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Re: true nature
In a message dated 7/26/99 Nori writes:
I am in awe... vilik@... writes:It suddenly dawned on me that after "consciously practicing" reaching forthe thought that feels good and or pivoting--it is now happening like second << Oh Nori.... Truly delicious and inspiring. I am right behind you, sisterlove, careful I don't tread on your heels! ~^^V^^~ ~~~~~~~~~~funny...I FEEL YOU right here next to me... it feels good! Love,Nori ps~ the only thing that treads on my heels~ is a wayward grocery cart in Farm Fresh:) |
Re: still here
In a message dated 7/26/99 12:31:23 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
BallOLight@... writes: << Anyway, as you can see, I have not left the list. I feel, for the most part, that I am among kindred spirits and that is a great place to be. >> Crissy ...you are in for a surprise. The list goes in waves and in various angles... one day it sways in one direction to help and get in vibrational harmony with one group of learning (note that I did not say people) and the next day, it swings in another direction. As diverse as we are, there is one thing we all have in common and that is to be UNCOMMON!!!!!! <g> Welcome to the Abe list! "boo" |
abr contrasts
Starspeed and Silky
Paul wrote:
It seems to me that this assertion (that puking isn't ever PLAN A) places a remarkable amount of strain on someone who's got some badass mushrooms floating around in ocean of mind, and is trying to splish splash in a new age tub, imo. Puking is considered bad form somehow...if only you could think about what you want, and not what you don't want, you wouldn't have to puke your way through this experience and remind us all of what we'd rather not remember. Anyone help a bruddah out here? Hi Paul, Maybe, some are sicker than others. Maybe not everyone has gone to the depths that I have. Maybe some people have not fed the monsters for years and so they die easier. Maybe what Abe says is true, and we don't have to face the monsters. I can't say because I have faced the monsters and I can't go back and do it the other way. Maybe there is an easier softer way. I know there is a big difference between looking at what I don't want and dealing with it. My intellect wants to figure it out, but for me, the answer is not in my intellect it comes from a new idea, a bigger view. So, just because my experience is different doesn't make someone else's wrong. You know, I don't know, and that's ok today. I can't figure it all out and THank God I don't have to. I found a new writer, new for me, last week and just wanted to post a couple of things that hit me this morning. By the way, his name is Vernon Howard Live above the opposites. How true are you to yourself? That is the degree of your contentment. Love and yes I mean Love--love allows All--it's all love Nancy |
Re: still here
In a message dated 7/26/99 12:31:35 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
BallOLight@... writes: << Anyway, as you can see, I have not left the list. I feel, for the most part, that I am among kindred spirits and that is a great place to be. Crissy >> :) Crissy Abe says there is no exclusion...I find it comfortable knowing there are no "sides." In being uplifted, you have indeed uplifted me...so glad you hung around! All is truly well... Nori |
true nature
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I am in awe... It suddenly dawned on me that after "consciously practicing" reaching for the thought that feels good and or pivoting--it is now happening like second nature...well--um..make that "first nature." Yes, that's it, first nature--uncovered, released and freed so that it, "I," may soar! Thank you jdc family for your love, energy and presence in my life! all Is well Love, Nori |
still here
Beloved Ones,
A week or so ago, I posted a message saying that I was unsubscribing to the list. Many of you responded with warm and thoughtful letters. I have been wanting to say that I greatly appreciate those posts (and private emails) but for some reason I have been reluctant to do so. I think part of the reason for my hesitation is because I didn't want it to seem like there were "sides" to be on and some were 'siding' with me. But, I do want to acknowledge those who took the time to write. Your words served the purpose of lifting me up and letting me experience the higher vibration of the magnificent people on this list. I thank you for the joy that brings. I also include here, in the magnificent people I thank and appreciate, those who offered a different opinion than mine. It was nice not to be attacked as happens on some lists. It was nice to be elevated by sincere feelings and not engaged in a war of egos. I loved that. Anyway, as you can see, I have not left the list. I feel, for the most part, that I am among kindred spirits and that is a great place to be. Crissy |
Re: Juls reply to Ron
Cia Watson
AJ wrote:
Hiya's! I never saw Jul's response to Ron that was posted, and this morning I had a fellow list person ask me to let her know how many list messages I got today since she seemed to be missing some. Looks like I am too! Unless what Ron is responding to comes through later, I'll let you know if it does. Anyone else out there seeing people respond to messages they never received, or other such funny goings on??? Cia |
