Abe Now, 3/12/25, part 2, 39:34 – Slow down to speed up
Q: Hello Abraham. I'm tired of the emotional roller coaster. I do the work. I shift my perception, feel the emotional change. I get to the high flying place. But then out of nowhere something happens that flips everything, and I spiral down. In those moments, I don't want to hear about law of attraction. I resist everything, including your message. I don't want to hear a voice.
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My question is, it's not about why I attracted the event, but why I attracted the negative emotion in response to it. If I was truly flying high, wouldn't I be immune to that drop? How can I become more in tune with my emotions so I can recognize when I'm slipping, before I crash? Is my emotional guidance system out of tune? Thank you. Love you.
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A: We would say that your emotional guidance system is very much in tune. That's why you're sensitive to the things that make you crash. You see, alignment, attunement, calibrating to your inner being, is not something that once you get there, you just stay there. It's not like a medal, or an award, or a college degree that's always yours. It either is or it isn't in the moment. And so, your guidance system is keeping up with you moment by moment.
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So, first we want to say to you, don't be upset with yourself for having step one moments, because they all add to the whole. And really, it's actually good news. You don't know it while you're making that video. But it's actually good news for you to feel so strong about something. Because what that means is you really, really, really want to feel good. You want the balance of mostly, mostly, mostly feeling good.
So here's something that we want to promise to you. It’s something that we hear Esther say often to people that are up close to her, her good friends, and her daughter. “I still get mad. Or I still get frustrated. But it doesn't last very long. Something that comes to me, that ordinarily would have taken me days to reclaim my balance about, now often just takes a few minutes, or even a few seconds.” Because her desire to feel good is like yours. It’s so strong that it's reaching the place where nothing else will do.
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And we finally convinced her, or she's allowed herself to remember, or to come to understand how this all works. That you're supposed to feel good. You are supposed to feel good.
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It's not… So many are not encouraged to feel good. You're encouraged to struggle, and to try, and to suffer, and to put up with things that you don't like, and to suck it up. And so, you've got one foot in both worlds a bit. Where you're trying to please the people that need you to perform. And your inner being is calling you with love and no requirements, other than your magnificent beingness.
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It's important to remember that… We'll start again. When you first were speaking, if we had interrupted the video right then after your first bit, we would have said to you that you're living a sort of conditional alignment. You can focus on things and get feeling pretty good. But then you said that then something drops in, and it takes you off. Well, that's the part that we really want you to hear. We want you to…
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And this is the action step. This is the methodology. This is the process. This is the understanding. This is the understanding of how it works, and what to do because you understand how it works. This is the thing to do to not be so bothered by what you were describing here. We talked about it at the beginning of the broadcast.
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Understand that you are in a field of attraction. And you're constantly stepping into a new segment of this field of attraction, and a new segment of this field of attraction, and a new segment of this field of attraction. Do your best to be prepared to step into the new segment. And then that preparation will keep things from blindsiding you.
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In other words, what you didn't realize when something slapped you like that, was that it didn't just all of a sudden show up. It's been on the way. It's been on the way, but you haven't been discerning enough to change your focus, and so you let it gain some momentum. We've been saying to friends for a long time that things don't just come out of the blue. They come out of the oblivious, out of the lack of awareness of what your point of attraction is. And that's okay. You just get better and better and better at it.
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When you really, really, really want something, and you're off kilter from it, it really feels bad. If you sort of want something and you're off kilter, it sort of feels bad. But if you really want it and you're off kilter, it feels really bad. And so, just know that your guidance system is working, and that you're doing a good job. But we don't want you to work hard at this. We want you to understand it, and we know you do. We want you to be playful about it, and sometimes you are. We want you to be easy about it.
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Usually people feel like you were describing when something really matters, and they feel like they're out of time about it. Like it feels like urgency, like time shortage urgency, and so you need it to happen fast.
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But you still got to slow down to make it happen fast. Isn't that interesting? You have to slow down and ease up to make it happen fast. We've never said that before. But it is vibrationally the truest thing that we've ever said, the most accurate thing we've ever said. Sometimes you have to slow down in order to speed up.
