Abraham on regretting past decision - 1/30/24, 2:14:40
Q: Hey Abraham and Esther and everybody. Thank you so much for this opportunity and these lovely recordings. I?always get too shy to hit send on the question, but I could use some help on releasing some old memories that haunt me. On this particular annual day years ago I had a tough, tough moment that has really impacted me. And it seems your other processes are really helpful, but giving birth to a child and then relinquishing them to adoption just was not good for me or my soul as far as I can tell and I don't know how to fix this. Thank you for your help.
A: Well, let's start with the?new powerful, stubborn on our part, insistent on our part, way of looking at life that we've been speaking to you all about recently, which is?let's let go of the rightness and wrongness.?Cuz there are a lot of people with lots of opinions about that.
And let's talk about instead, the path of least resistance or the path of most allowance. We touched on this briefly earlier when we said that contrast helps you to choose.
And we want to say to you that even though you've reworked it in your mind many, many times, and you've moved through life and you've stood in many different points of attraction and mindsets, that you did follow the path of least resistance at that time. And the key to living happily ever after is to continue to follow the path of least resistance.
Because the path of most resistance or more resistance is about, "Oh I made a wrong choice. I shouldn't have done that.?I wish I hadn't done that." All of that pushing against which holds you out of alignment with your inner being.
The topic of?path of most allowance - we want this topic to catch on with all of you.?Because you can't live happily ever after until you understand it and embrace it.
If you are a human, who is still trying to figure out what's right and wrong, not just for you, but for everybody else. And you're trying to join together in camps or clusters on the right side of this subject and this subject while you push against those that are on the other subject, on the other idea of what's right, you will be at war forever with most everybody.
But if you can stand in your now, and give yourself a break by acknowledging that you always were doing the best that you could do at the time.?
Because you had a set of vibrational frequencies and you had a relationship with your inner being that you weren't in control of that relationship. You didn't even really know about that relationship until you had some hardship that let you feel when you were pinching yourself off from it or when you were allowing it.
So you just have to let yourself be all right with whatever you've lived because you cannot go back in time and relive it, but you can stand in?this?time and find a path of least resistance from where you stand.
And if you don't your destined to live out the law of attraction's version of what pushing against always brings.?That feeling of guilt or regret is the biggest waste of the now moment in time. Because you're standing in a place where you are pushing against, and nothing other than more to push against can come to you.
Because the law of attraction is not saying "Oh she's pushing against and doesn't mean to, so let's give her thoughts that are different than the thoughts that she's offering vibrationally." The law of attraction is consistently giving you?thoughts and memories and new experiences that match the active vibration, the active vibration right now.
So maybe your dominant vibration has been one of regret for all of these years, especially on this anniversary of it.?But oh, don't you want to let go of that, and live in your now? And find that feeling place, that feeling experience, that feeling vibration that your inner being is feeling?
Because your inner being was with you the day that that happened and every day since.?And in all of those days ever since that you've chosen to push against yourself rather than flow with your inner being, you have not felt good.?And from our point of view it is really time to start reaching for the path of allowing, which is allowing yourself to rendez-vous with your inner being.
It's a big subject, we know.?And a big part of the population would really have a battle with us about this, in their misunderstanding of what we're saying.?And a lot of you, you won't understand a lot of this until you have your croaking experience and you re-emerge into non-physical and you take on the full point of view of the source within you and you understand your goodness and your worthiness and the?Well-Being that you're entitled to.
It is our desire that you?care enough about feeling good that you are willing to reach for how your inner being feels about this and all other things, which is a feeling of feeling good.
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Abraham on cat transitioning to non-physical - 1/30/24, 2:21:48
Q: I have a question about death and the non-physical. My beloved cat passed away yesterday. The pain of the loss affects me immensely. Although I always hear you say that there is no separation and that we are still in contact with our beloved deceased.
(A: We call them your dearly, not so departed.)
Q: How can I manage to continue to be in tangible, stable, joyful contact with my cat?
A: Well, we don't know that you can be in tangible contact with that cat. And we don't know that that would be a really good idea if you could.?You don't want to carry a dead cat around in your arms. That's a tangible contact. And we're not making fun of you. We're making a little fun, but we're not making fun of you.?We want you to not need the physicality of it, but to want the feeling of it.
In other words, your cat has an inner being too.?Your cat has non-physical Source energy too. Your cat has eternal awareness too.
And so we know that is what you meant. You said tangible, stable, joyful contact. So you didn't only mean tangible. You meant feel-able.?Maybe you meant tangible in the sense that it's emotional. An emotion is tangible. You can feel it. It's in your body. You can feel it.
We could be practical and say find another kitty cat.?And your cat that you love so much and remember will join that cat's essence and you will recognize the personality traits.
That's one of the nice things about your pets. They're in and out of physical so easily. They have a lighter touch to the physical life. They don't regret even when they're in their physical bodies, and that's why they so often become your very best friends.
Because they're all the time happy. They don't carry grudges around.?They don't hold a bag of marbles of criticism about you. Their active bag of marbles is about now. Pet me. Feed me. Let me go do what I want to do. It would be nice if you could be more like your cat.
So just take it easy. This intense discomfort will lift off of you. It will.?But we don't want you to miss the benefit.?And we don't want you to take this the wrong way, any of you. Whether it's your deceased husband... There's no dead. There's no ceasing to exist. Is that what deceased means? No longer existing? Ceasing to exist? That doesn't exist. There is not any of that.
But when someone that you care about makes their transition into non-physical,?it's something that almost all of you do. You reach for "where are they?" And we like that so much because as you're reaching for them, often you find your inner being. Often you find?their?inner being. Often you find?their?inner being before you find?your?inner being, if you were not already acquainted with your inner being. Because when you reach for them that non-physical essence of them is still active, and reachable by you.