Heartmath notes
Connee Chandler
Hi, friends,
Yesterday I gave a talk at my church on the Heartmath ideas on pivoting from being in your head and experiencing negative emotions, to choosing to go into your heart to access your intuition and core heart emotions like love, caring and appreciation. My focus for the talk was based on this provocative statement: "At Heartmath, we foresee that the next major step in the evolution of the human species will necessitate the development of a higher degree of emotional management than we've ever experienced." Doc Childre and Howard Martin. The Heartmath Solution, NY, HarperCollins, 1999. P. 144 I can really see Abe in that idea - that the leading edge of thought is in listening to your emotions, and learning to manage them. I created a table that specifically addresses the difference between repressing emotions and managing them. I made up a three page handout for that talk. It's saved as a Word 6.0 file, and is able to be read by any later Word. If you would like to receive a copy of the notes, please send me a note private email. Love and hugs, Connee -- Come visit my site: |
New member
JILL <[email protected]
Hi Ro,
I didn't think I had posted to this list yet. How did you know I was here? Maybe in my flurry of replies to the other list I have replied to one here without knowing. If so, to all other members I apologise for not introducing myself. I am Jill from New Zealand. I am an active member of the Conversations With God list, and have just recently subscribed here out of curiosity. I don't know how active I will get here, as coping with 100-200 emails a day can be quite daunting - wonderful on no work days like today, but on others ??? Will just ride along and see how it goes. Lovingly, Jill Ro wrote:AnyoneFrom: "Ro" <ro@...> else I know? :) |
Re: Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG
Juls
Hi Ron,
We're talking about the same thing, basically. When I asked for help with this, it was to get this kind of feedback, so thank you and you know that I have a very deep respect and love for you too. Anyway, what I am attempting to do is to formulate a way to incorporate the ideals, methodology and feeling of the Sudbury school in to a business format, where all people on staff, all of the dogs, and all of the clients have an equal say in the running of the business, if they want to be involved. Just like at the Sudbury school they have community meetings at 10 am on Tuesdays so would we maybe not at that precise time but we would have weekly community meetings where everyone gets a vote and the majority rules. We will also have a judiciary committee, the members picked by lottery to serve 3 months terms, to deal with any complaints, confrontations, and problems that arise, so it's not an HR decision or a management decision but a group decision. The hiring and firing would happen here too and those fired will be able to come back and argue their case for re-hire in 3-6 months. For our original staff training period and probably throughout, we are arranging to have dogs that are waiting for adoption with the local canine rescue leagues to be our guinea pigs, our training dogs. The dogs will pick their handler and the handler will be charged with the task of first finding out what they know and what they don't know, then finding out what they are good at, is it playing with the dogs, teaching the dogs, do they prefer working in the coffee house, being at the front desk, working in the office, cooking, grounds maintenance, whatever the final list of available jobs are is what they can choose from, or to choose a variety of jobs that they want to do and will do regularly. Once they have got an idea about where they want to be and what they want to do- instead of us finding bodies to fit in to roles which is the traditional way- then each of them, regardless of their chosen role, will be charged with the task of teaching their dog specific skills, suited to the dog, in their own way, using positive reinforcement methods only and they will have a week to do them. I don't care if they work in groups or read the available books, or devise their own methods, they will able to post questions, requests for help or group sessions, etc like at Sudbury to complete this task and then on Wednesday morning of the next week we will all gather and see what they've discovered. BY this time they will know if this is the place they want to be, they will have bonded with the dogs or not and will have gotten trained themselves in how this is all going to work. They will also grade themselves on their progress, sign in on sign up sheets- no time clocks- and it will be open to anyone who wants to work there to work there in the environment that we establish and want to establish, no interviews, no resumes- other than for the licensed positions, but even they will have to be voted in by the larger group and ALL of us will do this exercise to learn the program. The next week will be a time when you can request to be certified on the various equipment, espresso machine, agility equipment, computers, retail, inventory, driving the vans, etc, ALL of us will have to be certified before we can use the equipment, and we'll have to bring in specialists in each field to at least train a handful so that they can teach the others. The final week