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Day 24 – Public Knowledge But Harmful
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We have seen that it is forbidden to speak in a derogatory manner even if the information being conveyed was already known to the listener.? This is because the act of speaking negatively is inherently wrong.
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Conversely, it stands to reason that a non-derogatory but potentially harmful statement can be made in the presence of anyone who is already aware of the information, unless the speaker emphasizes some point that the listener may not have realized previously.? This is because the statement will not be cause for any harm which otherwise would not have come about.
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Rambam takes this a step further, stating that if a potentially harmful statement was made in the presence of three people, the three are permitted to relate the information in conversation with others.? This is because each of the three can assume that the other two will probably make the information public anyway.? However, this would not be permissible if either:
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One of the three is known to be discreet or especially careful regarding the laws of forbidden speech, or
The person’s intent in relating the information is to publicize the matter yet further.
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According to the Chofetz Chaim, Rambam permits any of the three to repeat the information even if it is derogatory.
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The Chofetz Chaim fails to find justification for such leniency; furthermore, he discourages reliance on Rambam’s opinion with regard to loshon hora spoken in the presence of three, as most other commentators seem to disagree with his ruling.? Thus, one should never relate derogatory information, even when it was related to three or more listeners.
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The Metzora’s Cry
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Zohar (Parashas Metzora) states:
The prayer of one who speaks loshon hora will not come before the Holy One, Blessed is He, for a ruach tamei (impure spirit) hovers over it. When he repents, and [sincerely] accepts upon himself the [various aspects of] repentance, then what is written of him? “On the day of his purification, he shall be brought before the Kohen” (Vayikra 14:2).1
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The above lends added clarity to the Torah’s instruction that the metzora (one who is afflicted with tzaraas for having spoken loshon hara2) call out to those who pass by, “[I am] contaminated, contaminated!” (ibid.13:45) so that they will pray for him. Since his own prayers will not be accepted Above, the Torah therefore advises him to request that others pray on his behalf.
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Scripture declares: “Take note of God’s work! For who can straighten what he has twisted?” (Koheles?7:13). We can interpret this as follows: Take note of God’s work! Ponder well the Heavenly fruits of a Jew’s prayer on this earth: prayer can radiate spiritual light and create exalted edifices in the Upper Worlds. Ensure, then, that your prayers be uttered with proper readiness, and by a mouth that is pure and unsullied by sin. For who can straighten what he has twisted? If one’s prayer will be lacking, then its spiritual products in the Upper Worlds will be lacking as well. This will bring eternal distress to one’s soul, for these are not earthly structures, which can be repaired or improved by a second craftsman.
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As Hillel declared: “If I am not for myself, who will be for me?” (Avos?1:14). Only the person himself has the power to correct his past mistakes — through proper repentance and a firm resolve to live by the laws of proper speech.
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1. Homiletically, this means that having repented and achieved purification, the metzora is? assured that his prayers will, once again, gain acceptance Above.
2. Contrary to its common translation, tzaraas is not leprosy or some other bodily disease, but the physical manifestation of spiritual malady. As R’ Samson Raphael Hirsch demonstrates, if tzaraas were some biological disorder and the metzora’s confinement were to prevent contagion, then some of its related laws are inexplicable. For example, if the symptoms of tzaraas are found on a newlywed during the festive week following marriage, the Kohen does not pronounce the person tamei (impure) so as not to interfere with the festivities. Also, the Torah states that if one’s entire body is covered with tzaraas, he is tahor (pure), but if one spot on his body heals, then he is tamei
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Bereishit: Finding goodness in a world filled with violence and evil

 

Thoughts on Bereishit and current events: finding goodness in a world filled with violence and evil - an article by Rabbi Dr. David Harbater.

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Bereishit: A Much-Needed Reminder of Goodness

You can now watch an abridged video version of these Parasha thoughts on YouTube:

On October 7, Hamas perpetrated evil on a scale and magnitude of which we have not seen or experienced since the dark days of the Holocaust. It is one thing to murder innocent civilians; it is quite another to brutally rape and mutilate women, behead and kidnap babies, murder parents in front of their children, burn entire families alive in their homes, and to film themselves while committing these heinous crimes and then to share these videos proudly with others.

To make matters even worse, rather than categorically condemn these atrocities, far too many people around the world have expressed support for them. A Cornell University professor called the Hamas attacks “exhilarating” and “energizing”, dozens of Harvard student organizations issued a statement holding Israel at fault for the attacks, and students elsewhere expressed support for the “right of colonized people everywhere to resist the occupation of their land by whatever means they deem necessary.” This widespread support is captured in a series of slogans, such as, "From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free", “Globalize the intifada!” and “There is only one solution! Intifada revolution!” Occasionally these slogans appallingly mutate into "gas the Jews," "kill the Jews," and "cleanse the world of Jews."

