From Suraj on Facebook today:
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? ? ? Esther has been doing a process, in fact she’s putting together some booklets to make available for you, in case you want to follow her morning ritual. She is been doing for a while and loving the experience of it.?
So the process at one point, she comes to this place where she takes 12 people that she’s likely to interact with today, and calls them her dominant co creative partners.?
And it’s a range of different people, some that she works with, some that she is family with, some that she’s freinds with, some that she’s likely to run into in a professional way in some way today, because there is a meeting.?
So she just lists the top 12 for today.?
And then she began just sitting to make a list of positive aspects.?
And the reason is because she is wanting to tune herself to the best of them.?
So, she she is finding herself writing things like, .... steady, hardworking, efficient, effective .
She did this for a week and another week, different people, and then she had a thought one morning, it sort of wafted in, from her vortex and she realized, she wants to put ...”fun”she wants to put “understands their worthiness”, she wants to put “experiences unconditional love”.?
?And it made her realize that she was,?
with all of her well intentioned process,?
she was actually evoking from them some of the very things that she ?doesn’t want to be evoked from her.?
Yes, it’s vitreous to be hardworking and diligent and all of that.?
But aren’t we talking about something different here??
Aren’t we talking about allowing the wellbeing that is you??
In other words Esther thought, as an employer of course she is wanting that from people who are working with her, but are those the most important things that she is wanting from them,?
or are they far down on the list.?
Are they things that are being offered anyway.?
What is it that Esther wants to evoke from those with whom she is interacting??
And this came on the heels of the conversation we have been having about unconditional love.?
About how you look out into the world and you notice a condition.?
Lets say a good one, and then you have a good feeling response to that condition. Because you like to feel good, now you look out into the world for other good feeling conditions.?
And sometimes as you look out there for those conditions and you find a not good feeling condition and now it feels to you like the condition needs to change so that you can feel good.?
And we say isn’t that the perfect definition of conditional love??
Create a vibrational atmosphere around you, so that you are offering a vibration, so that you are setting up your buttons that will be pushed by those who are coming in contact with you.?
You are wanting a vibrational environment and you want to be responding to life from that and not from the conditions that are out there.?
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When something occurs in your life experience, a good question Esther has been asking ....?
Am I responding to a condition that is out there over which I have no control??
Or am I responding to the climate that I have been practicing??
So now, Esther is writing her list of positive aspects of people that she cares about, and realizing that she is actually placing conditions upon them.?
She thought this is how we all got trained that way.?
This is how we got trained away from our own guidance, into jumping through hoops for others.?
They gave us rewards for being diligent,?
they gave us rewards for showing up on time.?
In what case did anyone give you an award for having the most fun??
When did they give you the award for coming in unconditional love??
And so there’s a sort of reorienting that you are wanting to do with those who you care about.?
It is so core to every relationship that you have.
Because when people are yanking your chain or pushing your buttons or they seem to be on a lower flying disk, and you are responding to them and you say,?
Oh boy my life would be so much better without you, or if you were different in this way or in this way.?
And we say this is what’s going on in your world.?
You are saying, you all need to be different than you are in order for us to feel good,
and so we will put these restraints or these controls upon you.?
When what everyone has to understand is, that you equal your own point of attraction and there are not going to be enough laws or enough jails or enough bombs or enough influence, enough controlling of conditions for you to live the happy life that you want to live.?
It’s an inside job.?
So you get in the morning, you reach for the thought and you practice it until you really got it.?
And before you know it, you are moving through your world and all good things are coming to you and others are looking at you and they are saying things to you like,?
I don’t know why but I feel my very best when I am around you.?
You bring the very best out of me.?
I am more brilliant when I am with you than any other time.?
I am more funny when I am with you than in any other time.?
I feel the very best when I am with you than at any other time?
Don’t you want to elicit that from your mates and from your children and from your co workers and from strangers on the street ?
Isn’t that who you are ?
Isn’t your point of attraction everything?
And is their point of attraction any of your business??
And is the way they behave, is it up to them to change their behavior, so that you can feel good about their behavior ??
Or is it up to you to change the way you look in general, ?so that you are sifting and sorting and seeing that which is a vibrational match to what’s active within you.?
These are the secrets of the universe friends.?
This is living life in the way that you have intended. ??
? Abraham-Hicks.
