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Hello melbywells@...,
In reference to your comment: è Maybe the? older we are the easier it is to *practice* è forgiveness. I just think that the older we are the more practice we had at trying to make this a better world, we try so hard to carve out our little "niche" and still feel empty and realize that it is not working and then we ask for help.? I was introduced to the Course in 1988.? I was in my mid 30's having gone through another failed relationship ... due to my attraction to men who were addicts. And it answered a lot of questions for me .. it made sense .. but I still had to go through stuff ... I still had to try to make this world a better place for me ...? I wanted equality for Black people, try to find that good black man? ... I had causes ... but no matter what I did nothing seemed to work.? When my son got sick I knew I needed help and I found Joe Jessup and Course Talk.? Even then I knew I had another classroom to go through and when my son passed away ... I just shut down ... however, it was my core belief in the Course .. that this world is not real, that escape through suicide or whatever was not the answer.? There is no place to escape in a dream ... all? I could do was wake up .. and I was and still am too fearful to do that. I am now 48 now and after reading Gary's Book and recently attending the workshops conducted by Ken ... it is almost like I am seeing the Course with new eyes. This world DOES NOT WORK. I understand that now. Now I am ready to intensify my study and attention in sticking with the Right Teacher and stop thinking that I have the answers. And I believe that for most folks, that comes with age and time. Peace |
mstreet
开云体育Elizabeth wrote:?
? >>My mother is 70 years old.I could say that she is too
"old" to understand ACIM, but that would be judging her
harshly.<<
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Hi Elizabeth:
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From another too "old" person, I think your right about your
mother. ;-) But I have had the same problem on my husbands side of the family.
They are all staunch Catholics. At one of our family gatherings, I must have let
it slip out that neither of our two sons had been baptized. The horrified look,
and the criticism I got, came as quite a surprise to me. They knew that we were
not religious, and yet they still felt somehow we would baptize our
children???
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I made light of it, and said that I had personally baptized each of my
children in the bath tub. "Are you a minister?" one asked
me.?
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"Yes, I am" I said, remembering that place in the workbook
where it says: "I am among the ministers of God."
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I think they are still trying to figure me out. (LOL)
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~Martha :-)
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I think J was 32 or 33 when crucified. At 12 he was talking with the wise men in the Temple, and they were marvelling at him. jane4r1 wrote: Hello everybody, Do you Yahoo!? - Now only $29.95 per month! |
Hello starchild1124@...,
In reference to your comment: è I noticed you wrote "This world does not work" I wrote those words because it is true for me? :-) I have tried everything in this world to make it better for me (and still trying because that is what egos do LOL) and it has not and does not work. I was drawn to the Course, becasue I was already saying in my mind (right minded thinking)? this world does not work .. and I need to find another way.? I knew the world did not work, but with the study of the Course I understand why. With the study of the Course, I know that now my goal is not to change the ego, or make this world a better place for you or me ... my goal is to see everything I perceive with the Right Teacher. Peace Ossie |
I noticed you wrote "This world does not work"
I have written this before, too. "The world is upside down and backwards and not meant to work". I thought this was in ACIM, but can't find it, at least in that way. Maybe Ken W. or Marianne Williamson paraphrased on a tape. The last time I wrote this, someone (forget who) corrected me and said that's not true. The world DOES WORK. It works perfectly. It works at being what it is- ego/separation. But it does work. It works just fine, being "the world". It just doesn't work the way we might think it should, going by what ACIM teaches. But if it was like that, it would no longer be the world. Ego/illusion. It wouldn't be anything. Not saying you're wrong, and I do know what you mean by "The world doesn't work". Just thought I'd pass that perspective about it on. I had never thought of it like that before. ~ Carrie --- In Disappearance_of_the_Universe@..., BBFBBN@a... wrote: Hello melbywells@e...,trying to make this a better world, we try so hard to carve out our little "niche"and still feel empty and realize that it is not working and then we ask forhelp. having gone through another failed relationship ... due to my attraction to menwho were addicts.still had to go through stuff ... I still had to try to make this world abetter place for me ... I wanted equality for Black people, try to find thatgood black man ... I had causes ... but no matter what I did nothing seemedto work. When my son got sick I knew I needed help and I found Joe Jessup andCourse Talk. Even then I knew I had another classroom to go through and when myson passed away ... I just shut down ... however, it was my core belief in theCourse .. that this world is not real, that escape through suicide orwhatever was not the answer. There is no place to escape in a dream ... all Icould do was wake up .. and I was and still am too fearful to do that.attending the workshops conducted by Ken ... it is almost like I am seeing theCourse with new eyes.the Right Teacher and stop thinking that I have the answers. |
mstreet
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Carrie wrote:
>>I noticed you wrote "This world does not work" I have written this before, too. "The world is upside down and backwards and not meant to work". I thought this was in ACIM, but can't find it, at least in that way. ?