of training will be to concentrate in your major fields of interest, developing policies, rules, etc. Each person will be responsible for establishing and adhering to their own schedule, we will figure out how many people are needed for what, when and they can fill in the rest, so carpooling, class schedules, days off are all handled by each person. Since we are all making our schedules for 3 months at a time, probably 1 month at first until we discover our true needs, then we will be more likely to adhere to them, sick days, vacation days, mental health days, doctor appointments, home emergencies, will all be each individuals responsibility to find a replacement for them and to return the favor at some future date, if they are late 3 times in that 3 month period they will go before the judiciary committee. If you have someone else sign you in and you aren't there, then you go directly before the judiciary committee, we will be building an honour system very quickly. As for salaries we will have a base salary for the number of hours worked a week, if you're full time you get $12 an hour, part timers get $10 an hour, the office and vet staff will have their own base salaries. When I worked at Starbuck's we divided the tips by the number of hours you worked a week or in a time period, that made sense and no one quibbled, so I am going to divide the portion of the profit dedicated to staff bonuses in the same way, especially since they will be making their own schedules. Just as with the equipment certification in order to teach classes you will have to be certified as well, you can practice all you want on the day care dogs and rescue dogs and so can learn at your own pace in your own way. The bulletin board will always be up, deals will be made between people to learn and explore new things, outside help will be brought in- by them, paid for by the farm, videos, books, whatever they need we will get for them if and when they request it. As for access, those who want keys can have them to their various chosen areas, if they get a brainstorm at 3 am on a training problem with a boarding dog they can come in and work with them if the dogs want to play too. If a group wants to start a band to play at the coffee house we'll set up a practice area and when they're ready give them a go, if they want to start a photo lab we'll work with them to get that as well, they can present it at the community meeting and see if it flies or not. Unlike most places I worked, the staff will be welcome to come to the farm at any time they choose, not just working days, if they come to work with a dog, they can put it on their time sheet if they choose to, or to clean up the retail area, do office work, whatever they want to get done outside of their schedule. That's how much I've figure out so far. When they are working they will have to be in uniform- t-shirt, golf shirt, sweat shirt, shorts, running pants, rain gear, cold weather gear and tennis shoes, basically, with our staff logo on it- but other than that it's pretty much up to them. As the CEO type it will be my responsibility to make sure it's all running well, I'll be the point person with the investors and county etc, but I think we will create a very nice community of eager, happy, fulfilled and satisfied people. They will also be able to choose an alternative job on those days when they've had enough fur, office stuff, general maintenance, ground maintenance, washing the vans, menial but good thinking thru type work. We'll also pick maintenance crews by lottery for general clean up stuff as well to cut costs and engender a personal responsibility for the facility at large, probably with a slight increase in pay during the time served, like weekly. They will elect clerks or whatever we decide to call them to fulfill any required specific roles as well. Like I said, I don't have it all figured out yet, but that's where I am so far. I don't have 15 years to develop a crew to serve clients but if they each choose their favorite area to work on and then expand from there, eventually we will have a well crossed trained group and geniuses in each area. Any comments? Suggestions, things I'm missing? LOVE YA- Juls From: "Ron" <family@...> Shalom, First, before I respond to your post, hear me loud and clear, YOU are important to me. I have a great deal of love and respect for you. If I did not my wanting would not be to engage you in this conversation. I have known from the past that you have started this baby with a strong desire to help the animals and at the same time earn much money. That process is really a good one, to do what you love to do is truly the only way to make lots of money and is an axiom of life. However, when you brought up the Sudbury school, I felt that you may not have realized what you were really seeking or asking. I in no way wanted to imply that you should not want to pay back your debt. What I was saying was that in my scenario, your debt would be shared by everyone, and be paid back before anyone got a return on the vision. Profit only happens when obligations are met. I was talking more about a head set, a mind set, call it whatever you like, but I was not talking about actually making money. That's a great thing to do. Rather I was speaking about a perspective on motivating, on how people react to working