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Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Carla DeMarco
Juls wrote:
From: "Juls" <laughingpaws@...>It worked for me. I was so tired of crappy relationships I finally decided there were no more good men left in the world and that I'd never have a good man so I just concentrated on things I liked doing instead of holding out on the idea that somewhere somehow there was someone for me. Then a great guy just walked right into my life - he was sweet, sensitive, funny, kind, good-hearted, in good health, and he adored me. We've been married sixteen years. Granted, I had no idea I was working with Law of Allowing at the time. But it worked. Love, Carla |
*Lazer* Focus......
MMHaffner
To apply Lazer Focus..........to why on this Plane, Manifestating does
not happen on a much more consistent basis? Dialectic Discourse: Q. If you look at this moment what do you see? A. This moment is a continuation of the past moment, and that is a continuation of the past moment before that, on and on, until there was a time when =Creation= occured in the far, far ancient past. Q. Ok with this viewpoint, how would it be possible to Create something new? A. I guess it would be pretty hard--because of this worldview--that there was this 'original' Creation eons ago, cause if there is this 'original' creation, how can I 'create' on top of it. Q. What would happen if you changed you worldview of this moment to-----That every single moment you are experiencing, is Brand New, and is NOT a continuous loop that was started Eons ago? A. Well then who is the one who is Creating each moment Brand New? Q. That's easy, you are. Thru the Misperceiving of Existence, it is thought that each moment is NOT brand new, and is a continous loop from a primordial "beginning". A. So then if each moment is Brand New, that means I am deciding and 'creating' each moment!!! Q. Exactly, so then the 'obstacle' to Manifesting, is simply a worldview that is Never questioned. And the ability to Manifesting is simply to become aware of this false worldview and replace it. So then in fact to Manifest is the easiest thing in the world, But IF the old view is held on to, Manifesting is completely impossible. |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Juls
HI Debby,
I don't believe that I'm prepaving bumps in the road for later on when I give up on something, it's more like the short version of the Serenity Prayer........ Fuck It. And REALLY meaning it. Works for Sir Anthony Hopkins and it works for me. LOVE YA- Juls |
Re: My class
Kathleen A. McGrane
Appreciating your feedback. Would be interested in any suggestions you have;
don't feel limited by my format. I am looking for ways to express this in everyday language that will release the resistance and fear, not create more.....looking forward to hearing from you. Kathy |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Debby O'Bar
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I just got back in town, and missed the energy of this list. I too would like to know your secret Ilana. Hope you'll let us know more. Also, Juls, I had a question about your process of giving up and saying it will never happen. I understand the letting go part.....but the it will never happen part......could it be that things were getting ready to happen anyway.....and when you declare it will never happen....you're prepaving bumps in the road for the future? Just wondering..... Debby Juls wrote: From: "Juls" <laughingpaws@...> |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Juls
So how do you do it Ilana-Ora?
