Abe Now - Act like Inner Being - 6/8/24, 45:45
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Q: Abraham, when we put out into the world, something out into the world, such as a dress we saw for someone, or a pattern we create that goes on fabric, does it affect the world around?
A: Yes. So if you're feeling joy, and you infuse that into your design, isn't that a delicious thing? The color design, the fabric design, out into the world. Does it affect the world? Indeed it does. And then you say so if you're feeling joy and you infuse that into your design, is that helpful or uplifting to others, if they're not on that wavelength? Yeah.
See, the thing about that is, let's think about two humans each with their bag of marbles. And let's say that you've been focusing on your teenage cranky daughter. And she's got your goat. In other words, her mood is affecting your mood. So, here you are, calibrating to each other, neither one feeling very good.
Your inner being isn't a part of any of that. And the reason that both of you don't feel good is because neither one of you are focused upon what you both want that's in your vortices.
So if you are behaving more and more like your inner being, or like anybody's inner being, if you're behaving more and more like your inner being where you're looking for easy existing matches, where you're feeling for that resonance, that alignment with Source energy and feeling good, then others have a better chance of rendezvousing with you.
Two people with moving bags of marbles, not feeling good about this, and not feeling good about this, and not feeling good about this, and maybe feeling a little good about that for a minute, but usually not feeling very good, you don't have much probability of lining up, or uplifting each other.
But an inner being who's always there 100% of the time has a high possibility of being there when you accidentally forget to be ornery. That's really the point that we're making.
So your question says, so if you're feeling joy and you infuse that into your design, into your bag of marbles, is that helpful or uplifting to others if they're not on that wavelength?
Yes. Because they might bump into you accidentally.
The more you act like an inner being, the more you benefit others like inner beings do. That's really the point that we're making.
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Abe Now – Let LOA do the work – 6/8/24, 13:41
Q: (Abraham reading) My adult daughter is a highly reactive person whose main focus in life it seems is holding others to task when they behave in ways that displease her.
My husband and I were on speakerphone with her last week, and she hung up on us and hasn't spoken since. She texted that unless I make myself available to her emotionally in all ways that she needs me to, that she will end our relationship. Her threat to maintain her distance feels particularly difficult.
A: We want to comment on that, because one of the things, especially with parent / child relationships, is that parents care about their kids a lot. And sometimes kids use that as a sort of currency. First of all, it's safe for them to be mean to you because you're not going to divorce them usually or abandon them. In other words, you're going to put up with it. And without meaning to, you sort of encourage that sort of relationship. Most parents do that.
But when anyone - whether it's someone you adore, or someone that you hardly know, or just met - threatens you with “I'm going to take myself out of your life, or I'm gonna do such and such if you don't do such and such,” we would go running into the woods. We would put as much distance between us and them as possible because they're playing a game that if they suck you in, you can't win.
A child who knows how much you want to be with them, who uses the currency of not being with you to get you to behave in a certain way, that's going to come to no good end. Your response must be, “I love you so much, but you've got to do what you've got to do. I love you so much, but you've got to do what you've got to do. And if what you've got to do is keep your distance from us, then that's what you gotta do. And we're gonna keep loving you from a distance.” Just let that be your story and stick to it.
People who try to control other people mean well, in that they really do want to feel good, and they really are trying to control the conditions in order to feel better. But it's ill-fated every single time, and we would not let anybody get away with that. And anybody that tried it in our life, we would be the one that puts the distance between.
Wait, we can say that in a better way. We would practice a bag of marbles that feels so good that the law of attraction would be the one that brings you together or keeps you apart. You don't need to keep the distance, and you can't close the gap. You just train yourself into a bag of marbles that feels good to you most of the time, and the law of attraction will do the work that is the best thing for everybody involved. How about that?