together, as employee\employer or owner to owner. From what you explained to me about Sudbury, the participants really share in the vision from top to bottom. However, when you were describing your vision it was clearly a business venture with a top and bottom and rules in between. I was not talking of a sixties commune, many of them have not worked. However, I'm talking more of a new mind set a vision where those who share the vision can produce together each doing their own part with total sharing of the results. Unless you want to, why should you keep all the risks? At the same time, why do you feel it's important for you to own your vision? I'm making an attempt to help you probe your own thoughts and feelings about this really great vision you are working out so well. You invoked this from me, so I'm probing deeper in side you. You mention no competition, well that's exactly what I'm trying to show you. Competition happens when levels of groups of people exists and they strive to climb to the next higher level, leaving others behind. Competition can also be healthy, it's really all based on your wanting and what you construct. To compare your business approach to the Sudbury, for me would require a major rethink of your project and that's what I was trying to help you see. I was not putting a value on the Sudbury system or the business model, you with your request, I felt was doing that. Your business model can work great and you can find all sorts of ways to motivate your employees. I did not realize you were thinking 250 to 700 employees to start. That's really a large amount of people. The business approach maybe the only one you can take. Perhaps, the employees can be divided into groups, wherein some are actually participants in the business, offering whatever they could, (Sudbury), while others are the typical employees that you design special motivational plans to guide them on their personal growth path. From my experience with employees, no matter what, in the end money counts. It is possible to keep employees happy with positive motivational techniques, but the money still needs to keep coming. It is on this level that competition becomes most important. You will find that employees to compete for their supervisors attention, over specific animals to care for, and all sorts of things, and they will do this much of the time hoping to more up the ladder or somehow get more money. Anyway the full scope of what you are doing, your business, is way beyond the confines of these posts. My advice to you is to follow the directions of your paid advisors, get the business up and running and producing a profit. Once there you can begin to experiment with the myriad of ways to motivate your employees. The mere fact that you will be offering them a job in a field they really desire will have a huge motivational impact. I thank you for sharing your ups and downs along this path, it's good to see your vision in action. I pemed this to you because I really didn't think it was proper for the list, but what the heck, so I have continued it here, it is fine by me. There is much love for you here. Love, Light, & Joy Ron |
Re: Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG
Ron
Shalom,
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First, before I respond to your post, hear me loud and clear, YOU are important to me. I have a great deal of love and respect for you. If I did not my wanting would not be to engage you in this conversation. I have known from the past that you have started this baby with a strong desire to help the animals and at the same time earn much money. That process is really a good one, to do what you love to do is truly the only way to make lots of money and is an axiom of life. However, when you brought up the Sudbury school, I felt that you may not have realized what you were really seeking or asking. I in no way wanted to imply that you should not want to pay back your debt. What I was saying was that in my scenario, your debt would be shared by everyone, and be paid back before anyone got a return on the vision. Profit only happens when obligations are met. I was talking more about a head set, a mind set, call it whatever you like, but I was not talking about actually making money. That's a great thing to do. Rather I was speaking about a perspective on motivating, on how people react to working together, as employee\employer or owner to owner. From what you explained to me about Sudbury, the participants really share in the vision from top to bottom. However, when you were describing your vision it was clearly a business venture with a top and bottom and rules in between. I was not talking of a sixties commune, many of them have not worked. However, I'm talking more of a new mind set a vision where those who share the vision can produce together each doing their own part with total sharing of the results. Unless you want to, why should you keep all the risks? At the same time, why do you feel it's important for you to own your vision? I'm making an attempt to help you probe your own thoughts and feelings about this really great vision you are working out so well. You invoked this from me, so I'm probing deeper in side you. You mention no competition, well that's exactly what I'm trying to show you. Competition happens when levels of groups of people