For
a scene where the Clanton gang rides into town, Ford got a wind machine to
create a dust storm, and instructed the actors to fire off their guns and
shotguns close to the horse's ears so they'd ride wild. He wouldn't allow stuntmen
to do the scene, but insisted that Walter Brennan, John Ireland, and Grant Withers
do their own riding.
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They
managed to pull the scene off, but then Ford asked for a retake. Grant Withers
was hanging behind, and Ford nudged him. "Come on, Grant, dammit, hurry
up. Which is your horse?"
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"The
one with the shit in the saddle," said Withers.
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It
was requests like that, not to mention Ford's overall demeanor, that alienated
Walter Brennan. "Can't you even mount a horse?" yelled Ford when
Brennan was having trouble. "No, but I got three Oscars for acting,"
retorted Brennan.
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Despite
their mutual dislike, Brennan was giving a memorably cold, homicidal
performance as Pa Clanton, possibly because he was transferring his loathing of
Ford into his character's loathing of Earp. Brennan went through the film in a
professional manner, and refused to ever work with Ford again. (Ford's home
movie footage of the production shows a few random but beautiful shots of the
Valley at dusk, Jack Pennick and Tim Holt relaxing, Victor Mature and Ward Bond
gagging it up, and a notably solemn Walter Brennan not gagging it up.)
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Scott Eyman "Print the
Legend: The Life and Times of John Ford" (1999)
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Charlie Chaplin Plays Straight Man To Groucho Marx
Beverly Hills Tennis Club,
Los Angeles
July 14th 1937
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Tennis has become the most fashionable sport in Hollywood:
Clark Gable, Errol Flynn, Cary Grant, Spencer Tracy, Carole Lombard, David
Niven, Norma Shearer and Katharine Hepburn all play. This prompts Fred Perry -
the world no. 1 player for the past five years' - to turn professional and move
to Los Angeles with his film-star wife Helen Vinson.
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Perry buys the Beverly Hills Tennis Club with the American
champion Ellsworth Vines. To mark its opening, the two of them play in one of
the very first pro-celebrity tournaments: Perry partners Charlie Chaplin and
Vines partners Groucho Marx.
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Charlie Chaplin (b.1889) is just a year older than Groucho
Marx (b. 1890), but the gap seems infinitely wider: the two men are separated
by sound. Chaplin is the king of silent comedy, Marx the king of the
fast-talking wisecrack. Chaplin spends a lot of time fretting that he belongs
to the past; at lunch before the game, he shares these fears with his opponent.
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'Charlie turned around to me and said, "Gee, I envy
you;" recalls Groucho, a quarter of a century on,' and I said, "You
envy me? Why?" He said, "I wish I could talk on the screen the way
you do." I found this such an ironical statement. Here was the greatest
comedian that there's ever been, there's never been anyone like him, and he's
sitting there envying me because I can talk.'
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It is not hard to detect an undertow of triumph beneath this
outward show of sympathy. Groucho has always been a very competitive man, and
Chaplin is known as the world champion in their shared field of comedy. But by
the time Groucho looks back on this conversation, silent comedy has come to
seem as out-of-date and quaint as the penny-farthing.
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At the time, he notes ruefully that while City Lights is
acclaimed an instant classic, Monkey Business is seen as 'the usual Marx
Madhouse .. .'
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On this summer's day in 1937, it is as though the edgy
competition between the two most famous comedians in the world has been
formalized. Chaplin Chaplin prides himself on his tennis: as well as being a
member of the Beverly Hills Club, he has his own court at his home, where he
throws tennis parties for fellow stars like Greta Garbo and Clark Gable. When
newsreel photographers turn up, he always plays that little bit harder. Groucho
is much less proficient with a racket. Unable to compete in tennis, and incapable
of being seen in public without playing his buffoonish on-screen character, he
decides to compete for laughs. He turns up with a huge suitcase and a dozen
tennis rackets, curls up in a sleeping bag, then brandishes a ping-pong bat.
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Chaplin and Perry win the first game with ease, and the
second game too. At this point, Groucho tells the crowd that he is going to
have a lunch break ('Vines can do all my playing for me!'). He dips into his
suitcase and produces a tablecloth and a range of sandwiches, which he proceeds
to spread on the ground. 'Will you join me for a spot of tea?' he shouts to
Chaplin, playing to the crowd.
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Charlie Chaplin feigns laughter, but is quietly seething: he
wants to get on with the match. 'I didn't come here to be your straight man,'
he hisses into Groucho's ear.
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Groucho omits this comment from his memoirs. In newsreel
footage, Chaplin can be seen smiling at Groucho's shenanigans, but this is only
for the cameras. Years later, he has still not forgiven Groucho for casting
himself in the role of funny guy. After all, given the choice, who wants to
play stooge?
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Craig Brown "Hello Goodbye
Hello" (2011)
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880826 b I've got a little list (literalism)
I've got a little list
(Gilbert & Sullivan, The
Mikado)
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Dear Mrs. Atkinson,
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First of all, let me thank you
for your very sympathetic letter and in reply to your question, well, yes, I do
still suffer from it.? In fact only last
week I was strolling through the hosiery department of one of the big West End
stores, when right in front of me, I saw a sign that said, "support
stockings."? Now straightaway I went
to offer my support, because when it comes to that long-standing stockings
versus tights debate, it's no secret which side I favor, especially the shiny
black ones.? And it wasn't 'till I
noticed certain elasticized hosiery on that counter that I realized what had
happened once again, Mrs. Atkinson, I had fallen prey to the strange mental
disorder you are inquiring about, the one known in medical textbooks as
literalism.
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Now they describe this
distressing condition as a congenital inability to take words and phrases other
than literally, so if, for example, a sufferer sees an advert for micro-thin
toasters, they wonder how many people like to toast micro-chips; or if he comes
across a tin of turtle wax, he'll find himself musing about the exact number of
pet owners cursed with squeaky turtles.
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What it says, Mrs. Atkinson, for
literalism victims, the mental images that language conjures up, the interior
pictures, they're just not the same as for ordinary people. That's why,
whenever a weatherman points at his little map and says, "Well, as I
forecast, the rain kept up all day."?
I become filled with an unreasoning fury, because, of course, the
literal truth is the rain did not keep UP at all, it kept coming DOWN, all the
time.
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Or to give another example from
my own experience, I still come over all hot when I remember my first plane
flight and what happened when I heard the stewardess say, "We are now
coming in to land, so will you please extinguish all cigarettes and put your
seat in the upright position."
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Because of my leanings towards
literalism, it didn't occur to me that she was referring to the aircraft seat.
So I positioned myself with my rump in the air and my head somewhere down by
the sick bag. And I can now tell you that assuming that posture when the
aircraft is also going into a nose down mode, not only leads to dizzy spells,
but you wind up being escorted off the plane by two orderlies from Helmslow
General.
