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Today's Inspiration

 

Celebrating a MItzvah


Rabbi Mordechai Tzernobiler said: "The banquet which we Jews give to celebrate a mitzvah is more worthy than the mitzvah itself." A parable illustrates this:

The Satan brought many serious accusations against the Jews, and their defender, the Archangel Michael, knew of no arguments in their behalf. After a while he said: 'The few mitzvoth which Jews perform, offset their many transgressions. When a Jew performs a circumcision, he gives a banquet, beause he is overjoyed at having done a mitzvah. Have you ever seen a Jew, however, celebrating when he transgresses? This demonstrates that he feels no joy in his offense, and only succumbs becuae of wekaness. In the mitzvah he feels intense happiness.' This defense before the Heavenly Tribunal proved successful.
"hHnce you see," continued the Tzernobiler, "how important is the celebration of a mitzvah!"

Source: Aterett ha-Zaddikim


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Today's Inspiration

 

The Lord is God

Rabbi Baruch of Medziboz was informed of the many miracles accredited to the Lizensker. he said: "How utterly useless they are! When Elijah performed miracles, we are told that the people exclaimed: 'The Lord is God' (Kings: 18:39). But nowadays, the people grow enthusiastic over the reputed miracle-worker, and forget entirely to say:?'The Lord is God.' "

Source: The Hasidic Anthology


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Picking Lemons in Moshav Zeytan

DATE: Tuesday, December 26
DEPART: 7:30 a.m. from Inbal Hotel


? On?Tuesday, December?26?we will be helping?a farmer at Moshav Zeytan, near Lod.
This moshav was established by Jews who fled Libya shortly after the establishment of the state.

Our host has lemon orchards that must?be harvested.
There will be restrooms and a?chance to take as many breaks from?work as required.

After our morning of volunteering, we shall return to Yerushalayim?where we will?visit Mt Zion. There, we will have a?guided tour?of the very first Holocaust memorial/museum, the "Chamber of the Holocaust"?opposite the?tomb of King David.

This modest, almost hidden site will enter your soul, and will forever?be a part of it.

We will have the opportunity to pray at the tomb?of King David at this most crucial time of our?nation's history.

We will depart at 7:30 a.m. from the Inbal Hotel and return to Mount Zion where our bus will leave us. After we visit Mt Zion (approx 5 pm), we will use public transportation to go home.

Note:?In case of rain the volunteering part of the day will be canceled and we will restructure the program.

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The precariousness of Jewish life in the Diaspora -

 

Here's an interesting perspective?relating current events to the parasha, written by Rabbi David?Harbater.

Shabbat Shalom and Besorot Tovot!

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The precariousness of Jewish life in the Diaspora - lessons from Joseph

By David Harbater


I grew up in Philadelphia and then lived in New York City for ten years before moving to Israel in 1992. I take great pride in the fact that I never personally encountered antisemitism in any form during my years in America. Indeed, for most Jews growing up at that time and until recently, America has been the land of endless opportunity. Jews have enjoyed unprecedented prosperity and success and have risen to the upper echelons of society in the realm of politics and law, culture and the arts, business and technology, the media and entertainment, and science and academia.

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Nevertheless, as we have all become acutely aware, there has been a dramatic shift in the attitude toward Jews in America since October 7th. The ADL has reported a 337 percent increase in antisemitic vandalism, harassment, intimidation, and violence - including 400 antisemitic incidents on college campuses, and although Jews constitute only 2 percent of the population, they are subject to 60 percent of the religion-based hate crimes. And, of course, we are all familiar by now with the disgraceful display of moral bankruptcy by presidents of three of the most prestigious universities who said that it is a matter of "context" as to whether calls for genocide against the Jewish people violate campus rules regarding harassment.

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Unfortunately, the Jews in Europe have not fared much better. In Germany, there has been a 240 percent increase in antisemitic incidents and the percentage is even higher in France and the U.K. Furthermore, it is not just the number of incidents, but also the pride with which they are expressed. One example is a video that went viral of passengers on the Paris M¨¦tro chanting, ¡°F¡ª the Jews and f¡ª your mother, long live Palestine, we are Nazis and proud of it¡± and another is the infamous chant "From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free".

