Slow, precise,conscious. Also I experience migraines, which again, I appreciate the "message" they give me to slow down, breathe....and not get so hyped up!My intent is, to "remember" these great messages, without the diseases :) Could someone guide me to get clearer on this? also, I read Connee's notes from the April 1999 workshop, wherein Fibro and Chronic Fatigue were mentioned. I cannot find those workshop transcripts to download. So I wrote the website, and they are sending me a catalogue. But they did a search also, and cannot find anything on "fibro." Any body that went to that workshop, do you remember what Abe said about those diseases? Thanks in advance, Appreciating this contrast I have created :) Love Ro |
Fw: Loneliness
Jane Petersen
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I have Connee's permission to share her thoughts on this topic with the rest of the list. love Jane Petersen ----- Original Message -----
From: Connee Chandler <connee@...> Hi, Jane,never istook my mind any farther than that. Can it be, that loneliness alone,the fear of losing all connection to G-d, InnerBeing, whatever?I would interprete loneliness as not knowing that you are never that your IB/God is always present, and that you control yourconnection with the direction of your thought. Loneliness seems to me to bemore like the fear of being unsafe or abandoned, alone in the Universe.I know that being alone now is a gift to me, where as before I wasaware of broader perspective, being alone was a curse to me.people,And so, if external actions are made to try to connect with canand maybe all that is accomplished is distraction from that IB toonly increase the discomfort? That if we _don't_ connect IB to itone another, that only makes the fear and the sense of being whois much more the norm to NOT be connected to ANYONE else's IB?Abe says that we become people pleasers because we so enjoy the is connected/happy. That being in love is the feeling of twoconnected beings flowing pure positive energy all over each other.connected in order to connect yourself, but rather be your own source ofconnection through your own attention to that which is wanted. When you areclearly connected, you can connect to another's IB without their having tobe connected! That is my latest definition of compassion.me think! |
Re: E-Groups Abe TALK -- a report from the Leading Edge
David W. Gordon
green1 wrote:
<snip> Somebody with a calm, well-modulated, friendly voice was talking and theThanks Green, I appreciate the compliment a lot! It is important to me to hear this from you. I love to hear it! Indeed. The main event is Saturday night at 10PM EST, (7PM Pacific Time) Though nothing prevents it from happening at ANY time sooner, though! Anyone can arrange when they want to meet with anyone else. Just PEM them, It is best to do PEM for this scheduling traffic, or just post it to the egroups calendar at the abraham-hicks@egroups site so that this email traffic is there, rather than here. Thanks for doing that. Most people on this list are not yet on egroups. There is a calendar at the egroups site, so that anyone on the egroups list can schedule when they are interested in a voice meeting on line. Use it! It was exciting to reach out verbally to Northern Idaho; Bakersfield, CA; Edmonton Alberta; Mt. Shasta, CA; Eastern Massachusetts; and hear them all clearly, instantly near Washington D.C., where I am. This is Deliberate Creation at it's finest. The common bond here is Abraham, and that view from the perspective of those on the line last night were discussed at length for 3 hours: all forms of that, from our personal experience. I am re-posting the URL's for this below CORRECTED as somehow, Green, your keyboard is posting strange keystrokes in place of punctuation marks. (I don't know what that is unless it is your program setting for your driver, or maybe a language setting for Netscape...don't know). Here are the Corrected URL's to find these pages, it is great to have them here, and I thank you for the shortcuts you've posted to get there, Green. It was really nice speaking to all of you, Margie, Lola, Dianne, and Energyflow, .............for soooo long! Please note the below, corrected; This is the typed live Chatroom URL: There is Abraham vibrating like CRAZY now. It is massaging my eardrums, and it deeply pleasures my heart's desire. love, david. |
Re: E-Groups Abe TALK -- a report from the Leading Edge
green1