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So Mrs. Atkinson that's a general
picture of the unhappy disability known as literal thinking. But what your
letter was particularly concerned about was whether you could ascertain if your
twelve-year-old son has developed this dread affliction.
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Well, Mrs. A, it's one of those
heartbreak questions.? All I can say is
that you must look out for the telltale signs of literalism.? You could try a couple of simple tests.? For a start lead him into the kitchen and
show him that knob on your washing machine that says "Pull on, push
off." If he gives it a sharp tug, then straight away leaves the house that
does not bode well.
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Your next step must be to take a
walk down the road, then ask him what comes into his mind when he sees the
house with a sign that saying "neighborhood watch." If he says he
pictures a lot of local people popping in there to ask what time it is, Mrs. A,
I fear you must give up hope.? All you
can do, in that case, all you can do in that case is summon up as much
resignation and borrowing a phrase from W.S. Gilbert, you must say to yourself,
"I've got a literalist."
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Dennis Norden, 880826
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Ask Well I get ingrown hairs every time I shave
I get ingrown hairs every time I
shave. Can I get rid of them?
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It's a common issue: Your freshly
shaved, waxed or plucked skin appears smooth and hairless - until pimple-like
bumps crop up days later.
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Ingrown hairs can occur anywhere
on the skin, but they typically emerge in places you remove hair, like in the
beard, pubic, leg and armpit areas, said Dr. Elizabeth Bahar Houshmand, a
dermatologist in Dallas.
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They typically look like raised
red or flesh-colored bumps, sometimes with hair or pus inside, said Dr. Amy K.
Biebeir, a dermatologist at NYU Langone Health.
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Hair grows from a follicle deep
within the skin, said Dr. Paradi Mirmirani, a dermatologist at Kaiser
Permanente in Vallejo,? Calif. Shaving is
more likely than waxing or plucking to cause ingrown hairs because it tends to
break off the hair just under the skin, which could push the hair into the
skin's layers and interfere
with its growing path, she said.
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But waxing and plucking can do
this, too, and your hair type it also plays a role, said Dr. Della P. Foulad, a
dermatologist at? U.C.L.A. Health.
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The closer the shave the more
likely an ingrown hair is to form because the hair can get trapped under the
skin, Dr. Foulad said.
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It can be tempting to squeeze the
bumps or try to excavate the trapped hair, Dr. Foulad said, but that might
increase the risk of inflammation, scarring or infection. "You shouldn't
be yanking out the hair," she said.
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Most cases typically resolve on
their own within about a week. But if the bumps are painful or itchy, you can
try applying a warm compress (like a wet wash-cloth) or cortisone cream until
inflammation subsides.
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To speed healing, Dr. Foulad
recommended using a benzoyl peroxide wash, which has anti-bacterial properties.
or chemical exfoiants
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The only way to prevent in-grown
hairs is to stop shaving,, waxing or plucking, but that's not always realistic.
If feasible, allow your hair to grow for as long as possible and wait for any
existing ingrown hairs to heal before shaving or using another hair-removal
method, Dr. Bieber said.
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Cleanse your skin before hair
removal and always use clean tools, like razors or tweezers, to avoid
introducing germs to the skin, Dr. Foulad said. Run your tools under warm water
to remove excess hair. Replacing razor blades frequently helps too.
?
Avoid multi-blade razors, which
cut hair too close to the skin, or choose an electric razor that allows you to
adjust the blades to avoid a close shave, Dr. Houshmand recommended.
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Use shaving cream to reduce
friction, and shave with - rather than against - the grain. Rinse your razor
after each pass, Dr. Foulad said.?
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After hair removal, apply a serum
or moisturizer containing salicylic, glycolic or lactic acid. If your ingrown
hair bumps become more red of painful, or if they are warm to the touch or
develop extra pus, that might signal an infection, Dr. Bieber said. Consult a
medical provider, who may treat the bumps with a topical steroid or antibiotic.
?
Also see a dermatologist if your
facial or body hair removal routine is regularly causing ingrown hairs that are
bothersome
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Doctors may also recommend
alternative hair removal methods, like depilatory creams, which dissolve the
hair and are less likely to cause the bumps, Dr. Foulad said. Other options
include laser hair removal or electrolysis.
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Occasional regrowth is possible
with these last two methods, Dr. Mirmirani said, but the hair usually grows
back thinner and rarely causes ingrown hairs.
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Erica Sweeney
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A reptile named Tank has escaped from a vet's office in Andreas, Pa.
He's not a threat to residents because Tank is a tortoise, and it's his
third time on the loose. He belongs to a veterinarian who works at the
clinic. And it seems Tank made a break for it after finding a hole in
his fence pen. He's still on the run, but staff are hopeful they'll find
him, because how fast can he really be going?
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grandin Bottom-Up Thinking and Learning Rules
Bottom-Up
Thinking and Learning Rules
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Individuals
on the autism spectrum learn to form concepts by grouping many specific
examples of a particular concept into a virtual "file folder" in
their brain. There may be a file folder labeled "Dogs," full of many
mental pictures of different kinds of dogs - together, all those mental pictures
form a concept of "Dog." A person on the autism spectrum may have
many of these virtual file folders in their brain - one for each different
concept (rudeness, turn-raking, street safety, etc.). As a person grows older,
they create new file folders and add new pictures to the ones in their old file
folders.
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People
on the autism spectrum think differently from non-autistic, or
"typical" people. They are "bottom-up," or
"specific-to-general" thinkers. For example, they may need to see
many, many different kinds of dogs before the concept of dog is permanently
fixed in their mind. Or they may need to be told many times, in many places,
that they must stop, look, and listen before crossing the street before the
concept of street safety is permanently fixed in their mind. People on the
spectrum create the concepts of dog, street safety, and everything else by
"building" them from many specific examples.
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Non-autistic,
or "typical" people think in a completely different way. They are
"top-down thinkers," or "general-to-specific" thinkers.
They form a concept first, and then add in specific details. For example, they
already have a general concept of what a dog looks like, and as they see more
and more dogs, they add the details of what all kinds of different dogs
(poodles, basset hounds, dachshunds, etc.) look like. Once someone tells them
to stop, look, and listen before crossing the street, they know to do this at
every street, in every neighborhood.
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Bottom-up
learning can be used to teach both very concrete and more abstract concepts
ranging from basic safety rules to reading comprehension. In this article I
will give examples starting from the most concrete concepts and finishing with
more abstract ones. All concepts, regardless of the level of abstraction, MUST
be taught with many SPECIFIC EXAMPLES for each concept.
