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Today's Inspiration

 

The Besht on Joy

"The chief value of a Mitzvah is it sperformance with pleasure. But continuous pleasure loses its relish, and therefore it is natural for a man todescend at times in his service to the Lord. But when he ascends again to his former place, he expereinces new pleasure therein."

Source: Kesser Shem Tov


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We are trying to obtain a business loan from the Israeli banks for our start-up, and every bank manager keeps turning us away saying they do not give loans to a start up.? They say the businesses they give loans to are only in a known field, where there is "proof" of the market.? Does anyone have any knowledge of which banks in Israel might be more open to a new business concept?

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Today's Inspiration

 

Rejoicing at a Single Coin

Said the Riziner: "We read (Psalm 106:44): 'Nevertheless He looked upon their distress, when He heard their cry (of gladness).' This may be explained as follows: It is often easy to recognize a person's distress by the measure of his gladness. If a person rejoices because he has earned a single coin, we may discern thereby how poor he is. If he is joyful because his punishment has been suspended, we may know thereby how greatly he feared punishment."

Source: Esser Oroth


Shmirat Haloshon

 

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Day 176 ¨C Innocent Remarks
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When someone makes an innocent statement without realizing the consequences of what he is saying, people tend to accept his word as fact. Halachah, too, accepts such statements as fact in certain specific instances. (These are: as testimony regarding a man¡¯s death in order that his wife be permitted to remarry; in determining the status of food that had been suspected of being non-kosher by rabbinic law; or where the facts will eventually come to light in any case.) Rechilus, however, cannot be accepted as fact even when a statement was made off-handedly.
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SEFER SHMIRAS HALOSHON
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Negative Commandments
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In his introduction to Sefer Chofetz Chaim, the Chofetz Chaim enumerates 17 negative commandments which one may violate when speaking or listening to loshon hora. Below are the negative commandments most commonly transgressed:
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1) You shall not be a gossipmonger among your people (Vayikra 19:16).
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2) Do not accept a false report (Shemos 23:1), which prohibits both speaking and accepting loshon hora (Pesachim 118a).
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3) Beware of a tzaraas affliction, to be very careful and to act (Devarim 24:8), which Sifre explains as a reference to loshon hora for which tzaraas is a punishment.
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4) And you shall not place a stumbling block before the blind (Vayikra 19:14), by causing others to sin.
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5) Take care, lest you forget Hashem, your God (Devarim 8:11) through arrogance (Sotah 5a) ¡ª a prime cause of loshon hora.
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6) You shall not desecrate My holy Name (Vayikra 22:32).
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7) You shall not hate your brother in your heart (Vayikra 19:17).
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8) You shall not take revenge...
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9) and you shall not bear a grudge (Vayikra 19:18).
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10) That he not be like Korach and his assembly (Bamidbar 17:5), who caused strife among the Jewish people.
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11) Each of you shall not aggrieve his fellow (Vayikra 25:17) through hurtful words.
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12 (You shall reprove your fellow) and do not bear a sin because of him (Vayikra 19:17) by embarrassing him in the course of your reproof.
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(The five remaining negative commandments are found in Shemos 22:21; 23:2; Vayikra 19:14; Bamidbar 35:33; and Devarim 19:15.)
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Day 175 ¨C Beyond Reproach
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Halachah does recognize that there are individuals who are so precise, both in perception as well as in their conveying of facts, that hearing their account is tantamount to witnessing the act in person. One would be permitted to believe even rechilus told by such individuals, but could not share the information with others.
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?As stated in the laws of loshon hora, the Chofetz Chaim contends that no one today can claim to posses this degree of integrity; therefore, one should not rely on this halachah in practice.
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A Public Appeal
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Through the kindness of Hashem, I have now attained the age of ¡°strength¡± (the eighties - see Tehillim 90:25), and virtually my entire life I have not diverted my mind from pondering the matter of speech, which involves numerous positive and negative commandments. To our misfortune, many among the multitudes have no regard whatsoever for the matter of shmiras haloshon; to their minds, it is nothing more than a matter of custom and propriety for those who wish to be zealous in it.
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I direct my words to those who have some understanding of the Torah¡¯s precepts, people whose hearts would undoubtedly be distressed for months on end were they to mistakenly eat meat that is unkosher. It is rare that these same people would feel such distress upon realizing that they have accepted as fact malicious talk about a certain individual, thereby transgressing the Torah prohibition against believing loshon hora. The reason for this apparent contradiction is that this prohibition is not taken seriously by the multitudes...
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Ramban understands the commandment to recall the episode of Miriam¡¯s affliction (Devarim 24:9) as an obligation to admonish one¡¯s children and transmit to future generations how exceedingly shameful is this sin. In this way, the prohibition against speaking loshon hora will be fluent upon their lips. For this sin is great and brings with it many bad things ¡ª and people tend to transgress it regularly.
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Moreover, inspiring others regarding the seriousness of this sin goes a long way toward insuring that one will himself refrain from speaking the forbidden (from a letter of the Chofetz Chaim, Iyar 5686 [1926]).
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Today's Inspiration

 

Well-Directed Strength

Said the Besht: "The strength you are willing to lose through fasting, devote to Torah and worship. Thereby you will ascend to a higher state."