Given this dramatic rise in anti-Israel and anti-Jewish sentiment and rhetoric, threats to Jews in the United States have tripled in the one-year period between October 7, 2023 and the same date in 2024, and Jews, in increasing numbers, are afraid to display their Jewishness in public. And in an infuriating display of moral blindness and perversion, and of the inability to distinguish between right and wrong, and good and evil, it is Israel that stands accused of genocide!

In the midst of all this moral bankruptcy and evil, perhaps we need to shift our attention instead to the idea of goodness. In doing so, there is no better place to start than the very first parasha in the Torah—Parashat Bereishit—that we read this coming Shabbat.

The account of creation that appears in Genesis 1 depicts God as a master architect who has a well-designed and orchestrated plan for the creation of the world in six days based on the principles of order, structure and purpose. After each day, God observes His creation and declares that it is "good" (day two is the exception but the declaration appears twice on day three), and at the conclusion of the entire six days of creation, He declares that it is "very good". In other words, goodness, in this account, is built into the fabric of God’s created world. Thus, if anything goes wrong with the world, it is up to us to fix it.

Genesis 2, however, presents a radically different account of creation. In addition to a different conception of God, a different understanding of the distinction between human beings and other species, a different role that God assigns to us in the world, a different vision of the relationship between the man and the woman and between human beings and animals, Genesis 2 presents a different perspective on goodness as well. (For a comprehensive discussion and analysis of the differences between the two accounts of creation and of what follows, see my book, “In the Beginnings: Discovering the Two Worldviews Hidden within Genesis 1-11”, .) In this account, not only is there no declaration by God that creation is “good”, but God openly acknowledges that some things are, in fact, not good. After creating the human, God declares, "it is not good for the human to be alone (Genesis 2:18)". As a result, God decides to make for him an ezer k'negdo—translated either as "a fitting helper (the News JPS)", "a helper, matching him (Wenham, Word Biblical Commentary)", "a sustainer beside him (Alter, The Five Books of Moses)", or "a strength corresponding to him (Friedman, Commentary on the Torah)". In other words, according to this account, goodness is not built into the fabric of creation by God in the heavens above but is determined by our sensitivity and willingness to extend a helping hand to those whose lives are experienced as “not good” on the earth below.

Thus, it appears that there are two paths to goodness and the betterment of the world. One is to discover the goodness of God and of His created world and to do our best to preserve it, and the other is to acknowledge that some things and situations are not good, and when we encounter them, it is our responsibility to step in, to help, and to make things better.

May we soon see a time when the forces of evil give way to the forces of good, and we witness the fulfillment of the prophet Isaiah's vision: "How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of the messenger announcing peace, goodness, and announcing salvation (Isaiah 52:7)."

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Today's Inspiration -Shabbat Shalom!

 

Dance and Prayer
The Besht said: "A dance before the Blessed Holy One is prayer."
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Today's Inspiration - Chag sameach!

 

Dancing
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The Besht said: "The angel Michael makes a crown out of the sandals that fell off the Jews' feet as they danced on the holidays."
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With all the tension in Israel and around the world,
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* Mount Sinai Today
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Today's Inspiration - Moadim l'simcha!

 

Discomfort in the Sukkah
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The Kotzer Rabbi commented on the statement in Sukkah 26a: 'The person who is in discomfort is not obligated to dwell in the sukkah.' He said: "A? Jew who sits in the sukkah and is made uncomfortable by the rain, was not worthy of sitting in the Sukkah to begin with."
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Sunday Oct 27, at 2:00AM - Daylight Saving Time Ends

 

Moedim l'Simcha
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When local daylight time is Sunday, October 27 at 2:00am, clocks are turned backward 1 hour (to 1:00am) local standard time.
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… so if you aren’t up at 2:00am Sunday to move your clocks and watches one hour backward, consider doing so before you go to sleep Motzei Shabbos.
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There will be more light in the morning and less light in the evening.
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Day 18 – Definition
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Thus far we have focused on statements which are derogatory in nature.? The second category of loshon hora involves statements that could potentially cause harm to a person, be it physical, emotional or financial.
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The Talmud teaches that gramma b’nizakin assur, it is forbidden to cause a person damage indirectly.? Thus, any form of speech, even if not derogatory, but which may cause harm to someone, constitutes loshon hora and is forbidden.

