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Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Caroline Myss and changing the past

 

Hi,
There's a technique (based on a tape) from where I work. Part of the
preparatory process (meditation, creation, listening, whatever your intent)
on each tape involves an "energy conversion box" into which is placed
distractions, fears, hassles, limiting beliefs, hurts, whatever. In this
exercise (and in meditative state), you go back to the box and either choose
something that you remember you put into it (or allow the "thing" to bubble
out of the box.
The main point is that you're reconnecting with the history of the emotion
that the thing/person/event has produced. So, if you have a fear of public
speaking now, visit and reconnect with the pivotal experience regarding that.
It may be remark that someone made while you were in a first grade play,
maybe. And then "bubble" that emotion (and the baggage of the current fear)
away.
Can be incredibly liberating.
Enjoy!
Carol


Re: [Abraham-Hicks] how to respond to others

 

Hi Diana,
One response you can give to your friends is: "It is going GREAT! I am in
love with the most FABULOUS person ---- ME!!!!!" Not only will this get your
vibration up (especially when you say it with passion!), it will startle
them, bring a quizzical look to their face, and perhaps get some giggling
going.
I bet they'll even start saying, "Oh! Then I have someone I want you to meet."

You may also find that when you have a great, fun response, that people
either stop asking you, or stop asking you with that down-trodden tone in
their voice. Instead they will ask from a place of excitement.

Wishing you much magic attraction!
Nina!


Re: [Abraham-Hicks]Juls/food/weight

Kathy
 

Hi Juls, just thought I'd let you know that in the many weeks that Ive been
reading your posts I pictured you as vibrant, intelligent, thoughtful,
sincere, youthful, energetic, and athletic and sensual. Reading about your
walks and frolicking with Cordy, your enthusiam just brings to mind an
active, healthy and physically strong person. So this is how I see you and
feel your energy...Anything else is not registering for me at all. No
matter how I try to associate you with it with these post, it doesnt
register somehow ...maybe your high, clear pure vibration does not include
extra weight...so Im gonna continue with my strong, fit, energetic, lovely
vision of you..
Also my 92 year old Grandmother lived through the depression and saw some
pretty lean times. Her complete joy and gratefulness for the abundance of
food has always been evident. True love and appreciation for it , not fear
of the lack. I could just feel how well she loved food, the eating ritual,
and everything about a good meal. She is healthy and fit as can be to this
day....had a beautiful Jane Russell type womanly figure and PROUD of it.
She showed off her cleavage in a tasteful but sexy way. She drinks
half/half in her coffee every day, with a little pound cake, eats bacon,
eggs, steaks, heavy pastas, roasts, potatoes, fried seafood galore, cakes,
pies, homemade ice cream...you name it. One of her favorite afternoon
snacks is a bowl of Kellogs frosted flakes with fresh peaches and cream. She
wouldnt consider anything less than "whole " milk...what would be the point?
She is no nonsense...like Jessica Tandy in Fried Green Tomatoes. Believes
what she believes and could care less what doctors say. I see that it is
her strength in her own belief from which she has created this fine physical
state....she really feels that her body needs these things to be healthy and
she enjoys it at the same time. So today she is 92, takes no meds at all,
NONE, has perfect blood pressure, perfect cholesteral...perfect health. very
active in mind and body. Stills rakes the yard and tries to mow grass...she
is no less than amazing. I am noticing that many of the more cautious and
concerned eaters in my family have many more health problems. Isnt it
interesting how our beliefs about what we are choosing as "nourishment"
vary. Some would say she lived off of everything that is bad! Just
thought I let you know that I have seen with my own eyes someone who has
experienced perfect health and fitness by eating all the so called "wrong"
things. Her story is proof that it can be done.
Kathleen

----- Original Message -----
From: <ammichaels@...>
To: "Julia Pierce" <laughingpaws@...>; <Abraham-Hicks@...>
Sent: Sunday, November 18, 2001 2:32 PM
Subject: Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Food and weight and figuring it all out.



Intellectually I understand that food, excercise, etc can't effect
my weight but the flip side of that is that changing what I eat, how
much I excercise my body, etc won't change my weight either and I
Know that that isn't true. So, how can I change my belief, a belief
held for some 20 odd years at least, to match my desire on this one
topic?
Hi, Juls ... It seems to me that now that you are asking, the
Universe is giving you opportunities to change those beliefs.

And, why is it that once I change my views or start to I get a whole lot
of
crap coming in to my life that just re-affirms my previous belief when I
didn't get that crap before I started messing with it?
I think it's because most of those beliefs you hold are dwelling in
the subterranean depths of your subconscious mind. You have lived
with them for so long that they feel normal and native to you. So
you don't question them. It's like breathing or having two arms or
whatever. It just is.

So when you CHALLENGE those beliefs, it's like you become aware of
them for the first time. They become REALLY obvious to you. You're
like, Oh my God, have I been BREATHING all this time?!

As I said above, I think they are really OPPORTUNITIES direct from
the Universe. Everytime you get one, receive it joyously (as
joyously as you can -- I know it feels like getting a lump of coal in
your stocking) and say, "Thank you, Universe! Another opportunity to
change an unwanted belief!" Then go into your mind and rescript the
whole encounter.

I was just "playing" (not working) through Lynn Grabhorn's Playbook
and came across a meditation re: this subject (p. 90). She said,
"Whatever you want to remove in life, love it."