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This unfortunate situation has led many Diaspora Jews to be more cautious about public displays of Jewishness and some are beginning to ask whether there is a future for Jewish life in the Diaspora at all.

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While there is no simple answer to this question, I believe we may gain some insight from the story of Joseph that appears in the Torah portions that we read at this time. The Torah tells us that after his brothers threw him into a pit, Joseph was sold as a slave to Potiphar, a courtier of the Egyptian Pharaoh, and his chief steward. Nevertheless, when Potiphar soon saw that God was with him "and lent success to everything he undertook" he decided to put Joseph in charge of his household and of all that he owned. Joseph's rapid rise to power in Egypt, however, was cut short when Potiphar's wife falsely accused him of seducing her. Enraged by this betrayal, Potiphar sent Joseph to prison where he remained for two years until his fate took a turn for the better, once again. After Joseph, who had established a reputation as a master of interpreting dreams, successfully interpreted Pharaoh's dreams, he was promoted to the second-in-command, behind only Pharaoh himself. In recognition of this lofty position, Joseph was fitted with a signet ring, dressed in Egyptian garb, given an Egyptian wife, and assigned the Egyptian name Zaphenath-paneah, which means "the creator/sustainer of life". Joseph, in other words, had "made it" in Egypt.

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Although Joseph had acquired enormous power, and had gained a worldwide reputation for his astute management of Egypt's economy during the seven years of abundance, he never abandoned his Jewish roots. When his brothers came to Egypt from Canaan in search of food, and after putting them through a series of tests, Joseph revealed himself as their long-lost brother. He then declared that his rise to power was part of God's plan to ensure their survival. He told them to bring their father Jacob, along with the entire family, from Canaan, whereupon he settled them in Goshen, "the choicest part of the land of Egypt". The Torah tells us that Joseph continued to look out for their welfare, that he enabled them to acquire holdings in Goshen, and as a result, the people of Israel were "fertile and increased greatly".

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The Joseph story, thus, would seem to be a wonderful paradigm for the way in which Diaspora Jews may reach the heights of integration into gentile society without relinquishing their identity as Jews. If Joseph and his family could live comfortably as minorities in a foreign land, so could their descendants in future generations. Such a conclusion would, indeed, be warranted if the story were to conclude at this point. Unfortunately, it does not.

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In the beginning of the book of Exodus, the Torah tells us "A new king arose over Egypt who did not know Joseph" (Exodus 1:8), which soon led to the decision to oppress the Israelite people, subject them to harsh labor, and ultimately to the killing of all the male newborns. Although the Rabbis debate whether the term "new king" refers to the emergence of a new and cruel Pharaoh or to the same Pharaoh who, at some point, decided to turn against the Jews, I believe there is truth in both views. Sometimes the fate of Jews living as minorities can change for the worse with a change in the leadership, and sometimes it can change when the same leaders encounter new attitudes, cultures, and ideologies that develop within the larger society. Either way, it was not until God took the people of Israel out of Egypt and brought them to the Promised Land where they would then establish their own sovereign state, that they were able to express their religious and ethnic identity with pride and confidence.

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Thus, rather than showing how it is possible for Jews to live safely and comfortably in the Diaspora, the Joseph story illustrates how precarious and fleeting Diaspora life can be.

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While the Joseph story is only one among many, and while we should never make decisions based solely on our experiences of the past, I believe that there are valuable lessons to be learned from this story as we grapple with the challenges of Jewish life in the Diaspora in the future.