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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON

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A Triple Tragedy

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Midrash Shochar Tov (Tehillim 52:2) states:
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It was taught in the academy of R’ Yishmael: Whoever relates loshon hora commits grave sins which equal the Three [Cardinal] Sins of idolatry, immorality and murder.1 [This can be deduced as follows]: Regarding loshon hora it is written, “May Hashem cut off all equivocating lips, the tongue which speaks haughty words [gedolos]” (Tehillim 12:4). Regarding idolatry it is written, “I implore! This people have committed a great sin [gadola]” (Shemos 32:31). Regarding immorality it is written, “How can I perpetrate this great evil [Hagedola]?” (Bereishis 39:9). And regarding murder it is written, “Is my sin too great to be borne [gadol]?” (Bereishis?4:13). [Thus, the plural form is found only with regard to loshon hora.]
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Alternatively: When someone commits murder, he kills a single soul, but one who speaks loshon hora destroys three: the subject of his words, his listener and himself. From where do we see this? From Doeg, who spoke loshon hora concerning Achimelech (I Shmuel chs. 21-22) and thereby destroyed Shaul, who accepted the report; Achimelech, about whom it was spoken; and himself. Shaul, who accepted it, [died because of it] as it is written: “Shaul died for the faithlessness with which he acted towards Hashem” (I Divrei HaYamim?10:13); Achimelech [died because of it], for about him it was said [by Shaul], “Die, you shall die, Achimelech (I Shmuel?22:16); and Doeg was banished from the World [to Come], as it is written, “Likewise, God will shatter you for eternity” (Tehillim 52:7). And what caused this? Loshon hora.
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  1. The Midrash cannot mean that speaking loshon hora is a greater sin than any of the Three Cardinal Sins, for they carry the death penalty while speaking loshon hora does not. The Midrash means that speaking loshon hora can lead to the transgression of many severe sins (Maharsha)
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Today's Inspiration - Moadim l'simcha!

 

Warmth and Coolness
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Said the Tzanzer: "After we are warmed by the glow of our fervent service to the Living God during the High Holidays, we are commanded to find coolness in the Sukkah. After our exhausting labors in the service of the Lord during the Fearsome Days, we are commanded to recuperate by a week's rest in our tent-home."
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The Season of Our Joy
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Source: Siach Sarfei Kodesh


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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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Day 15 – Other Forms of Negativity
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While the Scriptural prohibition against loshon hora applies only to speaking about the living, our Sages prohibit making slanderous remarks about the deceased.
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It is also forbidden to speak negatively of our beloved land, Eretz Yisrael.? As the Torah relates, the generation that merited to be liberated from Egypt spent forty years in the Wilderness and died there because of?? evil speech concerning the Land ( See Bamidbar chs. 13-14).
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In truth, it is proper to avoid focusing on the negative unnecessarily even when discussing non-sacred objects.? The early commentators tell of the wise man and his students who came upon the carcass of an animal.? When the students commented on its foul odor, the wise man responded, “But see how white are its teeth!”
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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A Dreadful Scenario
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Picture the following scenario: A Jew is instructed to enter the Temple of God, stand before the Holy Ark and accuse his fellow Jews of whatever sins he knows them to be guilty of. Without a doubt, even the lowest among us would endanger his own life rather than carry out this dreadful order.
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Yet people fail to realize that this is exactly what they are doing when they speak loshon hora! As stated in Tanna D’Vei Eliyahu (I, 18:64): “When the wicked speak loshon hora, it ascends before the Throne of Glory...”
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It is therefore not difficult to understand the gravity of this sin, and the heavy price that the speaker is liable to pay, both in this world and the next. Therefore, David cautions us that if we seek to enjoy the bliss of eternal life in the next world and desire good days in this world, our first step must be to guard our tongues.
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On the holy day of Yom Kippur we beseech Hashem “Silence the Accuser and let the Defender take his place.” How can one utter these words without feeling shame and humiliation, if through his own loshon hora the Accuser is aroused and endowed with the strength to accuse?
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Conversely, those who are successful in their efforts to refrain from speaking ill of others can rest assured that their entreaties before Hashem to “silence the Accuser” carry great weight in Heaven.
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May Hashem cause love, peace and brotherhood to dwell amongst His people.

? Keep reading day 16, the lesson for Sukkos 2
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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM

Day 16 – The Listener
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Once something is defined as derogatory, it is forbidden to relate it other than for constructive purposes and under specific conditions which will be discussed later.? One may not share negative information about people with friends and family, including one’s spouse.? It must be underscored that relating loshon hora to one’s spouse is no less forbidden than when relating it to anyone else.? To focus on another’s shortcomings is undignified and wrong.