Okay so maybe you can't just force yourself to gush with love for the
Strip Club Guy, but maybe you could start with something softer and
then work up to love. For example, I feel compassion for him ... I
think to myself, gee, he's got this wonderful woman at home, his
life-partner, the woman he said vows to at the altar, and there she
is at home, basking in the glow and the joy of pregnancy, carrying
the baby they made together. Such a glorious time in both of their
lives. So intimate, so profound, so joyous. And all he can see is
her body looking fat? How sad.

Then I think, hmmm, maybe their relationship isn't really that close.
Maybe they are not that intimate. Maybe he's searching, trying to
find that. Or maybe he doesn't even have a clue about intimacy and
all he looks at is bodies. Either way, how SAD.

So then I kinda feel sorry for the guy. I know at some level there
has got to be a part of him that wants that connection with her, that
knows that she is not Just a Body, that craves intimacy, that wants
to share ALL of her, not just her body but her emotions and her
spirit and her dreams and her laughter ... suddenly instead of
seeing him as a sexist womanizing monster, I view him as lonely,
lost, seeking ... and I care about him.

I know, it feels like a REAL stretch (because I know EXACTLY what you
mean when you say you were repulsed on So Many Levels -- because I
was right there with you!), but as you continue thinking in this vein
you can see how you could end up feeling love for the guy.

Another way to approach this is to do as Lynn suggests and just work
up a feeling of basking in love, and invite your "problem" --
whatever it may be, could be just the concept of Women as Objects --
and then surround it with that high-vibe feeling of love.

As far as the "well-padded" comment, again, an opportunity. I'd play
with it and rescript it in my mind. I always imagine myself sitting
down at the movie theater, nibbling on popcorn, and on the blank
screen I play it out the way I would have liked it to go. Like see
him being AMAZED at how light and airy you feel -- see him picking
you up with one arm, throwing you over his shoulder and bounding
around the restaurant like a football player celebrating a
much-needed touchdown.

Ann Marie

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For Kathy "tomkat" Re your 92 year old grandmother

Carol Meixsell
 

Dear Kathy,
Thank you so much for the story of your grandmother. A known example of a real person is certainly one of the most important things in understanding how others create and how you can too when you change your beliefs.
enJoy...carol
Kathy <tomkat00@...> wrote: Hi Juls, just thought I'd let you know that in the many weeks that Ive been
reading your posts I pictured you as vibrant, intelligent, thoughtful,
sincere, youthful, energetic, and athletic and sensual. Reading about your
walks and frolicking with Cordy, your enthusiam just brings to mind an
active, healthy and physically strong person. So this is how I see you and
feel your energy...Anything else is not registering for me at all. No
matter how I try to associate you with it with these post, it doesnt
register somehow ...maybe your high, clear pure vibration does not include
extra weight...so Im gonna continue with my strong, fit, energetic, lovely
vision of you..
Also my 92 year old Grandmother lived through the depression and saw some
pretty lean times. Her complete joy and gratefulness for the abundance of
food has always been evident. True love and appreciation for it , not fear
of the lack. I could just feel how well she loved food, the eating ritual,
and everything about a good meal. She is healthy and fit as can be to this
day....had a beautiful Jane Russell type womanly figure and PROUD of it.
She showed off her cleavage in a tasteful but sexy way. She drinks
half/half in her coffee every day, with a little pound cake, eats bacon,
eggs, steaks, heavy pastas, roasts, potatoes, fried seafood galore, cakes,
pies, homemade ice cream...you name it. One of her favorite afternoon
snacks is a bowl of Kellogs frosted flakes with fresh peaches and cream. She
wouldnt consider anything less than "whole " milk...what would be the point?
She is no nonsense...like Jessica Tandy in Fried Green Tomatoes. Believes
what she believes and could care less what doctors say. I see that it is
her strength in her own belief from which she has created this fine physical
state....she really feels that her body needs these things to be healthy and
she enjoys it at the same time. So today she is 92, takes no meds at all,
NONE, has perfect blood pressure, perfect cholesteral...perfect health. very
active in mind and body. Stills rakes the yard and tries to mow grass...she
is no less than amazing. I am noticing that many of the more cautious and
concerned eaters in my family have many more health problems. Isnt it
interesting how our beliefs about what we are choosing as "nourishment"
vary. Some would say she lived off of everything that is bad! Just
thought I let you know that I have seen with my own eyes someone who has
experienced perfect health and fitness by eating all the so called "wrong"
things. Her story is proof that it can be done.
Kathleen



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Re: Food and weight and figuring it all out.

 

Juls,

Hey, I understand. I was there. :-) The reason I suggested the
other regular stuff is because, if I remember correctly, you are on
a deadline with Hunk Guy at Aussie Dog Training Class in your
very near future.

When I first found all this stuff, I was very in shape. Then I
decided I wasn't going to exercise anymore because I didn't
*want* to and it was all my creation so nothing would change,
right? I went through a very arrogant stage. I had found *the key*
to all.

Well, wrong. I zoomed up to the 130's and stayed there. This is
chubby on my frame. There were two exceptions: once when I fell
head over heels in love and didn't eat, and once when I went
traveling to a place where food was not as omnipresent. Both
were high energy times, but mostly the high energy killed my
appetite and made me more active. It was "Food, what's that?" It
wasn't like had broken the laws of metabolism or anything.

It was fun in the sense that I ate anything I wanted and no longer
cared. It didn't bother me. I thought it was fun to be the only
person I knew without food problems.

But as time went on I had to admit that I wasn't doing certain
things at that weight that I would if I were my old weight. I tried the
Abe stuff but not with the consistency that I did later. And I also
tried the normal way without the Abe stuff and *that* didn't catch. I
was in between like you seem to be.

