This topic is a wonderful one to chew on for me!
I came out of a relationship with tons of contrast and like a Phoenix
rising from the ashes I came out knowing clearly what I wanted. But I
focused that want on a particular person. I asked the Universe for a
sign that this person was right for me and I got such a clear sign that
it still sends chills down my spine.
I then proceeded to move heaven and earth (okay it was just myself and
my daughter across 4 states) to bring this person back into my life. As
I was heading out of the parking lot on this life change I scraped the
side of my car along a low brick wall, making a huge dent and scratch.
Hhmmm...why did I create that when I was so happy and sure of myself?
Months later I scraped and dented myself as I tried to bring this person
into my life. Does anyone remember "My Best Friend's Wedding"? Well, I
wasn't that bad, but I was SURE that he was right for me. After all the
Universe had shown me a sign and I left no room for any other
possibility. It took me quite awhile to realize it wasn't going to
happen with him. I lost faith, gained weight and struggled with where I
went wrong. That was when I "gave up" on the Abraham teachings for
awhile. But the Big U knew what I wanted and with a little help from a
Diva, Marelin, I realigned my desire for the relationship I wanted. A
wonderful technique that helped me clearly state my desire then get out
of the way!
3 Years later I am blissfully happy with my sweet husband. Now with
hind sight I realize that particular man in my past was not a perfect
match to the person I had become, he was a match to a "me" from the
past. I got so hung up on telling the Universe who it should be instead
of letting the Universe do it's thing. But, hey, it's worked out in the
end! *big grin*
Well, this is long and just my slant. I have attracted people back into
my life successfully but, for me, it has never matched what I expected
or desired because I failed to take into account how life and experience
changes each of us on a daily basis. And that's a good thing!
In Joy,
~~Megan~~