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My apologies, I'm trying to get to the bottom of this mysterious new (+ACE +ADs +ACI +ADw-3 +ADw-3) gobbldegook problem that I have. Can anyone help me out? <3 <3 Green ================= From: "green1" <green1@...>>>snip<< |
E-Groups Abe TALK -- a report from the Leading Edge
green1
Hello Joyous Deliberate Creators+ACE-
As previously announced on-list, David opened the e-groups Abe TALK CHAT room at 8PM Eastern Standard Time yesterday evening, Monday August 2, and was joined there by a small group of JDCs. Of course, at the time, out here in the Pacific Time Zone, I had FORGOTTEN about the historic event, and was otherwise involved until about 9:50 PM EST-- when I suddenly REMEMBERED, ten minutes before the scheduled END of the session. Dropping everything, I rushed over to the e-groups TALK CHAT room, and behold+ACE- There they WERE+ACE- Somebody with a calm, well-modulated, friendly voice was talking and the first thing I knew, he, the Videoman himself, was addressing -- ME+ACE- (Because it seems you don't just edge inside the door of these things and sit down unnoticed. Oh No. The door is wired to announce you, and everybody in the room looks up expectantly, and so much for an unobtrusive arrival +ADs--) This being my first use ever of my computer's voice communication capability, its microphone was buried somewhere deep in the files and papers which crowd my (editorial) computer station, and I had to virtually (get it? +ADs--) shout to be heard, so I pretty much laid back and listened, and I tell you, it was wonderful to hear the real-time voices of real-life people whose hearts are expressed on this list. Present were David, Connee, Margie, Lola, Dianne, and Energyflow. Topics of conversation were many and varied during my participation in this final part of the TALK session, including the fact that Energyflow had ORIGINATED this mailing list about 5 years ago. (I am honored, believe me. That initiative has made so much difference in so many lives. I am blessed to now be part of this wonderful online community. I thank you, Energyflow, and I thank you ALL :-))) Folks, this e-groups TALK CHAT is EASY and it works good -- almost like a group conference telephone call, the only difference being that only one person can be heard at a time, and if more than one talk at once, none get heard. They say this internet TALK is the wave of the future, so I guess that puts us few who are getting into it now on the LEADING EDGE. It's certainly a wonderful conferencing capability. Still, I hope it never supplants typed e-mail, some of the advantages of which I love very much. Sorry I didn't get clear on exactly what days and times this Abe TALK CHAT is going to take place, but I'm sure David will announce that again. Our David makes a great moderator, drawing everyone into the conversation and gracefully using any pregnant pauses to bring up new subjects or continue the discussion of subjects already on the table. The conversation went on for some three hours yesterday, running an hour past its scheduled ending. So come on over and check it out+ACE- If you are not already set up for e-groups, you can subscribe by using the box at the bottom of the NamesFaces page: If you're already set up for e-groups Abe Live Chat, just go to the chatroom, then click on +ACI-TALK+ACI- in the menu bar across the top of that window. That's how I got there. OR go directly to the TALK CHAT room at Hey, check it out+ACE- :-))) +ADw-3 +ADw-3 Green |
Center for Creative Thought
karin
prosperity game, and to the creations I envision flowing dollars toward.)"helped", and will continue to do so. I'm real excited about how this works!! When Ilife". I am creating thought banks that others may tap into, and which will one daysmall and large groups to come togetherDear Jane from Maine, my vision can be viewed at my website. Upper left hand is a flyer and lower right hand is my 20-page vision statement of the Isle Of Light Jacumba. Our projects will be sister communities! Two years ago I learned that Mother Teresa started her work with 13 rupees, which is less than 13 pennies. However, as a Lightworker for America, the richest country in the world that is awash with money, I decided to start my life's work with at least one million dollars. Right now I am working on a writing project for fund raising and I am in a good momentum. Also I am daily watering my magnificent thought gardens with the greatest of pleasure! Love to you all, KarinLLightworker Please visit my website and E-Shop at: |
a little typo needs viewing.