Finally, one day, after a break, I said, "Look. I'm doing this Abe
stuff with regard to this subject. I'm going to do it for real. All
summer. I'm committed. If it doesn't work I want to know it was
no fault of mine but because the stuff doesn't work so I don't ever
have to bother with it again. I will follow any impulse I get
because I'm tired of this."

So I did it. I followed the impulses. Some of which were very
normal things like eating regularly, getting out more.

And..ta daaa...it worked. But I didn't break any laws of physics or
anything. Still, it was a success.

I found a new wall in the process (the whole DNA genetic beauty
thing) but hey.

So, how about that approach? Take a month or so, and do the
Abe stuff so perfectly and follow *every impulse* you get--don't
define the impulses because they are your IB telling you what
you can handle and achiever your goal-- and if that doesn't work
you can move on to a personal trainer or whatever. If it does
work, (which it will) it's taken care of.

Careen



--- In Abraham-Hicks@y..., "Julia Pierce" <laughingpaws@m...>
wrote:
HI Careen,

I agree with your friend, it's just that it they both came together
and it
threw me for a loop. And I understand what you're saying and
I'm probably
thinking about all of this too much, a couple of steps forward
and then back
a step kind of thing. BUT, since most people Believe that food
and
excercise equal body weight and health, then the whole
dieting, excercising
thing works for them. It's in line with their beliefs as it was with
mine
before I got in to Abe and some others and discovered that that
wasn't true,
which makes sense intellectually, and so now that a part of me
believes that
what I eat and how much I excercise doesn't have anything to
do with it,
what the HECK am I suppossed to do now? I mean part of me
believes that
food and excercise make the difference and part of me doesn't
and it seems
like the two cancel each other out and I stay right where I am.
It's
pissing me off, basically. So, I need help to tip the scale in the
direction I'm going and that's where I need some help.

Does that make any kind of sense at all?

Sorry, just got off a 14 hour bar shift and can't really remember
how to
spell my own name, so let me know if I'm not making any
sense.

Wags- Juls and Cordy


Re: [Abraham-Hicks Juls jumping in to Re Prepaving vs. Time Lag

Julia Pierce
 

OK,

So Olivia I'm jumping in here for my own purposes for a moment.

Why do I want to be thin?

I want to be thin so that I can love the way I look in the mirror.
So I can feel comfortable being naked in front of my mate and make wild,
passionate, unihibited love, toss my head back, flex my back straight up off
the bed, wear wonderful little teddies and Know that I look sexy and
beautiful without a doubt in the world.
So I can feel comfortable attracting a sexy and gorgeous mate to have wild,
passionate, uninhibited love with.
SO I can buy and wear glorious, stylish clothes, look great in an evening
gown or just sexy in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt.
So I never have to worry every again about what people may be thinking about
my body, like nice girl but she could lose some weight. Or Pretty face, if
she lost some weight, she'd be gorgeous.
So I can breathe comfortably all day while wearing clothes that fit
properly.
So I don't feel like I'm breaking some universal law when I eat desserts.
So I can plain eat without guilt.
So I can feel comfortable allowing my true essence shine thru without
censoring my words and actions to make sure that they don't sound like Fat
girl things.
So I can feel comfortable flirting and not worry about sounding desperate
like a fat girl.
So that I don't have to think about food every again.
So I can pursue my dreams and succeed on my own merit instead of wondering
if it would be different if I was thin and going for the same things.
So the image I see in the mirror is the same that I see in my head or even
better.
So that I can wear a little baby doll crop top and have a belly ring on a
flat tummy, tank tops with spaghetti straps and shorts that come down just
below my bum, cut offs, oh yeah, cut offs that show off my glorious legs and
skirts with side slits in them.
So I can buy clothes in regards to style instead of how much they cover up
and if I have to hold my tummy in constantly to make the lines hang right or
so I can breathe comfortably.
So I never again in this life time have to wear a tummy tucker or control
top pantyhose.
So that for once I can be wanted not just for my mind, but also for my body.
So that when I'm out with a man and his eyes follow a woman walking by, I
will know that it's just out of curosity and not because she's better to
look at than I am.
TO wear bikini underwear or a thong and look Good in them.
To wear a bikini
To look good in lycra.
So that I can wear a clingy dress and not a bulge anywhere to be seen
So that when I do get pregant with our first child, I have to actually buy
materinity clothes.
So I can see my collar bones and have that little hollow at the base of my
neck, visible cheek bones, vertebrate and those wonderful little hollows at
the top of my thighs and can feel my hip bones.
So I can wear my mates shirts and have them be big on me.
So he can sweep me up in his arms and carry me to bed, easily.
So that someone can call me 'a little slip of a thing'
So I can tie my robe and look good in it at the same time.


Why?

Because I've never had it and that's reason enough.

I MUST get some sleep now.

Wags- Juls and Cordy-you are SO making WAY too much out of this, ya know.
Says dog boy whose ribs show thru.


Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Re: Food and weight and figuring it all out.

Julia Pierce
 

HI Careen,

I agree with your friend, it's just that it they both came together and it
threw me for a loop. And I understand what you're saying and I'm probably
thinking about all of this too much, a couple of steps forward and then back
a step kind of thing. BUT, since most people Believe that food and
excercise equal body weight and health, then the whole dieting, excercising
thing works for them. It's in line with their beliefs as it was with mine
before I got in to Abe and some others and discovered that that wasn't true,
which makes sense intellectually, and so now that a part of me believes that
what I eat and how much I excercise doesn't have anything to do with it,
what the HECK am I suppossed to do now? I mean part of me believes that
food and excercise make the difference and part of me doesn't and it seems
like the two cancel each other out and I stay right where I am. It's
pissing me off, basically. So, I need help to tip the scale in the
direction I'm going and that's where I need some help.