How do you do it so it's easy and joyful and a continuous swing upwards? Without making it a big contrast thing? I'd REALLY Love to know how do it this way instead of the way that I have been doing it, much easier on the nerves and those around me to be sure. Will you share your secret? PLEASE? LOVE YA- Juls |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Ilana Goldman
Hi Juls and all,
Abe did mention that at the moment that we give up we stop pushing against. If you really can bring yourself to give up and not think about it anymore I suppose it can work for you. It does require as you said that you first get yourself into major frustration, probably through manifestating plenty of contrast around the subject. There are no right and wrong ways to go about it, but it is certain that your IB is not participating with you while you get yourself good and mad... And personally, I like to take the joyful route. (And ofcourse, for me giving up just is not an option when I really really want something, especially now that I know that I really can have everything that I want...) Love, Ilana --- Juls <laughingpaws@...> wrote: HI All,=== __________________ E-mail content is 1999 Ilana Goldman. All rights reserved. _____________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Free instant messaging and more at |
jedi mind trick
500-NRG-FLOW
eye. Until I met Abe, I spent many years worrying and doubting Over the last few years, since coming in contact with AbesIt sounds as if you are almost there. I think we can tip the balance here. Here is what I think is going on. You know about the balance of desire and belief. As they go up together, you have satisfying experience. Abraham asks us to pump up desire. As we stay focused on it, things manifest so our beliefs rise to match it and we stay in balance. You've done well at pumping the desire. You even managed to stay in balance for a long time regardless of manifestation. Now, I believe, your desire is so far ahead of your expectation that it seems your expecations are having a tough time keeping up, and might even be pulling on your desires. So what I am going to suggest to you is you spend more time molding the expectation. To this end we will use something really corny: the Jedi Mind Trick :). A Jedi Mind Trick is a concise, specific, positive statement about what you've got (want); coupled with a flash visualization. It would take me most of my afternoon to really describe how this is done, but I also trust you probably already have a basic understanding of how to do it. If you can give me examples of your desires, I will use them to give detailed examples. You are familiar with Abraham's processes, so I know you know how to identify what you want. What I'd like you to do is start by writing down what you want with as much specific detail as possible. They say be as specific as you can be and still feel good. Well, really push the specifics AND detail on this one until you drive yourself up the wall. In other words, don't just put I want a relationship. Unless you are positive that's as far as you care about it. I am confident you don't want any old relationship. Put I want a respectful, monogamous relationship with such and such characterisitics ... I want a harem with [these people] in it ... I want to be married to ... Whatever. Think about what you mean. The word "respectful" for example could mean "always tell the truth" to one person and "never hurt my feelings" to another. Read over your desires and see which ones can be broken down, combined, or given more detail. You want to write as few sentences as possible while still covering the whole topic. Once you have a list of your desries, you are going to re-phrase them, thusly: Start each sentence with the word "I". Follow it with ", Alana Sugar, " Use the word "now". Then put the desire in the present tense. So, to roughly use our examples. I, Alana Sugar, am now in a respectful monogamous relationship with a skateboard fanatic. I, Alana Sugar, am now master of a harem of adoring followers. I, Alana Sugar, am married to ... You sorta get the idea, right? Most of these sentences are shorter than what you'll be writing. Now, come up with a little imaginary scene that matches what you are saying. This should be quick! If you are used to visualization, forget that. This should be a quick symbol which briefly zaps you with the feeling place of having what it is you are saying. It can be symbolic and even animated. What you are going to do is read your list out loud. As you say each one, pause and get the image you made up in your mind briefly. Then repeat the statement and add something like "and that's just the way it is". Then, move right on to the next statment. Don't pause. As you say each statmement, imagine it ringing out to the environment, as if you are Obi Wan commanding the universe about what is reality. Go through this exercise once in the morning IMMEDIATELY at the first moment you realize you are awake and ready to get up. Also, do it right after you go to bed. When you finish the exercise, toss it aside and forget about it. Do this every single day! Once a day, pick one of your statements, and write it out on a piece of paper that has no lines on it. Try to write it neatly in a straight line and feel yourself writing it. Write it between 20 and 100 times. Enough to feel it but not enough to get writer's cramp. It can be useful to carry some of your statements on index cards and read tham to yourself whenever you don't feel so hot. Do NOT, however, make a point to read them all day. This should be a quick, infrequent, exercise. As you can see, the point of this exercise is simply to set expectation. Let yourself expect. When you feel bad, remind yourself simply to expect the results you want. It is OK to daydream. When you start to worry, however, set your expectations (thought is where you last left it) then stop thinking about it. Be willing to revise your statements. You will revise them. As you read them you will get clearer and clear about how they can be improved to better match what you really want. =================================================== 500-NRG-FLOW energyflow@... Personal guidance in the art of thought projection. =================================================== |
Re: I expect!!!