David W. Gordon
Connee Chandler wrote:
I'm off to Margie's retreat on Thursday, but when I get back,Dear Ones, Whooops! Silly typo here.... it is "egroups.com" plural.. the correct address place to send your blank email to is: abraham-hicks@... and that will enable you to use this powerful tool for listening and talk. The easiest way to enable this, if you have web access, is to use the box at the bottom of the NamesFaces page: I am resending the below from Connee's email to the list. It is so exciting!! Love and newly found excitement, david Note, it is **true** that joining the egroups will NOT generate more email for you at all. All of that will be on the webserver location, as a "message board" and not mailed to you. Email will stay on this server as always, and unchanged. ...now again, is Connee's previous message.
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68 seconds coming to fruition - Evensong Online
Connee Chandler
Hi, friends,
Wow, things are hopping around here. Three months ago, on the way back from seeing Abe in Gaitherburg, David and I were driving in the car, and we were playing Abe's 68 seconds game, spinning a vision of the "Evensong Broadcasting Network" sending out a radio show all over the world of Evensong one night a week. It felt like it was 10 years in the future, and we would have to build a big studio, and raise and spend a whole lot of money. And I realized on Sunday, after the list test of the egroups audio on Saturday night, that we could do it now, free, on the Net, that can reach all over the world! Evensong is about to go Online! Since Sunday morning, David and I have expanded the vision of a Science of Mind based audio conference, run by volunteer Religious Science Practitioners, doing lessons, talks, prayer and meditation at all hours of the day and night, making SOM principles and practice available to people all over the world who want it, whether they are close to a church or not. And the technology is here now, and David has set it up, and in two days, I have two advising ministers on board who want to play, and two churches who want to be sponsors, and a marketing plan in the works, and a vision of how it will work, and 6 practitioners and two ministers ready to break ground as the first speakers! Not bad for two days work! The funny part about it is that all of a sudden, I understand what Abe means about 68 seconds being leverage. This idea is much bigger than our original 68 second vision, encompasses many, many more people and resources, has much greater potential for uplifting the consciousness of the planet, and is ready to start testing, writing web pages, etc., right now! I'm still shaking my head with amazement, as I'm jumping up and down with excitement! I'm off to Margie's retreat on Thursday, but when I get back, I'll be looking for volunteers to help with tests as listeners. If you are interested in hearing live guided meditations, please email me, and I'll get back to you later in August with the times. And in the meantime, if you could join abraham-hicks-subscribe@... (send a blank email) and get your software working that would be fabulous! This will not generate extra email to your inbox, it just makes it possible for you to use the abe-hicks audio that David set up. And when we get to the test phase, you will be able to join evensong@egroups, too. I have written into the plan that we will eventually have guest speakers, (and I have retained creative control of the schedule!) and I can imagine many of you giving guest lectures on the laws of the Universe and deliberate creation that would expand the thinking of SOMers all over the world, too! Write yourself into this script if you like! Thanks for listening, and seeing our vision realized. Love and hugs, Connee |
letting go of the desire?