Hi Carrie:
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Is this what you were meaning?
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(W.72.8.3-4)
"Your upside-down perception has been ruinous to your peace of mind. You have seen yourself in a body and the truth outside you, locked away from your awareness by the body's limitations." ?
~ Martha :-) |
mstreet
开云体育Ossie
wrote:
>>I was drawn to the Course, becasue I was already saying in my mind (right minded thinking)? this world does not work .. and I need to find another way.? I knew the world did not work, but with the study of the Course I understand why.<< ?
Hi
Ossie:
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I agree. I think until we reach the point of seeing
that nothing in this world works, we will not have the incentive to ask for
another way. We will still think that something outside of us will give us
something that will make us feel better. Or think that somehow, it will give us
the specialness God would not grant us. Or, we relish in the role of seeing
ourselves as victims and others as victimizers. Or identifying with the victims,
to reinforce the fact that victim/victimizer are never seen as one and the
same.??
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How we love it when we can point a finger at others.
Because then we don't have to look within our own mind. Not that we should feel
guilty about. Just to be aware of what we are doing. Saying over and over again,
that the ego is right, and the Course, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit are wrong.
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~ Martha |
Hello starchild1124@...,
In reference to your comment: è Actually it is a "correction" (and Ken Wapnick is the è one who? pointed it out to me and called it this, when I è was new to the course? and asked him about the è "foolish thing" passage) One of the things that have been consistent with Ken when he speaks of changes in the Course early on, was due to Helen's fear.? Early on Helen's ego would slip in and Jesus would later correct it. Peace All ignorance is actually repression that |
I would feel the same way you do, but have you thought about maybe
doing what she so strongly wants you to do? Because she wants it so badly? There's a place in ACIM where it says if a brother asks you to do a foolish thing (you feel is foolish) and strongly insists on it, to do it. Because it means so much to him. And doesn't really matter all that much, in Truth. This is later "corrected" (if Jesus really corrected it, and Helen didn't- realizing the implications of what she had previously written) and changed to "as long as it doesn't hurt him or anyone else". Seems like any other corrections were made where the orginal words were, and this changed. I think if we are aligned with Spirit, and in "Right Mind" nobody would be attracted to us who would strongly insist we do something to hurt someone else (like murder them). And if they did, it might be more a projection of what is in our own mind and not so much someone else strongly insisting on it. I can just imagine the court case that would result from this! Using ACIM to show that I did it because my brother strongly insisted I do. (LOL) But, if it would make your mother happy and feel better, and not be all that big a deal, maybe you could just get the kids babpised? My daughter was faced with this with her first child, her inlaws wanted him babtised. They finally went ahead and did it, peace resulted and the baby is now a 15 year old teenager (over 6'tall) and it doesn't seem to have harmed him any. Not trying to tell you what to do, but just writing it for the sake of possible discussion. ~ Carrie --- In Disappearance_of_the_Universe@..., "jane4r1" <melbywells@e...> wrote: Please bear with me as I tell this story. My mother is 70 yearsold. She is angry with me for not going to Church and for not baptizingmy 2 sons. She believes that "young people today" ("young" for me is41) have not had any "real troubles" and are "arrogant in not believingmy 2 sons will go to hell because they have not been baptized. Sheand doesn't require us to attend church or follow the rules of thelittle "niche" and stillmenfeel empty and realize that it is not working and then we ask forhelp.having gone who wereIaddicts. still hadmyto go through stuff ... I still had to try to make this world abetter placefor me ... I wanted equality for Black people, try to find thatgood blackman ... I had causes ... but no matter what I did nothing seemedto work. Whenmy son got sick I knew I needed help and I found Joe Jessup andCourse Talk.Even then I knew I had another classroom to go through and when son passedtheaway ... I just shut down ... however, it was my core belief in Course ..withthat this world is not real, that escape through suicide orwhatever was notthe answer. There is no place to escape in a dream ... all Icould do waswake up .. and I was and still am too fearful to do that.attending the the RightTeacher and stop thinking that I have the answers. |
