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[Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot
Dear Eve-Marie, welcome home, we have all been there and are struggling with information and research to understand and bring forth the truth to the World about the hidden history of ‘THE LOST TRIBE’.
My own parents, father from Warsaw Calvary captured by Germans 1939 and my mother from a family of Nobility, trapped and brutalized by Soviets on other side of Riga Treaty Line 1921, came to Australia in 1949 as Indentured Workers, Displaced Persons, under a two (2) year work Contract to repay their travel expenses, as Australia was part of the British Commonwealth and three (3) years later, took Oath of Citizenship to Australia as New Australians, allowing them to be employed and their children find jobs as Naturalized Australians. They never forgot about Poland, but knew they could never go back while Poland was under Communism, creating a LITTLE POLAND here in Australia, which we as children hated because the customs and way of life of the locals was so much different and we were ostracized if we were WOGS. They had to learn the language, take what jobs were given to them, laughed at by the locals as WOGS, no Polish Mass, no Polish Community, only the once a month Polish Dance in a run down hall, so the locals in a backward Bush Town, could get together and teach their children something of the Polish culture, food, music and St. Nicholas. Outside this we had to fend for ourselves, going to Aussie schools, some went to Polish Saturday School, if the parents could afford it, but you were outsider to the Australian Community if you did go, with many denying their Polish Heritage, even changing their names, just to get employment. My parents never spoke of the horrors to us children, protecting us from the nightmares, which we had anyway, because our parents, mainly DAD watched War Films and mother avoided them, but she herself would have nightmares every night. We grew up not belonging to our own kind and not belonging to the Community of Australia. Truly I was lost and searching, not knowing what my Heritage was, who my Ancestors were, felt like an orphan on this Planet, until I started research, found Kresy-Siberia, a people the same as myself and finally felt at home. Now for the first time in my life, I am comfortable with myself and proud of my Heritage and have been open with my children, who found this to be a huge strength and comfort, explaining all the hurts and craziness in the family and giving them courage to face the hardships and excel in all they do, as I have noticed all other children of Exiles, whose parents, explained and communicated honestly with their children have also excelled in Education and quality of life. They have a bravery, motivation, courage, unique to Kresy Survivors and not understood by the local community. We are proud of who we are and have no need to hide anymore. In this Kresy-Siberia Group, you will find the warmest and most helpful people, assisting you with everything that is possible and actually caring, because we have all been there and I am personally thankful for the Group, when they held my hand, during my first steps of painful discovery. Warmest regards Lenarda, Sydney, Australia From: Kresy-Siberia@... [mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...] Sent: Sunday, 14 February 2016 8:36 AM To: Kresy-Siberia@... Subject: [Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot Feb 12/16 from:- Eve-Marie Galka <mailto:eve.marie123@...> eve.marie123@... to:- Kresy-Siberia Group <mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...> Kresy-Siberia@... re:- Marcin Chamot Hello again, sorry I've been away for a few days. First, thank you to everyone for all the help, I know a lot more about my family's history this week than I did last week! Second, I really dislike Yahoo (both mail and groups), it is so difficult and temperamental to use, plus there seems to be a cold-war between Yahoo and Google which does not help! (However if you use the Firefox platform and then select Yahoo as your browser it helps a lot.) Third, please do not post any more in my Introduction thread, I've decided to split my research into a separate thread for my grandfather, Marcin, and my father, Henryk. Also for now I would prefer to focus on my grandfather, Marcin, and to tie up some loose ends about missing kinfolk and wait until I can get my father's army registration number from his id tags to get more documentation on his history. Hopefully this thread for my grandfather will help others with a similar history to do their family research. My family's history is actually rather straightforward and not as convoluted and amazing as some of the others I've seen here plus my grandfather and my father and uncle were in the Polish army at various times so there seems to be more official records available for them. You need to understand the context in which my very short oral history of my family developed. My parents both arrived in Toronto in about 1948 from Europe and although they were actually Polish war-refugees they were admitted only as "indentured labourers" (which was a form of semi-slave labour!) under a system which Canada finally abolished legally in 1949 and which apparently was the last country in the British Commonwealth to have this notion of "indentured labourer". My parents both came to Toronto because all their friends in Europe were doing it, they both would rather have gone to America but they were not accepting any Polish war refugees until 1949 and later, after learning a bit more about the world, my mother decided that it would have been better to go to Australia or New Zealand but by then it was too late and here they were trapped for the rest of their lives (and I'm still regretting it!). Toronto already had a small Polish community dating back to 1905 but Polish immigration stopped in about 1930 when Canada closed the door at the start of the Great Depression. The new Polish war refugees flooded into Toronto and they completely overwhelmed the older Polish population with Toronto's Polish community increasing many times over and becoming much more visible although European immigrants of any type were distinctly unpopular in this little and very provincial backwater of Toronto in those days:- as very small child I still vividly remember having anglo-Canadian children screaming at me:- "Go back to where you belong, G*d-damned DP!" (a "dp" was a "displaced person"). Sometimes the older Polish community would "pull rank" on the new arrivals and talk condescendingly to them but my mother would humorously refer to them as the "Stary