Ilana Goldman
I wrote:
.. Leting go of the desire altogether is far more effective than thinking of it from a place of needing it in any way. I meant: letting go of thinking of the desire. I would never make a deliberate chioce to give up a desire. Why should I? All I need to do is leave it to the universe... :) === __________________ E-mail content is 1999 Ilana Goldman. All rights reserved. _____________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Free instant messaging and more at |
Re: focus wheel (how to)
green1
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From: Steve +ADw-steve+AEA-whelan66.freeserve.co.uk+AD4- To: Abraham-Hicks+AEA-onelist.com +ADw-Abraham-Hicks+AEA-onelist.com+AD4- Date: Monday, August 02, 1999 5:08 PM Subject: +AFs-Abraham-Hicks+AF0- focus wheel (how to) +AD4-From: +ACI-Steve+ACI- +ADw-steve+AEA-whelan66.freeserve.co.uk+AD4- +AD4- +AD4-Hi, +AD4-My name is Steve, and I am new to this list. I keep reading about people doing a focus wheel, when they feel that they are not manifesting the change they want in there life. Please could somebody tell me how to do a focus wheel, because it seems a very effective thing to do, and I would find it very useful as I learn how to manifest the things I want in my life. Thanking you all +AD4-Steve . +AD4- +AD0APQA9AD0APQ- Hi Steve+ACE- Welcome to the list+ACE- I'm another Abe kindergartner in Connee's class and I really love this JDC community+ACE- I happen to have handy here an excellent post on focus-wheeling from last month written by the incomparable Lois Payne. She did such a wonderful and THOROUGH job of researching and presenting this information, which she gleaned from six (6) Abe tapes. I bound it into my book of Connee's website classes (which David has just given you the URL to, on-list). Knowing Lois, I'm sure the PEM addenum she offers on the subject, +AD4APg- Note: for mature jdcs and boaters only------- My instructions for that not so nice, foul mouthed, negative version---- the +ACI-blow up so you can focus wheel+ACI- that i use so often here ---is also available (pem only.) +ADwAPA- is hilarious+ACE- With Love, +ADw-3 +ADw-3 Green +AH4AXgB+AF4AfgBeAH4AXgB+AF4AfgBeAH4AXgB+AF4AfgBeAH4AXgB+AF4AfgBeAH4AXgB+AF4Afg- +ACoAKg-Posted to all Joyous Deliberate Creators+ACoAKg- I typed this before I was aware of connees excellent abraham process place. so here is the same stuff again -- from different fingers. The focus wheel - POBA book of positive aspects -- and the 'what do i like about this' are all spinoffs of the same abraham process intended to deliberately raise vibration by building on a single positive aspect and holding that focus until it expands via LOA. but IMHO the focus wheel is so good and works so well that its worth repeating again and again and again. +AD4-The focus wheel is one of my favorite Abraham processes. At the Detroit +AD4-workshop this year, someone mentioned that they wished there were clear +AD4-instructions for doing a focus wheel. So later, I wrote down instructions +AD4-(from about six different tapes.) It seems that the descriptions on each +AD4-tape has a slightly different version so I tried to capture the most often +AD4-used phrases on the tapes that I happen to have. Since it is so hard to +AD4-tansfer from the tapes to print---thought I would post it here for anyone +AD4-else who may be interested. +AD4---------------------------------------------------------------------------- +AD4----------------------------------- +AD4-Focus Wheel +AD4-The focus wheel is the best process to bring you from a place of resistance +AD4-to the allowing of what you are wanting when you desire something you +AD4-presently do not have. +AD4-Draw a circle a bout the size of your fist in the center of a page (but +AD4-leave the center blank until the very end.) Then write little phrases all +AD4-around the circle in clumps. The first statement would be at 12 o+IBk-clock, +AD4-then 3 o+IBk-clock, 6 o+IBk-clock, and then 9 o+IBk-clock. Keep it light, general and +AD4-believable. Write phrases that make you feel a little better about the +AD4-topic. Make statements that you already believe that happen to match your +AD4-desire. You start with a limp sort of knowing that matches your desire +AD4-and it grows stronger as you focus. Avoid contradictions, solutions, +AD4-decisions or changing the circumstances. Making general statements will +AD4-take the sting out of where you now stand even though you are not where +AD4-you want to be physically. Make statements about some desired subject +AD4-that you already believe and hold for 17 seconds. It will expand into a +AD4-stronger belief about the same subject. Hold that stronger belief for 17 +AD4-seconds and it expands into an even stronger belief about that same subject +AD4-and by the