Loneliness is always about missing your connection to you...
True love and missing someone are not on the same end of the stick at all. And yet, there are a lot of people who think that if true love is on one end of the stick, then you got to miss them on the other end. And we say, True love does not feel like missing somebody. You say, “Even when you are not with them?” We say, “Even when you are not with them.”
In other words, that is a lack-based mentality. Whether they are 3,000 miles away or not.
~ Abraham-Hicks
When you are in your vortex, you are in alignment with what you want, and so “missing” could not be an emotion that you are feeling. But what happens is…here is the powerful phrase we want you to sort of repeat to yourself for a little while, for a few days: “When I think I am missing this person, what I am really missing is my connection with who I am, and I am blaming it on the fact that I am not with that person.”
So, what you are missing is your connection to you, and to your creation of the relationship the way you want it to be. Now, hear it: This is really powerful…when you feel that feeling that feels like emptiness, you are missing your connection. And when you are missing your connection, you cannot have the stuff that is in your Vortex, because you are denying yourself of it. The emotion indicates that.
So, when you say to someone: “I miss you. I really suffer when we are not together”, what you are saying is: “I use us not being together as my excuse to not align with who I am, and therefore to deprive myself of everything that I want, including the improved relationship with you.” As long as you miss someone, and do it fairly frequently, things cannot get better.
The best relationship is when you say, “I don't miss you at all. I don't miss you at all.” Of course, you want them to be in the Vortex with you, and understand what you mean.
~ Abraham-Hicks
