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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
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Day 57 ¨C Loshon Hora and the Non-Observant
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Based on the rules we have just studied, the rules of loshon hora vis-a-vis the totally non-observant Jew become clear.
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(1) The average non-observant Jew today has been deprived of a meaningful Jewish education.? Whether or not he has been exposed to Orthodox Jewish life, society has prevented him from taking Torah seriously.? Rambam compares such a person to a tinok shenishbah,
a kidnapped Jewish child whose kidnappers reared him with non-Torah ideals, and whose transgressions are committed out of ignorance.? Such a person may be in the category of both amecha, your people and amiso, his fellow.? It is our obligation to educate him
with love, care, and sensitivity and it is strictly forbidden to speak loshon hora against him.
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(2) A non-observant Jew who did receive a meaningful Jewish education, has been taught Torah values and knows that what he is doing is wrong, but claims that observance is too difficult, is a rebel due to temptation.? He is considered part of amecha, your people,
which means that loshon hora may be spoken of him only if it is for a constructive purpose.? However, he is not considered amisecha, your fellow, and consequently the prohibition of onaas devarim, causing hurt through the spoken word (Vayikra 25:17), will
not apply in his case.? Social pressure may be used to encourage observance even if he will suffer embarrassment in the process, provided that all the conditions of constructive speech are met.? Non-constructive speech that is either derogatory or harmful
would constitute loshon hora.
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(3) The classic apikores (heretic) who is knowledgeable but rebels is considered neither your brother nor a part of your people.? If there exists such a person today, one may speak about him without any preconditions.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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The Gaon¡¯s Will
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In his ethical will to his family, the Vilna Gaon wrote:
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One will stand judgment for every utterance; even a light remark will not be ignored.... The sin of forbidden speech is the worst of all, as our Sages have stated: ¡°These are the sins whose fruits [i.e. secondary punishments] are exacted from the person in
this world, while the principal [i.e. primary punishment] remains for him in the World to Come ... and loshon hora is equivalent to them all.¡± What more need be said concerning this most severe of sins? To the verse, ¡°All man¡¯s toil is for his mouth¡± (Koheles
6:7), the Sages comment (Koheles Rabbah 6:6) that all the mitzvos and Torah study of a person are not sufficient to negate that which he utters [sinfully]. They further state: ¡°Which craft should man pursue in this world? He should strive to emulate a mute
[to avoid evil talk] (Chullin 89a), and press his lips together like two millstones [which grind against one another].¡±
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... Not a single [such] utterance escapes from being recorded Above. Heavenly angels are forever being sent to each person to record his every utterance. ¡°For a bird of the sky will carry the sound, and a winged creature will relate the matter¡± (Koheles?10:20).
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SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
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Day 56 ¨C Public Announcements
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Traditionally, Jewish communities have used social pressure in dealing with the publicly observant whose private behavior includes blatant violation of basic halachah.
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If all else fails, it is permissible to publicize the fact that an otherwise observant Jew is guilty of immorality on a regular basis, if the disclosure will prompt him to repent.
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Similarly, rabbinical courts have the authority to post signs informing the public of someone¡¯s refusal (siruv) to comply with a court ruling.? Social pressure is often the only means through which rabbinical courts can enforce their decisions.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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Evil Epitomized
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The Talmud states (Sotah 42a): ¡°Four groups will never be allowed to stand in the presence of the Shechinah (Divine Presence): scoffers, liars, flatterers, and those who speak loshon hora ... [With regard to this last group it is written] (Tehillim 5:5), ¡®For
you are not a God who desires wickedness, no evil sojourns with you.¡¯ ¡± The wickedness referred to here is that of loshon hora, as the psalmist goes on to say, ¡°For in their mouth there is no sincerity, their inner thought is treacherous¡± (ibid. v. 10). The
habitual speaker of loshon hora is called? ¡°evil¡±, as the Sages state: ¡°R¡¯ Chama bar Chanina said: Whoever converses with his neighbor, dines with him and then speaks loshon hora against him, is called ¡°evil¡±? by Hashem¡± (Aggadas Mishlei 12:1).
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Whatever words a person utters on this world are recorded Above. In the Midrash we find (Devarim Rabbah 6:5):
Let not your mouth bring guilt on your flesh ... (Koheles 5:5). How is this? When the mouth speaks loshon hora, it sins against the body by bringing punishment upon it.