Does that make any kind of sense at all?

Sorry, just got off a 14 hour bar shift and can't really remember how to
spell my own name, so let me know if I'm not making any sense.

Wags- Juls and Cordy


Just Deserts...

Carol Meixsell
 

Dear Group,
Now look, everyone, this came from my sister (not an Aber) just today. With all the emails vollying about beauty, weight, etc. I had to think it was providence and that I should send it on. Some of it isn't Abe-ish exactly but I'm sending it for fun anyway. Let me know if you like it.
enJoy...carol
Life and Chocolate

I have a new delightful friend,
I am most in awe of her.
When we first met I was impressed,
By her bizarre behavior.

That day I had a date with friends,
We met to have some lunch.
Mae had come along with them,
All in all . . . a pleasant bunch.

When the menus were presented,
We ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups.
Except for Mae who circumvented,
And said, Ice Cream, please: two scoops.

I was not sure my ears heard right,
And the others were aghast.
Along with heated apple pie,
Mae added, completely unabashed.

We tried to act quite nonchalant,
As if people did this all the time.
But when our orders were brought out,
I did not enjoy mine.

I could not take my eyes off Mae,
As her pie a-la-mode went down.
The other ladies showed dismay,
They ate their lunches silently, and frowned.

Well, the next time I went out to eat,
I called and invited Mae.
My lunch contained white tuna meat,
She ordered a parfait.

I smiled when her dish I viewed,
And she asked if she amused me.
I answered, Yes, you do,
But also you confuse me.

How come you order rich desserts,
When I feel I must be sensible?
She laughed and said, with wanton mirth,
I am tasting all that's possible.

I try to eat the food I need,
And do the things I should.
But life's so short, my friend, indeed,
I hate missing out on something good.

This year I realized how old I was,
She grinned, I've not been this old before.
So, before I die, I've got to try,
Those things for years I had ignored.

I've not smelled all the flowers yet,
There's too many books I have not read.
There's more fudge sundaes to wolf down
And kites to be flown overhead.

There are many malls I have not shopped,
I've not laughed at all the jokes.
I've missed a lot of Broadway Hits,
And potato chips and cokes.

I want to wade again in water,
And feel ocean spray upon my face.
Sit in a country church once more,
And thank God for It's grace.

I want peanut butter every day,
Spread on my morning toast.
I want un-timed long-distance calls,
To the folks I love the most. &#92;

I've not cried at all the movies yet,
Nor walked in the morning rain.
I need to feel wind in my hair,
I want to fall in love again.

So, if I choose to have dessert,
Instead of having dinner.
Then should I die before night fall,
I'd say I died a winner.

Because I missed out on nothing,
I filled my heart's desire.
I had that final chocolate mousse,
Before my life expired.

With that, I called the waitress over,
I've changed my mind, it seems.
I said, I want what she is having,
Only add some more whipped-cream!

Money talks. Chocolate sings.



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For Olivia Re Prepaving vs. Time Lag

Carol Meixsell
 

Dear Olivia,
I'm not sure this is the answer you want but as soon as I read your email, this is what came to me. Pre-paving is a general term for seeing your way prepared for you. It can apply to a situation that is right now or one that may be longer in coming depending on your ability to allow. Pre-paving in the now, like getting on the freeway and having a safe trip, would be what Abe refers to as Segment Intending. Presumably, you don't really have many blocks about attracting those particular WANTS. When you are pre-paving for a more personal issue that in the past has been difficult in coming, of course, YOU CAN HAVE IT ALMOST INSTANTANEOUSLY ("lag" doesn't refer to days or hours), unless it is something you are (dare I say) "working" on because you have become aware that you are disallowing. Here's some material I've saved that may help:
GUEST: My question is, is there a moment of enlightenment or a moment of,
"Oh my gosh, I created this vortex, so let me create what I want," that you
can turn around the situation in the moment?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

ABE: Yes. Now, the first part of your offering, where we said you're living
the balance of your thoughts. Now, thought is desire, that's thought.
Thought as belief, that's thought.

So let's say that you believe a piano is going to fall on your head but your
desire to live long, healthy, happy experience is more dominant. And all of
those thoughts are sort of mixed in there together, so what happens is, the
lackful belief and the positive desire sort of mixed together and you sort
of live a balance of the two. In other words, you don't live the
extraordinary life of connection that is possible but you also don't live
the life of wretchedness...in other words, you live the balance of those
thoughts.

What we've noticed with most of you is that you flow your Energy about 50/50
on most subjects, and that's why nothing really good or really bad happens
to most of you. Then what happens is, it's an interesting thing, how you'll
have a little thought about something, which will attract a little
information, a bigger, bolder condition, and then, what happens next,
depends on how you respond to that condition. The sooner that you recognize
Step one, "know what I don't want," Step two, "identify what I do want," and
Step three, "find the feeling place" [see footnote below], the more you are
able to take that creative control in those life experiences. You see what
we're getting at?

[Footnote: For an idea on Step tree above (finding the feeling place) , see
the quotes at the end of this excerpt.]

GUEST: And is it the quicker the manifestation, is that also true?

ABE: The manifestation, the speed of it, is about this. Now, yesterday,
Jerry heard a little piece of a news broadcast where they were talking about
a young person traveling at a very high rate of speed, and when he hit
another car it broke that car in two pieces; the momentum was so powerful.
And momentum is what we want you to focus upon.

