Let's change the word loss to “perceived loss.” ?
Let's call it a “stupid perceived loss.”?
Let's call it “an unnecessary ridiculous perception of loss that doesn't really exist.” ?
Let's call it what it is.?
Because there is no loss.?
When someone that you love dies you know what happened to them? ?They went into their Vortex and became all that they've been asking for.?
That's not a loss.
And you know who they're hanging around with? The larger part of you. So if they feel lost to you it's only because you're not hanging around with the larger part of you.?
When you say “it may be more difficult to talk to them,” you are arguing for your limitations again.?
You can't listen to a radio station that you're not tuned to either, but you don't call it “loss.”?
We don't see you in your car with your head on your steering wheel sobbing “What's wrong, I can't find 101! It's gone! I'm getting some other station!” ?Just tune the dial, and it's right there. Right there.?
The flawed premise that you've been living under is that “now they're gone - they're really gone.” You speak of people who have made their transition as lost or dead or or gone.?
Understand that there is no ending to anything, and that you still do have access to that which they are. You really do.?
You could still hang out with them, ?but the difference between the hanging out you're doing now and the hanging out you may have been doing then is that they're in a very high vibrational place now, so they are not as you remember them.
They are not disappointed about anything.?
They're not worried about anything. They've left behind all that worrisome stuff, and they're in a very high vibrational place.?
Do they still sound like somebody you'd like to hang out with??
You say it can’t feel as good because what you're longing for is what you had.?
What you're longing for is the tactile, the tangible, the auditory, the visual.?
You're longing for something that clearly is not possible, not at this point.
But stay with us because this is this larger point that we've been wanting to make.?
Because of your fixation all humans have on physical reality - of wanting to see it and hear it and smell it and taste it and touch it - you have been misunderstanding that so many of your relationships were based upon something so much more.?
There is an emotional connection to every single person.?
Together you the two of you created a version of a relationship that was
bigger and better than this relationship ever came to be.?
In other words, every debate or argument you had, you became clearer and wiser.?
Every time you misunderstood or didn't agree, harmony became part of it. Together you created a relationship that most people in their physical form will never ever come close to actually enjoying in physical terms.?
But now you have the ability to go into your Vortex and to live the reality of that relationship.?
Which means this relationship that you're missing temporarily has the potential of satisfying you in bigger better ways than you ever experienced before.
Esther's relationship with her parents is richer and more satisfying now than in the years that they were living because in the years that they were living Esther was always really scratching her mind to try to find ways that she could help their life be just a little better.?
And everything that she tried never really made their life any better. Because their life was what they were creating it to be and Esther really did not have that kind of creative control in their life. Whereas now she doesn't do any of that. Now she just enjoys the richness of all that they are.
They have deep conversations that they never had time for.?
Now that they've reemerged into non-physical they're on the same
wavelength.?
So the satisfaction is so much more so now.
So you're missing them, missing this person, and your logic says it's not going to ever be like it was. But through this experience you now have put something into the Vortex that was never there before either. There is a new wanting.?
A wanting to be up to speed so that you can communicate with this person.
There is a new desire.?
This experience of this person making their transition has caused you to expand to a place that you have never been before.
Which means your responsibility–this is the only time we use the word responsibility - your responsibility is to now get up to speed with this more-than-usual expanded version of you, because of what happened.?
So your sadness is not because of the loss of this person. Your sadness is because you're in a new place that you're further from than you were before, because I've launched more powerful rockets of desire.?
But you say to yourself if I know that I feel bad because life caused me to expand and I'm using some thought and keeping myself from expanding now, at least I have hope that I could change the thought and
close the gap.?
We want to say to you in very loving but powerful terms you're the only one who can make yourself feel better.
?It's not your dearly not-so-departed loved one’s job to make you feel better.?
And that's what your “dead” friend would say to you. “I can't come back to physical life to make you feel better, man.?
You've got to figure this out.?
You’ve got to figure out how to catch up with you. Don't lay this on me croaking.”
~ Abraham-Hicks
(Compiled by JD Estep)