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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
Day 93 ¨C Admonishing the Speaker
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The commandment, you shall reprove your fellow (Vayikra?19:17), requires a Jew to inform a sinner that his behavior is improper, and attempt to convince him to mend his ways. In voicing his disapproval, one must be prepared to endure embarrassment and insult and should continue to protest. Only in a case where one knows that his reproof would cause the sinner to react by committing more serious offenses is he to refrain from speaking up.
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(Reproof must be administered with respect and understanding, and should be done in private whenever possible ¨C see Rashi to Vayikra?19:17).
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Generally speaking, one is required to interrupt and reprove the speaker of loshon hora, and do his best to ensure that he put a halt to his sinful speech. As mentioned, this does not apply when the speaker would likely react by expressing yet greater negativity towards the person he was speaking about, as a way of defending his sinful talk.
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Another situation where reproof would be out of place is when:
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The speaker does not realize that the information he is conveying is loshon hora, or is totally unaware that loshon hora is prohibited by the Torah; and
it is obvious that the speaker will continue speaking loshon hora even after being told that this is forbidden.
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In such a case, reproof would transform the speaker from an inadvertent sinner into one who sins intentionally. Hence, it is better not to reprove him.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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Choose Your Company
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One should avoid association with a given group unless he knows that its members are careful to avoid forbidden speech. If circumstances demand such association, one should limit it to a minimum, and maintain silence whenever possible. Even one sinner can ruin an entire group and make it necessary to avoid being in its company.
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Sefer Rosh HaGivah writes:
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Be alert, my son, regarding that which King Shlomo said: ¡±In the ears of a fool do not speak, lest he disparage the wisdom of your words¡± (Mishlei 23:9). Beware of a gathering of one hundred men among whom is found even one scoffer or fool, and certainly if [one of the fools] is a wise man in his own eyes, for he is the quintessential fool ...1 Strengthen yourself to sit in silence at such a gathering, do not discuss anything at all. Even if you will speak all sorts of wisdom, they [the scoffers and fools] will best you and grant you disgrace, as it is written,¡±Iniquity appears and disgrace follows¡± (ibid. 11:2).
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If you wish to converse [at such a gathering] with a man like yourself, be careful that your words not reach their [the scoffers¡¯] ears. Thus does Scripture advise:¡±In the ears of a fool do not speak,¡¯¡¯ rather than, ¡±Do not speak with a fool.¡¯¡¯
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  1. See Mishlei 26:12. A fool who considers himself wise has no hope of acquiring wisdom, and thus is the greatest fool of all (Metzudos ad loc.).
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?Keep reading Day 94, the lesson for Shabbos
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
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Day 94 ¨C Group Reproof

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We have seen that one must reprove the speaker of?loshon hora?even if it is highly unlikely that the reproof will be effective.
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When several people are involved in a discussion that includes?loshon hora, one must speak up and caution them that what they are discussing is forbidden. However, unlike the case of an individual who speaks?loshon hora, if the people ignore reproof, one should not persist in his rebuke unless he feels that his words might ultimately achieve a positive result. In an unreceptive group setting, it is wise to refrain from excessive reproof.
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An exception to this rule is when one finds himself in a community where the prohibition of?loshon horahas long been disregarded. Widespread disregard calls for more than ordinary reproof. It demands persistent protest, calling for an awareness of the severity of speaking?loshon hora, and knowledge of what constitutes?loshson hora.

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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON