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To
teach a basic safety rule, such as not running across the street, it must be
taught in more than one place. This is required to make the safety rule
"generalize" to new places. It must be taught at the street at home,
at streets near the school, at the next-door neighbor's house, at streets
around grandmother's house, or Aunt Georgia's house, and when the child visits
a new, strange place. The number of different specific examples required will
vary from child to child. When I was little, I was taught turn-taking with a
board game called Parcheesi. If my turn-taking lessons had been limited to this
game they would not have generalized to other situations, such as taking turns
with my sister to use a sled or a toy. During all of these activities, I was told
I had to take turns. Turn-taking in conversation was also taught at the dining
room table. If I talked too long, Mother told me I had to give someone else a
turn to talk.
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Using
many specific examples should also be used for teaching number concepts. To
achieve generalization, a child should be taught counting, adding, and
subtracting, with many different kinds of objects. You can use cups, candies,
toy dinosaurs, pens, Matchbook cars, and other things to teach the abstract
idea that arithmetic applies to many things in the real world. For example 5 -
2 = 3 can be taught with five candies. If I eat 2 of them, I have 3 left. To
learn concepts such as less and more, or fractions, try using cups of water
filled to different levels, cutting up an apple, and cutting up cardboard
circles. If you only used cardboard circles, the child might think that the
concept of fractions applies only to cardboard circles. To teach bigger versus
smaller, use different-sized objects such as bottles, candies, shirts, blocks,
toy cars, and other things.
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More
Abstract Concepts
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To
move up a degree in the abstractness of concepts, I will give some examples for
teaching concepts such as "up" and "down." Again, you must
use many specific examples to teach these concepts.
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The
squirrel is "up" in the tree.
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The
stars are "up" in the sky.
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We
throw the ball "up" in the air.
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We
slide "down" the slide.
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We
dig a hole "down" in the ground.
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We
bend "down" to tie our shoes.
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To
fully comprehend the concept, the child needs to participate in the activity
while the parent or teacher says a short sentence containing the word
"up" or "down." Be sure to vocally emphasize the concept
word. If the child has difficulty with verbal language, combine the word with a
picture card that says "up" or "down."
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Recently
I was asked, "How did you comprehend the concept of rude behavior or good
table manners?" Concepts that relate to judgments or social expectations
are much more abstract for a child, yet they can still be taught in the same
way. When I did something that was bad table manners, such as waving my fork in
the air, Mother explained to me - very simply and without a lot of verbal
chatter - that it was bad table manners. "Temple, waving your fork in the
air is bad table manners." She used many naturally occurring teachable
moments, helping me connect my action to the concept "bad table
manners." She did this matter-of-factly and kept the message simple and
consistent. Learning many specific examples also worked when she taught me the
concept of rudeness. When I did something that was rude, such as belching or
cutting in line, Mother told me I was being rude. Gradually a "rude"
concept formed in my brain from the many specific examples.
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Reading Comprehension
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Many
children on the spectrum can decode and read, but they have problems with
comprehension. To start, focus on the very concrete facts, such as characters'
names, cities they visited, or activities they did, such as playing golf. This
is generally easier for the child to comprehend. Then move on to more abstract
concepts in a passage of literature. For example, if they read, "Jim ate
eggs and bacon" they may have difficulty answering the multiple-choice
question: "Did Jim eat breakfast, lunch, or dinner?" Teach the child
to break apart the question and scan his or her brain files for information
that may help with comprehension. For instance, I would search through the
files in my brain for pictures of meals. A picture of eggs with bacon is the
best match for breakfast compared to lunch and dinner pictures.
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These
more abstract concepts and associations don't develop quickly. The child will
need to add more and more information into his brain computer before he can be
successful with abstractions. This data comes from experiences, which is why
parents and teachers need to give the child lots and lots of opportunities for
repetitive practice on a concept or lesson. I would start to learn this sort of
concept only after a teacher had explained many different stories to me.
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Temple
Grandin "The Way I See It: A Personal Look at Autism &
Asperger's" (2011)
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rudnick Diagnostic exam do you have math anxiety?
Diagnostic
exam: do you have math anxiety?
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By
Paul Rudnick
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1.
When your first grader asks for help solving a Common Core math problem
involving subitizing and stable order, how do you respond?
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(a)
I strangle my child while shrieking, "This is why ... we ... bought ...
you that fancy computer, Liam.
(b)
I tell my child, "Go ask your mother. Your birth mother. I think she lives
in Canada."
(c)
I ask to see the equation, then discuss it with my child using nonsense terms.
Example: "Simply tri-dram the hexabop until the tetramint indoles."
If my child appears confused, I say, "I wish you were smarter."
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2.
If you need to divide a restaurant check by four and calculate the tip, do you:
(a)
Leave your wife's earrings on the table instead?
(b)
Hand the server a printed card reading, "I have math anxiety. Please add
an appropriate gratuity to my portion of the check. I don't care if you
overcharge me. I don't care."
(c)
Calmly hand the check to your husband and say, "Here. Justify your
existence."
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3.
When you watch a movie in which the main character rapidly scribbles long,
complex equations across a blackboard, what are you thinking?
(a)
I read somewhere that Russell Crowe used a hand double for that scene.
(b)
I bet that after they filmed this scene Eddie Redmayne fired his agent.
(c)
In real life, Benedict Cumberbatch can't remember his PIN number.
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4.
What is a hypotenuse?
(a)
A very graceful hypot.
(b)
An overweight chanteuse.
(c)
The French word for profound boredom.
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5.
How do you calculate your car's gas mileage?
(a)
By driving off a bridge.
(b)
I put my head on the hood and listen for the mileage fairy.
(c)
I ask Siri to do it, and then wait patiently for her to stop laughing and
calling me "a sad little man."
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6.
True or false: E=mc squared
Answer:
D-minus.
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7.
When was the last time you needed to do math?
(a)
Never, just like everyone else in the history of the entire world.
(b)
When I was measuring a wall for a bookcase and then decided that I'd rather
move.
(c)
I don't remember, because the last time I heard the words "subprime
interest rates," "the Dow," and "refinance," I blacked
out, and when I woke up everyone in the bank was dead.
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8.
Which would you rather do:
(a)
Use a slide rule to solve a trigonometry problem.
(b)
Use a slide rule as a rectal thermometer.
(c)
Give a slide rule to a math geek as a gift and say, "Finally, you have a
genital."
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9.
Who is the greatest mathematical genius of all time?
(a)
The person who invented the accountant.
(b)
Whoever realized that an abacus is just a decorative accent piece on an East
Hampton coffee table.
(c)
The "Sesame Street" character who, when asked to add two plus two,
replied, "Ask a Muppet who gives a damn."
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10.
What do you do when you travel to a foreign country and need to figure out the
currency?
(a)
I ask, "How much is that in real money?"
(b)
I remind every salesclerk who won the Second World War.