A good book about this (I once read from the library) and Jesus
awakening to his Power is "Discovering the Power Within" by Eric Butterworth. Or "Discover"? He was a Unity Minister and writer (who passed away this year). I keep thinking I'm going to look up that book online, on a used book store and buy it, and then forget. It tells about the times of Jesus and goes over bible passages and writes about them in a real, understandable way. It was a long time ago, and I don't remember any more of the details. ~ Carrie --- In Disappearance_of_the_Universe@..., LindaL <lklanglois@y...> wrote: I think J was 32 or 33 when crucified. At 12 he was talking withthe wise men in the Temple, and they were marvelling at him. first thoughts on reading this were, How old was J when he tried teachingthe older we are the easier it is to *practice* forgiveness.
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mstreet
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Carrie wrote:
>>This is later "corrected" (if Jesus really corrected it, and Helen didn't- realizing the implications of what she had previously written) and changed to "as long as it doesn't hurt him or anyone else".<< ?
Hi Carrie:
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Yes, I think the Course needs to be taken as a whole. Not just the
parts we like. Here is that other section that you refer to. And I do not think
it was a correction.
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(T.16.I.6.4-8.7)
"I have said that if a brother asks a foolish thing of you do it. But be certain that this does not mean to do a foolish thing that would hurt either him or you, for what would hurt one will hurt the other. Foolish requests are foolish merely because they conflict, since they always contain some elements of specialness. Only the Holy Spirit recognizes foolish needs as well as real ones. and He will teach you how to meet both without losing either." >>Seems like any other corrections were made where the orginal words were, and this changed.<< ?
Well I think that some of later parts of the Text are too threatening
to our egos, and our need for specialness, so many like not even to read them,
and would certainly not like to have them seen as dictated by Jesus.
:-)
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~ Martha |
Actually it is a "correction" (and Ken Wapnick is the one who
pointed it out to me and called it this, when I was new to the course and asked him about the "foolish thing" passage) it's just who is it a correction by? Jesus- who didn't seem to make mistakes, like saying something that needed another whole paragraph, later on (out of context with what that chapter was about) and not just having Helen go to the original lines and cross out, write in the margins, and change it. I think it could have been find and stood on it's own the way it was first written. But someone's fear decided to correct it and change it later on in the book. There's also the idea that the course teaches that we CAN'T "do harm/hurt to anyone else". Doesn't really matter, whatever anyone believes is true is true. ~ Carrie --- In Disappearance_of_the_Universe@..., "mstreet" <mastreet@t...> wrote: Helen didn't- realizing the implications of what she had previouslyparts we like. Here is that other section that you refer to. And I do not think it was a correction. But be certain that this does not mean to do a foolish thing that wouldhurt either him or you, for what would hurt one will hurt the other. Foolishrequests are foolish merely because they conflict, since they always containsome elements of specialness. Only the Holy Spirit recognizes foolishneeds as well as real ones. and He will teach you how to meet both withoutlosing either."wordsSeems like any other corrections were made where the orginal were, and this changed.<<threatening to our egos, and our need for specialness, so many like not even to read them, and would certainly not like to have them seen as dictated by Jesus. :-)
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mstreet
开云体育Carrie wrote:
>>Actually it is a "correction" (and Ken Wapnick is the one who pointed it out to me and called it this, when I was new to the course and asked him about the "foolish thing" passage)<< ?
