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Abe Now, 12/11/24, part 1, 35:03 – The Spark
?Q: Hi Abraham. My question today is about that elusive romantic and
sexual spark between two people. So, is the spark between two people
vibrational? General human consensus tends to be the spark is either there or
not there. It's either in the room or not in the room. So, this doesn't
resonate with me, given our recent discussions. So I feel now it’s like a new
open loop, and the spark is somewhere in the room. I want to understand the
spark from your perspective, and wondering is it about an activation of
vibrations? So I'm curious about two scenarios. Suppose the initial feeling of
a spark isn't there. It's not obvious. Can vibrations be activated through a
focus to bring about a change in chemistry? And the second scenario is, in a
long-term relationship, can the spark be revived if it feels like it's gone
out? Thank you. A: We are appreciating very much your introduction of the word spark into this
conversation. The potential for the spark is ever present with you. The
potential is always in the room. But what is the spark?
Your inner being is always in perfect vibrational sync, harmony, accord,
alignment with everything that you have become, which means everything that
you've asked for. So you could say that your inner being is all lighted up like
a laser, far more than a spark.
But still we like the word spark. So let's say your inner being is spark,
spark, spark, spark, spark, spark. But that's not the spark that you're talking
about, because you can't feel that spark. Now you think you're talking about
the spark between you and a potential lover. But we want to talk about the
spark between you and your inner being, who holds all things that you're asking
for - lovers, abundance, well-being – spark, spark, spark, spark, spark.
So now, you feel what you are calling that
spark when you are tuned to the frequency of your Source, who is tuned to the
frequency of your desires.
So now, let's consider the two things at the
end of your video that you are asking about. How do you create the spark? By
knowing that it already exists. And by reaching for the vibrational fuel of it.
You're not gonna feel the spark apart from your alignment with your source.
Now another person… You could be meeting them so well and matching them so well
that you feel that spark and you give this other person credit. And maybe that
person deserves the credit, but the law of attraction is really what caused
that rendez-vous, where you and most likely the other too, felt that, together
achieved individual alignment with individual perspective inner beings.
You can feel a spark when you line up with your inner being. But if the person
that you're with is not in alignment with what you want, it won't be the kind
of spark that you're talking about.
The spark that you're talking about - that
relationship spark - is when you're in sync with what you want, and the other
one is too, and the law of attraction brings you together. And you both feel
alignment with your inner beings at the same moment because of the attention
that you have on each other.
Can you keep that spark alive, or renew it?
Yes, that's what we're talking about all day every day with all of you. And
it's really what we're talking about here in this conversation about focus,
about emotional vibrational fueling. It's about your focus.
When Esther today, at our encouragement, thought about the world and all of the
things going on in the world, she did not find a spark.
And even when she thought about the different cities that she has property in,
and the different residences that she spends time in, or the different
mechanics and staff and things that are going on in those places, she didn't
find a spark because it was too much to consider. There was too much what I
want and what I don't want contained in almost every thought. That place is
beautiful, but the gardener quit. Or that place is beautiful, but the snow
blower isn't working. Or that place… In other words, the chaos, the split
energy.
It wasn't until she focused on a clock in a moment
with a sunbeam that we had called her attention to, that she felt a spark - the
spark of life, the spark of alignment, the spark of fueling, the spark of
well-being, the spark of a moment in time. Her being one with that moment in
time.
We know this is a little hard for you to follow. Many of you are right
in tune with it, and many of you are saying what? But this is the secret to
living happily ever after. It’s segment by segment. It’s plugging in the vacuum
cleaner before you move it around the room.
It's caring about alignment so much that you're
willing to do whatever it takes. And in this segment, what we are delivering to
you is what it takes is a willingness to rein in the chaos until you find
something that is so, such an easy existing match. Like our friend’s
grandchild, or Esther's grandchildren, or the treehouse, or LC, or the clock!
Beautiful moment in time.
Focus is your goal. Good feeling focus must be your intention.
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Abe Now, 12/11/24, part 2, 11:53 – Focus the Feeling
?
Q: Hi Abraham. First of all, I'm really excited
and glad to experience your teachings live. And now here are my two questions.
So first of all, I started dating a person that is almost everything I ever
asked for. The way we met, and who he is as a person is exactly what I have
been manifesting and what I visualized for myself, and I'd really liked to keep
that relationship. However, I've been feeling a lot of doubt and insecurity
about it, as I feel like he's making no effort at all, and I feel like I'm at
the bottom of his priority list. So how do I know if I should just move on
because I deserve more, or clean up my vibration so that he can step up in
order for him to be what I want him to be or who I expect him to be? And if so,
how do I tune my vibration differently? And the second question is, what's the
purpose of relationships if you're supposed to fulfill all of your needs on
your own?
A: Well, the answer to the first part of your question is absolutely clean up
your vibration. That's the answer 100 percent of the time. Clean up your
vibration. But what do we mean by that? We mean, take the bounce from it. But
what does that mean? We mean feel the discomfort of your insecurity, and feel
what you created that's in the room at the same time, which is wanting a
feeling of well-being, and harmony, and being seen, and being heard, and
co-creating together.
That's always the answer. Find the feeling that you're looking for. You started
out by saying you just found this wonderful person that you are just enjoying
so much. And when you're focused there, you're cleaning up your vibration.
But when you are saying, but he is aloof with me. He feels like he's at a
distance. Then say to yourself, that’s what's meeting me, because that's what I
focused into being. That's the feeling I have found. The predominant feeling
that I have found that I am demonstrating with this video, is the feeling that
he's going away. Or that he isn't what I thought he was. Get that other feeling
back.
Your point of attraction is up to you. Don't
make it about what he's decided to do or not do. Make it about what you've
decided to attract or not to attract. It’s about your point of attraction.
You can't lasso anything and drag it to you and
make it stay. You attract it through a steady, consistent series of focused
moments in which you feel good. That's how it works.
Your question was, am I barking up the wrong tree? Is this the wrong person? Or
should I just clean up my vibration? And the answer is always focus your
vibration into something that feels good, and the universe will give it to you
from this one or another one, but the universe will give it to you. The
universe will always yield to you because the law of attraction is always
precise, exactly what you are feeling.
Focus the feeling. Focus the feeling. Focus the
feeling. And yes, use thoughts and words and memories and descriptions to help
in that focus. But your goal is the feeling. That's the first manifestation of
your focus.
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