(c)
I hold my American Express card in front of my face and say, in a Pepe Le Pew
accent, "Oh, I the-e-enk ju understond vat I'm talking about, Senor Funny
Money."
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The
New Yorker, October 26, 2015
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791000 Tess of the D'Urbervilles
Tess of the D'Urbervilles
(Thomas Hardy - Title of
novel)
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A few weeks ago I told you
of the problems I had with the chap who comes twice a week and arranges nature
in our garden.? Fred.? And it was my inability to find him a
swan-necked hoe.? Only I had to make do
with a dutch hoe and lost faith
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It's terribly important
that Fred doesn't treat me as a complete nincompoop as regards gardens or he'll
go work for somebody ELSE.
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That is most slightly difficult.
Because I don't know a lot about nature and gardens and flowers. I know the
difference between a daisy and a banana.?
In between there's rather a gray area.?
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I don't see it and I must APPEAR
to Fred as though I'm familiar with these things.
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The most humiliating thing was
when Fred suddenly said to me, "Taters."
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Was he referring to Taters
Andronicus?
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"Taters. Where you dig
some potatoes for your wife.? She wanted
some potatoes.? And I'm busy.? Could you dig 'em?"
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"But of course,
Fred.? Naturally.? Like a flash.?
Of course I will."
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And I went and got a fork
and realized that I couldn't find any potatoes. I looked all over the ground
and looked up in the trees, but there were no potatoes at all.
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So, my daughter was in bed
with flu at the time, so I threw some gravel and said (whispering), "What
do potatoes look like?"
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And she pointed out where
they were.
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So I dug a trench along the
side of the potatoes.? About two feet
wide and about three feet down.
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And the lead tunneled sideways.
And I pulled the potatoes up downwards.?
And actually got them up unspoiled.
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And then Fred came and
looked at me and said, "What have you done? What you done?"
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"Somehow I've dug up
potatoes in a new way.? And it was just
waste ground just for these ferns."
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He said, "With the
Asparagus bed.
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And ever since, he's been
taciturn.? Not to say, terse.
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When things aren't going
well between us, he goes down to monosyllables.
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I say, "Good morning,
sir.? What a lovely lovely morning.? How nice to see you.? What a lovely day it is!
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And he says,
"Nope."
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And I know there's trouble.
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And yesterday Fred said to
me, "Dibber."
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And I thought it was a boy
scout thing. So I said, "Dib dib dib to you."
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And he looked at me levelly
for quite a while and then he said,?
"I want a dibber.? By
Friday."
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I said, "What
PRECISELY.? I know what a dibber is of
course. PRECISELY what did you want it for on Friday?"
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He said, "I'm putting
seeds in. Bulbs."
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I said, "Ah.? Right.?
Friday you shall have it."
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Rushed to the
dictionary.? Do you know what a dibber
is? A dibber is a fishing rod which is used when you lure the bait on the
surface."
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What on earth does he want
a fishing rod, which is clearly the simplest form of fishing rod there is.
2000
It's just a bamboo lumber. So
I got a long bamboo thing.? and thought
if he wants it for putting seeds in, presumably he'll stick it in the ground
and then have all his potato and tomato
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So, I got a lot of little
bags and nailed them round the bamboo pole.?
Because everybody wanted to put bulbs in.? and I thought there was a hundred-watt bulb
in the greenhouse.? There were two
sixty-watt bulbs in the shed.? So there
clearly was one to spare.
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So I nailed a slice of wood
across the bottom of the bamboo things.?
And screwed bayonet-fitting sockets there so that he could put his
sockets there.
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It looked lovely when I
finished.? I painted it all silver.? It looked like a comination between a maypole
and a pogo stick.
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And I'm going to give it to
Fred tomorrow and say, "You asked for a dibber, Fred.? There's your dibber.? I do hope.?
You see, he'll be sort of happy and talkative if it's a success.
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If not, well he'll be, like
that character in the Thomas Hardy novel, terse if the dibber fails.
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Frank Muir
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ask well I live with someone who has really smelly feet
Ask Well
I
live with someone who has really smelly feet. Why does this happen and what can
they do about it?
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Stinky
feet are normal, especially for people who sweat a lot as a result of exercise,
hot weather or shoes that don't breathe. Stepping up foot care might be all
someone needs to quell the smell. But that doesn't make it easy to bring up.
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"I
see it all the time," said Dr. Nicholas Butler, a podiatrist in Beachwood,
Ohio. "People will even be embarrassed to come see me about it."
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If
someone has bromhidrosis, the technical term for smelly feet and general body
odor, sweat and bacteria are probably to blame, he said. Sweat glands help
regulate body temperature, and we have more of them in places like armpits,
palms and the soles of the feet.
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But
sweat alone doesn't have an odor, Dr. Butler said. Bacteria feed off
perspiration, producing acids that can make feet smell like cheese, sulfur or
vinegar.
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If
someone's feet are moist all the time, even when they're not active, or if
they're seeing condensation on the floor when they walk barefoot, there might
be an underlying issue, Dr. Butler explained. For instance, plantar
hyperhidrosis, a condition where hyperactive sweat glands cause excessive foot
sweat, might be the culprit.
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"The
more you sweat, the wetter it is," said Dr. Alicia Canzanese, a podiatrist
in Glenside, Pa., and damp feet cause more than just bacteria buildup.
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Swampy
feet create an ideal environment for fungal infections, like athlete's foot or
toenail fungus. Some fungal infections cause odors, but many people who have
them might be dealing with fungus and bacteria. In those cases, treating the
fungal infection alone might not kill the smell, said Dr. Lori S. Weisenfeld, a
podiatrist in New York City.
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If
there aren't any symptoms of infection - like itching, red-ness, dryness or
cracked skin small adjustments should help, Dr. Butler said.
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KEEP
FEET AND TOENAILS CLEAN Many people, especially some children and teenagers,
Dr. Canzanese said, don't take the time to clean their feet. Dr. Antonopoulos
recommended scrubbing your feet at least daily, including between your toes.
Use fragrance-free soap, he said, because while scented soaps might mask the
odor, they're more likely to irritate the skin.
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Dirt,
bacteria and debris trapped under your toenails can make feet stink, Dr.
Canzanese said, so keep them trimmed. And dry your feet thoroughly before
putting on your socks, she said.
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TRY
AN ANTIPERSPIRANT OR DEODORANT Dr. Canzanese suggested swiping a combination
antiperspirant-deodorant stick directly onto the soles of the feet. Use a clear
solid that doesn't have any scents or dyes, she said, to reduce the risk of
irritation.
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Just
make sure to designate a stick that is only for feet. "You don't want to
accidentally use the foot one for your armpit, especially if you're prone to
athlete's foot," Dr. Canzanese said.
