Can
parents on a limited budget put together a good program for their young
autistic child? The answer is yes, with a little thought and planning. I have
talked to parents who have put together their own successful EI program after
reading a few books and enlisting the help of volunteers. Self-motivation and
an unfailing desire to help their child are needed as much as is education
about autism. The absolute worst thing a parent can do is to let their child
sit and watch TV all day or zone out unaware of his or her surroundings. This
is precious time wasted, never to be regained.
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Both
research and practical experience have indicated that twenty or more hours of
intense one-to-one interaction with an effective teacher and/or adult can
kick-start speech and improve language and other behaviors in children with
ASD. In many parts of the country a public school will provide only one or two
hours a week of therapy with a speech therapist, an occupational therapist (OT),
or a behavioral specialist. This is not enough to be really effective, but it
does present an opportunity for training of the individuals who work with the
child outside of the school day. This is especially true for parents, who need
to take the lead and provide supplemental instruction themselves.
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I
recommend that parents in those situations approach the school therapists as
"coaches" who can educate them about their child's autism and teach
them how to do more intensive therapy at home. It also helps if family members
or volunteers who are working with the child (for instance, a grandmother who
has volunteered to work with a four year old) visit the school every week and
watch the professional therapist work with the child. The professionals can
give volunteers therapy assignments to work on with the child during the week.
Invaluable information can be gleaned by watching sessions "in
action" that no amount of reading will ever convey. Conversely, it might
also be helpful from time to time to pay the therapist to spend an hour or two
observing how the in-home program is unfolding. Sometimes a small change to a
program can make a world of difference and it often takes a trained eye to spot
situations like this. The weekly get-togethers are also a perfect time to
discuss the child's progress and review goals and objectives for the coming
week so everyone can keep track of progress and program changes.
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Church
and civic groups are a great place to find people who might be willing to work
with a child. Other sources of help include students from the local high school
or college students. When looking for volunteers to help teach the child, try
to be specific about the types of things they will be doing. For instance,
grandmothers might feel comfortable volunteering to "play" with a
child, or help provide "simple structured, repetitive drills" - those
are familiar skills most people possess. Yet the same grandmother might feel
ill-equipped if you ask them to "help out with the therapeutic behavior
program designed for a child with autism." Most people don't know what
that type of program entails, and they may think that only someone with a
college degree would have relevant skills. Be sure to mention that you (or
someone else) will be providing them with basic education and training on
autism to further reinforce their ability to handle what comes up. Many people
are genuinely interested in helping others, provided they get some training on
how to do it.
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I
have observed that some teachers and therapists have a knack for working with
children with ASD and others do not. Passive approaches do not work. Parents
need to find the people, both professionals and non-professionals, who know how
to be gently insistent, who keep the child motivated to learn, are
child-centered in their approach, and are dedicated to teaching children with
autism in a way they can learn, instead of insisting the child learn in the way
they teach. Doing so naturally engages the child, which is the foundation of
any effective program for children with autism, no matter what the cost.
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Temple
Grandin "The Way I See It: A Personal Look at Autism & Asperger's"
(2011)