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Re: How is everyone?
Wow! SO much going on in Mongerland. I send you strength Therese so you can make your Dad's days happy and easy; and to Jenny that you can get a easy solution for your folks in going to a better place for them. Well, the Land of the Hotz has been interesting. Covid is more something I encounter in media rather than locally experiencing. I would have to be in one of the safest places on the planet right now. The cost is the locals complacency, and that our vulnerable indigenous peoples see it as a white fella disease & are thus immune. Instead, I live through a crime wave of stolen cars, home invasions and domestic violence. There is currently a civil war between disaffected Aborigines and? Australian Trumpster-like rednecks. My local feed tells me what a wonderful leader he is, along with our Australian conservative leaders & that a curfew, the army, or any other heavy handed method to beat the Aborigines are the best option. It is an unpleasant town in so many ways. Work is ridiculously busy and depressing. I send much of my time endorsing the use of all the aquifers to grow hay or hemp - to the level that shall kill all life on the surface, and turn the areas into a Sahara desert analogy. Then there is the onshore gas fracking I am forced to endorse, and so on & so on. The mandate I work under is so strict that I am forced to say yes all too often. It is exhausting. It goes completely contrary to my scientific & conservation training. The hectic level is mad & I would work at the same level as our medical staff in hospitals during these times. I easy do the workload of 3-4 people. I feel overwhelmed, and there is nothing to stop it. Our whole group is like this, and with our state government broke, there is definitely no possibility of extra staff - and if so, they are always zoologists. This is the other killer, the higher management are quite happy for the flora section to be made incompetent from overwork, which highlights their contempt of our skills. My manager is now a gaslighting sh!t. We are going through a restructure, and his snide emails, his over-eager? announcing of any petty error I do, and the appalling comments about my tiny unit during the review section of the restructure should have been destroying, but I do have that Battle of Britain stoicism and bravado that shows he hasn't affected me at all (I am angry more than upset or hurt). Our executive are fully aware (my manager loves to cc them into everything) & I think once he is forced to retire (as a result of the restructure), then there should be a relief. My only fear is my new manager may be a mini-Me of my current one. All new executive positions are going to be from within our division & the pool of potentials is not filling my heart with joy. I'm counting the 9.5 years till I can retire. Mr Boof the cat has been ill of late. He had dental surgery about 5 weeks ago & since then he has suffered from bowel extremes. A number of visits & over night stays at the vet hospital & currently a new diet hopefully shall eventually put him right. Knitting hasn't been fun either. Two good knitting friends that I would hang out with in July were diagnosed with breast cancer in August. Both have had operations & the prognosis is very encouraging with just radiation therapy. The knitting crew are making a blanket for each. I am on the last of 8 squares & of course, my enthusiasm is low, but that bullheaded again means I shall have the last done this weekend. I too have been having additional skin cancer treatments - face, arms & upper chest. Some have been precursor melanomas, so we caught them in time, but that too isn't really making me a happy bunny. Not an uplifting post, I fear. All this "stuff" means I barely post on FB, and I come home exhausted. Regularly Saturdays are spent sleeping to try & recover my mental strength to be bright for Monday. The importance for me, is the outside world contact: I may be a lurker on here too often, but the stories are very important to me. Same too with items on social media - it stops me making what I am experiencing into a catastrophe & more into a tough time right now, but stay with it & it shall improve.
On Wednesday, September 16, 2020, 11:12:24 AM GMT+9:30, jacqui whittemore <jackiechris.is@...> wrote:
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. You have had far too full a plate as well! I will be sending strength and love.? The insight timer is great - I have been using it to find meditations to do with Marguerite in the car when she gets stuck in an overwound mode.? Meditation for fidgety skeptics is really really good, esp as an audiobook because the authors narrate it. The second author is Jeff Warren, who shares some really amazing meditations he has written.? Sending lovingkindness to Trump was anathema to me, as well. (May you be free of suffering. May you be at peace. May you be happy. ) However, Marguerite made me see my thinking was wrong.? She had The Great Idea that we could send a letter to Santa for Bumble, and Bumble would make a special present for Trump. This would make him happy and - presto - he would suddenly be good. ?Initially, I recoiled as the last thing we need is him to get more of what seems to bring him joy (hate, discord, violence, etc). However, it isn¡¯t that simple.? If there are no bad babies and children have to be taught hate, joy over suffering is false joy because it is against humanity¡¯s core nature. Thus, wishing someone awful to have peace and happiness is wishing for healing. Simply put, it is wishing for the Grinch¡¯s heart to grow 3 sizes, not for him to pitch Cindy Lou Who¡¯s tree off a cliff.? Imagine how different the world could be if Trump were to have true peace - if everyone laden down by hate did. People are redeemed every day - usually because someone left a door open to a new path. ?Even if Trump isn¡¯t, cultivating that intention and desire for healing of all can only help me be less of a jerk to those I might encounter in need of an open gate (including myself). Even knowing that, it is really hard work some days... - Jacqueline? On Sep 15, 2020, at 8:24 PM, Therese Shere <therese.shere@...> wrote:
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