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In response to a woman who feels heartbroken at the thought of ending her relationship with a man, based on the advice she is getting from those around her.

A: We know that it is not an easy thing to be in a human body in this time and space, and have any real understanding of how what comes to you, comes to you. We talk endlessly about this being a vibrational universe and you being vibrational beings. And that your thoughts are vibrational. We talk endlessly about how you are a physical being, who is an extension of a non-physical being, and that that soul or source of you remains non-physically focused, Source-like, pure positive energy. Only love. Never worry or doubt or fear.

And so, if you aren't considering why you feel the way you feel… If you assign your feeling to an inevitable outcome, then you feel like you felt as you are asking for some help here. But you are not yet understanding that how you feel is what is at the heart of your point of attraction.

It's like this. Just like the law of gravity affects you every day, all day, in every way, the law of attraction even more so. And the law of attraction is responding to your vibration. And your vibration is indicated to you by your emotion.

So for example, when you said, “It breaks my heart when I think this thought.” Really important statement. What you said is when I choose that thought among all the thoughts that I could be focused upon, my guidance system shows me that that's not a thought that's compatible with my inner being’s thought.

And so the feeling of your heart breaking, that feeling of sadness, or disappointment, or even guilt, or even loneliness, that heartbreaking feeling, is because your inner being is not approaching your relationship with this person in the way that you are. And when you approach it that way, you're taking guidance from humans who are saying, “He's not good for you. This can't work out. You should get away.”

But that is not the opinion of your inner being, and that is what you're feeling. You're feeling the discord between advice you're getting from humans, and the way your inner being feels about it.

We would like to ask you, if you can, to go back to when you first met. To go back to those feelings of loving, and discovery, and having fun, and falling in love.

So now we're going to ask you, beautiful girl of submitting this video, to step back if you can from your conversation, from your question. Step back from that situation, from that issue, for just a moment. And hear these words.

When you focus on something that has just gone wrong, or something that someone has said to you in response to your telling them about something that has just gone wrong… When you choose that as your point of focus, you are actually focusing yourself in to a heartbreaking feeling. You focused the heartbreaking feeling into your now reality, without leaving, without breaking up. You focused that heartbreak. You focused that heartbreaking feeling.

But you could in your now, in your powerful now, be focusing an appreciation emotion, an anticipation emotion, even a hopeful emotion.

So we're going to talk a lot to all of you today about something that we talked about a lot with the last broadcast. And if you didn't see it, we encourage you to find it last week, one week ago, and watch it. We're going to touch pieces of it here today.

Because if you realize that you are the focuser of thought, yes. But the focuser of feeling is an easier thing to do and it gets the job done quicker.

So you can choose a heartbreaking feeling with those thoughts. Or you can choose a more optimistic feeling with those thoughts. And most of all, you have to let other people out of the equation. Leave them out of the equation. They don't know. They don't know.

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?Abe Now, 9/14/24, part 1, 14:14 – A simple choice

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Q: Hi Abraham. I’ve been a listener for many, many years. My question is, what can I do differently? I have read some books and really understand the mindset. And I've had two phenomenal relationships that ended, and this was two years ago. And ever since then, just really have had a hard time dating. I've had things take off in all other sorts of ways - health in a positive way, career, financially. But even with the positive mindset, just cannot seem to get anything even close to my amazing past two relationships that happened two years ago. Have been trying to again like, really loved them, like when it comes to the relationships they were great. But yeah, that's pretty much my question.

A: So, it's important to understand that most people offer their vibration - which is the way they present themselves to the law of attraction, so it matters a lot… Most people offer their vibration, their thought vibration which results in an emotion… Most people offer that in response to what they are observing.

So, in your now, you are observing through memory, two amazing relationships. And you're also observing in your now relationships that aren't going so well. And in those focuses…

If you can hear us when we say, when you focus your emotion on the amazing feeling, then that's your point of attraction. When you focus your feeling on the it's not working out feeling, that's your point of attraction. It's a simple choice.

If we could convince you that focusing your emotion is what makes your life work the way it does, then you would be looking for things on the top half of the emotional scale. (Can you put the scale on the screen for them?)

