<< In a message dated 7/26/99 4:15:12 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
loispayne@... writes:
<< im glad you are still here. but im still confused a little bit. well,
maybe a whole lot. Im not exactly sure what or who offended you. and now
im not exactly sure why whatever was bothering you is no longer bothering
you. the foul language stuff i was slinging at susan was slung with great
love and respect. i guess i thought if it was clear to susan then it was
pretty clear to everyone else on the list.
i think there is a world of difference when someone says "oh fuck" vs.
someone saying "fuck you". but both sayings in my opinion is a far cry
from someone being called a kike, spic, wetback, ho, dyke, fag, queer,
pussy, redneck, nigger, injun, polock, chink, raghead or cunt. i mean,
was someone attacking or being attacked on this list or was it the language
or attitudes or what? something went waaaaaaaaaaaay over my head here.
could someone help me with this? I have deleted my last six posts becasue
im so unclear as to what is offensive or not.
lo is confused
>>
Lois...
Confused about Ball o Light? There is always the archives....there is
something about your recent posts to Abe and EnAnon that is prompting me not
to ignore what sounds like a call for something more than clarification on
what offended Ball o Light.
The way you position your words and your choice of words say more to me than
you are happy ballolight stayed on the Abe list...This is the second post, my
friend..that I have sent you telling you I hear you...and I care.
In the future I am going to delete without reading because I do not feel
good when I read the words you post right now. If you need a friend, someone
to bounce ideas off or someone to lean on I am here, just PEM me.
I am choosing to see you soar into the Light more magnificent than the Great
Phoenix...
Love you,
really...
Nori
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