Lola Waychus
Hi Dianne,
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First of all, it was so nice to hear your voice last night. Now I can put a personality with your posts. Just want to say that the expects that you posted are very good and I expect that they are all so right now. My love Lola Dianne Devereux wrote: From: "Dianne Devereux" <dianne19@...> |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Juls
HI All,
I've just found that when I TOTALLY let something go, like The Farm a few weeks ago, just decide that it ain't gonna happen, use words like Never, that that's when things begin to pop into place. But I can't fake it, it has to be for real, totally frustrated, totally pissed, just f--k it and start thinking about something else to work on, the previous thing comes in, in a REALLY Big way. When I try to soothe myself with, the Universe is working on it, all will be well, then I get caught up in Well, they created the stinking planet in 6 days supposedly so it shouldn't be taking this long to create a stinking car, and it downward spirals from there. I'm still working on an easier way for me with the big stuff, the stuff that I've been wanting for a long time, the little stuff, the stuff that's just a passing fancy I can create almost instantly and that's because I think of it, forget about it and it is. Still perfecting my technique on the other things. And I know it's no different to create a castle than a button but I'm still a work in progress and almost there with the long time stuff. That's what my point was with that. LOVE YA- Juls |
New CC Journal Online!
Kristen N. Fox
Hi Abers,
I've been a little quiet lately, but I've been working on the Conscious Creation Journal - the August-September 1999 issue is now online for your perusalment at: Enjoy! :-) Kristen Fox and John McNally `o`o`o`o`o`o` ---> Conscious Creation... -------> Be Where You Are. Choose What You Want. -------------> `o`o`o`o`o`o` |
This moment-Now-forever
In this moment
connected the glory of All That Is I AM in the blink of an eye healed~ medical lab tests, physical manifestations, illusions of past illusions: "mistakes" seeming disconnect Released new thought comes forever I am changed In this instant ~shining zenith vibrations uplifting blur what was Now open knowing living the purest Joy of my soul Empowered Gods arms wrapped around me Forever on sparkling silver angels' wings soaring delighting blue sky-clouds breeze through my hair... Golden White Light rays Inhaling Universal Truth and LOVE lives within me Exhaling Oneness Now and Forever I AM Nori (c) |
Re: My class
focus1
Hi Kathy,
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I'm interested in what you are doing here. I like the way you are thinking about the people you are working with and what you are intending to communicate to them. This is very refreshing and much needed in working with those who have experienced downsizing. I'm sharing my experience below. Please don't take it overly seriously if your intuition tells you differently. Of course my experience is impacted by my beliefs, so you will certainly have different beliefs and experiences. There are 2 thoughts crossing my mind, depending on the area in which you work and the openness of the people you'll be encountering to anything that seems a little "weird." I'm in the Midwest where lots of people are still frightened by anything that seems "weird" so I, personally, have chosen to do more nonverbal communication of these principles and choose the most ordinary words and phrases when I talk about the ideas. A concept from The Course In Miracles (also Abe) that I use regularly is that healing/love, once offered, is always received. It is always received, but only when it is not threatening or fearful to the person receiving it (sometimes that's quite a while after it is offered, maybe even when people transition to nonphysical and release resistance, I think.) So I try to approach things using words and phrases that would not be fearful -or seem strange- to the group I'm working with. I do a great deal of my work nonverbally at home and silently in the spaces that occur during interaction and I only try to teach the more powerful Abe-type things if asked or if people respond positively to the little clues I throw out in very normal (or nearly normal) language. When they do respond positively, I try to tune in to my intuition about how much I can extend that will be received as "love" (per Course in Miracles language) and how much might bring about fear. For me, this works very well and I have what I would once have considered "miracles" happen in a large percentage of my total interactions and certainly in almost every group training I do. (Abe talks about this too--doing relationship work when you're not with the person and doing something that's not controversial when you're with them.) I bring this up because I think people who have been downsized or whatever are often tuned to a fear vibration and, to connect with them, small steps are