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Step-by-Step

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One who seeks to attain the quality of?shmiras haloshon?should use the very opposite approach of the gossiper. The gossiper makes it his habit to sit among groups involved in conversation, in the hope that he will hear some bit of information that he can ridicule or spread to others. The gossiper is forever in search of ¡±the latest news¡± in his town, so that he will have no lack of material to relate all day and night.
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The quality of?shmiras haloshon?should be attained gradually. The first step is to accustom oneself to avoid groups involved in idle conversation and to train oneself not to inquire about the latest gossip. One should train himself, little by little, until he reaches the point where he does not even want to be informed of any gossip. With the passage of time, Hashem will help him so that?shmiras haloshon?will become a part of his very nature. He will find it incredible that others can transgress the sin of speaking?loshon hora, which to him has become something repulsive, like anything else which the Torah prohibits.
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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
Day 93 ¨C Admonishing the Speaker
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The commandment, you shall reprove your fellow (Vayikra?19:17), requires a Jew to inform a sinner that his behavior is improper, and attempt to convince him to mend his ways. In voicing his disapproval, one must be prepared to endure embarrassment and insult and should continue to protest. Only in a case where one knows that his reproof would cause the sinner to react by committing more serious offenses is he to refrain from speaking up.
?
(Reproof must be administered with respect and understanding, and should be done in private whenever possible ¨C see Rashi to Vayikra?19:17).
?
Generally speaking, one is required to interrupt and reprove the speaker of loshon hora, and do his best to ensure that he put a halt to his sinful speech. As mentioned, this does not apply when the speaker would likely react by expressing yet greater negativity towards the person he was speaking about, as a way of defending his sinful talk.
?
Another situation where reproof would be out of place is when:
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The speaker does not realize that the information he is conveying is loshon hora, or is totally unaware that loshon hora is prohibited by the Torah; and
it is obvious that the speaker will continue speaking loshon hora even after being told that this is forbidden.
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In such a case, reproof would transform the speaker from an inadvertent sinner into one who sins intentionally. Hence, it is better not to reprove him.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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Choose Your Company
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One should avoid association with a given group unless he knows that its members are careful to avoid forbidden speech. If circumstances demand such association, one should limit it to a minimum, and maintain silence whenever possible. Even one sinner can ruin an entire group and make it necessary to avoid being in its company.
?
Sefer Rosh HaGivah writes:
?
Be alert, my son, regarding that which King Shlomo said: ¡±In the ears of a fool do not speak, lest he disparage the wisdom of your words¡± (Mishlei 23:9). Beware of a gathering of one hundred men among whom is found even one scoffer or fool, and certainly if [one of the fools] is a wise man in his own eyes, for he is the quintessential fool ...1 Strengthen yourself to sit in silence at such a gathering, do not discuss anything at all. Even if you will speak all sorts of wisdom, they [the scoffers and fools] will best you and grant you disgrace, as it is written,¡±Iniquity appears and disgrace follows¡± (ibid. 11:2).
?
If you wish to converse [at such a gathering] with a man like yourself, be careful that your words not reach their [the scoffers¡¯] ears. Thus does Scripture advise:¡±In the ears of a fool do not speak,¡¯¡¯ rather than, ¡±Do not speak with a fool.¡¯¡¯
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  1. See Mishlei 26:12. A fool who considers himself wise has no hope of acquiring wisdom, and thus is the greatest fool of all (Metzudos ad loc.).
?
?
?Keep reading Day 94, the lesson for Shabbos
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
?
Day 94 ¨C Group Reproof

?
We have seen that one must reprove the speaker of?loshon hora?even if it is highly unlikely that the reproof will be effective.
?
When several people are involved in a discussion that includes?loshon hora, one must speak up and caution them that what they are discussing is forbidden. However, unlike the case of an individual who speaks?loshon hora, if the people ignore reproof, one should not persist in his rebuke unless he feels that his words might ultimately achieve a positive result. In an unreceptive group setting, it is wise to refrain from excessive reproof.
?
An exception to this rule is when one finds himself in a community where the prohibition of?loshon horahas long been disregarded. Widespread disregard calls for more than ordinary reproof. It demands persistent protest, calling for an awareness of the severity of speaking?loshon hora, and knowledge of what constitutes?loshson hora.

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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON

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Step-by-Step

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One who seeks to attain the quality of?shmiras haloshon?should use the very opposite approach of the gossiper. The gossiper makes it his habit to sit among groups involved in conversation, in the hope that he will hear some bit of information that he can ridicule or spread to others. The gossiper is forever in search of ¡±the latest news¡± in his town, so that he will have no lack of material to relate all day and night.
?
The quality of?shmiras haloshon?should be attained gradually. The first step is to accustom oneself to avoid groups involved in idle conversation and to train oneself not to inquire about the latest gossip. One should train himself, little by little, until he reaches the point where he does not even want to be informed of any gossip. With the passage of time, Hashem will help him so that?shmiras haloshon?will become a part of his very nature. He will find it incredible that others can transgress the sin of speaking?loshon hora, which to him has become something repulsive, like anything else which the Torah prohibits.
Dedications and Sponsorships????
?Do you know someone who needs a refuah shleima? A shidduch? Or perhaps a meaningful yahrtzeit is approaching? As a merit for a recovery from illness or for a departed family member you can sponsor a daily email and have over 8,000 people, every day, learn and be inspired as a z¡¯chus for your loved one. Please call?845-352-3505?#113?or email?lozeri@...?to sponsor or for more information on other sponsorship opportunities.


Today's Inspiration - Shavua tov!