In other words, when something is moving very fast, it has more power. Now
what happens with most of you is you start and stop and start and stop and
start and stop. If you can see this Energy, this pure Stream of Nonphysical
Energy and you see it flowing to you and you are open and allowing it all of
the time, then it gains a lot of momentum. And with that momentum, powerful
things are happening in your experience. But if you allow it and disallow it
and allow it and disallow it and allow it and disallow it then you've slowed
it. In other words, it's still happening, but it's not happening with the
power.

So the way you are able to monitor all of this is you can literally tell by
the way you feel. And at the end of the day, if you say, "this was a great
day," that's an indicator that you allowed your vortex to be open and a lot
of that Energy was flowing.

JERRY: .. So relative to her question, is there a way that no matter how
much force we have going, either in the way we want or in the way we don't,
as a result of pre-paving, in whichever direction, over a period of time, is
there any point that we can actually stop it, right then, without having to
slow it down -- and now go in another direction?

ABE: Yes. That's what we were talking about earlier. If the desire was
strong enough. In other words, if there was some facet of that desire that
had not been implemented before, because the circumstance had not called it
forth. In other words, the mother who finds her child, pinned beneath an
automobile. Yesterday if you said, "Pick that automobile up and move it over
there," it would not have been possible no matter how much money you offered
her to do it. But today, with her desire to save her child, the desire is
there and so is the clarity and the strength. And so, it has to do with the
balance of your thoughts, doesn't it? It has to do with how much allowing or
disallowing there is.

JERRY: So, on one day, she says, "I don't want to hurt my back lifting
something heavy," and the next day she's saying, "I want to save my child."
So she says, "I don't- want," and she can't take the car off, but a
"do-want", that's powerful enough, she can do anything?

ABE: Always.

JERRY: So, it would be acting always, somehow, from a "do want", somehow
being able to change from a "don't want" to a "do want", in a moment?

ABE: That is our message to you. When you are knowing what you are wanting,
and what you are wanting is in harmony with your greater Source -- you are
powerful.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Abe says somewhere at the beginning of the above excerpt:

The sooner that you recognize Step one, "know what I don't want," Step two,
"identify what I do want," and Step three, "find the feeling place," the
more you are able to take that creative control in those life experiences.'

One of the ways Abe often suggests for Step tree above (finding the feeling
place), is by asking yourself WHY you want what you want. Here are some
quotes from them on this:

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

"When you talk about what you want and why you want it, it always brings you
to your Center. It always brings you to the vibration of your Core, and
when you vibrate in harmony with that which is the Core of you, then you
have the perspective of your Inner Being. As you start talking about WHY
you want to be over there, you'll vibrate as if you are over there. Then
your vibration in your Now is the point of attraction, and over there comes
here where you are and becomes your physical awareness.
-- Abe, 2/13/93
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

". . .I want this thing because it gives me pleasure to think about it.
I want this thing for the pleasure I can milk from it. . . "
-- Abe -- L.A., CA, 3/4/00
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

"As you ask yourself why you want it, the essence of your desire is
activated, and the Universe begins to bring it to you. The more intense your
positive feelings, the faster it is coming to you. (It is as easy to create
a castle as a button)."
--Abraham
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"It is not more difficult to create a castle than a button. Most of you have
more buttons than castles, however, because they're easier to expect."

Abe -- G-3/10/95
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c Abraham-Hicks

LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK...enJoy...carol

Olivia Volmary <ovolmary@...> wrote: Here is something that I am a little confused on. How can "pre-paving" work
(for ex: before you get on the expressway to go to work, you prepave for a
safe, jam-free commute. Or, you pre-pave for a peaceful harmonious conflict
free day at the office)

BUT Abe says that manifestation is not instant and that there is ALWAYS a
time lag; so how can pre paving work?

I've always had a wierd feeling about "prepaving" and "how can it really
work" b/c , there's no time lag there. Because - What you are prepaving
for is going to be in the very next segment of your day.

Can anyone clarify for me or tell me if Abe has talked about this?

thank you!!
Olivia

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Blacktop

 

Re: pre-paving


I prepave parking spots all the time
Theres got to be pun in there somewhere....


Anyway cant find the exact Abe quote, but essentially it was
something to the effect that, yes, there is a time lag, and, after
you have pre-paved the first time on a subject, you might find a few
bumps on the dirt road, but remember: you are 'pre' - 'paving'...the
point being that the next time and the next that you go back to pre-
pave on that subject, it will become smoother and smoother, because
you have already PRE-paved, and so the road gets smoother and
smoother and before you know it, you are riding on some pretty fine
blacktop.

dylan


how to respond to others

Diana Gentrup
 

hey group,
I have a question about how to respond to others when they ask me about my love life. There isn't a love life right now and I would like there to be, I find that I can get a joyous vibration about what I want the next relationship to be like but when people ask me if I'm dating or how the love life is, the vibration drops and I think about the recent "almosts" and focus on why the last one had to end (it was good...they get better each time but there i wasn't getting all I deserve from it).
So anyway, after people ask (and friends seem to be interested in my life), I feel the belief drop and the cork go under the water.

Does anyone have a good response that I can give so that I don't drop the vibration and discuss the lack in my life? I appreciate their interest but, it gets old talking about it. Of course, it just hit me that my focus on it then draws the attraction of people asking me and the cycle continues....Stop the Insanity!!

Suggestions???

Diana

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"It makes me dizzy when I look down."

"Don't look down."


[dialogue from "Fried Green Tomatoes"]




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Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Food and weight and figuring it all out.

t
 

"throwing you over his shoulder and bounding
around the restaurant like a football player celebrating a
much-needed touchdown."