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CHANGE
SOCKS AND SHOES Wearing closed-toe shoes without socks "is a recipe for
getting very stinky feet," Dr. Canzanese said. And swapping out socks
during the day, along with wearing those made mostly of cotton or wool can
absorb moisture, she said.
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Rotating
shoes every other day can go a long way, too. "When you have the same pair
of shoes day in, day out, day after day - they don't really get time to dry in
between," said Dr. Jessica Milliman, a podiatrist in Ashtabula, Ohio. But
cycling through a few pairs, and opting for mesh-top or open-toe shoes that
promote airflow, can keep feet drier.
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DISINFECT
YOUR SHOES Dr. Milliman also recommended washing the shoes, spraying them with
a disinfectant like Lysol, and letting them dry, so that bacteria doesn't have
much opportunity to build up, she explained. In lieu of machine-washing, Dr.
Antonopoulos suggested replacing insoles every few months and noted that there
are odor-control options.
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If
someone still has smelly feet after a few weeks of meticulous foot care,
"I tell people, 'You need to go in to see your local podiatrist:" Dr.
Butler said.
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Whether
its excessive sweat accompanied by bacteria, fungus or something more, a doctor
can help. In the meantime, clean, dry feet are a positive step forward:
"We have a zone where we thrive best," Dr. Weisenfeld said.
"Same with bacteria."
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Amy
Jamieson
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When a bookstore in Baltimore issued a challenge to open an old safe, a
bus driver from Canada answered the call. Rick Amazzini is a
safecracking enthusiast and was challenged by friends, so Mr. Amazzini
raised $13,000 for airfare online and flew to Baltimore. He went to Red
Emma's bookstore. He went to work and, two days later, succeeded. The
only downside is what he discovered inside - nothing.
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While the settings were picturesque, the fact that almost all the fort scenes could be shot on the grounds of Goulding's meant that Ford could maximize production time; lengthy rides out into the valley were only necessary for action scenes. In this way, Ford knew he could complete the film under schedule in the astonishingly brief time of four weeks, only slightly more than the average television movie of today, and several weeks less than was usual for a Technicolor Western shot on location. There was no downtime, if the weather clouded up so a given scene couldn't be shot, Ben Johnson, a new addition to the stock company, could ride. "He liked to watch me ride a horse," remembered Johnson. "All these guys were better actors than I was but I could beat them all riding a horse."
Johnson was born on an Osage Indian reservation in Oklahoma in 1918, and had been working on a cattle ranch in 1939 when Howard Hughes bought some horses for his film The Outlaw. Johnson was making $40 a month at the time, and was hired to accompany the horses to Hollywood. "The first week I was on his payroll," Johnson remembered, "I made $175, as opposed to $40 a month. That's why I stayed in Hollywood."
By 1948, Johnson had doubled for Gary Cooper, Joel McCrea, and most of the Western stars of the time. Johnson was doubling Henry Fonda in Fort Apache when a couple of horses ran away with a wagon during a take. Johnson stepped out from behind the camera and stopped the runaway. Moved by the stuntman's unassuming courage, Ford got down off the camera parallel and went over to Johnson. "Ben, you'll be well rewarded for this." Johnson thought that he'd get some more stuntwork out of his good deed, but two weeks later, Ford called him into his office, handed him an envelope, and told him to have his lawyer look at it.
As the envelope wasn't sealed, Johnson pulled out the contents and discovered a personal services contract with Argosy Pictures. "The fifth line down [read] 'to $5,000 a week,' " remembered Johnson. "That's as far as I read. I got a pen off his desk and I signed "
Ford clearly liked the young man a great deal, and saw in him something of Harry Carey's ease and likability. Aside from his natural athletic gifts, Johnson was the token normal person in the Ford stock company. He wasn't a drunk, wasn't given to fits of temper, depression, or grandiosity, but did have a natural authority on screen.
Budgeted at $1.8 million, the picture required Ford to work seven days a week. The first two days of the schedule were given over to selecting locations, then he dove in. The first day, Wednesday, October 27, 1948, he shot action footage of Indians, stagecoaches, and Ben Johnson riding, and covered an astounding eight and a half pages of script. After that, he averaged between five and six pages of script a day (the average for a large-scale studio picture is two to three per day).
Scott Eyman "Print the Legend: The Life and Times of John Ford" (1999)
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Ford remained a good soldier, without a great deal of authorial ego, willing to step in and help out as his employers deemed necessary. Frank Borzage was as skilled an emotional director as anybody in Hollywood, but he was not regarded as being talented with action, so Ford was called in to shoot the scenes of the troop mobilization in 7th Heaven. Even an experienced action director was at the mercy of circumstance, however, as the powderman on the picture, hearing his cue - notes on a bugle - exploded a church steeple before he was supposed to. As it happened, the bugler was just warming up and the cameras weren't ready. Nobody was killed, but four cars were destroyed. Ford also helped out Raoul Walsh by shooting a sequence of the troops moving to the front in What Price Glory?
Scott Eyman "Print the Legend: The Life and Times of John Ford" (1999)
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grandin Behavior is one of the most widely discussed topics of all times by parents and professionals within the autism community
Behavior is one of the most widely discussed topics of all times by parents and professionals within the autism community. Parents want to know how to deal with their child's behaviors at home and in the community. Educators in the classroom find it difficult to manage the behavior outbursts that can accompany autism, and often resort to punitive tactics, which have little or no effect on an autistic child who is having a tantrum due to sensory overload or social misunderstandings, Understanding the source of "bad" behavior and teaching "good" behaviors is a challenge for neurotypical adults who have a different way of thinking and sensing their world than do children with ASD. It requires adults to rethink the way they interact with people with ASD, and most are ill-equipped to do so. Abstract concepts about morality and behavior do not work. The child has to learn by specific examples. When I said something rude about the appearance of a lady at a store, mother instantly corrected me and explained that commenting on how fat the person is was rude. I had to learn the concept of "rude behavior" by being corrected every time I did a rude behavior. Behavior has to be taught one SPECIFIC example at a time.
Call me old-fashioned, but adults in the world of my youth, the '50s and '60s, believed in a stricter social behavior code than do adults in today's world. For the child with ASD, that was a good thing. Social skills were taught as a matter of course. Behavior rules were straight-forward and strictly enforced, another positive strategy well aligned with the autism way of thinking. Consequences were uniformly imposed and expectations to behave were high. My mother and all the other mothers who lived in our neighborhood attended to children's behaviors, and placed value on teaching their children good manners and appropriate behaviors. To be a functioning member of society, these things were required, not optional, as they seem to be today. Kids today are allowed to do just about anything. The behavior of many five- or six-year-olds I've witnessed in stores or other public places is atrocious. The parent stands there, not knowing what to do, eventually giving in to the child's tantrum just to get him quiet.