 

The Lord is God

Rabbi Baruch Solomon of Karlin said: "The greatest of all miracles is to bring into the heart of a Jew the holy influence whereby he may be enabled to pray properly unto his Creator,"

Source: The Hasidic Anthology


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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
Day 91 ¨C When Listening is Lowly
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Not only is speaking loshon hora a lowly act not befitting the divine image in which man was created, but to listen as someone else speaks loshson hora is lowly as well. The Torah states, Do not accept a false report (Shemos 23:1). The Chofetz Chaim is apparently of the opinion that merely paying attention to loshon hora being spoken constitutes giving it some degree of credence, and is in violation of this prohibition.
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Just as it is wrong to select the shortcomings of others as subject matter for one¡¯s own speech, so too it is wrong for one to focus his attention on negativity being expressed by others.
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Just as it is wrong to cause harm to others by way of speech, so too it is wrong to serve as a listener as potentially harmful information is being conveyed.
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In short, derogatory or harmful speech should never earn one¡¯s attention. Listening to loshon hora, even if one does not believe it, is in violation of Torah prohibition.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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The Need to Talk
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People who find themselves inclined towards melancholy feel a need to speak freely to others and are, understandably, afraid to focus themselves on developing the quality of silence. Should this be the case, one should at least accustom himself to not speak about others, whoever they might be; his friendly conversations should focus on matters of interest, and not on people of interest. When he does find it necessary to discuss others, he should be as brief as possible.
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I have heard it said regarding the great Torah genius, Rabbi Raphael of Hamburg, that he resigned his post as rabbi four years prior to his passing. From that time and on, he would ask of those who visited him that as long as they were within the confines of his home, they should not speak about other people. I have also heard regarding another leader of his generation that he was exceedingly careful never to discuss others.1
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Certainly one must be careful not to discuss a storekeeper with his competitor, nor a craftsman with other members of his craft. Such conversations often lead to loshon hora, especially when the storekeepers or craftsmen are known to bear ill will toward one another.
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This restriction applies not only to singing the storekeeper¡¯s praises, regarding which our Sages warned: ¡°One should never speak the praises of his fellow [excessively], for praise will inevitably lead to criticism¡± (Arachin 16a).2 One should refrain entirely from discussing an individual with that person¡¯s competitor, for the listener will quite possibly steer the conversation in a direction that will allow him to vent his negative feelings. If one finds it absolutely necessary to engage in such discussion for some constructive purpose, he should keep the conversation as brief as possible; otherwise, it will inevitably lead to loshon hora.
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1. Toward the end of his life, the Chofetz Chaim was visited by someone who broached the subject of a dispute in his home town. The Chofetz Chaim interrupted him, ¡°For years, I have avoided the sin of loshon hora. Do you wish that I now be caught in its web?¡¯¡¯
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2. When one praises another excessively, it is inevitable that the speaker or someone else present will point out one or more of the subject¡¯s faults (Rashi ad loc.). See Sefer Chofetz Chaim Part I, ch. 9.
Keep reading Day 192, the second lesson for today
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
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Day 92 ¨C The Speakers Accomplice
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In addition to violating the prohibition against listening to?loshon hora, every listener of?loshon hora?is, in effect, making it possible for the speaker to relate his forbidden words, and therefore is an accomplice in his sin.
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In the case of a lone listener, the prohibition?before a blind person do not place a stumbling block (Vayikra?19:14)?would surely apply, for included in this verse is a prohibition against causing another Jew to sin. We will see that in certain instances listening to?Loshon Hora?is forbidden not because of the primary prohibition but because of the prohibition against causing another Jew to sin.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON

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Non-Kosher Conversation

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If one begins speaking with Reuven concerning Shimon and in the course of conversation becomes aware that Reuven bears Shimon ill will, he should either bring the conversation to an end or divert it to some other subject. Similarly, if one begins to speak and suddenly realizes that his own words are leading toward?loshon hora, he should muster his spiritual strength and abruptly change the subject ¡ª in the same way that he would spit out the food he was chewing were he to become aware that it was non-kosher. If this will cause him discomfort or embarrassment, he should bear in mind the Sages¡¯ words: ¡±Better to be considered a fool all one¡¯s days [in this world], and not be considered wicked even for a moment before the Omnipresent¡± (Mishnah Ediyos?5:6).
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As already mentioned, the restriction against discussing an individual with that person¡¯s adversary applies only when one feels himself unqualified to make peace between the two. However, when one can play the role of peacemaker, it is a?mitzvah?to listen to each party¡¯s grievances in order to settle their feud.
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