Whether here or in the UK, modelers in these groups are frequently complaining that wives, spouses are always telling them what to do.? I assume that many men here are older, have joint finances, and it is too late.? Separate funds are really worthwhile.? Are there cases where one partner is slightly more in charge???
Now as to what train things we accumulate, much is of somewhat nominal value:? if husband dies, it can be given to friends, donated to train clubs, into dumpster.? Valuable things go to an auction company like Stout.? Learn Ebay - just make multiple accounts to spread money.? List things on husbands IO sites.
It is not that hard for a wife to get some benefit from whatever trains the husband buys.??
Now is the basic thought for the train husband to spend zero on their hobbies?? To what end?? Male predeceases female, then she spends how she wants!
Now I am 77, my partner Noreen and I have been together for some years.? We keep separate money and have never married.? Noreen says that she simply got me when I was too old to train(no pun).
