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Hi, dear fellow Abers, I feel stuck, and I would?love to find a better perspective.? ?A more helpful one. I have a dear friend who is "unhappy" a lot of the time.? She has a nice husband who she loves, but she hates her living situation.? She wants to move closer to town....but she feels she can't.? Her husband has a fairly low-paying business at their home which he could not move.? He wants to stay.?? Instead of feeling helpful to her, I just get mad because I think her husband is taking advantage of her and is not willing to even consider moving.? He just raises objections which seem insurmountable.? She feels powerless to cross him. So.? Somehow, I think there are things I'm not seeing as far as being helpful. Anyone have ideas?? Thanks,? Marsha |
开云体育Let’s explore some of the Law of Attraction principles that Abraham reminds us of that might apply to this situation. Then you can choose what might create better feelings for you and your friend.Sounds like you’re both focusing on the “how’s”, like they have to move closer to town. That’s not your job, though. Right? ?You want to help your friend focus on how she wants to feel. Why does she want to move? The Universe has an infinite number of
ways to provide that if she allows it. If she only focuses on one possible solution, she closes off the other possibilities.
It also sounds like she might be focusing more on what she doesn’t like. Perhaps more appreciation of the positive aspects would help create a more allowing state for more ideas and inspirations and helpful synchronicities to show up.
How might this contrast be happening FOR her? How might you support her into more allowing states and/or understanding the LoA, if she’s open to it? And, even if she isn’t, how can you support her, as I’ve suggested, in just raising her vibration, in being
open to infinite possibilities?
I suggest first opening up yourself in these ways before trying to support her. By connecting more to your Whole Self/Source, and just managing your own vibration, that alone will have a positive impact on her. And, it will also be more likely that inspirations
will come to you.?
A couple of years ago, my husband and I were spending the summer living with an older man who was often quite depressed and irritable. Even though we’re both spiritual life coaches, we never directly offered anything, unless he asked. However, as we always
do, we managed our own vibrations and lived our high-vibing lifestyle. It totally changed him. He would often say, “I don’t know why, but I’m happy! ” His way of looking at things even changed and he interacted with people differently, with less impatience
and irritation. It was so amazing and beautiful.?
Give it a try and down the road let us know how it goes!
Enjoy the gifts of this day,
Ann Ide
Author of Three Doorways to the Soul: Fromm Inner Chaos to Inner Peace, Living from Spirit’s Perspective On Aug 4, 2024, at 7:49 PM, Marsha Garland via groups.io <marshaleh23@...> wrote:
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