exists and they strive to climb to the next higher level, leaving others behind. Competition can also be healthy, it's really all based on your wanting and what you construct. To compare your business approach to the Sudbury, for me would require a major rethink of your project and that's what I was trying to help you see. I was not putting a value on the Sudbury system or the business model, you with your request, I felt was doing that. Your business model can work great and you can find all sorts of ways to motivate your employees. I did not realize you were thinking 250 to 700 employees to start. That's really a large amount of people. The business approach maybe the only one you can take. Perhaps, the employees can be divided into groups, wherein some are actually participants in the business, offering whatever they could, (Sudbury), while others are the typical employees that you design special motivational plans to guide them on their personal growth path. From my experience with employees, no matter what, in the end money counts. It is possible to keep employees happy with positive motivational techniques, but the money still needs to keep coming. It is on this level that competition becomes most important. You will find that employees to compete for their supervisors attention, over specific animals to care for, and all sorts of things, and they will do this much of the time hoping to more up the ladder or somehow get more money. Anyway the full scope of what you are doing, your business, is way beyond the confines of these posts. My advice to you is to follow the directions of your paid advisors, get the business up and running and producing a profit. Once there you can begin to experiment with the myriad of ways to motivate your employees. The mere fact that you will be offering them a job in a field they really desire will have a huge motivational impact. I thank you for sharing your ups and downs along this path, it's good to see your vision in action. I pemed this to you because I really didn't think it was proper for the list, but what the heck, so I have continued it here, it is fine by me. There is much love for you here. Love, Light, & Joy Ron -----Original Message-----
From: Juls [mailto:laughingpaws@...] Sent: Sunday, July 25, 1999 10:34 PM To: AJ; Abraham Hicks Subject: RE: [Abraham-Hicks] Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG Huh? Ron, I'm sorry but I'm very confused here, I seem to have somehow offended you and that's not my intent. Again I didn't post this to the list, or at least if I did, I didn't get it, nor did I intend to send it to the list, it was a PEM and that's how I answered to you. If I borrow, thru investors and other means, $12 million dollars to buy a property, build buildings, do all of the permits required, hire staff, put in some major high tech facilities and tools, I better make some serious money or I'm going to be in some serious trouble. I already have a $12 million dollar life insurance policy to set against the future capital raise, along with signing my future income away to cover any outstanding debt if I mis-manage the facility. So, yes, repaying my investors along with the interest promised IS a considering and motivating factor for me. I will also have between 250-750 employees or staff members, plus the management team and taxes on several items, plus inventory and since all of these cost money, I better be able to pay them on time and the appropriate amounts. Granted, I could probably pull off allowing the Universe to deliver all of these things to me without cost, but the ulcer potential isn't worth it to me, I'm not there yet in my belief system where I could run a major business without cash flow. It's possible, but I'm not there yet. I will understand the Sudbury School more fully once I visit it in a couple of weeks, but at this point, my understanding of it is that it is a pure democracy, based on a modified version of Socratic teaching methods. It's true that they have no budget to speak of, their teachers receive almost no pay for their efforts and they are there to establish a new model for educating successive generations. They teach self reliance, personal responsibility, cooperation and community, thru their example. The kids are left alone, they are offered nothing other than what they see the other kids doing, what their parents expect of them, what they need to do in order to fulfill their dreams and the only help offered is that, that is asked for by the kids themselves. And it works Great, from what their promo book says. The part I like best is the ideology behind it all. I don't need to make The Farm a commune in order to develop the same feeling behind it and same atmosphere at the facility. There is a way to meld the two worlds, have the best of the ideals of the 60's meld in with a business of the 21st Century. I'm not really sure what a commune or Freedom community is like, since I've never been to one, but keeping an eye to profits and meeting my responsibilities doesn't make this venture less spiritual in my mind, making lots of money does make it less than a pure commune environment, it will in fact allow us to do a LOT more than we would be able to if we did establish it as a pure freedom community. I also think we would have to go Much further out than I already am- in to