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On Aug 23, 2022, at 10:36 AM, Diane via groups.io <tdpigg@...> wrote:
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Oh Beryl,? I am so sorry to hear this...? My deepest condolences in the coming days,? Laura On Mon, Aug 22, 2022 at 11:37 PM <beryl_cathro@...> wrote: Further to my post - my brother had a stroke on Sunday 14th and died this morning. |
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On Aug 22, 2022, at 8:37 PM, beryl_cathro@... wrote:
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Beryl, I am so sorry. Gentle hugs. Ann in PA On August 22, 2022, at 11:37 PM, beryl_cathro@... wrote: Further to my post - my brother had a stroke on Sunday 14th and died this morning. Beryl |
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开云体育I’m so sorry to hear that Beryl. Very best wishes to you and all the family. ? Jenny ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of beryl_cathro@...
Sent: 23 August 2022 04:37 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Further to my post - my brother had a stroke on Sunday 14th and died this morning. |
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Jenny?
I certainly do remember your MIL! She made my mother look good! I think my parents were the result of horrible childhoods and the war. Dad fought through the whole war (in North Africa & Italy) and came close to being killed a few times. Mum was a child evacuee from London then, when she returned she drove an ambulance ?during the blitz. I think these days they would both be diagnosed with PTSD. It’s so good that your MIL is settled and happy, such a load off your mind. Let it be a Spanish hotel if that makes her happy! We are both 74 so are thinking about our future but at the moment we are both fit and well. Fingers crossed that we remain this way for many more years. Beryl xxx |
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开云体育Wow so much movement for a bunch of oldsters like us! Juju to all for continued good health and happy fresh starts. We are staying where we are until we can no longer walk up the flight of stairs to our one story house.?And so sorry to hear about all who have lost parents. Mine - kina hora - are still plugging along at 89 and 93, living on their own far from both me and my brother. There’s not been a lot of planning for future moves for them so let’s hope the status quo holds for a while longer.? I see Diane and Jaya regularly in Warped Weavers on Ravelry as we’ve all fallen down that rabbit hole. I’m knitting during TV time and have done very little spinning. I am, however, about to complete the Yiddish class on Duolingo and looking forward to my zoom class resuming next month. Getting back to my roots I guess - and trying to keep my brain sharp learning something new.? Amy On Aug 10, 2022, at 2:13 PM, Jaya Srikrishnan <ermabom@...> wrote:
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Peter,? Thanks to you and the others for the good wishes on the surgery. I still don’t know if I’m ready for them. The optometrist referred me for a consult because she can’t correct my eyes fully. My computer distance vision and near vision is just bad with my glasses on. I do better with the single focal length reading glasses I have (prescription also). But it still isn’t as good as taking my glasses off and putting the item to be seen up to my nose. We’ll have to see what the cataract surgeon says. i do have cataracts forming but I didn’t think they were gone far enough for surgery yet. Most likely the next surgery will the left hand CTS release. But we’ll see. I don’t see the eye surgeon till October.? On Wed, Aug 10, 2022 at 4:48 AM Peter Jobson via <dillwynia=[email protected]> wrote:
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开云体育Cataract surgery 12 years ago now was a life-changer. I still need reading glasses, but driving and other distance vision issues are gone. ? Ann in PA ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of Jaya Srikrishnan
Sent: Tuesday, August 9, 2022 1:22 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Congrats to those who are moving/have moved and on the new job, Peter. Jenny and Beryl, I’m sorry about the loss of your parents (collective). My dad turns 95 this year and is still going strong but getting frailer and losing a bit cognitively slowly over time. Still very much there though - enough to be stubborn about a lot of things. I take care of his medical stuff so it means a lot of appointments for him as well as my own.? ? I had carpal tunnel surgery on my right hand in July and will be having it on my left before the end of the year. The relief in my right hand is amazing - as everyone who has had it has told me. I may also be facing cataract surgery soon. My vision is just not getting corrected properly especially for close work. Fortunately I can take my glasses off and see perfectly about 6” from my nose. i can still thread a needle at that distance ツ ? We have been well and nothing else is changing in our lives for now. Not till something happens to my dad.? ? On Tue, Aug 9, 2022 at 8:17 AM Laura Need <lrneed@...> wrote:
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开云体育Ha! I was going to say “I bet Peter is talking about Peggy!” (She’s a handful, isn’t she??) ? Ann in PA ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of Peter Jobson via groups.io