needed; large steps may be like Abe used to talk about when the merry-go-round is too fast. One other thought. Abe says when we pick up one end of a stick, the other end comes too. (Recent tape San Antonio, I believe, and lots of others as well.) Another way they say this is when we focus on one desired belief or goal, the beliefs we hold that contradict this intention come to the surface. For this reason lots of us on the list have had the experience of picking up one end of the stick on several subjects at once (taking BIG steps) and then getting the other end too with considerable strain. A more recommended way seems to be to take smaller steps and get a little more stable change. This may apply to the people you are working with, again because they have been a bit "pulled down" by observing the things that go with layoffs. Some of the items below, including my suggestions, may be very large steps for them and, if so, you may get feedback that they are getting hold of both ends of the stick at once. (Of course you may find that good, as, during training they become aware of the beliefs they hold that are not helping them meet their goals, however my experience is that this goes better small steps at a time rather than large ones as group resistance/fear can be a big vortex.) I have chosen to work with people who, by nature, are conservative because I love other aspects of their nature. I'm aware that my approach also is conservative and so you may not want to take it too seriously if your nature is different. I have seen less dramatic changes work better, but, to be fair, I'm probably not comparing to more dramatic approaches by practiced deliberate creators! And, of course, I see evidence of what I expect so my experience is just that---my experience! :) Having said all that, I didn't do that with my suggestions here; rather I followed the pattern you have been working with, making a couple of suggestions. I applaud your thinking. Hope my post in no way slows your vibration. That's definitely not my intent. Freedom And Joy ----- Original Message -----
From: "Kathleen A. McGrane" <kathy@...> Interpersonal Skills: Works cooperatively with others and contributes togroup with ideas, suggestions, and effort. a.. I'm honest with myself. I respect myself. I value myself and others.I trust that I will say and do what is best for myself and others. I look for the good in myself first; then I can see it in others. I work with others. As others get to know me, they see me as a leader. ------Perhaps 3rd sentence, "I trust that I will learn and know what to say and do that is best for myself and others." ------re: filing....perhaps, "I find it enjoyable to practice (or learn) filing in a way that makes documents readily available when I or others need them. " |
"The Creation Center"
Starspeed and Silky
"THE CREATION CENTER"
(Staffed by Conscious Creators (in training) Funded by the Universe The Leading Edge of Creation!!! --Open to all possibilities-- Help Needed!! As a group we will Consciously Create this enterprise, and in creating it we will learn how powerful we are and then share this with our fellows. If anyone is interested Private Email me at: jonan@... |
Re: forwarded question on creating relationship
Hi Alana,
Juls wrote: "My Best advice is FORGET ABOUT IT, toss it to one side, let it go, declare to yourself that it ain't ever going to happen and go on with something else." I can't imagine being able to declare to myself that something that I want ain't ever going to happen... But I do believe that Juls is on the right track. I would say instead: "The universe is already working on this and it does not need my help. I know that the best thing I can do now is get out of the way by forgetting all about it and focusing on other things that I enjoy. But I am going to relax about this and know that it is no big deal if I do think of it every once in a while. I have decided however to get in the habit of catching myself whenever I do think about it. And when I catch myself I decided to pretend that this is a souffl in the over and I am going to gently close the over door and get busy with other things, trusting the ovens buzzer to let me know when the souffl is ready. In the meantime there are plenty of other delicious things to eat so I am perfectly happy for the oven to take as long as it needs... With love, Ilana-Ora _____________________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Free instant messaging and more at |
My class
Kathleen A. McGrane
I teach adults who have been laid off from closing factories and are in a 6-month retraining as computerized bookkeepers. They're taught the bookkeeping in the afternoon, but in the morning I teach S.C.A.N.S. (The Secretary's Council on Acquiring Necessary Skills). Below are the competencies that I must grade students on. I can't play with the competencies themselves, but I am trying to rework the language I use to communicate them to students and the way I teach them. The bulleted areas are what I have so far....Suggestions?