the country side- in order to get the county approval we would need to build a community that I think you're suggesting. Will I be hoarding all of the cash to myself, Of Course NOT, I'll be paid last. To a large extent all of the profits will be shared by the whole, but a percentage will also be funneled in to the All Life Matters Foundation to assist canine rescue organizations, to offset medical expenses and to provide service dogs- trained using positive methods only- to those that require and want them, along with other things as they come along.Will all of the profits be funneled back to the people involved, nope, but a significant part of it will be. I don't understand the issues that I am falling short on in your opinion. I AM asking for help with this, I have support, I always have support to boost me up and to keep me going, but I meant what I said when I said that I have no clue what you're suggesting that I do. I have no experience of what you are talking about and I would like to hear more, but the part that I'm really confused about is why making money nullifies my intention to organize the farm around the Sudbury School methodology. I mean they have done a terrific job of working on a shoe string budget, but I don't see why that makes it a light in a storm, living below the poverty level isn't a higher calling, it's hard and promotes the struggle and hard work ethic that I've been working diligently at to release so that I am Open to abundance in all of it's form to flood in. Ron, I deeply apologize if I have offended you, but please don't disregard me because I don't know what you are talking about, I don't have your life experiences to fall back on to have any reference to know what you are referring to. But if instead you will be patient for a just a minute and explain it to me, then we can be working from the same page and maybe make some progress together. Please? Love- Juls |
Re: Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG
Juls
Huh? Ron, I'm sorry but I'm very confused here, I seem to have somehow
offended you and that's not my intent. Again I didn't post this to the list, or at least if I did, I didn't get it, nor did I intend to send it to the list, it was a PEM and that's how I answered to you. If I borrow, thru investors and other means, $12 million dollars to buy a property, build buildings, do all of the permits required, hire staff, put in some major high tech facilities and tools, I better make some serious money or I'm going to be in some serious trouble. I already have a $12 million dollar life insurance policy to set against the future capital raise, along with signing my future income away to cover any outstanding debt if I mis-manage the facility. So, yes, repaying my investors along with the interest promised IS a considering and motivating factor for me. I will also have between 250-750 employees or staff members, plus the management team and taxes on several items, plus inventory and since all of these cost money, I better be able to pay them on time and the appropriate amounts. Granted, I could probably pull off allowing the Universe to deliver all of these things to me without cost, but the ulcer potential isn't worth it to me, I'm not there yet in my belief system where I could run a major business without cash flow. It's possible, but I'm not there yet. I will understand the Sudbury School more fully once I visit it in a couple of weeks, but at this point, my understanding of it is that it is a pure democracy, based on a modified version of Socratic teaching methods. It's true that they have no budget to speak of, their teachers receive almost no pay for their efforts and they are there to establish a new model for educating successive generations. They teach self reliance, personal responsibility, cooperation and community, thru their example. The kids are left alone, they are offered nothing other than what they see the other kids doing, what their parents expect of them, what they need to do in order to fulfill their dreams and the only help offered is that, that is asked for by the kids themselves. And it works Great, from what their promo book says. The part I like best is the ideology behind it all. I don't need to make The Farm a commune in order to develop the same feeling behind it and same atmosphere at the facility. There is a way to meld the two worlds, have the best of the ideals of the 60's meld in with a business of the 21st Century. I'm not really sure what a commune or Freedom community is like, since I've never been to one, but keeping an eye to profits and meeting my responsibilities doesn't make this venture less spiritual in my mind, making lots of money does make it less than a pure commune environment, it will in fact allow us to do a LOT more than we would be able to if we did establish it as a pure freedom community. I also think we would have to go Much further out than I already am- in to the country side- in order to get the county approval we would need to build a community that I think you're suggesting. Will I be hoarding all of the cash to myself, Of Course NOT, I'll be paid last. To a large extent all of the profits will be shared by the whole, but a percentage will also be funneled in to the All Life Matters Foundation to assist canine rescue organizations, to offset medical expenses and