Eye contact¡ªmany reasons for lack of it, but as parents we may have to encourage buggy manufacturers to design them with the baby facing the mother, at least up to the first year.
This was a comment more than a question, but it's a good point. Part of the way babies learn has to do with eye contact. Many mothers involved in "alternative methods" use slings instead of strollers or buggies, or tend to carry the babies on their hips and carry their other things in the stroller.
Brits were using strollers way more than any Americans I had ever seen use them, and for longer, I noticed as far back as my first visit in the late 1970s, when I saw a car bump a stroller gently in a crosswalk, and the mom just shouted at the driver and waved her arm, as she continued along.? Big kids, too, four or five, were in strollers. :-)
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What do you think about eye contact?? Marty's and Kirby's families have strollers where the seat can be facing in our out.? I think toddlers would rather look OUT at where they're going (mine did) than to be riding backwards and looking at the mom, but infants... maybe seeing the mom would be a comfort.? Mind slept in the stroller, if we went very far.? I would "walk them to sleep" sometimes, in a stroller or backpack.? The backpack had no eye contact, but they could feel me or their dad breathing, and probably could feel heartbeat.? Slings, same, for sure.
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The question was left after a conference in London, in 2009.
I had left everyone a link to the page where responses to overflow or later questions would be.
Sandra Dodd