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MovingForward [email protected]

Welcome to Moving Forward, a support and information group for people who have a loved one with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder and want to move forward with their life, whatever that means to them. I am so glad you found your way to us and I hope your time here will help ease your struggles.

¡ª¡ªABOUT MOVING FORWARD?

As somebody who has been educating family members of people who have a BPD/NPD family member, I know we all desperately need to tell our stories to be assured that we are not crazy or alone. That¡¯s why we are here.

Here, you will find that other people have journeyed along the same path you have. That¡¯s true even if you think your story is unique. Moving Forward will give you the opportunity to talk to others going through the same thing, learn things you don¡¯t know; help you better understand your loved one; and accept that you didn¡¯t cause it, can¡¯t cure it, and can¡¯t control it.?The group is free, but what you get is worth thousands of dollars. WE HAVE ZOOM SUPPORT GROUPS see below.?
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My name is Randi Kreger, and I have written five?books on borderline personality disorder:
* ¡°Stop Walking on Eggshells,¡± The third edition is out now with a chapter on narcissism.

* The ¡°Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook.¡±

* ¡°The Essential Family Guide to BPD¡± (I recommend this over eggshells)

* ¡°Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents¡± (of any age)

* ¡°Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners.¡±

I do one on one coaching for people who want Personalized help. Go to my website at stopwalkingoneggshells.com and look at the section on coaching.

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ANONYMITY: This is a safe group that has been running for a long time. However, when you post, your subscription email address will be visible. If you want to prevent this, you will need to re-subscribe using a web-based email from Gmail, Yahoo, or another web-based platform. The instructions can be found in the group WIKI (see below). Please remember to remove your last name and any contact information from your signature block when you post.

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TO POST: (Please do not send your first post to me. Send it to this email address): write to:?

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YOUR INTRO: We want to know all about you so we can help! When you feel ready, please send out a welcome message or introduction telling us about yourself and your situation. You will hear from the people who have situations just like yours or who can empathize and validate you.

When you do send your first message, please do not just press reply to this post. Please start your own message with your own headline.

MODERATION: All group posts are reviewed by me before being released to the group. I usually do this one to three times a day. This keeps the list on topic, safe, and keeps me abreast of what people are chatting about and the types of things I might want to address on the list.?
I have an assistant list manager (Steve). He will review and manually release posts if I've been unable to for over 24 hours. If a post requires further review or contains a question specifically for me, Steve will leave the post in pending status and inform me.
THE GOLDEN RULE: Please treat everyone with respect and compassion. Remember that you¡¯re only seeing a small part of someone at one point in time. I reserve the right to remove people who cause problems, although that has never been a problem here.
RELIGION:?This is a ¡°no missionary¡± list, meeting talk about religion as much as you want as regards to yourself and your situation, but don¡¯t spring the ¡°good news¡± on other list members unless they ask for feedback of a religious nature. It¡¯s a personal thing.
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TO REACH ME: If you have any questions, or can¡¯t find the information you want, write to:
or send it to the list and put PRIVATE TO RANDI in the subject heading.
I encourage you to take advantage of me because I know a lot about these disorders. It also helps me gauge what people are interested in.
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TO GET ADMINISTRATIVE HELP: write to: [email protected]
and put MOVINGFORWARD GROUP ADMIN ISSUE in the subject heading
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WIKI: Use the following links to access the group WIKI where you will find a copy of this welcome message, my bio, a breakdown of abbreviations used, ZOOM support call schedule and meeting links, and many articles about BPD and NPD.

TO ACCESS WIKI:?/g/MovingForward/wiki
WELCOME MESSAGE: [email protected] | Wiki

MY BIO: [email protected] | Wiki

ABBREVIATIONS (courtesy of BPD family): [email protected] | Wiki

HOW TO MAKE AN ANONYMOUS EMAIL ADDRESS: [email protected] | Wiki

ZOOM SUPPORT GROUP MEETINGS: These meetings are hosted by volunteers. Meetings focus on partners (open), parents (open), or daughters with a BPD/NPD mother (closed). Anyone with a loved one with BPD/NPD can attend the two open meetings. A copy of the call schedule and meeting links is also sent out weekly.

* Meeting for parents (open): Thursday 7pm CENTRAL

* Meeting for partners (open): Saturday 2pm CENTRAL

* Meeting for women with a borderline mother (closed): Sunday 7pm CENTRAL

SCHEDULE: [email protected] | Wiki

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QUESTIONS/FEEDBACK: Part of the reason I have this group is as a focus group for when I have questions for people about how they experience their borderline family member. I do this research to write better books.

When I send out this type of post, I put the word ¡°book¡± in the headline so you can skip it if you want. If you respond, you are saying it is OK to use your anonymous response in the book unless you say no.

COACHING: I offer private coaching for a fee. You can contact me at [email protected] or just send your request to the list putting ¡°PRIVATE TO RANDI¡± at the top of your post.?

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