Thanks, Kathy SCANS COMPETENCIES Interpersonal Skills: Works cooperatively with others and contributes to group with ideas, suggestions, and effort. a.. Im honest with myself. I respect myself. I value myself and others. I trust that I will say and do what is best for myself and others. I look for the good in myself first; then I can see it in others. I work with others. As others get to know me, they see me as a leader. Information Skills: Selects and analyzes information and communicates the results to others. a.. I appreciate how I am able to gather new information and remember more and more each moment of the day. General Office Skills: Selects relevant, goal-related activities, ranks them in order of importance, allocates time to activities, and understands, prepares, and follows schedules. a.. Im learning to set priorities and make choices about how I use my resources: energy, time, attention, and money. Problem Solving: Recognizes that a problem exists and devises and implements a plan of action to resolve it. a.. I am constantly discovering different ways of doing things. Business Writing: Applies appropriate principles of good business writing. Business Communication: Organizes ideas and communicates oral messages appropriate to listeners and situations. a.. I watch my communication skills develop day by day; I notice how this makes me feel. Math: Applies math principles to business situations. Filing: Applies appropriate filing method. Office Machines: Keyboarding, typing & 10-key calculator. a.. I remember how smart and capable I am, how I enjoy exploring new things. As others get to know me, the see me as someone who knows what Im doing. |
Re: Pope starts speaking like Abe, news at 11:00!
Lola Waychus
Hi Connee,
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One more interesting thing you have posted. If I am able to go on the talk list tonight, one of the questions I wanted to ask, what Abe says about when you cross. I think he says that you go wherever you think you will go and be with the people you think you will be with. I was thinking of JFK, Jr. and wondering, being such a good catholic, would he have gone to pergatory since he no doubt believed that is what happens? Anyway, so wonderful, everybody is becoming an Abe. hehe Love Lola Connee Chandler wrote: From: Connee Chandler <connee@...> |
Re: Manifesting things
Mick Merlin
Steve & Elisabeth wrote:
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Hi Elisabeth, :) Great Testimonial! Way to Mainfest *S* With Love, Mick...... |
Manifesting things
Hi Paul,
You wanted to hear stories about how people manifested. I manifest many things everyday but I am feeling that you want to hear about big manifestations. Years ago my husband and I decided we wanted a big and luxurious house on several acres. We didn't have much money, but I decided to look anyway. I looked at every house in our town that fit what we wanted and there was nothing. So I waited. I had a dream that I walked into a living room that was huge and 6 sided-very unusual. A couple of days later I got a call from our real estate agent saying a new house was on the market . I went to see it and I immediately knew it was the house of my dreams. I walked into a huge 6 sided living room! It had everything we were looking for acerage, huge kitchen, master suite and lots of square footage-everything. Problem- we didn't have the money to buy this type of house. All kinds of circumstances took place. The builder reduced his cost because he wanted to sell. The real estate agent said she didn't need her comission. A friend of ours loaned us the down payment and the bank loaned us the rest. We moved in in less than a month and still absolutely love our home. I did say we wanted several acres. This house came with 1. In a couple of years we bought the 2 acre lot next to us. Now we have the acres we wanted with the house. Love, Elisabeth |
Manifesting
Hi Alana,
I know just what you mean. I've had some things that I just wanted so bad, and they just didn't seem to happen. Then I put them on the back shelf so to speak and they manifested. Maybe you're trying too hard. Gently mold the energy. I feel from what you wrote that you're looking more at your manifestion not being there than being there. Why not try to prove to yourself that this really works. Pick 3 things to think about. How about stars, vases, and hummingbirds. Think of each one for about 17 seconds. Play with them in your mind. Now over the next few days look for these 3 things to come into your life in many ways. Maybe you'll open a magazine and see a beautiful vase, or someone will talk about one of the things. Be alert, and expect to see them. When you show yourself that you are doing it, try moving on to something else that is not so important and see the wonderful universe at work. As for your biggie, put it on the universes side of things to do and expect it. Since you dreamed it you know it is on it's way to you. Just relax and allow. You'll get it. I hope this helps you. Love, Elisabeth |
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