time you have romped around the wheel a few times you are +AD4-vibrationally at a higher place than when you started. After writing +AD4-around the circle, go back and underline the statements (underlining from +AD4-the outside edge in to the circle) and as you read and re-read the +AD4-statements - a powerful statement will explode out of the focus wheel +AD4-(which you now write in the middle of the focus wheel.) +AD4-The reason the focus wheel works is because when you hold a thought for 17 +AD4-seconds, the universe, by Law of Attraction , will bring another thought +AD4-of vibrational equivalence. The two thoughts will come together and will +AD4-then literally, molecularly, vibrationally, energetically join causing a +AD4-combustion of energy. In that combustion two things happen. First, there +AD4-is an energy expended that physical matter responds to and then the two +AD4-slower vibrations now become one higher faster vibration. This energy will +AD4-feel to you like interest or attention-getting or stronger energy feels +AD4-like enthusiasm or passion or life flowing through you. Your vibration +AD4-begins to raise and by the end of the focus wheel (usually 2-3 minutes) you +AD4gGQ-re standing in a whole different vibrational place than you were when you +AD4-started which means that the universe is now responding to you +AD4-differently+IBQ-so now the people you bump into will be different and the +AD4-magazines you pick up or the articles you are drawn to will be entirely +AD4-different because you are on a different vibrational plane where everything +AD4-in the universe will be responding differently because of the 2 or 3 +AD4-minutes you spent on the focus wheel+ACE- The focus wheel will allow you to +AD4-step out of your +IBw-action orientation+IB0- and into a +IBw-vibrational orientation+IB0- +AD4-so that the most importaint thing in your experience is to feel good. To +AD4-get yourself into a place of feeling good in any way you can, stay there as +AD4-long as you can, and then do anything in your power to keep yourself there +AD4-for as long as you can. The purpose of the focus wheel is to make you +AD4-become a better and better and better and better and better and an even +AD4-BETTER vibrational match to your desires+ACE- +AD4-The formula for creation is: +AD4-Identify the desire (contrast helps you with this part) +AD4-Then offer a vibration that matches the desire +AD4-AND IT IS +AD4-17 seconds of pure thought +AD0- 2000 action hours +AD4-34 seconds (17x2) +AD0- 20,000 action hours (10 times greater) +AD4-51 seconds (17x3) +AD0- 200.000 action hours (10 times greater +AD4-than above) +AD4-68 seconds (17x4) +AD0- 2,000,000 action hours (10 times greater +AD4-than above) +AD4-17 seconds of pure thought (uncontradicted energy) is equivalent to the +AD4-approximate hours worked in a year and 68 seconds of pure thought is +AD4-equivalent to two million hours working . +AD4-The reason you are not aware of this power is because you seldom can cross +AD4-the eight second mark without contradictions as you are so well +AD4-trained +ICYgJg-.. being objective, weighing the pros and cons, the plusses and +AD4-minuses, wanting to be fair, being a realist, facing reality and telling +AD4-it like it is. +AD4-(Abraham 7-19-97) +AD4-S a m p l e +AD4-Desire: a home of my own +AD4-Don+IBk-t begin by writing +IBw-a home of my own+IB0- in the center of the circle +AD4-because just by writing that you would arouse a gut feeling of not having +AD4-a home of your own. Although that is your desire, approach the desire more +AD4-gently by being less specific. Crashing head-on into your desire too +AD4-early can backfire so you want to be as easy and gentle as you +AD4-an +ICYgJiAmICYgJiAmICY-. +AD4-Such as: +AD4-There are so many people who own their own homes. +AD4-Many people who now own their homes were just like me at one time- +AD4-wanting, but not quite getting yet. +AD4-There are so many homes out there, there certainly is a right one or right +AD4-circumstances for me. +AD4-I+IBk-m not sure what I want but I+IBk-m sure I+IBk-ll know it when I see it. +AD4-It+IBk-s fun collecting data about homes-so I think I+IBk-ll get out more and get +AD4-even more data. +AD4-I already have some very good ideas about what I+IBk-m wanting +ACY- it will be fun +AD4-to add to them. +AD4-It will be fun watching the universe arrange circumstances +ACY- events to +AD4-help me in the unfolding of this. +AD4- (write whatever feels good to you- (as few or as many as +AD4-you want) +AD4-As you read +ACY- re-read around the circle (underlining as you read)-----a +AD4-statement will explode out of it that you will write in the middle of your +AD4-circle----such as: +AD4- +AD4- +AD4-MY HOME +AD4-IS +AD4-ON IT+IBk-S WAY +AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4AfgB+AH4- Note: for mature jdcs and boaters only------- My instructions for that not so nice, foul mouthed, negative version---- the +ACI-blow up so you can focus wheel+ACI- that i use so often here ---is also available (pem only.) +AF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXwBfAF8AXw- |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Margie,
