Hi Thomas
With all your wishes it sounds like one of the newer Yaesu rigs is what you're looking for when it comes to CW. I used to have a FTDX101D. Great rig and all the CW-settings were in a seperate menu. while all the other modes were crammed in one page. I think this is a hint what group of users the designers made it for :-) I hated the clicking of the relays even with semi break-in, but also realised I didn't really use the bandscopes, so I bought (downgraded?) an Elecraft K3s which is also a fantastic CW-rig, but uses pin-diodes, so it's quiet. Side-effect is also that it is less power hungry 1A rec /22A TX, versus? 4A rec /24A TX.
The X60 is suggested to be a follow-up of the IC7851, which here in EU is close to €10000, so that would not make it a budget-rig. But if ICOM is smart, they do the same thing as Yaesu did with the FTDX101 line, develop less-specced spin-offs as Yaesu did with the FTDX10 and FT710.
73, Martin PE1EEC/PE6X
Martin, PE1EEC/PE6X/JL1EFV