I'm a new HAM and getting ready to purchase an FT-60R and I'm glad to have found this group.? I'm looking for advice in three areas: 1 - programming software, 2 - batteries and 3 - speaker/mic vs. headset

1 - Regarding programming software, am I better off going without any entirely, using the free CHIRPS or using RTS Systems and why?? Because this is all new to me, I'm not sure what all I will want to program other than the local repeaters and channels plus I'm planning to join the ARES group and will likely need to add in info for specific events that I work.

2 - Regarding batteries, I have read that turning the volume and transmit power down helps prolong battery life.? I'm hoping for recommendations on specifically which extra batteries to get and any associated charger needed for same.? I would like to have a way to use the radio in the event of a power-outage emergency/disaster.? I could use specifics here, like part #s of the recommendations as I'm not too confident I'll get the right ones otherwise. ?

3 - I'm wanting to be able to be hands-free when using the HT.? I've been thinking about getting the headset that comes with a mic (SSM-63A) but not having seen one in person, I'm not sure how
? it works when you want to transmit (i.e. is there a button to push?).? I would also consider a speaker-mic that I could have up on my collar (not sure what is needed to attach to collar) but I feel that the headset would be nicer to have if it's not too cumbersome to PTT, especially if I'm at a noisy event where something in/over my ear may help to block out other sounds.

I know I am asking for a lot all at once and I appreciate the help from those of you with more knowledge and experience than I.