Well Carrie:
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I don't know about your conversation with Ken, but I know I read that
on my own, and it just made sense to me.
>>it's just who is it a correction by?<< ?
Maybe for Helen and Bill. And maybe for all of us.
>>Jesus- who didn't seem to make mistakes, like saying something that needed another whole paragraph, later on (out of context with what that chapter was about) and not just having Helen go to the original lines and cross out, write in the margins, and change it.<< ?
Good grief Carrie, the whole Course is full of contradictions in form,
but not in the overall meaning.
>>But someone's fear decided to correct it and change it later on in the book.<< ?
You sure its not your fear that wants to believe that?
>>There's also the idea that the course teaches that we CAN'T "do harm/hurt to anyone else".<< ?
In truth we can't. Because in truth we are still as God created us. But
bodies sure as hell can harm/hurt one another. And to deny it is inappropriate
use of denial as the Course says about the body.
>>Doesn't really matter, whatever anyone believes is true is true.<< ?
As long as they don't promote it as what A Course in Miracles teaches.
:-) ~ Martha |
teaches. :-)As long as they don't promote it as what A Course in MiraclesDoesn't really matter, whatever anyone believes is true is true.<< And, of course, YOU know what ACIM teaches better than anyone else, right? And you are promoting your belief in what it teaches. You seem to have missed the chapter that says everyone is just as "right" as anyone else, and ego can see and try and correct ego in anyone else. I know it's my ego pointing this out to you. And that I don't see/believe there are contrdictions and corrections anywhere in ACIM except that one place, that seems to be "just stuck in", not even all that relevant to what else is being discussed there. But, thanks for sharing your beliefs on it. Something to remember next time I think about discussing something. I'll have to check it out with you first and make sure it's what ACIM really says- and means. ~ Carrie |
mstreet
开云体育Carrie wrote:
>>And, of course, YOU know what ACIM teaches better than anyone else, right?<< ?
Can't ever recall saying that, or even thinking
that.
>>And you are promoting your belief in what it teaches.<< ?
No not really.
>>You seem to have missed the chapter that says everyone is just as "right" as anyone else, and ego can see and try and correct ego in anyone else.<< ?
I don't think that was referring to what the Course
teaches.
>>I know it's my ego pointing this out to you.<< ?
Mine too.
>>And that I don't see/believe there are contrdictions and corrections anywhere in ACIM except that one place, that seems to be "just stuck in", not even all that relevant to what else is being discussed there.<< ?
I didn't see this as a correction. But I believe that there are
condradictions, for instance. Here is just one instance.
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(P-2.VII.1:11-12).?
?"God does not know of separation.? What He knows is only that He has one Son." ?
(T-5.II.2.5.3)
"The Holy Spirit is God's Answer to the separation; the means by which the Atonement heals? until the whole mind returns to creating." ?
So why would God give an answer to what he knows
nothing about?
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>>But, thanks for sharing your beliefs on it. Something to
remember next time I think about discussing something. I'll have to check it out
with you first and make sure it's what ACIM really says- and
means.<<
No you don't have to check with me. As long as you don't expect me to believe that what you say is the final truth. :-) ?