Kolumbusy" since they sometimes acted as if they had come over with Columbus! Many of these people were military veterans and still quite young but very energetic resulting in a lot of rapid community development including new churches, new credit unions, new newspapers, new Polish schools, new Polish community halls, new Polish legion halls, a big suburban picnic park (Paderewski Park), a rather vast scouting system with permanent camps near Barry's Bay in Ontario where there were many Kaszubian people living in semi-wilderness, and later Polish retirement homes and so on plus many new businesses and they also revitalized many declining older Polish organizations (including the Polish National Catholic parish which was nearly dead by 1945). They scraped their pennies together to pay for building materials and often pitched in personally helped to build much of this community infrastructure with their own hands. This was very much a Polish émigré community with a lot of community infrastructure and it was totally dominated by Polish war veterans and I grew up in this very Polish milieu complete with its own unique creole Polish derived from Galician Polish and heavily influenced by military jargon, and borrow words from Russian, German, Italian, and British and Canadian English. I heard endless personal war stories and sat on many knees while various of my father's friends showed me their medals and pictures and explained where they all came from and I basically spent the first 20 years of my life in this very intensely Polish military milieu. At first, as children we could not make any sense out of this torrent of personal histories since much of it seemed to come from another planet and we were too young too understand anyway and then when we became old enough to understand we tended to have nightmares about it so the adults learned to hold back the less pleasant stuff when children were around. By my teens I started looking for formal histories to provide a framework to organize all this massive personal detail and I could find very little since we were essentially the "lost Polish tribe" who had been systematically written out of the history books (although at the time I did not understand how massive that conspiracy of silence really was). I finally found a book on the battles at Monte Cassino published in about 1956 and written by a former German major in the Wehrmacht who was not there himself but who was a military historian and he included a rather extensive and sympathetic chapter about the history of the Polish troops and that was all the formal history I could find about my parents and their friends for many, many years after that but it helped me to start understanding what they were talking about but it was not until the arrival of the Internet and especially Wikipedia that I could start finding out even much more. My father died in 1974 before I could understand what to ask about and so my information about him came later second-hand from my mother who tended to garble it a bit plus a bit more from my uncle who almost died in an epidemic in Uzbekistan or Turkmenistan on his way to Iran and that seemed to affect his memories of times before that. My uncle had actually stayed in Britain until about 1953 but finally came to Canada and Toronto and while there he tried to trace his family members through the Red Cross but without any result at all and he gave up after he got here since the Canadian Red Cross was not at all sympathetic to us. My mother made it clear that there was no hope of finding any documentary evidence about his side of the family during the Communist era since they all believed that old records had been destroyed deliberately or during combat and the Communists were not sharing whatever was left with anyone and least of all with Polish war refugees from the Kresy:- essentially Communism was a big black-hole which swallowed up everything and everyone and it was impossible for anyone outside to find out about anyone or anything inside so we just gave up. Thus I put together my little oral history of my family on that basis and there it stayed for a long time. Having this oral history was important in local Polish society in Toronto because in those years when two Polish people met for the first time they would first establish which friends they had in common and then if they shared common ancestors in Poland:- the Polish community in Toronto and southern Ontario was quite large but in some ways very close-knit and everyone seemed to know everyone else. This was a kind of greeting and bonding ritual in what was essentially a "lost Polish tribe" which had been exiled from their ancestral homeland to Planet Canada which did not really like us and who had been disowned and excommunicated by Planet Poland which was very intent on forgetting all about us (and apparently even revoked en masse the Polish citizenship of expatriate Poles in 1956 leaving us all as stateless citizens) and everyone had written us out of the history books and we still meet many recently-arrived mainland Poles today who still suffer from this Communist-era amnesia about us. And so my parents' generation created a little offshore replica of the Second Republic from which they had been forcibly expelled and that is where we, their children, grew up and perhaps culturally we are actually closer to the traditions of the Second Republic and the Stara Rzeczpospolita since we have never been oppressed daily by the alien ideology of Communism which subjugated mainland Poles for so long:- sometimes I feel like an old Polish living fossil, a relic from the era of "Ogniem i mieczem" ("With Fire and Sword")! The first major document was entry #979 on the list of osadnicy at which shows my grandfather as "Marcin Chamut". The gentleman who provided this suggested that my original family name was thus "Chamut" but I'm not really sure and this might actually be a simple transcription error made when they transcribed the original records by hand into digital format. The Polish way of handwriting "o" and "u" are quite similar except the "o" is supposed to be closed at the top but someone writing quickly might leave it a bit open and looking like a "u" so we really need to look at the original records or photocopies thereof. Nevertheless this was the first time I saw any document like this in my life and it really "blew me away" and I was amazed at how much of my oral information was actually correct (including my grandfather's first name) since memories were starting to fade when I collected this information and I always had serious doubts about its accuracy. Now I also know that my grandfather was a "bombardier" who in