Today's fast paced, techno-driven world is louder and busier than the world I grew up in. That, in and of itself, creates new challenges for the child with autism, whose sensory systems are usually impaired in one way or another. Our senses are bombarded on a daily basis, and this can render even typical children and adults exhausted by the end of the day. Imagine the effect it has on the sensory-sensitive systems of the child with autism, especially those with hyper-acute senses. They enter the world with a set of physical challenges that severely impair their ability to tolerate life, let alone learn within conventional environments. They have so much farther to go to be ready to learn than I did growing up in my time.
When figuring out how to handle behavior problems, one has to ask: Is it a sensory problem or a behavior problem? Accommodations are usually needed to help a child handle problems with sensory oversensitivity. Punishing sensory problems will just make the child's behavior worse. Sometimes behavior problems occur when an individual with ASD becomes frustrated due to slower mental processing, which in turn makes a quick response difficult. In kindergarten, I threw a huge tantrum because the teacher did not give me enough time to explain the mistakes I had made on an assignment. The task was to mark pictures of things that began with the letter B. I was marked wrong for marking a picture of a suitcase with the letter B. In our house, suitcases were called "bags."
Behavior never occurs in a vacuum; it is the end result of the interaction between the child and his or her environment, and that environment includes the people in it. To bring about positive change in the behavior of the child with ASD, adults need to first adjust their own behaviors. In the television series, Supernanny, Jo Frost makes such remarkable changes in the behavior of kids because she first helps parents get control of their own behaviors and learn basic behavior techniques. That's a valuable lesson for every parent, educator, or service provider, to take to heart. The behavior, good or bad, of a child with ASD, largely depends on you and your behavior. If you want to change the behavior of the child, first look at your own. You might be surprised by what you see.
Temple Grandin "The Way I See It: A Personal Look at Autism & Asperger's" (2011)
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In January of 1945, just one month after we married, I was invited to the White House for Franklin Roosevelt's annual birthday party. Many Hollywood personalities were invited and I was very proud to be included. Besides being a guest at the Birthday Ball, I was to appear in Dear Ruth which was to be performed especially for the President. The show was scheduled prior to the ball and the charter flight from Los Angeles to Washington was designed to arrive with time to spare. We were travelling on "Orchid Priority," top priority for any aircraft at the time.
But mother nature never heard of "Orchid Priority The weather turned bad and we were forced to land at Kansas City. We finally arrived at 2 a.m., long after the ball and, naturally, the play. With no talent, the play was cancelled. The real sadness for most of us was that the President had to leave for the Yalta Conference at I a.m. and we missed him.
Mrs. Roosevelt held an informal luncheon the following day. I was thrilled to be seated at a small table with her and Harry Truman and his daughter Margaret. As usual, I talked too much.
Mrs. Roosevelt seemed terribly interested in Holly-wood and my career to date. I went on at length about my new husband and Elaine and so many things. And I ended our conversation with, "You know what I'd love, Mrs. Roosevelt?"
"No. What is it?"
"A spoon. A spoon from the White House."
She laughed and discreetly handed me one right from the table. "I think I'd better spend some time with the rest of my guests," she said and went off to do just that. Mr. Truman and Margaret stayed with me and we had a very enjoyable chat about everything but politics. The Vice-President did confide that he felt the press were being unfair to him in the way they photographed him and quoted him out of context. I agreed, of course, but wanted to say that perhaps if Margaret and Bess dressed a little better, the press might be more kind. I've never seen any mother and daughter dressed in such bad taste. They were nice people, though, and I was pleased to see the press treat Mr. Truman a little better after he became President.
The White House photographer took a group picture later that afternoon and I treasured it for many years until a fire wiped out most pictures I'd kept of my career. In the picture, a space was left empty for the departed President. On one side was Mrs. Roosevelt. I stood on the other. Also in the photo were Myrna Loy, Gail Storm and Margaret O'Brien, at that point the darling of Hollywood and wherever else she happened to be. I think Mrs. Roosevelt wanted to adopt her.
But the most rewarding event during those hours at the White House came much later that afternoon. I found myself alone in one of the White House rooms with Mrs. Roosevelt. I don't know why we ended up that way but we did. And there were two things she told me which always seem to come to mind when I think about the Washington trip.
Mrs. Roosevelt said to me, "I want you to know, Miss Lake, that I was very happy to give you that spoon. I was happy because you asked me for it. Most people wouldn't bother asking. They would take them and walk out." I wish my mother could have heard that.
And then the nation's First Lady turned very solemn and gazed through the window onto the garden. I didn't dare interrupt her thoughts although I started to wonder if that wouldn't be what she was expecting me to do. She finally broke the silence by getting up and walking across the room. She stopped in front of a lovely cabinet and slowly perused the items behind the glass. Then she turned to me.
"The President is ill, you know." She said it so flatly, so without emotion or tone to draw emotion from me. I said nothing.
"The President has cancer of the prostate gland. He'll be operated on when he returns."
I sat there wishing desperately she hadn't told me that. It would have been bad enough if she'd been the wife of a dear friend. But she was talking about the President, a man as familiar to everyone as their closest friend.
"I don't know what to say," I said. "I'm sorry. I mean I. . .
"And I don't know why I've told you this," Mrs. Roosevelt said with a smile. "I'm the one to be sorry. I suppose we all need to tell these things to someone. I chose you for no reason. No one knows of this except his physician and a few close advisers. Please respect my confidence."
"Yes, of course, Mrs. Roosevelt. Of course."
The President returned from Yalta and I waited day by day to read of him entering the hospital for the surgery. I suppose he wanted to but never got around to it in the press of his schedule. It all became meaningless on April 22 when he died of the cerebral hemorrhage in Warm Springs, Georgia. His death brought to me a strange and childish sense of importance. I never repeated what Mrs. Roosevelt told me. Never. I don't know why.
Veronica Lake, "Veronica: The Autobiography of Veronica Lake" 1969)
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Ask Well Nasal sprays help with my seasonal allergies
Nasal sprays help with my seasonal allergies, but I've heard they can be addictive. Is that true? And what should I do if I think I'm hooked?
It's an issue that has been joked about on social media and on comedy shows like "Saturday Night Live" and "Family Guy": Once you start using certain nasal sprays, it's challenging to stop.
Some active ingredients can indeed create extra stuffiness, causing "the compulsion to use it again and again for relief," said Dr. Edward McCoul, an ear, nose and throat doctor at Ochsner Health in New Orleans.
Dr. McCoul said that an estimated 9 percent of people visiting E.N.T. physicians have what is called rhinitis medicamentosa, or "rebound congestion" - meaning that their sinuses become even stuffier than they were before using the sprays.
The resulting repeated need for nasal spray isn't technically considered an addiction, said Dr. Jonathan Bernstein, an allergist and immunologist in Cincinnati. The spray would need to change a person's brain chemistry to fit the official definition.