Thank you - I too have learned a lot by using the I want to feel better phrase. Initially it took what seemed like a long time to get beyond whatever the thought was ~ now it seems to be a matter of seconds from the time I think it and I Am in a different thought/feel place. Congratulations on Tom and your upcoming marriage. May you have joy and great sex always. Patty |
More questions from Linda
Linda
Hi everyone,
Does anyone know on which tapes, if any, Abraham talks about graves, burial, and/or cemeteries? Is it just a waste of land or what? I'm curious what their thoughts are. Thanks for any input. Linda ________________________________________________________ NetZero - We believe in a FREE Internet. Shouldn't you? Get your FREE Internet Access and Email at |
from a resonse to Alana
--- Alana Sugar <afsugar@...> wrote:
Ilana,I appreciate this email. And in answer to your question about being happy if I never find a mate, my answer is: Yes. I can beI love my life, but that does not mean that I do not have desires for other things, one of which is a mate.You are always going to have unfulfilled desires. It is a very good place to be! But once you identify a desire you need to release your attachment to the manifestation. It works like this: I want a mate. I have a desire for a mate. I like having a desire. I know that the universe is already working to fulfill this desire and so I know that at some point it will manifest. I am in no hurry about it. I want to take full advantage of this desire while it lasts. I want to see in how many ways can I have fun with this desire? How many different detailed visions can I create around it? And then, each time you sit down to create a vision, before you get started, ask yourself Am I doing this in order to make something manifest? if the answer is yes, tell yourself: Whats the hurry? Life is good! I have this delicious desire to have fun with! I wouldnt want it to manifest right away before I had a chance to really play with it! It would be like having a Quicky Like being a sculptor who presses a button and voila, there is the finished master piece No. I want to take my time and enjoy every bit of it. I hope I can hold off the manifestation until I feel that I am ready to move on to something else I getwill happen is not there.How does the following feels I am not ready to deal with this one. I am going to write it on the universe side of the place mat and forget about it for 3 months. During these 3 months my only goal around this subject will be to be happy where I am. After 3 months I will check how I feel about it and if I feel comfortable I will start playing with it, ready to let go again and back into focusing on happiness the moment that if I find myself getting at all impatient. Or I would like to feel confident that it will happen. I know that I have a strong desire. I know that the universe knows all about it. I know that LOA is working very hard to bring me the manifestation that matches that desire because it is certainly there is my vibration. I also know that in my discomfort I cause LOA to work just as hard to keep me in this uncomfortable place of not having what I want. I understand that with LOA working in opposite directions there is not going to be much movement. But what if I let go of my discomfort? What if I kept myself focused on things that I already have that I delight in? what if I gave myself permission to be truly happy exactly where I am? LOA will continue to work to match my desire, and it will also work to bring me more things to enjoy Same direction, no conflict The manifestation would be inevitable! So, can I keep myself happy while the universe does its work? Well, at least this is totally within my direct control. I will work on that one. I will get the LOA to help me by taking a few moments each morning to get myself into a happy place. I will watch my negative declarative statements and turn them into asking. I will do focus wheels whenever I get myself in a funk for the sole purpose of getting back into a happy mood. I dont have to be perfect, but I do have to be persistent and committed and willing to start again and again and again. I can do these things. The more I do them the easier it will get. This is going to be fun! So, again, your question provokes great thought in me. Let me try to answer once again: If there were never a mate(and there may never be), I would be