Abraham Now, 4/23/25, part 2, 19:23 ¨C Pain / Look for Good Feeling Things
Q: Hi Esther. Hi Abraham. Hi everyone. So last week, you answered my questions, or actually, the questions that people submitted answered my questions. So thank you. But I still have a question about my pain from falling down the stairs. And now I have to get surgery on my knee. And I know that we can breathe through it and kind of stay in the moment, and don't try to jump ahead too much on the emotional scale to get rid of the pain. But it's funny¡ At work I'm running around and it doesn't¡ I don't feel anything. And then once I get home and take off the brace, it's just heavy on my mind, heavy in my space. And I try to get out of the funk. But I think, ¡°Well you did it at work. Why can't you do it when you're not working?¡± And I think it's because I'm so passionate about what I do. And I really love living here in Texas now. It's like a whole new life, a whole new world, whole experience. But help me get rid of this pain. How do I not focus on it?
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A: Well it is not only the physical pain that we want to help you release and feel relief from.?It's the pain of being so hard on yourself that we'd like to help you to release.?You, specifically who just presented this video. But all of you are pretty much mad at yourselves that you're just not snapping your fingers and making everything just be the way you would like it to be.
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We want you to enjoy the becoming process more. And we don't know how to tell you a better way of enjoying the becoming process, more important than it has to be okay where you are becoming from.
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That seems to be a big hiccup. In your quest for improvement, you are just mad at yourself that you need to improve, or that you haven't improved. That you fell down the stairs, and that you hurt yourself, and that you set yourself back. It's like, there's a regret, or a being hard on yourself, or¡ So many of you have been convinced that you are not worthy, or that you are imperfect, or that you're here to strive and hopefully thrive, but¡
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One of the processes that Esther does some days, not every day, is one that she calls acceptance. We didn't give it to her. We encouraged it, though. From a friend who knew about Alcoholics Anonymous and the acceptance that they talk about there. And acceptance, meaning I am where I am, and it's all right where I am.
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It has to be all right where you are. Because where you are is constantly becoming. But you hold back your becoming when you are so determined that you need to become past where you are. Can you feel the catch-22 in this?
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Sometimes people talk about forgiveness, and it's sort of like that. Forgiving really is letting go of the condemnation that is keeping you from alignment. And accomplishing alignment is actually what forgiveness is. And so there can be no healing as long as there's something that you are frustrated or upset about that you're trying to get past or get over.
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Sometimes you are trying so hard, you're striving so hard to become more than you are, that you're condemning the whatever it is that you are, which doesn't let you go beyond it. We're giving Esther everything we can vibrationally so that she can find as many ways of saying it as possible.
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Your inner being adores you. Why don't you??Well, you haven't been listening to your inner being. You've been listening to teachers, and parents, and insecure others. When someone is not tuned in, they feel insecure, and their insecurity shows up in criticism of others. And as you practice that, then you're hard on yourselves.
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Comes back to where we started at the first of this broadcast today. You have to just be determined that you're not gonna continue to be so mad at yourself or so mean to yourself. Because it really is on that basis that you would throw yourself down the stairs. And we don't mean that literally. You know what we mean. You fell down the stairs. You hurt yourself, because you were already hurting yourself. Negative emotion is hurting yourself. And when you keep that up, then you get sick, or then you fall down the stairs.
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And the recovery doesn't start with surgery. We're not saying that that's not appropriate. The recovery starts with being all right with where you are.
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And maybe you just have to hear it from us over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. We like that you're happy in Texas. And we like that you're looking forward to what's new. But there's still something stuck in your vibrational craw.
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And there's something, friends, about us talking about your becoming, that makes you humans - we love you so much ¨C immediately look at the hole from which you're wanting to come out of.
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Instead of feeling pride of, here you are, and you've become this far. Good for you. Good for you! No matter where you are, no matter what your state of being is, physical or mental or financial, or any other way, no matter what it is, good for you! ¡°Good for me,¡± say to yourself. ¡°Here I am, and good for me!¡± Because your inner being is not going to have it any other way.
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And until you find a way to team up with how your inner being feels about you, until you find a way to see yourself as your inner being sees you, you're gonna fall down things, emotionally or physically.
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So now, we've stated the case, and we're presenting to you as your inner being feels about you. And you got to be thinking, ¡°Okay, okay, I hear it. But how do I feel it?¡± You just gotta want to. ¡°Oh, Abraham those words are so annoying. ¡®You just gotta want to.¡¯¡±?You gotta want to feel good so much that you're unwilling to feel bad.
We don't see you driving down the freeway looking for roadkill. ¡°Oh look, someone got run over. I think I'll go examine it closely.¡± Do you? We're trying to find your wince factor, wincing factor.
We¡¯re wanting you to find that place that you're unwilling to look. And think about how you don't look there. I don't want to see it, because I don't want to feel the way I will probably feel if I look there.
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We're onto something important. We're talking about focusing. We're talking about focusing feeling. Much more important than focusing thought, or focusing words, or focusing eyes. ¡°I don't look there because I don't want to feel that way.¡±
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And yet, you run around blaming each other. ¡°You don't see me, you don't hear me, you're not there for me. You're not willing to suffer with me. Hear my pain. Feel my pain. Fix my pain.¡± That isn't the way to go about it.
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You have to focus where pain isn't. Which means focus where love is. Focus where interest is. Gotta want to feel good, enough to find it often.
We didn't quite get to the conversation that moved you in mass. Some of you lit up. And really, it's because we're looking right at pain, and falling, and braces, and finances, and lovers leaving.
The problem with trying to get over pain. or trying to heal¡ It gets you focused in the direction that your inner being is not focused. So, how do you get out of that situation??Well you wake up in a new perspective. Or you meditate your way into a new perspective. Or you accidentally find a new perspective.
Here's our assignment for all of you. We don't usually do this, but here it is. This is the remedy for this. And friend, it's not just your video that has us talking like this. It¡¯s thousands upon thousands upon thousands of questions and emails. And people looking around at where they are and not liking where they are. In other words, don't take this on yourself. This isn't about¡ This last video pinpointed it well. But it's about so much more.
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So, here's your assignment. Following the segment called second hour of broadcast, when you hear that music at the end, that music is entitled ¡°Invincible¡±. Friends of Esther¡¯s, a brilliant lyricist and songwriter collaborated with a friend, and they put that together, Invincible. And when it plays at the end of this broadcast, Esther feels the invincibility of it. She knows how tuned in to invincibility they were when they created that music. Invincible.
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So, when the music plays at the end of this broadcast, sit and listen to it. And Jared, if you'll let it play fully right to the end of the song. Feel it. Listen to it. And make a statement of intent. ¡°I'm stepping into a new segment, into the field of attraction, and I'm going to look for good feeling things. I'm looking for good feeling things. I'm not looking away from bad feeling things. I'm looking for good feeling things. Looking for good feeling things.¡±
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Go outside if there are more out there. Stay inside if there are more in there. ¡°I'm looking for good feeling things.¡± Move around. Use your eyes. Use your emotion. But look for, feel for good feeling things. Look for them and find them. And look for them and find them. Don't stop to write them down. You can take your camera and snap pictures of them if you want to.
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Esther will take a picture of Jared right off. He's always a good feeling thing. He never enters her space that she doesn't feel better just because he's there. He's a good feeling thing. She'll walk around her apartment. There are touchstones that she adores. Usually, it's the newest thing that is the thing that is the best feeling thing. Today, we saw a guinea pig. That was a good feeling thing.
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¡°As I step into this segment of invincibility, I'm going to look for good feeling things.¡± That is the path to all things that you want.
