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Live alone and love it ?


 

I, who am still a newbie, "of Beginners Mind" that's to say, wide open,
think, IMHO, that Abes message, what I've seen of it thru the folks here,
gets down to this amazing simplicity....
"Be who you are!!.....and stop mucking about creating what you don't
really want!"
How to do that is why I follow this list.
Because who I am is a Metaphysical Wordsmith,and love sharing my
viewpoint of the simplicity of Spirit, to uplift myself and those who may
read, that is why I write to this list
I appreciate that Abes message is direct and the simplicity of What-Is.
I appreciate the appreciation and acknowledgement I recieve from others
here, as such has been largly missing in my life.
When I was counselling, we sometimes used this phrase, when all else
didn't seem to work.
"Be who you are!" Would you believe many times we heard, "That's the
last thing I would ever want to be!"
How twisted can one get?
Abe's message, for me, personally is, "Here's something that can be
done about it; something that will work!" " Thanks!"

"ME, JANE": And thanks to you too for more understanding of the focus wheel
and how I can apply it.
I see another way would be to write what 'living alone' means as you
have. and...

JULS LAUGHING PAWS, A condition of my rental is that I must not have a dog
as there are many cats in this retirement village.
Must tell this one. I had a Scottie dog. I swear she had a sense of
humour, just like mine. Maybe she caught it off me. She would sit on my lap
while I was driving. One day I turned too sharp and she fell off my lap and
thru the loose car door!
Before she hit the road, I caught her back paw and, as I learnt in Aikido,
used her motion to circle her up and back into my lap. Reckon abt 1 second
total time out!
I will never forget her look of surprise and delight. But I ramble!
Nor can I walk abt naked. Auckland is having heavy frosts although we do
get sunny days.
I gave up X movies and 'adult' videos, ages ago as they only fan the
fires of my resistance to living alone!
Correct, it does make one appreciate other people. I am even glad when my
son comes to borrow money, or my daughter to see if I am keeping the place
tidy.
12 roommates? Hmmmm A community started near here and at first built
long houses, where one had some 20 room-mates. I told my friend that was my
idea of Heaven and he replied that it was his idea of Hell! Different
strokes for different folks. Many times, I have thought, I should have been
born as a member of a tribe. (but I've been there and done that!)
I retired into a complex with abt 40 neighbours who I thought would visit
and play but they are old generation New Zealanders and it wouldn't be
proper to speak to a new neighbour in his first year!
Maybe not NYC but definitely LA, or London or somewhere in India with its
teeming millions.
Yes, it is also abt relationships. I run workshops on Unconditional Love
and I would like to do a course on loving relationships but until I can
manifest one, that wouldn't be very honest!
BTW I have attach. and a long article on Unconditional Love, anyone just
ask!
Juls, I will dwell on you final sentences but I never get bored and I am
almost free of other emotional stuff, thanks to Avatar and lately learning
to pivot.
Living alone means lots of time to investigate stuff like the Abe list,
write EMs, do absent Spiritual Healing, meditate, walk the Path, I could
never fall off and even learn Astral Projection, in preparation for the
transition to come, where I, most definitly, won't be living alone.
Such helpful loving listers!
Eric/Huggie

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