Abe Now, 3/12/25, part 1, 59:30 – Relationship
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Q: Abraham reading: “After 15 years, my relationship with my man,” - she used a really funny phrase – “monkey branched to a 14-year younger woman. And then two months later, he married her. And that was two years ago. It is my mission to stay disciplined to have this relationship back. Or to have a new relationship. Please help me with this choice.
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A: New. New, and even more of what you want. And new, and easier to come to you. And easier to come to you because in the new, you don't have to fight the memory of what you feel was abandonment. You're trying to be playful about it – “monkey branched”. And you're trying not to be snarky about it, but 14 years younger. In other words, everything about that is sort of stuck in your vibrational craw. So just let it go.
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Chalk it off to, things are always working out for you. And realize that you are stable, and magnificent, and wanted. And that the only thing that's cluttering up your vibration is the cross current of that. Don't let that be the reason you're looking. Look because it's fun to have a relationship. Look because you like that.
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And let that be a phase of your life that positions you perfectly because it caused a vibrational bounce. There's more in your vortex than has ever been there about relationships. More good stuff that would not be there if it wasn't for this having happened. So your point of attraction has manifested in terms of vibration. In other words, it is.
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And how to get to where you now think you want to be - and we agree, it's a good place to go - is already laid out for you. But you've got to let what's being revealed to you, the path, be realized to you by how you feel. And then you got to do something about that.
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A new relationship has to feel like something you want. Like something that rings your bells. Like something that is titillating, and exhilarating, and exciting when you think about it. Not something that hurts your heart, or makes you cry, or makes you seek revenge, or makes you unhappy.
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A good way of getting over stuff is, been there, done that. Felt that. Prefer to feel this. Another good thing to say is, “Nothing went wrong because things are always working out for me.”
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And so if it was a relationship that you liked, then say to yourself, “Oh wow. There must be something really amazing waiting for me. Because as good as that was, and the bounce that I've taken, and what source knows about me, and what my inner being’s focused upon, and all that I put into my vortex… Oh boy, is there something really wonderful on its way to me!” That's the truth.
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Abe Now, 3/12/25, part 2, 11:02 – Permission
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Q: Hello, hello, hello, hello, hello, all of Abraham family. Thank you, thank you, thank you for taking this question. So much appreciation. So much appreciation, especially for the permission to goof off more. I consider myself goop troop numero uno over here. And so to have the permission from you and actually the encouragement to goof off more just like warms my heart. And so I've been goofing off more. And guess what? Life just keeps on getting better and better and better. You know, business is good. Love life is good. All is well. Health is well.?All?is well! So thank you for that. And I'll continue to goof off until the day I die. Hopefully. Okay, goodbye. Thank you!
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A: Well, we are appreciating that so much. The only comment that we want to give back to you is that,?dear heart you do not need our permission for anything. When you want it, you are grandfathered in, in ways that we cannot even begin to explain to you. The permission is yours to allow about all of the things that you want.
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Abe Now, 3/12/25, part 2, 17:06 – Castle or button
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Q: Hi Abraham. I already think I know the answer to this question, but I need to ask it. Why is it that after I do a few processes, and I talk about a house, I find one within a few days and put down an offer? And I mean, it's not our dream house, but it's amazing. But things like weight loss, or getting rid of an eczema patch, or anything related to our bodies, it's more difficult, in a sense. How can I make it all the same? I know you say that it's the same, whether it's a castle or a button, creating the same. But how do I actually put that into practice? Thank you so much.
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A:?Really, by enjoying the journey more.?The reason that one is more difficult than the other, is because you've practiced negative thoughts about your body, which is always with you and up close to you, and the object of a lot of your attention and comparison.
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And it's also something that others behold and have opinions and attitudes about, whether they speak them or not. You are all communicating with one another through body language and vibrational offering. You can tell when somebody is offering disapproval at you. And if you are doing your work, then that disapproval bounces off of you because you're not a vibrational match to it. It's not in your bandwidth, so to speak.
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So the answer to your question why, why is this easy and this isn't? That that isn't easy… It's just something that you have more pattern or habit of negative thought about, more momentum about it. But they are, as you said, they can be, they are equally easy to accomplish. It's just a matter of practicing until you can focus on something without the “yeah, but” that you're adding to it.
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Also, here's another thing to acknowledge. And it's the reason that we spoke to our friend earlier, who was talking about a relationship and was asking us if we thought she should try to get the old relationship back, even though it had been gone for two years, or focus on something new.?
And we said something new. Because it's like you are discovering with the house.?Something new rings your bells in a different way than something that you have been beating to the ground in a negative way.
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So everything we said here is obvious. We know that you all heard it. We know that?you?heard it. We know that you heard it. But what to do about it??What to do about it is, enjoy the process.
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What happens, like with your body, like if you are looking for weight loss or something like that, you tend to think that you just want to get over there so that you can feel better. I just want the results, so that then I can bask in the experience of the result that I seek. But that really goes, really in opposition to what we were just talking about,?about enjoying the unfolding.
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Like, if you have a question about your body, of something that you'd like to improve, and you're not beating the drum of the problem, but you're actually intending for a solution. And something comes to you by way of a friend or something that you see. And you utilize it, and you, within a day or two, feel some awareness that it got a little better. Well then that's a little better.
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In other words, starting where you are, and then saying as you focus on something, well does this feel a little better? Or does this feel a little worse? We're not saying, does this feel fantastically better like it's the answer to everything? That's not what we're asking you. Does it feel a little better or a little worse?
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And if you can consistently focus and say, on whatever the topic is, well that feels a little better, and that feels a little better. Then you are setting yourself up for what we wish for all of you. Enjoying the becoming of anything that you choose. Enjoying the whole part of the creation. Not just the day that you pick the car up.
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We know you heard us clearly. Your question was pointed. And we know you heard it clearly.