That's interesting...because a great healing came to me over this padding
issue when my last boyfriend, who was the same height as me...could lift me
in the air over his head...all 150 pounds...I could touch the ceiling and he
kept me up there for what seemed like ages...and he would do this all the
time, like carry me over puddles in the rain...and when I was tired
sometimes walking in the mountains or something, fling me on his back and
carry me ...I felt like a feather with that guy...he completely changed my
view of the whole subject then...It was so simple what he did, but healed a
biggy there...The first time he did it I was worried I would break his back
and turned beet red....and then when I could feel, the effortlessness he did
that with...and that he enjoyed it...a very blissful sensation came over me,
I can't explain...but it was a great release.
lots of love,
Tima

----- Original Message -----
From: <ammichaels@...>
To: Julia Pierce <laughingpaws@...>; <Abraham-Hicks@...>
Sent: Monday, November 19, 2001 12:32 AM
Subject: Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Food and weight and figuring it all out.



Intellectually I understand that food, excercise, etc can't effect
my weight but the flip side of that is that changing what I eat, how
much I excercise my body, etc won't change my weight either and I
Know that that isn't true. So, how can I change my belief, a belief
held for some 20 odd years at least, to match my desire on this one
topic?
Hi, Juls ... It seems to me that now that you are asking, the
Universe is giving you opportunities to change those beliefs.

And, why is it that once I change my views or start to I get a whole lot
of
crap coming in to my life that just re-affirms my previous belief when I
didn't get that crap before I started messing with it?
I think it's because most of those beliefs you hold are dwelling in
the subterranean depths of your subconscious mind. You have lived
with them for so long that they feel normal and native to you. So
you don't question them. It's like breathing or having two arms or
whatever. It just is.

So when you CHALLENGE those beliefs, it's like you become aware of
them for the first time. They become REALLY obvious to you. You're
like, Oh my God, have I been BREATHING all this time?!

As I said above, I think they are really OPPORTUNITIES direct from
the Universe. Everytime you get one, receive it joyously (as
joyously as you can -- I know it feels like getting a lump of coal in
your stocking) and say, "Thank you, Universe! Another opportunity to
change an unwanted belief!" Then go into your mind and rescript the
whole encounter.

I was just "playing" (not working) through Lynn Grabhorn's Playbook
and came across a meditation re: this subject (p. 90). She said,
"Whatever you want to remove in life, love it."

Okay so maybe you can't just force yourself to gush with love for the
Strip Club Guy, but maybe you could start with something softer and
then work up to love. For example, I feel compassion for him ... I
think to myself, gee, he's got this wonderful woman at home, his
life-partner, the woman he said vows to at the altar, and there she
is at home, basking in the glow and the joy of pregnancy, carrying
the baby they made together. Such a glorious time in both of their
lives. So intimate, so profound, so joyous. And all he can see is
her body looking fat? How sad.

Then I think, hmmm, maybe their relationship isn't really that close.
Maybe they are not that intimate. Maybe he's searching, trying to
find that. Or maybe he doesn't even have a clue about intimacy and
all he looks at is bodies. Either way, how SAD.

So then I kinda feel sorry for the guy. I know at some level there
has got to be a part of him that wants that connection with her, that
knows that she is not Just a Body, that craves intimacy, that wants
to share ALL of her, not just her body but her emotions and her
spirit and her dreams and her laughter ... suddenly instead of
seeing him as a sexist womanizing monster, I view him as lonely,
lost, seeking ... and I care about him.

I know, it feels like a REAL stretch (because I know EXACTLY what you
mean when you say you were repulsed on So Many Levels -- because I
was right there with you!), but as you continue thinking in this vein
you can see how you could end up feeling love for the guy.

Another way to approach this is to do as Lynn suggests and just work
up a feeling of basking in love, and invite your "problem" --
whatever it may be, could be just the concept of Women as Objects --
and then surround it with that high-vibe feeling of love.

As far as the "well-padded" comment, again, an opportunity. I'd play
with it and rescript it in my mind. I always imagine myself sitting
down at the movie theater, nibbling on popcorn, and on the blank
screen I play it out the way I would have liked it to go. Like see
him being AMAZED at how light and airy you feel -- see him picking
you up with one arm, throwing you over his shoulder and bounding
around the restaurant like a football player celebrating a
much-needed touchdown.

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Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Re: Another point about beauty part 2

t
 

Well Careen maybe a way to look at it is that the "GODS" , the arena as you
say...could change not only their forms but also others...if you remember
Ira would change her lovers into pigs or goats to keep them to herself and
change them back when she wanted them....and not all the GODS were
beautiful, especially Hphaistos...was real ugly...even his mother Ira did
not want to accept him as her child cause he was ugly...but funny he
married, guess who? Aphrodite...imagine (ofcourse she was fooling around
with ARIS) anyway...these myths point to our archytypal makeup...what
inside of us...if Ira could turn her lovers into swine...an ugly Hphaistos
could marry the epitome of beauty Aphrodite...well, then i guess everything
is possible...you aren't exempt from being a "GOD" , Careen, because of or
for lack of beauty....Though bringing down the exquisite was part of the
Grecian way...BUT ...not just for physical beauty...in other ways as well...
Also, I do believe as we evolve (if we evolve, cause this is debatable, I
believe some of us deevolve) anyway I do believe the features, we create for
our form become more and more refined...like for example, even within this
lifetime, the features change and soften and beautify...ALSO for example
have you noticed that couples that have lived together for a long time start
looking like each other...I have seen this dozens of times...even in my own
FACE...I either become more beautiful or ugly depending on who I am with
(ofcourse a pisces ascendant makes me more malable) but I do believe we
have the ability to change our forms and faces to a certain degree...(if you
remember an episode of X files there was a guy who could change form...and
astral beings are always changing form...also even the movie with Robin
Williams about the after life...and so on...I even believe our children LOOK
like us, not because of DNA but because they see us all the time and take on
the features...I have two girlfriends who have adopted children from babies
and now as teenagers, I swear their kids look absolutely like them......
Lots of love,
Tima

----- Original Message -----
From: <careen_perry@...>
To: <Abraham-Hicks@...>
Sent: Sunday, November 18, 2001 10:48 PM
Subject: [Abraham-Hicks] Re: Another point about beauty part 2



Hi again Tima,

(Note: would that Leo meteor shower mean anything
astrologically?)

