Hi Juls,
Don't you just love it when you discover a little resistance to work on? I
had a situation happen to me and I hit a huge wall of resistance. I had to
fire a front office employee because I found out she was verbally abusing
clients. My clients told me that they thought about taking their business
elsewhere, but decided to tell me first. After 2 warnings I had to fire
her. She filed for unemployment. This was o.k. for her, but for me it
would mean a huge rate increase in addition to the already unbelievable
rates I was paying. I filed a statement saying what had happend to the
review board, and they took my side. Then she filed an appeal and the
judge took her side. I filed an appeal to the high court. How do you
decide what to want? I wanted to win, but I also wanted things to work out
for her. I decided to love her no matter what. I figured that she was
doing the best she could. I asked the universe to let this work out in
the best way for all of us. Several months later my appeal came back. The
decision was in my favor. The neat thing is that she got her unemployment,
and my account was NOT charged. This meant that we all got what we wanted.
The wonderful universe strikes again!