to provide service dogs- trained using positive methods only- to those that require and want them, along with other things as they come along.Will all of the profits be funneled back to the people involved, nope, but a significant part of it will be. I don't understand the issues that I am falling short on in your opinion. I AM asking for help with this, I have support, I always have support to boost me up and to keep me going, but I meant what I said when I said that I have no clue what you're suggesting that I do. I have no experience of what you are talking about and I would like to hear more, but the part that I'm really confused about is why making money nullifies my intention to organize the farm around the Sudbury School methodology. I mean they have done a terrific job of working on a shoe string budget, but I don't see why that makes it a light in a storm, living below the poverty level isn't a higher calling, it's hard and promotes the struggle and hard work ethic that I've been working diligently at to release so that I am Open to abundance in all of it's form to flood in. Ron, I deeply apologize if I have offended you, but please don't disregard me because I don't know what you are talking about, I don't have your life experiences to fall back on to have any reference to know what you are referring to. But if instead you will be patient for a just a minute and explain it to me, then we can be working from the same page and maybe make some progress together. Please? Love- Juls |
Re: What Do Abe Say
Cia Watson
Paul Roberts wrote:
OK...I listen VERY closely to teaching entities when they say sumpin thatOk, I gotta respond to this. Just a couple of points: From my viewpoint, what you call 'NonDual Awareness', Abe would call Law of Allowing. i.e. you take the duality (one end of the stick feels good, one doesn't) and perhaps push against the end that doesn't feel good. And create more of that. OR you allow both ends, and focus your attention on the one that feels good, and create more of that. Unconditional love would probably fall under the same heading. This is the one that made me want to respond. Abe says there is an endless stream of well-being. I haven't quite wrapped my knowing around it yet, but there isn't a finite pie where if you have more I get less. The pie just gets bigger and we can both have MORE. For example, during the cold war, for example, the Soviets were apparently very interested indeed in the military and strategic applicationAt the end of the workshop I attended earlier this month in Seattle, someone remarked that one could use this knowledge for destructive creating, or something like that. (What we would term 'not good'). And Abe agreed, but said 'remember you'll be right in the middle of it'. It's all part of the contrast. You can push against those with 'black hearts' and probably find lots more of it coming into your experience. You get to choose. And then you get to be right in the middle of your creation, just as they are in theirs. I am complete. Cia |
Re: Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG
AJ
Shalom,
Since Juls posted her response to my pem to her about her business, I thought it informative if all of you got to read my first response. Shalom Juls, Reading what you have presented has motivated me to write once again, thanks. You seem to be trying to merge two different philosophies of life. The Sudbury school values the life within each individual, the freedom necessary to allow each person to grow at their our desired pace. That concept is not mergible with the concept of business and ownership with employees. It is in this dilemma that you see yourself. You cannot created a system different from your own wanting. I understood that this project was what you wanted to create your own wealth, you were the owner of it. That concept is powerful and can be full of powerful light giving energy. However the Sudbury system is totally different. Just how much ownership or how important is ownership of this project to you? How much money are you really looking for, is money in fact your goal at this time? Can you envision this project beyond yourself? Have you heard of the concept of intentional community? What you are describing here is what this really is. Intentional Community is a concept that is popular throughout the US and in most counties. The concept of ownership changes to one of vision and you gather around you those who share the same vision. Each person's contribution to this vision is uniquely theirs, and all contributors share equally in the project. The person contributing the millions of dollars is doing so from their wanting, just as the person that cleans up after the wonderful animals. Their is no individual ownership, rather a collective unity with a desired goal, purpose and focus. Money is no longer the G-d or powerful controlling force, but a tool that is used when necessary to obtain the goal. Are you up to this? You are asking for a completely new mind set. The share value of this vision would not be based on money but on commitment to the goal and personal talents that each one would bring to the table. After the physical needs of the community were met, any profit would be shared equally. True motivation to do other things to move on to different plateaus, would be based on one's desire not the