Actually your post triggered somethign else for me. (Big surprise,
right?)

While I find it a pain in the butt how much feminine looks are
emphasized on a purely woody level, as I said, I can get over
that. That's just what it is. A pain in the butt--not something I've
always wanted on a core level.

But what you described below *is* more something like I've
always desiree and so it's presence causes more happiness
and its absence causes more of a feeling of lack. I'm really into
views and forms among other things. Having or not having this
*level* of beauty (not youth so much as form) seems to include
or exclude one out of a certain level of creation. (Ting) I have a
belief that you are excluded of the Arena of the Gods if you will--a
certain archetypal level of creation if you don't have it--that you
can create this great life etc but are still *excluded* from this
highly creative circle.

And that's very irritating. Maybe I have some Ancient Greek
influences or something. Like many people, I was extremely
attatched to the Greek civilization and mythology as a kid --at one
point easily duplicating mosaics and sculptures from that era
when I was about 13. I used less dramatic scale and materials
though.

So maybe I'm still traumatized. :-)

Hmm. I may be on to something here. I have no idea what good
pivoting will do, but the clarification is there thanks to your post.

Careen




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Also...I learned something about beauty, from ancient Greece..
When people were young they would walk around almost naked
in ancient Greece...Then as they got older...they would wear a
HITONA (a cape-like covering). The reason for this was that
while they were out in public, to not destroy the KALOS (kalos
means BEAUTY in a way)...essentially to not destroy the
VIEW...for eyes to REST UPON beauty everywhere. Now I have
argued this point, that even in the wrinkled folds of elderly flesh
there must be beauty. But the ancient greek view was to try to
create on earth the beauty of the spiritual worlds...In any case
what do I want to say here. I believe we all have an unconscious
understanding...that all the beautiful forms we bring down to
earth, in art and architecture and music are from other realities,
that we remember and try to re-create here. And so we are kind
of "WIRED" to see beauty in all its forms. I mean a ripe apple on
a blossoming tree is beautiful. When it starts to wither and
decompose...well, yes this is a type of beauty but not
KALOS...KALOS is the exquisite form ....
So...to get mundane about this. I think it is natural that men or
women will be attracted to BEAUTY, in one way or
another...essentially unconsciously for this reason....This has
nothing to do with us as beings on earth and connection and
relationships, and attracting mates...and love making. This is a
separate kind of compulsion....I mean...besides my relationship
lover or otherwise...when I am old and wrinkly, I will have no
qualms about wearing a HITONA...for the essentially reason
said above...Respect for BEAUTY ....
So when a guy oogles a beautiful woman...I don't react any
more...Because I to oogle at beautiful men...but as an
understanding of it being a representation of BEAUTY on this
earth. But only that...I don't ADD to it...It has nothing to do with my
soul connection to others or the beauty I see in someone's heart
and soul at any age and in any form...IT just has to do with
BEAUTY as a physical formation...I hope this is clear...cause it
was hard to explain....
Lots of love,
Tima



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Re: [Abraham-Hicks] I'm confused/Prepaving vs. Time Lag

starseed
 

ammichaels@... wrote:

There is still a time lag -- even if you are prepaving an easy
commute before you get on the road.
[snip]



But why do some of us care about an easy commute?
... or parking space?
... or cellulite?
... or dollars?
... or lovers?

'Cause we want to feel good. AND we believe we know how the "universe"
should manipulate external events so we can let ourselves feel good.

Why not just prepave feeling good upon arriving at our commute's
destination? That gives the U much more latitude in its creativity, and
infinite more opportunities which which to surprise and delight.

Which is better -- an easy commute? -- or arriving feeling connected,
joyful and basking in the delightfully creative choreography and
well-being of creation?


Rick


Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Caroline Myss and changing the past

starseed
 

maija ruman wrote:

And exactly WHY would anyone want to change the past?
1. Because the present sucks? Remember that the present is infinitely malleable.
2. Because with a different past to remeber, it might be easier to be happy? You're happy or unhappy in the moment. Being happy in the past won't guarantee future happiness.
3. Because it's easier to build upon memories of past successes? Maybe. I'll let that one stand.
I can't think of any more reasons to hold on to what's gone, done with, chewed up and digested. LOve, Maija


...and shat out.


Rick


Re: [Abraham-Hicks] Food and weight and figuring it all out.

 

Intellectually I understand that food, excercise, etc can't effect my weight but the flip side of that is that changing what I eat, how much I excercise my body, etc won't change my weight either and I Know that that isn't true. So, how can I change my belief, a belief held for some 20 odd years at least, to match my desire on this one topic?
Hi, Juls ... It seems to me that now that you are asking, the Universe is giving you opportunities to change those beliefs.