So look at one, two, three, four, five, six. If you can focus a feeling in any of those… One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, Joy, freedom, love, empowerment, appreciation, passion, enthusiasm, eagerness, happiness, positive expectation, belief, optimism, hopefulness, contentment. We would add to that, satisfaction, fun. We would add to that, enthusiasm. We would add to that, friskiness.

See the tipping point on that screen? Right there at seven, between seven and six. There in very faint type, there's a word that says tipping point, and what… See it there? What that means is, if you can focus any of those good feelings… Focus the feeling. Your point of attraction has tipped.

And the amazing relationship starts coming, begins coming again, rather than the disappointing ones. It's not about memory. It's not about manipulation. It's not about setting goals. It’s about focusing your point of attraction.

And here's why. You did step one. You lived some life. You sorted it out. You didn't like that. You liked that. You didn't like that. You liked that. You didn't like that. You liked that. You sent what you do like forward, where your inner being could see it, and your inner being focuses on the “I like this. This feels good to me. I want this.”

You are a lover. You are an uplifter. We're talking to all of you.

So, you did step one. You created a vibrational version, through sifting and sorting, knowing what you don't want, knowing what you do want. You did that. You did step one. You asked.

And then your inner being focuses unequivocally, singularly on the combined desires that you've been launching. It's a beautiful thing to see. Now you must do step three, which is focus the feeling, focus the emotion. Don't try to do any more thinking. You thought when you lived it.

The more you think about it, the more you analyze about it, the more you muddy the waters.

Focus the feeling of the amazing relationships and watch what starts showing up today.

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Abe Now, 9/14/2024, part 1, 44:44 – Election?focusing

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Q: Hey Abraham. I adored last week's session. And I loved the idea of the reminder that my starting place is that I'm an extension of Source energy. And that from that place, it's easy to slip into that stream of well-being that's so powerful and is based in love and what we do want. So, I was wanting to practice that a little bit about this upcoming American election. And I was thinking, you know, there are a lot of things about this that I'm really excited about. I love the engagement of the young people and I love the humor and I love the diversity and all sorts of wonderful things about it. But I was hoping that you could help us have the perspective of non-physical on this because I think a lot of us get caught in the dichotomous opinioning, and I'm hoping you can help us get beyond that to a non-physical perspective. Thank you.

A: The thing about politics, the thing about elections that makes it maybe the most difficult subject of all for us to discuss in a format like this where we're asking you to focus emotion…

What we're saying is that politics mostly is about pushing against the other one. Pushing against the other one. It's like focusing… ?It's like justifying my decision - no matter which side I'm on - justifying my decision by pointing out how bad they are.

So you're setting yourself up. If this is the issue that you are wanting to be the actor in front of the director… So, if this director says to you, “I'm looking for an emotion of indignation and rage. I'm looking for an emotion of indignation and rage and disempowerment.”

Well you could turn on the television on almost any cable news channel and find something to focus upon that would give you that perfect face for the camera and that perfect vibrational emitting as you step into the field of the law of attraction. And you would disadvantage yourself, as you stop your alignment, in your, what you think is deliberate consideration of what's the right choice.

If your director were to ask you to present to the camera (law attraction) the emotion of eagerness, and unfolding, and adventure, and expansion, and that was what you decided to do, you could find it by turning on the cable news programs, and you would be then using this subject to your advantage.

You see, what happens is, if you think that you have to choose a side in order to create something… What we're saying to you… Instead choose the emotion that you want to feel when it all washes out. And focus in every way you can on that emotion.

You can find actors on both sides of your political United States election doing some of all of that, but that's irrelevant to you. What are you choosing to do?

If your question is, show me how to focus so that I can make the election turn out the way I want it to…

What we want to say to you… We're happy to show you how to focus emotion so that your point of attraction will be a continuing bringing to you of pleasant life experience.

Don't ask the law of attraction to control others. You control your emotion. And therefore, you control what comes to you.

Almost 100% of politics is outside the vortex. Because they're not understanding what we just explained to you here.

When you look out into the world and you decide that that's got to change before I can feel good, you're not focusing anything. You're not being a deliberate creator at all. You're saying, I need to find some way that I can manipulate or make happen something that when I just look at it, I will feel better. That's not focusing emotion. That's not deliberate creation.

You can sift and sort through the history or the nowness of your life experiences. And you can find things that feel wonderful and things that feel awful. But until you decide that you're looking for what feels wonderful, you'll have no control over your own experience.

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