Sent: Tuesday, August 9, 2022 5:24 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Ugh! Beryl. This stuff is always draining. While Port Macquarie is well serviced, your brother must be doing the difficult journey to Sydney for specialists. ? For Beryl - the job is at Mt Annan Botanic Gardens near Campbelltown and I'm planning on living between Picton and Bargo which is only 40 min drive down the Hume Fwy. ? To Jenny. Cyclone Peggy is a wiry hair Jack Russell.? Her colouring and coarse outer coat suggests she may have some corgi in her. ? Full of beans, naughty, and very affectionate. She often comes to the office and lives in a large wire cage which she is comfortable with.? ? PT ? On Tuesday, August 9, 2022, 04:30:07 PM GMT+9:30, Jenny Swanson <jenny@...> wrote: ? ? Sorry about all the hard stuff, Beryl. And sympathies on the estate settlement, we’re in a protracted effort to settle all three but the delays in dealing with submission are about 5 months long and my parents need done in sequence. Sigh. Still, many people have it much worse then us. Three loving, much loved, good parents who are also real friends is great good fortune, and we were very lucky to have them all, well and living independently, until we ourselves had passed 60. ? Your trip sounds fun, I hope you really enjoy it. ? Jenny ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of beryl_cathro@... ? Best wishes to all of you moving house. Congratulations Peter on the new job. Commiserations Jenny on the loss of your parents and FIL. My brother who lives about 1.5 hours drive north of me is suffering horrible medical problems. He has been diagnosed with a rare and aggressive type of skin cancer called Merkel cell carcinoma & also has a growth on a kidney. He’s having chemotherapy once a week and radiation 5 times a week. It’s gruelling for him. He’s only just turned 70, not much of a birthday. |
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开云体育So sorry for your family’s loss, Beryl. ? Things will get better. ? Ann in PA ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of beryl_cathro@...
Sent: Tuesday, August 9, 2022 1:19 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Best wishes to all of you moving house. Congratulations Peter on the new job. Commiserations Jenny on the loss of your parents and FIL. My brother who lives about 1.5 hours drive north of me is suffering horrible medical problems. He has been diagnosed with a rare and aggressive type of skin cancer called Merkel cell carcinoma & also has a growth on a kidney. He’s having chemotherapy once a week and radiation 5 times a week. It’s gruelling for him. He’s only just turned 70, not much of a birthday. |
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开云体育So sorry for all the losses, Jenny. ? Alive will come. Promise! ? Ann in PA ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of Jenny Swanson
Sent: Monday, August 8, 2022 12:06 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Congratulations everyone who is relocating, whatever stage you have all reached in the process. I for one would love to hear more about the new places and any future life plans. ? I still divide my time between Geneva and the UK, it's easier now the covid restrictions have gone. DH and I? lost three of our four parents in the 10 weeks between mid October 2021 and early January 2022. Sorely missed but it ended two super stressful years of perpetual health crises requiring me to drop all and care for one of the four. We now have MIL settled well in a really nice residential home which is a help, but we still feel completely flattened by the whole experience.......I long to feel "alive" again! Jenny? ? On 8 Aug 2022 14:02, "Melisande R. Wolf via groups.io" <melisanderwolf@...> wrote:
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开云体育Congrats on the new position and the upcoming move. May it go smoothly! ? Ann in PA ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of Peter Jobson via groups.io
Sent: Monday, August 8, 2022 8:26 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? I'll add to the moving stories. ? I'm leaving Alice Springs for a new job near Sydney.? ? Much has happened over a few years. Late last year I was made acting Chief Botanist for the NT,? and in Jyly it became permanent.? The downside was a pay scale drop - of about $10K but continued excessive expectations.? In June a job opportunity came up for the Sydney herbarium which has relocated from the harbour foreshore to the edge of the greater metropolis 50 mi SW. The duties are 1/3rd of my current position and pays $20K more - so a gain, had I accepted the other job, of 30K. ? I start 19th September,? so madly working on the impossible botanical jobs here, cleaning the house, and reducing the unwanted and packing the rest. ? The move is easy, finding a rental that accepts a small dog, and is rural,? is the hard part. I think I have seen a place, but of course they don't like me being so far away. Aiming to get a friend to attend the open house on Thursday.? ? Petey |
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The Indian Pacific sounds like fun. The best thing, the rather annoying person? who squandered my time asking for inane information to regale to on the train shall have travelled by now. I haven't seen any media regarding a missing passenger or a body by the track, so all survived the ordeal.