But the physical dependence is a real phenomenon. When the blood vessels in your nose get too accustomed to certain sprays, you can wind up feeling as though you couldn't breathe without them.
"It's such a slippery slope: said Dr. Lily Pien, a Cleveland Clinic allergist and immunologist.
Most habit-forming sprays have a recommended limit of two sprays per day for up to three days. Any more, and you run the risk of rebound congestion. The sprays to watch out for are the ones categorized as nasal decongestants, which contain active ingredients like oxymetazoline (Afrin, Sinex) and phenylephrine (Neo-Synephrine), Dr. McCoul said.
Decongestant sprays temporarily restrict the blood flow in your nasal passages, shrinking your blood vessels so the air has more room to circulate. If your blood vessels get too accustomed to these drugs, they can swell up as soon as you stop using them, making for narrower airways.
Because of that, decongestant sprays are best for short-term use, Dr. McCoul said. "The common cold is the ideal situation for nasal decongestant sprays: he said. "After a few days, the cold is naturally going to get better."
If you're stuffed up for more than three consecutive days - say, during a bad allergy season - experts have good news : Not all nasal sprays carry the risk of rebound congestion.
STEROID SPRAYS Sprays that contain steroids like mometasone (Nasonex) or fluticasone (Flonase) are safer alternatives for treating long-lasting congestion, Dr. Pien said, because they won't cause rebound.
As with decongestants, steroid sprays reduce nasal inflammation, Dr. McCoul said, but they won't work as quickly. Steroid sprays can sometimes take up to a month of once-daily use to work.
ANTIHISTAMINE SPRAYS Sprays that contain the antihistamine azelastine (Astepro) are also safe, Dr. Pien said. They block histamine receptors linked to itching, sneezing and watery eyes.
Antihistamine sprays usually clear allergy symptoms more quickly than steroid sprays, Dr. McCoul said. But if your nose is more stuffy than runny, steroid sprays might be best, since they're better at reducing inflammation. Combining steroid and antihistamine sprays is also safe.
SALINE SPRAYS Sprays that contain saline (usually just salt and water) are safe and medication-free, Dr. McCoul said. They can reduce dryness and help clear nasal passages of particles or germs that cause inflammation.
But if congestion is an every-day problem, it's a good idea to see an allergist, said Dr. Richard Lockey, an allergist and immunologist at the University of South Florida. And you should always ask your doctor before using any over-the-counter medications, Dr. Bernstein said.
If you have been using decongestant sprays for more than three days and feel as if you can't stop, the experts agreed it's time to get medical help.
Using these sprays for too long can damage your septum, the cartilage that divides your nostrils, Dr. Bernstein said.
Doctors might prescribe an oral steroid, which can help reduce swelling as you wean off decongestant sprays. Some also suggest alternating decongestant sprays with steroid sprays as you gradually reduce your dependence on the decongestants.
Caroline Hopkins
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The saying says neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night can keep U.S. postal carriers from their appointed rounds. But in one Austin, Texas, neighborhood, mail delivery is suspended by a hawk. The bird dive-bombs mail carriers and anybody else in Travis Heights. A biologist says it's likely defending hatchlings. So for the next few weeks, residents are being asked to collect their mail at the local post office.
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ny rudnick Preaching-Team Tips For Surefire Sermons
Preaching-Team Tips For Surefire Sermons by Paul Rudnick
With access to the most charismatic pastors and snappiest sermons via YouTube and pod-casts, churchgoers' standards are rising.... Full texts and outlines of sermons are available on websites like Sermon Central and Logos, ostensibly for reference and inspiration.... Some larger churches ... employ in-house "preaching teams" that collaborate on sermon production. ¡ªThe Times, July 7, 2021.
1. DO NOT BEGIN ANY SERMON WITH THE FOLLOWING LINES: - "Yesterday morning, while I was sitting on the toilet ..." - "Some of you may have seen the headline 'Local Clergyman Found Naked and Inebriated in Walmart Linens Aisle' ..." - "What a great-looking crowd! Anyone in a relationship? With Jehovah?" - "A priest, a rabbi, and the man they both crave walk into a bar ..."
2. PHRASES THAT WILL APPEAL TO YOUNGER PARISHIONERS: - "Texting¡ªit's like praying with your thumbs, dude." - "My pronouns are 'thou', 'thy,' and 'let's get this hip-hop Mass started, bitches!' " - "The Sistine Chapel is God's selfie." (Make mind-blown hand gesture and sound effect.) - "Let's talk about climate change. It's what happens when we do meth."
3. REACHING OUT TO WOMEN: - "Mary¡ªshe wasn't just someone's mom." - "Moses¡ªam I right, ladies?" - "Is mutually satisfying sex an important part of a godly marriage? Let's ask Solomon's two-hundred-and-seventeenth wife, Amanda of Goshen." - And, just like that, Eve was blamed for wanting to pursue her education."
4. DEALING WITH SECULAR TOPICS: - "Would I endorse a political candidate? You bet I would - if his name was Junior Senator Jesus Christ, from the great state of Worship." - "I hear a lot of talk about queer people. Well, God loves everyone. Even Marjorie Harbett's husband and that young fellow he calls his associate car washer." - "When I hear the words 'women's reproductive freedom,' do you know what I think? I think, That's a lovely blouse, Helen Darrells! Is it new?"
5. LARGER THEMES (SUGGESTED TITLES): - Is Murder a Mortal Sin? Even at the Holidays? - What Does God Mean by Salvation? Don't Any of You Have Google? - Hugging: Does It Lead to My Resignation? - World Peace: Is It Just Something Jews Yell to Steal Your Parking Space? - Forgiveness: Even Your Dry Cleaner?
6. PRODUCT PLACEMENT: - "Many people ask, 'Can I ever atone? For not buying a 2022 Chevy Equinox?' " - "Do I believe in miracles? Of course! Especially when I have persistent diarrhea and there's Imodium Multi-Symptom Relief!" - "Why did the Lord make war and suffering? So we'd appreciate Apple-bee's Chicken Fajita Rollups!"
7. 100%-GUARANTEED PUNCH LINES: - "Oops, God did it again!" - "That's what the Almighty said!" - "Is that a hymnal in your pocket, or are you just really excited about the story of Ruth?" - "Oy vey, Sister Matilde!"
8. SNAPPY SAYINGS: - "Bless your heart - especially in my body after your car accident!" - "Can I get an amen? And a raise? I'm kidding!" - "Let us pray - for me to get a raise! I'm still kidding!" - "You may kiss the bride - and my ass, if I don't get a raise! I'll be here all week - unless I don't get that raise!" ¨C "May God be with you - because I'm outta here, you cheap bastards!".
