HI Eric,
Get a dog, you will NEVER be alone again. :D Ok so I have 6 in the house
right now so I may be having a TAD bit of resistence to that subject myself.
:D
Living alone means you can decorate how you want to.
Living alone means you can walk around naked whenever you want, dress how
you choose, eat when you want, sleep when you want, watch whatever you want
to watch on TV, being IN Control Of the Remote- BLISS :D
Living alone means you get the Whole Bed minus the 3/4 that Cordy takes up.
Living alone means you can watch X-rated movies and no one knows. :D
Living alone means you can throw a party whenever you want to
Living alone means you can have as many dogs as you want
Living means that you can leave the the dust where it falls, the garbage to
build up until you have a full can, the towels on the floor, your clothes
all over the room, the windows open no matter what the weather, lights on
when you leave a room, the shades up or down whatever you feel like you.
Living alone means that you appreciate being around people more- just ask
Connee and my other friends about how MUCH I talk when we get together.
Living alone means you can excercise when you want and how you want and then
lie about it all later. :D
Living alone means that you can think deep thoughts, allow ideas to grow and
define themselves, and develop into mind boggling plans.
Living alone means that you can have Barbra Streisand, Yanni, Green Day,
REM, and Classical CDs and no one else knows unless you share that with
them.
Living alone means that everytime you turn on the radio it's on the same
station you left it on.
SO, if you don't WANT to live alone, and you don't want to get an animal to
play with and live with you, then what can you do? What would it be like to
be living WITH someone? Compromises, sharing, taking turns, another
schedule to plan around, neither good nor bad things just other things to
think about.
Do you want a Love to live with? Do you want a room mate? Do you want 12 r
oom mates? Do you want just people to come over and stay with you sometimes
and sometimes you're by yourself? Do you want to live in a bigger house? A
different kind of complex where the neighbors all know one another and play
together? Do you want to live on a big ranch in the Northwest with cattle
and horses and lots of dogs? All of whom, of course, die of old age and not
for any other reason. Do you want to live in NYC or where? Is it really
about living alone or not being in a relationship? Personally I LOVE my
alone time, of course that's because I never get any, there's always a mutt
around somewhere, or a neighbor out working on their lawn or kids playing
down the street or I'm on here with 400 e-mails to read and maybe respond
to. Are you just Bored? When I get in that antsy place where nothing is
working and I'm bored out of my mind, I paint, walls, rooms, the garage,
whatever I can find that needs painting or I go and play with Boo dog. What
can you do TODAY to make yourself feel better? What can you do Today to move
towards what you want to have in your life? Usually action stuff works best
to lift you out of your mood, at least it does for me, just imagine it first
and then go and do something about it. ANd if you live around DC, I have
any number of mutts that you can take home with you for a while, truly. :D
LOVE YA- Juls
