Re: Looking for a story
#partnership
Compassion and accountability aren't mutually exclusive.? We've been instilled with fear that if we don't "correct" our child's inappropriate behavior (whatever that is) we're somehow condoning it.?
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jo benincasa
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Re: Looking for a story
#partnership
Ah, I remember that!! I will try to look for it but I know exactly the ¡°imagine if¡± story perspective?you were talking about and it was very impactful for me as well. It may have been with
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Marijah
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Re: Looking for a story
#partnership
I found this: One of my epiphanies as a parent actually came when I realized I was not being as good a friend to my own kids as I was to my adult friends. Changing that made a world of difference.
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Looking for a story
#partnership
I like a lot of the ideas in that book.? Some unschoolers don't like it.? But she's asking about some things in unschooling discussions. Karen, I looked for something Pam Sorooshian wrote about not
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Looking for a story
#partnership
Might it have been in the book "How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk", Faber & Mazlish? I haven't re-read that recently, but this story sounds like the kind of thing that
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Jennifer Moore
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Looking for a story
#partnership
Hi! I am hoping someone can help me find where I read a bit about respect or being your child¡¯s partner. I remember a story or example that went something like this - let¡¯s say your child came
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Karen Whitehead
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Parenting perspective from our almost adult teenager
At her work yesterday as a customer service representative,??my 17 y.o. Daughter engaged?in a good?conversation among 30 and 40 y.o. adults?regarding parenting skills they grew up with. As a
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Fundayeveryday
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
Come on, don't leave me as the only one who has a story of progression through interests in life that's worth telling!? Share up! I'm hoping to create a bigger picture of interests leading to jobs to
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
Reading about Larkin's business has been useful for me as well.? My 12 year old has asked to start selling her digital art, so I need to help her get going with that. We bought her an iPad Pro and
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Katie Robles
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
wrote: I love using term "nourishing" about this group. I need to move that up in my vocabulary to replace inspiring or informative. Those things too but what makes it special is consistent nurturing.
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Vicki Dennis
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
Sandra wrote: I like this! It reminds me of a thing I sometimes say about "steering by a compass rather than by a map". Heading towards something, and even if I never actually get where I thought I
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Jennifer Moore
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
I am grateful for this group. I am in the process of deschooling (since March of 2020) and find these offerings incredibly nourishing to the process. Thank you!
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Julia Norcross
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
Roya is one of my grown-up unschooled kids. She runs a successful series of online bazaars and Larkin has been one of her vendors. Roya offers one or two young people the chance to participate in the
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Pam Sorooshian
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Re: small moments
I can't find my writing that's referenced, but when I went looking for it, I did find this: https://sandradodd.com/moment Maya, I DID quote you, on my site. If you want me to add your last name, I
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: small moments
I've stirred up an old post, because I went to see what Maya had written in years past.? Her writing is good, and sure enough, I found something really thoughtful and useful and...? I left a note to
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
Thanks, Vicki! Larkin is 16 now. I wear very little jewelry but keep thinking I'm going to claim one of Larkin's pieces as my own, but then each piece is my new favorite so I haven't committed to one
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hamsder clan
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
I wanted to let that come back in again, because those moments are kind of wonderful.? There are probably some of the adult/parent readers here with similar "comings together," though, too.? I've
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Sandra Dodd
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
My now adult always unschooled kid has at various times pursued hobbies of sewing, beading, painting, costumes, ceramics, sculpture, glasswork, guitar, and martial arts.? She now has a full-time job
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mayalass@...
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
My husband and I are both science/math geeks, and he is a computer programmer so Larkin has lots of in-house tech support. :) The website is on squarespace, so was actually really easy to throw
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hamsder clan
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Re: Learning from hobbies; moving to jobs
WOAH! How stunning!! They are so talented. Everything about that picture is gorgeous! I would love a piece like that as part of a chain to hang in my window with sun catchers! > > >> >> >> >> >> > >
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Marijah
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