FEBRUARY 7, 2022
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Ford remained a good soldier, without a great deal of authorial ego, willing to step in and help out as his employers deemed necessary. Frank Borzage was as skilled an emotional director as anybody in Hollywood, but he was not regarded as being talented with action, so Ford was called in to shoot the scenes of the troop mobilization in 7th Heaven. Even an experienced action director was at the mercy of circumstance, however, as the powderman on the picture, hearing his cue - notes on a bugle - exploded a church steeple before he was supposed to. As it happened, the bugler was just warming up and the cameras weren't ready. Nobody was killed, but four cars were destroyed. Ford also helped out Raoul Walsh by shooting a sequence of the troops moving to the front in What Price Glory?
Scott Eyman "Print the Legend: The Life and Times of John Ford" (1999)
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grandin Autism & Religion S
Autism & Religion
Teach Goodness
Any parents share with me their desire to educate their child with autism or Asperger's about the religion practiced by the rest of their family. Some wonder if their child is capable of understanding the concept of God, or a higher power, of being spiritual, or even understanding the basic messages of the Bible or other religious texts.
I have learned, over the years, that there is a whole upper layer of abstract thought mixed with emotion that I do not have. Thoughts and emotions are separated in my mind; they don't intermingle and affect one another. Thinking is concrete - it happens in pictures in my mind. Therefore, for me, inspirational matters had no meaning, except for the very concrete aspects of them taught to me.
I had a proper religious upbringing, though. My family attended the Episcopalian church every Sunday. These weekly outings held little value for me, and I was not interested in what went on. The scratchy petticoats I had to wear to church were awful; in fact, the worst thing about church was the Sunday-best clothes. Sunday school was boring to me and I usually spent the entire class filling in the Os and Ps in the church program.
Concrete teachings were what I understood. For instance, our Christmas service made a lasting impression on me that I retain to this day. Each Christmas, every child in the congregation had to take one of their good toys and give it to a poor child. One year, I offered a yo-yo and Mother told me that I had to give a better present. At the Christmas service, the minister stood next to the manger, full donated toys, and said, "It is better to give than to receive." This kind of concrete learning I understood.
The autistic/Asperger's mind tends to dwell on negatives, and this something parents and professionals should be aware of and find ways to counteract. It is beneficial for a young autistic or Asperger's child to be schooled with positive teachings. One way to do this is through religious training. Helping a child understand what to do, in concrete ways, demonstrating actions that are giving and positive and helpful to others, can counterbalance this tendency toward negative thinking. If a child asks about something negative, for instance, like stoning as it's mentioned in the Bible, I would recommend parents telling the child that in modern times, most people no longer do that. Keep it concrete and simple.
A nice, positive approach for a Christian upbringing would be to give a child one of the WWJD - "What Would Jesus Do?" necklaces or key chains. Then teach the child concrete examples of what Jesus did, or would do, in various situations. For instance, Jesus would not cheat at games. He would not lie, or steal another child's toys. When I was little, I stole a toy fire engine from another child and Mother made me give it back. Moral upbringing must be concrete. A good person is considerate of others. One example I remember from my childhood was being told, by a very sleepy mother, that asking her to open a stuck glue bottle while she was sleeping was not being considerate. Fair play and good sportsmanship are important to teach. Jesus would play fairly and would not be a poor loser. He would not scream and rant if he lost a game. It is unfortunate that in our society today, so many sports heroes behave badly on television and there are no consequences for their actions. It teaches a wrong moral lesson for a child with autism or Asperger's (or any child) to see a famous basketball player not being punished for kicking a TV cameraman. If a child views things like this, it is important that a parent tell the child that Jesus would never do that.
Teach your child love and kindness in a concrete manner, with very specific examples. For instance, an example of kindness would be bringing flowers to an elderly lady in a nursing home. There are hundreds of ways parents can share the real essence of their faith with their child with autism or Asperger's, through daily demonstrations of the goodness that is at the foundation of their religion. This is more important, and will help the child in the future more than will learning to recite passages of text, or trying to teach them higher-level concepts that they will have difficulty understanding.
Temple Grandin "The Way I See It: A Personal Look at Autism & Asperger's" (2011)
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ny Things Vaccinated People Still Should Not Do
Things Vaccinated People Still Should Not Do By Eli Grober
(Fully vaccinated people can visit with other fully vaccinated people indoors . . . and refrain from quarantine and testing following a known covid-19 exposure if the vaccinated person asymptomatic. - Dr. Rochelle Walensky, director of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.)
Here at the C.D.C., we have announced a new set of public-recommendations for people who are fully vaccinated against covid-19. However, there are a number of things that vaccinated people are still not allowed to do. Please familiarize yourself with this list.
REPLY ALL Once you are fully vaccinated, you are still not allowed to reply all to an e-mail that was clearly not meant to solicit such a reply. Similarly, getting the vaccine does not give you the green light to cc two hundred people on an e-mail. Better to bcc them.
Stay Unmuted During Group Zooms Just because you're fully vaccinated doesn't mean that everyone wants to hear all the sniffing and typing and fidgeting you do while in a Zoom meeting. Mute yourself, whether you've got the shot or not.
Walk in the Middle of a Busy Sidewalk Moderna, Pfizer, Johnson &Johnson - none of these will prevent other people from getting really annoyed that you won't stay on your side of the pavement.
Not Order Fries and Then Eat Your Friends' Fries Off Their Plates No kind of vaccine will ever make it O.K. to do this. Even if you're vaccinated and eating outdoors, masked and distanced, just order your own damn fries.
Play Devil's Advocate You may be protected against coviD-19, but you're not protected against looking like a jerk. Just admit that you like being disagreeable, and then keep the rest to yourself.
Eat Hot Dogs Horizontally, As if They're Corn on the Cob Some people like to eat their hot dogs in this fashion. This is super weird, and, no matter how vaccinated you are, you are not allowed to do it.
Use Both Armrests on a Plane or a Train Just because it's safe for you to travel again doesn't mean that you're the only one travelling. Are both of your elbows really that tired?
Get On the Subway Before Letting Riders Off You have never been and are still not allowed to do this. You may have the antibodies, but you don't get to be anti everyone else's body.
Suddenly Stop Walking Up a Flight of Stairs to Look at Your Phone Like developing a vaccine, going up stairs is an activity that demands your full attention. You may be immune to the novel coronavirus, but you're certainly not immune to a person behind you walking straight into your butt. Get to the top of the stairs, then look at your phone, and then be grateful for modern medicine.
Suggest That You and Your Friends Split the Bill, Even Though You Ordered a Steak and Everyone Else Just Got Drinks Inoculation doesn't stop this from being wrong. In fact, doing this might give you COVID. The data isn't in yet.
This list will be updated regularly based on community-spread levels of SARS-CoV-2, and also on community-spread levels of doing really annoying things.
THE NEW YORKER, MARCH 29, 2021
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