Abe Now, 1/29/25, part 1, 18:10 – There's always another way
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Q: Hi Abraham. My question is… I am generally feeling good, have a high vibration, doing daily practices, meditation, and looking for easy, existing matches. But every so often I make the mistake - or maybe it's not a mistake - of checking in with social media or the news. And I get a sense of fear or existential dread. And I know in my heart that everything is going to work out, but are there any ways, or can you speak to the best way to take the bounce to get out of that negative place and into a more positive one? Thanks so much.
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A: Well we sort of began this conversation on the earlier video. And we're just going to touch lightly on it, and then we're going to dive right into what you said. You can be so tuned to the well-being of who you are, to the brilliance and clarity and love that your inner being is, that you can be up next to, close to, even observing unwanted, and it won't cause a separation between you and your inner being, because you are vibrationally stable. You are not feeling like you must push against something.
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We're really onto something important here. Because it is the very decision that I have to get rid of something in order to be all right, which is defiant of everything that the universe offers. The universe that offers all kinds of different things, for all kinds of different reasons, and all kinds of different askers.
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You can't as an individual in this world believe that you have to get rid of a lot of things, a lot of things that others are asking for, in order for you to feel good. You must understand that you can tune yourself to a frequency of your choice, and therefore allow other things to exist, without embracing them, without condoning them, without attracting them to you, without the need to push them away. This is big time conversation about tuning and frequencies.
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You said that sometimes you have a feeling of dread. And you talked about the feeling, especially when you are watching television. We said about your television to Esther, in the very early days of our interaction with Esther and Jerry, your news media scours your planet for bad news. And then brings it to you with images, and often sound effects, sometimes even dramatic music, with the intent of moving you.
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Taking all of the bad things from all around the world and condensing them, and then driving them right into your living room, where you give them 17 seconds, and then another, and then another, and then another, and then another, until you, without meaning to, prevent yourself from your life force, which is what the feeling of dread is, which is what the feeling of fear is, which is what everything that doesn't feel good to you is about.
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Esther looks at her television… She's got more televisions than anyone has any sensible use for. And she says sometimes in her discomfort, like you described it, “It's like eating poison.” Well, we wouldn't go that far.?
Because we would say that your television, and your news media, and your restaurant buffets, and the world in general, and every particle of the universe has within it wanted and absence of wanted.
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And so we're not going to say turn off your television. But we are going to say, until you're tuned to a frequency where you can hold your own, turn it off.?
You came to be in a world with variety, not to shrink it but to expand it. And the more facets and choices that exist, the broader your spectrum of creation is, the more colors on your palette, the more opportunity to create a new, you have.
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So many people are trying to reverse the law of attraction. They're trying to call it assertion. They're trying to push away what they don't want. A friend in a recent workshop was trying to shrink his world to something that was more affordable. You gotta understand that you are a flow-er of energy. You are one to consider and decide. And you have guidance within you.
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Your inner being is flowing through your eyes and ears and nose and fingertips and tongue. Your inner being is observing and devouring this magnificent physical world in which you live. And your inner being is not depriving itself of its source (fuel) by finding fault. Your inner being is finding interest and new, and new rockets of desire.
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You're not wanting to deprive yourself of your inner critic. You're wanting to rename, re-understand your inner being. You're not a critic. You're not a dreader. You are an awareness-er. You are an expanding being. You are a decipher-er. You are a… Appreciator is going too far, too fast. You are a definer. You are a selector. You are an advocate.
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You are a powerful creator, born into a wonderful world of variety. Where 100% of you knew when you decided to come, that there would be others choosing too. And you knew that you would not all be choosing the same thing.
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Now we know, that as you are listening to us speak here, that you are, some of you are thinking, “But when things get so extreme…” And we want to say to you, you, singular you, and you who joins others in a collective consciousness sort of way… You are the choosers of everything that comes. Once you get the hang of this… And Esther can go into a nail salon, or a furniture store, or into traffic, or even into a television program… Focus in.
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You can focus in to selectively sift the new, the interesting, the benefit, or even to experience the contrast that causes the rocket of desire to burst forth from you.?
Please do not ask yourself to stop being the decipher-er, the prefer-er. And don't beat up on yourself when it gets so far that you - separate is too strong a word - pinch yourself off from your inner being. That's okay because you can always get back.
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Hundreds of successful broadcasts before the equipment decided to not work. But there are redundancies in this system, redundancies in Mark and Jared's ability to make it go anyway. This is a world of redundancies, meaning…
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Esther first heard that word when Jerry and Esther got their first monster bus, and realized that if the window shades don't go up and down with the button, there's another way to get them to go up and down. The coach was full of redundancies because things wear out.
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Physical things have failures, but there is always another path. Another path of less resistance. Always another way to get to where you want to be.
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So as humans, if you can… Start again. As a human, if you can not need others to join you or agree with you, in order for you to let your path be all right for you, there is no limit to the joyous new discovery that you can be about.
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But if you think for one moment that it needs to always just go that way… If Esther thinks that this magnificent pile of cameras and wires and equipment and tri-casters and computers, and all that goes into making this work for all of us, if she thinks that nothing can ever go wrong with that, then she better just pack it up now. Because plenty of things are going to stop working with plenty of things.?But there is always another way.
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So when you find yourself dreading, there's another way less dreadful. And another way less dreadful. And another way less dreadful. And as you keep choosing something that feels a little better, and feels a little better, and feels a little better, before you know it, you're going to be feeling pretty good. And you're going to be looking for a way that feels even better, and a way that feels even better, and a way that feels even better.
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And friends, when you reach the place that you are looking for comfort, and clarity, and ease, and flow, and kindness, and love, not just for others in the world, like your kitty cat, or your baby girl, or baby boy, or the love of your life, but for you too. When you can stop being mean to yourself, as you stand in a moment of incompletion…
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This equipment failure wasn't a failure. It was a bouncing off place, bouncing off place for more focus, more figuring it out, more clarity.
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Jared said, “Sorry about that.” And Esther said, “I'm not. I'm not sorry about our expansion, about finding what's new.” Esther said, “I used to worry in the very early days, when Jerry and I began this work, I thought we needed to be perfect because we're teaching deliberate creation. And I didn't want anything to be less than what is deliberate.” But she said, “Over time, I've come to know that we cannot expand without plenty of that.”