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... and do not tell the emissary that it was an error. Do not say: ¡°I will go and speak loshon hora and no one [but the listener] will know of it!¡¯¡¯
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Time to count #43?
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Today's Inspiration - Yom Yerushalayim sameach!
Settling the Land of Israel
Rabbi Meir Yehiel of Ostrovsta commented on the verse: 'Go forth... to the land that I will show you.' (Genesis 12:1) He said: "The commandment to settle the land of Israel is a great one - so much so that it is the first commandment ever decreed upon a Jew."
Source: Hasidic Wisdom
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God's Complaint
The Medzibozer's grandson, Yechiel Michel, was playing hide and seek with another child. He hid himself for some time, but his playmate did not look for him. Little Yechiel ran to Rabbi Baruch and said amid tears: "He did not look for me."
The Rabbi said: "This is also God's complaint, that we don't seek Him out."
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Source: Butzina De-Nehorah
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Zoom shiur this Wed, Giving of the Torah - the Pivotal Moment in World History
This Wed,?June
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Thickness of a Needle
Said Rabbi Bunam: "The midrash teaches that God declares to us: "Open your heart to me as much as the thickness of a needle and I will it open it for you as wide as the portal of a vast hall" (Shir ha-Shirim Rabba 5:3). I add this thought: 'But God wishes this opening of needle thickness to be not merely a scratch, but through and through."
Source: Simchath israel
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Day 55 ¨C Social Pressure
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A mumor l¡¯tayovon (lit., rebel due to temptation) is someone who regularly submits to temptation in violating a specific mitzvah.? While the prohibition against gossip mongering does apply with regard to speaking about him (as
he is not a heretic), his situation differs drastically from one who occasionally transgresses a given mitzvah but basically is committed to its observance.?
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As we have learned, the primary prohibition against speaking loshon hora is lo saylaych rachil b¡¯amecha, Do not go as a gossipmonger among your people (Vayikra?19:16).?
One who embarrasses his fellow Jew transgresses the prohibition lo sonu ish es amiso, A man shall not aggrieve his fellow (Vayikra 25:17).
Our Sages interpret the term amecha, your people, in the first prohibition as excluding only a mumor l¡¯hachis, (lit., rebel whose intent is to spite), one whose lack of regard for a given prohibition causes him to regularly transgress it.? However, the term,
amiso, his fellow, in the second prohibition, excludes even the mumor l¡¯tayovon.? Thus, it is forbidden to speak loshon hora about a mumor l¡¯tayovon but it is permissible to exert social pressure on him in order to induce him to mend his sinful way.
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It is permissible to publicize that a Jew regularly violates a particular halachah if it is clear that he is aware of the halachah and has chosen to ignore it, and it stands to reason that publicizing his behavior will induce him to change.? This applies even
if he transgresses the law out of temptation.? However, one must be certain that all the conditions of toeles, constructive speech, including purity of intent and lack on an alternative, apply.
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The Time Is Now
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The serpent, whose deceitful words created a barrier between God and man, was cursed: ¡°And dust shall you eat all the days of your life¡± (Bereishis?3:14).
The Talmud (Berachos 12b) interprets the phrase ¡°all the days of your life¡± in another verse of the Torah (Devarim 16:3) as referring to the Messianic era. Thus, at the End of Days, all creatures will be cured of their maladies except for the serpent. And
just as ¡°the snake bites because it was not charmed¡± [i.e. cured of its curse] so too ¡°there will be no advantage [i.e. remedy] for the master of the tongue¡± (from Koheles?10:11).
Those who habitually speak loshon hora will, like the serpent, find no cure for themselves at the End of Days (Midrash Aggadas Bereishis 79:2 and Pirkei D¡¯R¡¯ Eliezer ch. 52). Their only hope is to repent now.
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The gossiper brings suffering not only upon himself, but upon the community as well: ¡°R¡¯ Shimon ben Pazi said: Rain is withheld only because of those who speak loshon hora, as it is written (Mishlei 25:23), ¡®The north wind prevents the rain and [God shows]
an angry countenance [when there is] secretive talk¡¯ ¡± (Ta¡¯anis 7b). Zohar states that this sin brings death and destruction to the world.
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Therefore, one who cares for his own well-being and that of his fellow men will strive to acquire the golden quality of Shmiras haloshon.
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Watch "The Story Of The Birth And Early Years Of Rabbi Yitzchak Luria -- The Holy Arizal" on YouTube
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Are you familiar with the life story of the Holy Ari?
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