focus of money. People would live on the campus that is purchased for this community. You need to expand your mind set way beyond that which you have grown familiar. The Sudbury concept is an attempt to do just that. I haven't gone into great detail about this, but I hope enough to get your attention. I would share what I see, from what you have said so far, but I don't want to corrupt your vision. If you desire my additional input send me a pem. family@.... My personal goal has been to establish intentional community throughout the US and I have helped several get off the ground. One by product of living in an intentional community is that it becomes easy to get off the "grid". You become independent of goods and gov't we've all grown dependant upon. You will need the courage to step out on a new path. However, it may well be that this type of concept is not in your wanting and that's ok too. Love, Light, & Joy Ron |
Re: Help with the Brain Work Needed Please-LONG
AJ
Shalom,
I agree with what you have been saying, I'm not against making money at all. I was describing a different type of ownership, where everyone shares in the wealth. Where the goal is the care, the project, the animals, but not just the money. The minute you put rules in place that set a higher ladder progressive order to things, you begin to measure progress by some level of performance. The owner/employee relationship is somewhat fixed in our society today. To begin to manifest the goals of the Sudbury school paradigm you have to understand the motivational factors that make it work. I'm certain ownership and position is not a major concern of theirs. If money is used as the reward for a job well done and is what is earned for achievement then it will be most difficult to put into place the Sudbury program. I sorry you may have thought I was suggesting to make a new country cause I was not making light of your request, I was being quite serious. I was expressing a way in which you could obtain what you asked for in your posting. It seems like I was asking a lot, but it is really a matter of perspective and I don't see that you understand the Sudbury system or what they are really teaching. They are very alternative in their approach to education and social environment development and I thought perhaps you were also thinking on those lines. Since you are clearly not going in that direction, deal with all your lawyers, accountants and such and enjoy what you have created, I'm sure it will be truly a great thing and bring you lots of money and maybe then once it's established you will begin to see another way or maybe not. The Sudbury thing is just not you present focus, rather a spark in the night. It doesn't sound like you really seek help rather just seeking support for what you are currently doing or ways to follow your current path with least resistance. This of course is practical, and the way for you to get the job done. Stay focused on your plan of action and don't get derailed by any other concepts that interfere with the energy you have already started. Your first sentence really told me the story, you don't understand what I was saying and that's ok. I was not talking about what you have written. You explained in your prior post that you didn't want the same employer\employee relationship, that you wanted to motivate your staff in different ways. I was suggesting one such way. A place in which all participants are owners and share in the vision and dream. However, this dream is still too close to you, and you clearly retain title to it so this would not be the type of organization you would want to establish. You said, "It's time for some new ideas, The Farm is one of them, the way we treat the staff is another, and how we will run the business is another. I believe that when it's all brought together it will be Truly Magnificent, which is my main intention anyway. Why can't we work as a community and still make loads of cash and succeed as a business? I don't understand, it may have been called something else in the past, but why does it have to remain so?" I was not talking of "old ideas or old ways", and I agree with you and what you say I can only support and hope the best for you. I was not saying you can't make lots of money. And I was talking about community. You were being specific about a Sudbury system and went into great extended detail about their system. To try to run a business with your ideals about how to handle the employees and such, I frankly don't believe is new. To be motivated by the dollar is not new, no matter how you disguise your motivational plan. The Sudbury system does not motivate by the dollar, but uses the dollar to promote their goals and vision. That is what I thought you were trying to emulate. Competition will cease when people learn that there is nothing to be gained by besting another person, that true growth and achievement is obtained by seeing the good in all people and crating a pathway in which all this good can be individually expressed. We may not be all created equal, but we can all equally create. I seek to foster this environment, where creation, deliberate creation continues and we all perceive that we are all getting what our desires and visions have longed for so long. Love, Light, & Joy Ron |
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