Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
What struck me in this post by the parent was the use of the word
'irresponsible'.
This is something that is internalised by parents..
My children are now 17 and 21. All those years of unschooling
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dola dasgupta-banerji
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Take the word apart.? Spread the word out on the floor.? :-)
Irresponsibility.
Responsibility
Respond
Who are you answerable to?? Who is this person to whom you're feeling a responsibility??
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Sandra, I think that you do a beautiful job of writing about things philosophically and I am so grateful for it. Thank you for doing what you do so eloquently and in such a thought provoking way - I
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
On Mon, Aug 21, 2023 at 07:45 PM, Marijah wrote:
People have processes. Deciding to unschool and carrying it out is a continual process. You allude to a process of your own around unschooling chores
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
I see now. I feel like this response offered the clarity I was lacking as I felt I had responded with exactly what you had originally asked for and then you had picked it apart. This, your true desire
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Look for mathematics without numbers.
Look for writing without pen and paper.
Whatever looks schoolish to you (whether you're thinking it's right, or wrong that doesn't matter) turn away from it for
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
This is about ANY hurdles, and about things seeming obvious.
It's about why people are defensive, partly, too.
I have lifted it from a facebook discussion (Radical Unschooling Info) and it's 11
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Kids looking for online friends
I don't think there's a directory.
I hope people with current younger kids will come to help with current ideas.
Realities have changed since my kids were young, but mine played online with locals,
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
I see and I know you have stated before that you do not mean to make things personal but rather about the principles or ideas. I am trying to keep that in mind. Your site is almost always my first go
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Maybe, but mostly I was hoping the question could be discussed here as a philosophical question, in ways that could help the mom see past that blind spot or blockage she's having.
Explaining how your
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
-=-Perhaps I am missing what it is you are objecting to?-=-
I thought a recommendation to read a book by someone who didn't start
off solidly with unschooling was a side path.
It's true I haven't
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
I realized I did want to clarify one last bit - I didn¡¯t recommend anything from your extensive website only because I assumed the original poster would have already read everything pertaining to
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Don't take things personally. It's about the ideas, not about the people.
-=-I won¡¯t engage anymore with you in this email thread or possibly at
all in the future as I feel very confused and that
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Sandra, I am a tad confused too. In many areas of my life I find it helpful
to read others' experiences and how they changed their own views.
Even if it is another case of ",you have to kiss a lot of
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Vicki Dennis
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
I did not read that book in order to decide NOT to do math with my kids. I read that book - along with your book, almost the entirety of your website and Joyce¡¯s and countless others, and many
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
-=-- I was just trying to summarize it in a way so people could get
the gist, but definitely intended for them to go and read it
themselves.-=-
I would rather people NOT go and read a book that you
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Marija, I really enjoyed your post. Especially your self examination about
the correctness if kids spending pocket money on food treats.
Miji. Might have to add Sue Elvis book to my toppling over "to
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Vicki Dennis
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
Maybe I¡¯m misunderstanding you but I was saying that what Sue Elvia wrote in her book I found helpful - I was just trying to summarize it in a way so people could get the gist, but definitely
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Marijah
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
A big part of deschooling, and a big benefit of unschooling is the healing of childhood memories and effects that the parents can experience.? If parents want to hang on to their childhoods and work
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: The last hurdle (one person's last hurdle)
So...
That's a bad example, someone who held on to math and regretted it.
It's like saying "If you follow this fork in the path, you'll come to brambles and a cliff."? So the better advice is NOT
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Sandra Dodd
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