Best Explanation of what FEAR is:
?"So when we ask you what kinds of thoughts are you thinking when you feel fear, you're thinking 'I can't have what I want', you're not thinking about having it. So when you do feel negative emotion again, and if you pay attention, every single time, no exception, you will realize, that you have been focused, and not just a little, but pretty strong and steady on the absence of what you want. So if that feeling of fear simply means you're vibrationally off from what you want, then what's the logical conclusion about what to do about it? If you're thinking about the absence of what you want, which is producing the fear, what's the obvious thing you might do to make the fear go away or to allow the fear to dissipate? You hold the thought 'I want to see this the way Source sees it, I want to feel my way in complete alignment with it.'
?Your Grid is always filling in and is always changing, changing to more of the same. Isn't that worth thinking about? So here is where I stand, this is what I'm observing, and I'm observing that I don't have a mate, and I'd like one, but I'm observing that I don't have one, and so my Grid is about not having one, and so the Law of Attraction is responding to the Grid that I'm offering, so everyday it's new, not having it again, not having it again.....Do you know in the moment you stop noticing not having it, something could change?
?So how is it that you all get so hung up on offering a vibration, mostly by what you're observing? That's what makes you think that Life is happening to you, rather than that you are calling it to you.
?Whenever you feel negative emotion, it always means, your Grid started to fill in with something you want, and you blocked it with a belief, and in so doing you felt fear.
?Bless you fear, thank you for pointing out that I just blocked something that I want, with a bogus habit of thought, that doesn't apply and has no relevance to where I am now and where I'm going. THAT'S the nugget we've been reaching for, that's the taking thought beyond which it has been before, that's why we want you to make peace with your negative emotion, that's why we want you to understand what it is, that's why we want you to stop standing in a place being mad at yourself or someone else, feeling negative emotion.
?Bless you fear. You're reminding me that I've got some vibrational work to do. You're not here to remind me that I can't have what I want, you're just here to remind me that I'm not ready for what I want yet.
?Thank you negative emotion for reminding me of amplifying the thought, that there is something that I keenly want, to which I'm not in the vibrational vicinity of, but I have the ability to close that Gap with a little bit of effort."
?Abraham / Hay House World Summit 2014
?Abraham-Hicks: Inspirational Quotes @ Face Book.?
?transcribed by Vince Furfaro
Boca, March 2013 from the Under the Bridge DVD.
If we were standing in your physical shows, we would decide to be lazy for a little while. Because in giving yourself permission to be lazy, you are giving yourself permission to allow your grid to fill in with everything you have already chosen and put into your Vortex.
The word lazy has an unpleasant connotation, doesn’t it? Because it’s humans measuring themselves against other humans based upon a flawed premise.
And the flawed premise is that the more you do, the more you are worth. And that is the most flawed of all flawed premises.
We’d like to give you the premise that is the basis of your Universe. The better you feel, the more you allow. You could not be more deserving. You came as deserving beings into this time-space reality with powerful intent. You have been mixing it up with others and defining what is important, not only to you personally, but important to you on behalf of others. You’ve included in your vortex the wellbeing of many others. In some cases, mass consciousness, in some cases a community, in some cases, a family.
But you have included in your vortex a desire for the wellbeing of far more than your personal self. But it is necessary for you to tend to the wellbeing of your personal self in order to be a productive advocate for the wellbeing of anyone else.
In other words, you cannot give, you cannot extend or you cannot punctuate, or you cannot accentuate, you cannot assist anything that you are not already feeling. Which means, if you are wanting in an altruistic way to be of advantage to everyone you know, you first have got to find a way to be of advantage to yourself. Which means you want to carve out more time to be nicer to yourself, more private time. More time under the bridge. More time where others are not telling you what to do. More time when you are satisfying your own personal intentions for things.
If we were standing in your physical shoes, and someone were to ask you to do something, we would stop in the middle of the request and we would evaluate it completely.
And we would say to them, “I sincerely desire to accomplish this request that you are offering. And it is my expectation that I will be able to do that, since I am in this relationship with you and you are requesting if of me – employer, mate or parent or child, or whoever it is. It is my expectation that I will be able to accomplish this. I just have to insert one thing in the foreground of this request. I will accomplish it for you as long as I can first accomplish ease for myself in the process.”
We really want you to ponder that a bit!