And, why is it that once I change my views or start to I get a whole lot of
crap coming in to my life that just re-affirms my previous belief when I
didn't get that crap before I started messing with it?
I think it's because most of those beliefs you hold are dwelling in the subterranean depths of your subconscious mind. You have lived with them for so long that they feel normal and native to you. So you don't question them. It's like breathing or having two arms or whatever. It just is.

So when you CHALLENGE those beliefs, it's like you become aware of them for the first time. They become REALLY obvious to you. You're like, Oh my God, have I been BREATHING all this time?!

As I said above, I think they are really OPPORTUNITIES direct from the Universe. Everytime you get one, receive it joyously (as joyously as you can -- I know it feels like getting a lump of coal in your stocking) and say, "Thank you, Universe! Another opportunity to change an unwanted belief!" Then go into your mind and rescript the whole encounter.

I was just "playing" (not working) through Lynn Grabhorn's Playbook and came across a meditation re: this subject (p. 90). She said, "Whatever you want to remove in life, love it."

Okay so maybe you can't just force yourself to gush with love for the Strip Club Guy, but maybe you could start with something softer and then work up to love. For example, I feel compassion for him ... I think to myself, gee, he's got this wonderful woman at home, his life-partner, the woman he said vows to at the altar, and there she is at home, basking in the glow and the joy of pregnancy, carrying the baby they made together. Such a glorious time in both of their lives. So intimate, so profound, so joyous. And all he can see is her body looking fat? How sad.

Then I think, hmmm, maybe their relationship isn't really that close. Maybe they are not that intimate. Maybe he's searching, trying to find that. Or maybe he doesn't even have a clue about intimacy and all he looks at is bodies. Either way, how SAD.

So then I kinda feel sorry for the guy. I know at some level there has got to be a part of him that wants that connection with her, that knows that she is not Just a Body, that craves intimacy, that wants to share ALL of her, not just her body but her emotions and her spirit and her dreams and her laughter ... suddenly instead of seeing him as a sexist womanizing monster, I view him as lonely, lost, seeking ... and I care about him.

I know, it feels like a REAL stretch (because I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say you were repulsed on So Many Levels -- because I was right there with you!), but as you continue thinking in this vein you can see how you could end up feeling love for the guy.

Another way to approach this is to do as Lynn suggests and just work up a feeling of basking in love, and invite your "problem" --
whatever it may be, could be just the concept of Women as Objects --
and then surround it with that high-vibe feeling of love.

As far as the "well-padded" comment, again, an opportunity. I'd play with it and rescript it in my mind. I always imagine myself sitting down at the movie theater, nibbling on popcorn, and on the blank screen I play it out the way I would have liked it to go. Like see him being AMAZED at how light and airy you feel -- see him picking you up with one arm, throwing you over his shoulder and bounding around the restaurant like a football player celebrating a much-needed touchdown.

Ann Marie


Re: I'm confused/Prepaving vs. Time Lag

 

Olivia,
Here's my two cents on pre-paving...

My friend & I were driving down the freeway and once again, someone
cuts him off. He goes unto his usual tirad about how many jerks there
are on the road, etc.
I said, "Funny...when I'm driving, NOBODY cuts me off. As a matter of
fact, people seem to go out of their way to be nice to me."
(It wasn't always this way!)

I see prepaving NOT as the ability it instantly manifest, but as a
way to build a belief.

There are those who say thing like..."I never get sick", "I am always
on time", "I never gain weight", "Traffic just isn't a problem for
me. I just always seem to luck out," "I work with the best people!"

Or those who say..."I just can't seem to lose weight, no matter
what", "I always get in the wrong grocery store line", "Nothing ever
goes my way", "Why do I always have to work with idiots?"

Start listening to the people around you. It's quite amazing to
discover that they really are living their beliefs. THEN START
LISTENING TO WHAT YOU SAY EVERYDAY. Those innocent little comments
you make are YOUR beliefs. You can prepave in any direction. As
always, the choice is yours.
Smiles,
Marylou


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Here is something that I am a little confused on. How can "pre-
paving" work
(for ex: before you get on the expressway to go to work, you
prepave for a
safe, jam-free commute. Or, you pre-pave for a peaceful harmonious
conflict
free day at the office)

BUT Abe says that manifestation is not instant and that there is
ALWAYS a
time lag; so how can pre paving work?

I've always had a wierd feeling about "prepaving" and "how can it
really
work" b/c , there's no time lag there. Because - What you are
prepaving
for is going to be in the very next segment of your day.

Can anyone clarify for me or tell me if Abe has talked about this?

thank you!!
Olivia

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Re: [Abraham-Hicks] I'm confused/Prepaving vs. Time Lag

 

There is still a time lag -- even if you are prepaving an easy commute before you get on the road. Perhaps you are presuming that the time lag must be very long -- like days or weeks. It could be minutes or even seconds. Abe sez that 17 seconds of focused thought is worth 2000 action hours, yes?

I prepave parking spots all the time, just before I need them. But there is always that little bit of time before I start looking.

Here is something that I am a little confused on. How can "pre-paving" work
(for ex: before you get on the expressway to go to work, you prepave for a
safe, jam-free commute. Or, you pre-pave for a peaceful harmonious conflict
free day at the office)

BUT Abe says that manifestation is not instant and that there is ALWAYS a
time lag; so how can pre paving work?


[Abraham-Hicks] Re: Changing the past

 

Sometimes I think it's a very good idea to rescript the past. I have done it, and I've done it in a past life regression.

I understand that all we have is now, and we are moving toward the future, and that's the main focus. But sometimes, when I am scripting the future, unwanted images from the past come up. So I play with those images, those scenes, in my mind's eye. It helps.