Interesting. I'm really sorry that was one of the reasons.?
On Wed, Apr 6, 2022 at 12:59 PM David E. Ford Jr. < ottoemezz@...> wrote: since matte introduced the whole question of moral peculiarities of this particular exchange, i am going to share something?with total honesty. but, i want to make clear that i am doing this only to provide an opportunity for us to examine some of the habitual ways we think and talk about the world. there are no bad feelings underpinning this and i harbor none for anyone?about anything. having said that, the reason that you never met becca, who was my partner for nearly five years, is because i know the ways in which you sometimes talk about women's bodies and i also know something of the lifetime of insecurities she's had around her own body and the devastating repercussions that can have.
On Wed, Apr 6, 2022 at 6:29 PM David E. Ford Jr. < ottoemezz@...> wrote: the irony of someone?talking about a woman "owning" or having confidence in their weight/body image in the middle of this particular thread is perhaps the choicest bit for me
On Tue, Apr 5, 2022 at 1:27 AM David Doga < oyeguey@...> wrote:
I think some girls are cuter with a little weight and girls that own it? , have confidence that I find sexy too.
Just my thoughts.?
I mean, I consider you all my 'sounding board.' I can tell you: "I'm attracted to black people more than Asian people." I wouldn't tell this to other people.
One positive way to think of it...for many years...decades....like this was in "One Floor" I've obsessed over the pathway for young, pretty people to become fat and gross (to me personally). I think I can look at a pretty 20 year old and go...'Hmmh, how
will she probably look when she is 40 or 50. Yeah, probably like that. Gross."
Now I'm bald and pretty gross. Even a little fat. And I'm ok with that. It's reality.
I'm now able to look at a woman like this, my boss, and go, "You know, I can picture
?(Jill Wiseman) thin and hot like 20 years ago." I told Sandra that almost verbatim because she is working at my school as well.?
My idea of the 'haunted house strip club,' as David Ford saw, isn't totally true. I don't really believe it would be viable. I find it funny. But at its heart I think I would pay money for that if society allowed me to.
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On Mon, Apr 4, 2022 at 1:06 PM Todd Rhoads < todd@...> wrote:
Are you just now starting to come to terms with and awakening to the often transgressive and parasocial musings of Dan buck? At least he's pretty honest about that kind of thing. I think you're also asking how self-aware he is in that more offensive
formulations, I think, usually somewhat. Of course also somewhat sociopathic, but also somewhat self-aware. Irony? Probably less of that, than just some raw honesty; could definitely use a lot more of a desire and design to try to push back against some of
our most base impulses and opinions. But then, that would be a lot less interesting, then, wouldn't it.?
On Mon, Apr 4, 2022, 9:56 AM Matte < matte@...> wrote:
I know that I’m at the periphery of this group. So I’m responding here fully aware that I'm at risk of antagonizing people, exposing that I am oblivious to the spirit of this group,? and?inviting ostracism.
But should I read messages like these as an ironic satire of a particular type of middle-aged man? Or is this sincere?
You know, maybe if I was single, I'd be ok dating a 25 year old who is fat, but hot.
There's a woman at my school who is 28 and I really thought she was fat because she had a baby. Cute, hot, friendly, loving. Nope. No baby. Just fat. Not huge. But I'd be ok with that.
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