Abe on Prosperity Focus -
1/20/24, 30:30?
Q: Hello. I have a boyfriend
who I love very much and I am considering marrying. He has more resistance
surrounding money than I believe that I do. And I'm wondering what is the best
way to work around his resistance? Is it just for me to get my vibration so
high and so strong that his doesn't even matter? Or would it be better to hold
him as my object of attention and try to visualize him getting abundance? Or is
it sort of what I have been doing, which is keeping my own finances to myself
and just like not really telling him when I spend a lot of money so I don't
stir up resistance in him? What do you think? Thank you.
A: Well all of those things that you suggested
are good ideas, of course. Every one of them. But at the basis of everything
that you came up with is something that we really, really, really, really,
really want you to hear.?You want
to practice so well your sense of abundance that you're not rattled when
someone around you, up close to you, that matters to you, isn't right there.?
In other words, we've been
talking to you all recently about your point of attraction. And how every
thought that you've ever thought still exists and could potentially be
activated. But the thoughts that you practice deliberately activating are those
that are most likely to be activated. And so, we've been likening it to
carrying around a bag of marbles.?Little marbles and big bag,
so to speak. And that bag represents your point of attraction. And you've got
one, and so does everybody else.
So, Let's say that you've been thinking about
prosperity and you've been feeling it. And when you think about it, you ask
yourself:?
Do I feel prosperous or am I
just faking it??No,
I really feel prosperous. ?
Do I believe that my
prosperity is going to become more??Or am I just pretending
that I do??No,
I really believe it. ?
Do I think that what somebody
else thinks needs to affect what I think? Or do I know that I can stand clear
in what I know without being affected by others??Well I know I can stand
clear in what I know. I've been practicing it. ?
In other words, when you
stand in your knowing of prosperity, what is currently doesn't rattle you, and
what anybody else is thinking or doing about it doesn't rattle you.?But most of you haven't
yet come to really know that it's your point of attraction that matters. You
keep tying your point of attraction in with everyone else's. As if you need to
control behavior of others in order for you to get what you want. ?
And there is nothing in the
law of attraction or your point of attraction that is anything like that except
that you could be influenced by what somebody else thinks. If somebody talks a
lot about not having enough money or worries a lot about it and you listen and
try to be there for them and have conversations with them, you can be talking
each other into what you're not wanting, into the absence of what you are
wanting. It really is just about practicing. You'll hear more as we are moving
forward today about choices that you could make as you are moving along. You're
doing really well.
The bottom line is you want to get to the place
where what other people think is of no concern to you. Because everybody has
their own point of attraction and the freedom to attract by virtue of their own
point of attraction. And really when you think about it,?it's not your job
or even your right to change their point of attraction. And you're only going
to be all right with that when you understand the power of your own point of
attraction.??
In other words, you just
can't worry about what anybody else is doing. Think what a nice place this
world would be to live in if everyone could just leave everyone to their own
opinions.
We're gonna give you
something here. We're getting a little long here in relationship to how many
things that we want to talk about. But this is really an important thing to
understand.?Most people, when we present to them what we just presented to
you - don't worry about what other people are thinking about; it's really none
of your business - most people really are hung up on this notion of well
there's right and there's wrong. And also, your opinion feels right to you
because you think it and the law of attraction shows it to you. And so it seems
like it's right.?And so, when you're thinking about, is it right
or is it wrong, you get all twisted up in wanting people to agree with you on
what you believe is right.?
And
we want you to come to this place where instead of arguing with each other
about what's right or wrong, if instead you will accept that people have the
freedom to create. And they will not negatively impact your experience if
you're not thinking in opposition to what you desire.
This is a big topic.?But?if
you can think in terms of what is my path of most allowance, rather than what's
right and wrong. Most allowance to what? Most allowance to who I am as Source
energy. Most allowance to the love that is really me. Most allowance to the
evolution that I've experienced.?Most allowance to what I've been asking
for. Most allowance to seeing the best in others.
Esther noticed with Jerry, on a regular basis,
every day really. Jerry made a statement that it was his powerful desire that
he would uplift others. "I want to only uplift" he would say. "I
never want anyone's experience to ever be diminished as a result of knowing me."
And Esther appreciated hearing that from him. And witnessed it. He was such an
uplifter, not just for her, but with others.?
But recently as we've been
talking about your point of attraction, and your bag of marbles, and tending to
your bag of marbles, and being so desirous of being in tune with your inner
being, who only loves those who you are focused upon.?
Your inner being only sees
the best in others.?And so, if you have practiced yourself into being in
sync with your inner being who only sees the best, then you would only ever be
able to uplift them.??
But when you worry about
them,?or disagree with them, or push
against them, or fuss over their opinion in comparison to your right and wrong
opinion, then you are no longer in sync with the Source that is you and you
really have nothing to give another in way of uplifting them.?
People's vibration literally
will rise or lower as you focus upon them with your strong vibrational focus.
And when you're in sync with your inner being, loving them,?loving them,
you can't help but uplift them.?