complete within my self, but stillsad in some way as by my very nature I love to be in love and I loveto share and I love intimacy and expression of passion and I lovethe feeling of family and connectedness to family.This is where you are, and while it is understandable, it is obviously not a match to what you want, or you would be living it. So, your work is to shift from where you are to the vibration that IS a match, which is: I am in a perfect place, there is no lack in my experience, my happiness is not at stack. I am having so much fun and I am feeling eager for more. For example, I like the idea of a mate. I think I will play with it for a while and see how it feels The reason to take the mate out of the equation is to get yourself to make peace with where you are, to recognize the perfection of it. Here I stand in this perfect place with a perfect balance of wonderful manifestations to enjoy and magnificent unfulfilled desires to play with! Every place I will ever stand in is going to be a perfect place of unfulfilled desires. I love being alive! So, yes, I am complete in myself and I know and feel that, however, no, because I wouldbe sad knowing that I could have created whatever I wanted in my lifeand did not create the one thing that meant the most.And if you felt sadness, it would mean that at that moment you are holding a thought that is not a match to your desire, and it is high time to reach for other thoughts! In fact, you will never really know that you have failed because it is never too late. My 99 years old aunt has a new boy friend who is madly in love with her! And the idea of time running out is based on the statistics of a society mired in resistance. I had this thing about getting older and what if I wanted another baby maybe I should have one now before its too late Too Late! What kind of resistance is that? I can live for as long as I want and have babies for as long as I want all it takes is choosing happy thoughts and looking around for new desires to keep life energy flowing! And if I dont get around to it this time, there is always next time! I will have more babies an endless number of them, in fact. So what if you could have created it and didnt? It only means that you were busy with other things, all of which are equally important and valuable yes, even the resistance and the pain and there is no real end point! Life goes on and on and on, and every moment is a new beginning, and even if it stretch from life time to the next so what? We are meant to love andcompletely happy without any feelings of desire at all, because that wouldI do not know what We are meant means. It is my understanding that there are no shoulds about any of this, it is all for the purpose of more and more joy. Joyful co-creating may be as good as it gets, but you certainly do not fulfill the purpose of joy by diminishing your current joy or expecting to diminish your future joy over any of this. And if that is what it takes for me to have my desirecan ever come to the point of not wanting to share my love in that way.It is certainly not necessary for you to stop wanting. Wanting is good! But it is just as clearly necessary for you to stop making your happiness conditioned on it. You need to learn to be completely happy in your unfulfilled desire. The only alternative I know of that will allow what you want to come to you is to take you attention off this subject altogether, or as much as you can manage. Abe demonstrated that approach in the LA workshop I want a mate! (turning away) I will think of this, I will think of that, I will think of this I want a mate! (turning away) ) I will think of this, I will think of that, I will think of this I want a mate! (turning away) ) I will think of this, I will think of that, I will think of this What was that thing I wanted? Oh, here it is! In fact, I don't believe that others who have relationshipsnecessarily came to that point before finding their mates. My sisters certainlydid not. I expect that your sisters wanted to have relationships. The question is not if they had a desire, but how they felt about it. On the vibrational meter, you need to be somewhere between peaceful and passionate in order to be in a state of allowing. When you are yearning or doubtful or even a little bit sad, you are not in a state of allowing. You need to find thoughts that put you on the side of the vibrational meter that allows what you want to manifests, and everything that we have been saying to you is about ways to get onto that side of the meter. With love, Ilana-Ora === __________________ E-mail content is 1999 Ilana Goldman. All rights reserved. _____________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Free instant messaging and more at |
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