~ Martha |
--- In Disappearance_of_the_Universe@..., BBFBBN@a...
wrote: Hello starchild1124@y...,of changes in the Course early on, was due to Helen's fear. Early onHelen's ego would slip in and Jesus would later correct it. I think it's the other way around. I think Helen took it down as Jesus gave it to her, in the first place. Where it says "if a brother asks you to do a foolish thing- even if it's insane (which it will be if he's in ego), etc" (from memory) Later, a few chapters on, maybe when they were rereading it or editing it, Helen read that and thought "oh no, people will be asking someone else to steal or kill someone and strongly insisting on it, and the person (if they have read the course) will feel they have to do it!" And added that afterthought, which doesn't even really fit in the place it's in, like "I have told you to do a foolish thing, but not if it might harm yourself or others". Which came from Helen's ego/fear. I think (not that I was there or asked (LOL) that the first reference to it was clear and simple and could have stood on it's own. Just the idea of "trusting HS" would take care of it. Trusting that nobody would strongly insist you do something like kill someone. And it doesn't really mean you have to do it. If you felt it was wrong (which killing someone might be) you don't have to do it, even if it seems really important to someone else. But, look at the armed forces, who are trained to kill and ordered to in a war? Just look at it (whatever it is) and ask yourself WHY do I have a stronger investment in not doing it? Like giving in, as the most peaceful/joining way to be. Ask myself "does this really matter?" My brother is just as right as I am. Like Hugh Prather has said about forgiveness being a thought and not (always) a behavior. You can forgive a murderer and still keep him locked up or an abusive spouse and not choose to live with them. Even IF someone strongly insisted you do something that might hurt someone, or you didn't feel right about doing. You could look at it and why you might not want to do it (if it's just digging in your heels and not wanting to give in) without actually doing it. More of a thought/exercise than actually doing it. But I've always thought that was an ego/afterthought where it was later corrected "out of the blue" like that. If anyone believes differently and feels strongly about it, they can be right (LOL) Actually, I applied this myself, when I had a discussion board (not an ACIM based one but we sometimes wrote about this and quoted from it) and recieved an email from the foundation's lawyer (Carrie Fletcher) pointing out the copyright rules and guidelines and how "the other versions" weren't to be quoted at all, etc.etc. I was supposed to monitor and moderate the board (which I wasn't doing up till then and didn't want to) to make sure the copyright rules weren't broken. Because it was MY board and I was responsible for what was written on it. My board was a little "nothing" board that had been brought to the attention of the foundation (by the "ACIM police" (LOL) I did write about it on the board and suggested that people just give the reference number instead of using long quotes. I got accused of being "afraid of getting sued" but it was more like Ken and the foundation seemed to want so badly to own and control those words, the most peaceful thing to do was just allow them to. No big deal. We could put it into our own words if we needed to. Not that there weren't (and still aren't) boards that are openly writing about and quoting the course and don't even have copyright notices on. And the foundation is aware of this. But at the time it was something that felt right to me. If we don't at least try and live what we believe, what good is it? ~ Carrie |
I think it's the other way around. I think Helen took it down as
Jesus gave it to her, in the first place. Where it says "if a brother asks you to do a foolish thing- even if it's insane (which it will be if he's in ego), etc" (from memory) Later, a few chapters on, maybe when they were rereading it or editing it, Helen read that and thought "oh no, people will be asking someone else to steal or kill someone and strongly insisting on it, and the person (if they have read the course) will feel they have to do it!" And added that afterthought, which doesn't even really fit in the place it's in, like "I have told you to do a foolish thing, but not if it might harm yourself or others". Which came from Helen's ego/fear Hello, Carrie - I would suggest that you read these two sections very carefully, with an open mind - then still your mind - let the Holy Spirit - Jesus - the Right Mind - whatever term you are comfortable using - communicate to you what these sections mean. Also I was fortunate enough to go to the 25 year anniversary of ACIM in Anaheim. I also have read much about the beginning years of the Course. It was a miracle how all the beginning students/teachers came together and worked to get this very important work to the "others" who seem to be "out there." I trust my brother who is One with me. (But I sure don't trust the ego.) Judy To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: Disappearance_of_the_Universe-unsubscribe@... Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to |
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