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Live alone and love it ?
Eric <[email protected]
I, who am still a newbie, "of Beginners Mind" that's to say, wide open,
think, IMHO, that Abes message, what I've seen of it thru the folks here, gets down to this amazing simplicity.... "Be who you are!!.....and stop mucking about creating what you don't really want!" How to do that is why I follow this list. Because who I am is a Metaphysical Wordsmith,and love sharing my viewpoint of the simplicity of Spirit, to uplift myself and those who may read, that is why I write to this list I appreciate that Abes message is direct and the simplicity of What-Is. I appreciate the appreciation and acknowledgement I recieve from others here, as such has been largly missing in my life. When I was counselling, we sometimes used this phrase, when all else didn't seem to work. "Be who you are!" Would you believe many times we heard, "That's the last thing I would ever want to be!" How twisted can one get? Abe's message, for me, personally is, "Here's something that can be done about it; something that will work!" " Thanks!" "ME, JANE": And thanks to you too for more understanding of the focus wheel and how I can apply it. I see another way would be to write what 'living alone' means as you have. and... JULS LAUGHING PAWS, A condition of my rental is that I must not have a dog as there are many cats in this retirement village. Must tell this one. I had a Scottie dog. I swear she had a sense of humour, just like mine. Maybe she caught it off me. She would sit on my lap while I was driving. One day I turned too sharp and she fell off my lap and thru the loose car door! Before she hit the road, I caught her back paw and, as I learnt in Aikido, used her motion to circle her up and back into my lap. Reckon abt 1 second total time out! I will never forget her look of surprise and delight. But I ramble! Nor can I walk abt naked. Auckland is having heavy frosts although we do get sunny days. I gave up X movies and 'adult' videos, ages ago as they only fan the fires of my resistance to living alone! Correct, it does make one appreciate other people. I am even glad when my son comes to borrow money, or my daughter to see if I am keeping the place tidy. 12 roommates? Hmmmm A community started near here and at first built long houses, where one had some 20 room-mates. I told my friend that was my idea of Heaven and he replied that it was his idea of Hell! Different strokes for different folks. Many times, I have thought, I should have been born as a member of a tribe. (but I've been there and done that!) I retired into a complex with abt 40 neighbours who I thought would visit and play but they are old generation New Zealanders and it wouldn't be proper to speak to a new neighbour in his first year! Maybe not NYC but definitely LA, or London or somewhere in India with its teeming millions. Yes, it is also abt relationships. I run workshops on Unconditional Love and I would like to do a course on loving relationships but until I can manifest one, that wouldn't be very honest! BTW I have attach. and a long article on Unconditional Love, anyone just ask! Juls, I will dwell on you final sentences but I never get bored and I am almost free of other emotional stuff, thanks to Avatar and lately learning to pivot. Living alone means lots of time to investigate stuff like the Abe list, write EMs, do absent Spiritual Healing, meditate, walk the Path, I could never fall off and even learn Astral Projection, in preparation for the transition to come, where I, most definitly, won't be living alone. Such helpful loving listers! Eric/Huggie |
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