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Man’s Superiority
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The person who restrains himself from speaking the forbidden merits the “hidden light” ?which was stored away for the righteous at the time of Creation.1 Conversely, regarding the sin of loshon hora, our Sages state (Yerushalmi Pe’ah 1:1): “Punishment for this sin is exacted from the person on this world, while its principal [i.e. primary punishment] remains for him in the World to Come.”
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This is yet another reason why David declares: “Which man desires life... Guard your tongue from evil.”
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Consider the following: Man is superior to all other creatures by way of his Heavenly soul, which the Creator has endowed with intellect that is granted expression through the power of speech. As mentioned above, the Torah defines man’s essence by calling him a “living being,” which Onkelos translates as “a speaking spirit” (Bereishis 2:7). But man can claim superiority only if he uses his power of speech in a constructive manner. If he uses this power wickedly, then all other creatures, who cannot speak and cause the destructiveness that only words can cause, are actually superior to him.
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Thus does Scripture state: “Which man [desires life... guard your tongue...],” ?for it is this quality that makes one deserving of being called a man.
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  1. See Rashi to Bereishis 1:4.
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Today's Inspiration - Shabbat shalom - Moadim l'simcha!

 

Sukkot and Shabbat
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Rabbi Bunam said: "The command to dwell in a Sukkah during the Festival of the Tabernacles is highly important, inasmuch as this is the only precept we fulfil with our whole body. The Lentzer Rabbi commented on this, saying that the Sabbath Day is of greater merit , inasmuch as it surrounds us everywhere; whereas the command of the sukkah is limited to indoors, and cannot be fulfilled out-of-doors."
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Source: Siach Sarfei Kodesh


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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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Day 13 – Obvious Intent
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While statements which have a negative connotation are prohibited, this would not apply where the listener can be expected to understand that nothing derogatory was intended.
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Therefore, halachah permits making an ambiguous statement if:
(1) Nothing derogatory is intended; and
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(2) The unintended meaning of the statement is only mildly derogatory; and
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(3) The statement is made in the presence of three people or in the presence of the person being discussed.
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As an illustration, the early commentators offer the statement, “In that house, something is always cooking on the stove.”? This could mean that this family’s door is always open to guests, or it can mean that the family is overindulgent.? If the statement were to be made in the presence of three, one can safely assume that it would eventually become known to the family of whom it was said.? Such being the case, the listeners would assume that the speaker intended it as a compliment.? It would also be permissible to make such a statement in the presence of the family of whom it is said, since it would be obvious to all that there was no derogatory intent.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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Awakening the Accuser
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Sifre1 states that Hashem, as it were, does not want to associate with gossipers and rescue them from troubles. Zohar states (Parashas Shelach): “R’ Shimon said: Of everything is the Holy One, Blessed is He, forgiving — except for loshon hora.” The reason for this is perfectly clear.
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When a Jew speaks loshon hora, he causes accusation in Heaven toward the Jewish people. In the words of Zohar (Parashas Pekudei), this sin “brings plague, sword and murder to this world. Woe to those who awaken this evil force, who do not guard their tongues and pay no heed to this! They do not realize that the ways of Heaven are reflective of the ways on this world, both for good and for bad. [Through evil talk,] Satan is aroused to voice accusation against the entire world.”
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A father’s great love for his child can impel him to make allowances for the child’s bad behavior. When a father is forced to rebuke his child, he does it lovingly, with abundant compassion. However, if people come to the father and report that they witnessed how the child quarreled with others over nothing, and that he embarrassed and ridiculed his peers, the father will have no alternative but to take strong measures to ensure that his child mend his ways.
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Hashem loves the Jewish people with a deep, unfathomable love. In the words of the prophet: “Is Ephraim My most precious son or a delightful child, that whenever I speak of him I remember him more and more? Therefore, My inner self yearns for him, I will surely take pity on him...” (Yirmiyahu 31:19-20).
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Of course, Hashem is well aware of all that transpires both in public and in private, as it is written, “Can a man hide in a hidden place so that I will not see him’ says Hashem?” (Yirmiyahu?23:24). Nevertheless, out of His great love for Israel, He is slow to anger and seeks to find merit for His nation, as it is written, “He gazes at no iniquity in Yaakov...” (Bamidbar?23:21; see Rashi). In His infinite wisdom, Hashem has decreed that His judgment of man reflect the intercessions and accusations of the Heavenly angels. When the Accuser [i.e. Satan] comes before Him to relate the sins of His people, then He feels compelled, as it were, to respond.
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And it is those who speak loshon hora who cause the Accuser to speak against the Jewish people.
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1. Cited in Yalkut Shimoni, Parashas Ki Seitzei, 933.
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