On Wednesday, August 10, 2022, 06:18:35 PM GMT+9:30, Peter Jobson via groups.io <dillwynia@...> wrote:
Wishing you well on the cataract surgery, Jaya. Mine was a different story, because my cataracts were genetic rather than the standard ones. While my prescription became greatly reduced,? I have experienced repeated difficulties.? The great thing is you don't have dodgy retinas like me. All the same, you shall be resting for a couple of days.? Regards PT
On Wednesday, August 10, 2022, 07:15:52 AM GMT+9:30, <beryl_cathro@...> wrote:
Good luck with the surgery Jaya. Daryl had cataract surgery in January & no longer needs glasses. Juju to your dad. Beryl xxx |
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Wishing you well on the cataract surgery, Jaya. Mine was a different story, because my cataracts were genetic rather than the standard ones. While my prescription became greatly reduced,? I have experienced repeated difficulties.? The great thing is you don't have dodgy retinas like me. All the same, you shall be resting for a couple of days.? Regards PT
On Wednesday, August 10, 2022, 07:15:52 AM GMT+9:30, <beryl_cathro@...> wrote:
Good luck with the surgery Jaya. Daryl had cataract surgery in January & no longer needs glasses. Juju to your dad. Beryl xxx |
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开云体育Lots of medical juju where required. I had my cataract surgeries eight years ago and love being glasses/contact lens free. ? Beryl, I remember your mother and MIL well, and I am sure you remember my old horror of a MIL. Interestingly her dementia has smoothed her out, and now she is in residential care and all her old home triggers are gone she actually behaves quite well. We had a very difficult few weeks last autumn, in coordination with their medics, ?finding a good place for them both and then actually getting them relocated as she was very hostile to the whole idea. FIL, on the other hand, told me he would rather die right that moment than spend another day alone with her bullying and aggression. Between her poor mobility, constant falls with inability to get up, and significant dementia with total lack of awareness and understanding, she genuinely needed much more care, and more professional care, than a man of 92 in the last stages of heart failure could manage, so I moved in to help him until it was sorted. After the morning I had to do the Heimlich manoeuvre to save him when he choked after she poked him for “nor breathing properly” while chewing a piece of toast, it was not safe to leave them alone at all. My mother having died rather tragically the week before the docs called us and explained the health situation with the in-laws, it was all very difficult - ?but his blissful face his first morning in the home, having had his first uninterrupted night’s sleep in a decade and been able to eat a delicious breakfast at his leisure without her constant heckling and vicious nips and pokes, made it all more than worthwhile. The staff were super and managed to give him space to rest and relax while still letting the two of them spend large amounts of time together every day. Against all expectation she settled very well although she does think she is in a nice Spanish hotel! ? I’m the eldest of five siblings and we are all either in our early sixties or approaching 60 so, like many of our friends, we talk a lot about where we will live and what we will do when we are not constrained by the demands of work or of kids’ education. Of course DH and I relocated to Oxfordshire ten years ago when he went into consultancy rather than full time in a big? company, so we probably won’t move again until we need to either for financial or health reasons. I do miss the sea though, and we do talk of? going back to the coast somewhere, so I love to hear where other people head to and why. We will probably just do out of season seaside holidays – one interesting side-effect of the whole covid thing was that coastal property has become astonishingly expensive, and really we are well placed here ?for family, for Heathrow for DH’s work, and for London for exhibitions and old friends. ? So, if I am keeping track properly, we now have Laura in Massachusetts with a whole new life, Connie settling at last after a? long phase of organising and shifting stuff, Melisande moving to the coast, Peter on the way to somewhere outside Sydney, Mary with a whole new place. And several “new” dogs and grandkids. ? Nilda, I’d love to know if you? have come to think of Brittany as “home”, or whether that is still your little house in the woods? I really enjoy your pictures of Lulu the corgi thanks to the wonders of Facebook. I realise there are probably more of our old group on Facebook than I know about……. ? That’s more than enough from me for now. I’m just finishing a needlepoint stocking for my second great-niece and I realise that since her father has three siblings I may need to needlepoint many more in the interests of fairness (didn’t think that one through, did I?). ? I knitted my way through two 4 ply blankets at the parental bedsides in their last weeks, and I think that may partly be why I have sheered away from knitting for a few months. But I am nearly finished a Lopi sweater which will no doubt come in handy when the power goes out this coming winter. I’ll try to post some pics on Ravelry later!!! ? So nice to hear from old friends…. Jenny ? From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On Behalf Of beryl_cathro@...
Sent: 09 August 2022 22:46 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [yarnmongers] New Beginnings! ? Good luck with the surgery Jaya. Daryl had cataract surgery in January & no longer needs glasses. Juju to your dad. |