Source: Kesser Shem Tov


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Shmirat Haloshon

 

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Day 173 ¨C Relative Reports
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It is forbidden to believe rechilus even if the speaker is someone very close to the listener and would not want to draw him into a feud unnecessarily. Even though it is clear that the speaker has only the good of the listener in mind, his account of the story may not be accepted as fact.
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If one finds it difficult to convince himself that the report is totally false, he must, at the very least, assume that the speaker¡¯s interpretation of the incident is mistaken and that no ill will was intended by the subject. (As stated above, if the report was intended to save him from harm, he must, of course, protect himself on the possibility that it may be true.)
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Inspire Others
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In essence, it is every Jew¡¯s desire to fulfill Hashem¡¯s will. It is ignorance of halachah, lack of awareness of the matter¡¯s severity, and a feeling of helplessness as to how to change oneself in this area, which are the root causes of widespread disregard for Shmiras haloshon. One who will attempt to guide others in this matter will surely find his words well received, and will bring great merit to his fellow Jews.
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Zohar Chadash states (Lech Lecha 25a): ¡°Rav Avahu said: ¡®Take note of the great reward that awaits one who inspires another Jew to repent. From where is this derived? From the words, ¡°And Malkitzedek, King of Shaleim, brought out bread and wine¡± ¡® (Bereishis 14:18). R¡¯ Chiya Rabbah taught: ¡®When the soul of a righteous person who inspired others to repent departs this world, the angel Michael, who brings the souls of the righteous before their Creator, goes forth to greet him, as it is written: And Malkitzedek ¡ª this refers to Michael, head of the keepers of the Gates of Tzedek (Righteousness); King of Shaleim ¡ª this refers to the Jerusalem of Heaven; brought out bread and wine ¡ª he goes forth to welcome the righteous man, saying: Peace unto you!¡¯ ¡±
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Elsewhere, Zohar Chadash states (ibid. 62a): ¡°A Heavenly call goes forth each day: ¡®Meritorious are those who toil in Torah, who draw others close to Torah, and who overlook the hurt caused them.¡¯ ¡±
Keep reading Day 174, the lesson for Shabbos
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM
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Day 174 ¨C Public Revelations and Suspicious Silence
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One may not believe rechilus even if it was related in public. The fact that a person is unafraid to publicly relate information that is cause for ill will is not proof of its authenticity and certainly not of its accuracy.
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Furthermore, even if an accusation is made in the presence of the subject and the accused fails to respond, one may not interpret his silence as self-incrimination. The person may have been flustered and at a loss for words, of he may have chosen to remain silent rather than cause an escalation of the verbal abuse hurled at him.
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The Way of Our Ancestors

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The Midrash states that four sources of merit figured prominently in the redemption from Egypt: The Jews did not adopt Egyptian names, did not speak in the way of the Egyptians, were not guilty of immorality and did not speak loshon hora (Vayikra Rabbah 32:5).
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Tanna D¡¯Vei Eliyahu Rabbah (ch. 23) relates:
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When the Jews were in Egypt, they assembled and sat down together, for they were united as one. They established a covenant to do kindness with one another; to safeguard in their hearts the covenant of Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov; to serve their Father in Heaven alone; not to forsake the language of their father Yaakov¡¯s house; and not to learn the language of the Egyptians, so as not to follow the ways of idol worshipers.
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The Egyptians would ask them: ¡°Why do you not serve our gods, for if you did, your workload would be lightened?¡¯¡¯ The Jews responded: ¡°Did our forefathers forsake our Father in Heaven, that we should now do the same?¡¯¡¯
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When the Jews circumcised their sons, the Egyptians suggested, ¡°Perhaps if you do not observe this law, your difficult labor will be lightened.¡¯¡¯ The Jews responded: ¡°Did our forefathers forget the covenant into which they entered with our Father in Heaven, that we should now do the same?¡¯¡¯
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When Jews would marry and celebrate the Seven Days of Feasting that follow, the Egyptians asked, ¡°Why do you celebrate? Soon you will be forced to perform your slave labor!¡¯¡¯ The Jews responded, ¡°We shall celebrate ¡ª you can do with us as you please. Those who are destined to die, shall die. Those who are destined to live, shall live.¡¯¡¯
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Let us follow in the ways of our ancestors, to do kindness with one another and faithfully uphold their covenant to serve no one but Hashem. Let us pay no heed to enticements and arguments to the contrary, just as the Jews paid no heed to the Egyptians¡¯ words.
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May we merit the fulfillment of the prophecy, ¡°As in the days when you departed Egypt, will I show him wonders¡¯¡¯ (Michah 7:15) ¡ª speedily and in our time.


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