that era was essentially an artillery sergeant who directed an individual artillery crew and since the guns of that era were precision weapons he would have had some technical knowledge and education. It also gave me the actual military settlement where he and his family homesteaded and now I can trace where he lived and who his neighbors were:- amazing! Likewise the document at gives me more information about my grandfather's home at Aleksandrówka and it also continues the spelling "Chamut" which is a bit confusing. The next major document was the deportation list at and this shows more information but also becomes even more confusing. It confirms that my father, Henryk, was indeed born in 1927 and he was telling the truth about that but now I would really like to find his birth certificate so we could finally know his actual birth date because it's certainly not Jan 1, 1926 as it appears on all his official records subsequently and on his gravestone but he did indeed "lie" his way into the army like so many others and no doubt the officers knew that but turned a blind eye:- they needed to make their numbers and no one wanted to babysit restless teenaged boys who had already been badly traumatized so the Second Corps seemed to include quite a few boy-soldiers like my father. According to my mother's recollections of what he told her there were more boy-soldiers like him and they used to pass around a bottle of vodka or whatever to loosen up the kids before a battle to relax them and calm them down as they went into battle. It also continues the spelling "Chamut" which perhaps suggests that might be the original spelling of the family name but I would really need to see my grandfather's birth certificate to be sure. My family name somewhat resembles the Polish word <> "chom?to" or "horse collar" so perhaps some of my ancestors made horse collars and other harnessing equipment . "Chamot" seems to be a more common name in Poland while "Chamut" is less common and seems to be associated more with Jewish people. This document also show that my grandfather's father's name was "Jan" and he was born in 1896 while "Anna" who apparently was his wife was the daughter of Michal and was born in 1897. However this contradicts my uncle Bolek's hazy recollection that his mother was name "Maria" but she does not appear on this listing. This document also shows the family were deported on Mar 2, 1940 and were consigned to Lensk rayon in northeast Archangelsk oblast and were freed on Sep 12, 1941 but by then seemed to be resident in Chkalovsk town in Tajikistan which was far to the southeast so obviously they were moved around quite a bit. My uncle seemed sure that they had actually gone to Vorkuta and my father remembered about standing in cold water while cutting brush which gave him some mild arthritis at the time so perhaps they were detoured en route to Vorkuta to work on clearing brush and trees to build the new townsite of Vorkuta and the railway line to it and we know this was a well-known and notorious forced-labor project in Russia for many years in that era. However later they seemed to have found their way far to the south to central Asia. The next major document in this history is found at <> and this is apparently a listing of soldiers enlisted into Anders' Army at its temporary headquarters at Buzuluk which is about 500 km east of Moscow along with their kinfolk. Keep in mind that General Anders made a decision that only enlisted soldiers and their families would be transported out of the USSR to Persia:- this was a hard decision to make but the Soviets were barely co-operative and it was the best that could be done in those circumstances. Apparently my uncle Bolek who was clearly old enough to enlist reported to Buzuluk and joined and advised them of his relations who now resided in Yuzhno Kazakhstan oblast in the Suzakski rayon on the Stalin kolkhoz at the time he enlisted which would have been sometime in late 1941 or early 1942. This seems to be the first documented spelling of "Chamot" in this history. However that list fails to include my grandfather Marcin but now we see "Maria" so who is this mystery lady whom my uncle remembered as his mother? She might actually be Marcin's sister or a cousin or perhaps a sister or cousin of Anna who somehow reconnected with her kinfolk and joined them. My mother told me that according to my father he had spent time in a kolkhoz in Kazachstan first baby-sitting children (which did not agree with him!) and then later he was transferred to "baby-sitting" camels (ie a camel herder) and then finally he just got fed up and left on his own and apparently found his way somehow to Persia. I remember as a child coming home from school with my school atlas to do homework and he saw it and opened it on a table to the page for central Asia and traced with his finger his route from north Russia to central Asia and then to Persia and I was totally confused and mystified about what he was talking about going through historical places like Tashkent, Samarkand, Bukhara, and so on but I realize now that he stole rides on the railway which connects these places with Krasnovodsk (now Türkmenba?y) in Turkmenistan and that is how he somehow got to Persia on his own:- he literally sneaked in through the "backdoor" when no one was looking, a young Polish lad full of guile and moxy living by his wits! From there he progressed to Iraq, Palestine, Egypt, and then to Italy and Britain and finally to Canada and I still have a picture of him (very young and skinny and quite serious-looking!) and about a dozen other teenage Polish boys and on the back it is marked "na pustynym w Iraku":- long before the Polish deployment to Iraq in 2003 there were other Polish soldiers going that way and I wonder if those later Polish soldiers knew anything about their predecessors. I remember my mother telling me that he told her that he left on his own and that he got to Persia before his brother Bolek and I thought this was just a bit of youthful bragging by him but perhaps it was true, he simply took a shortcut and avoided all the official channels and no one would bother a vagabond boy "riding the rails" even in the Stalinist era of the USSR. My uncle Bolek apparently waited in Buzuluk for his travelling orders and finally reached Persia but he became deathly ill on the way either in Uzbekistan or Turkmenistan and apparently almost died and apparently crossed to Persia in a somewhat zombie-like state and it seems to have affected his memories of everything before. So now we come to the remaining loose ends:- what happened to grandfather Marcin and to my grandmother Anna and grandaunt Maria and my uncle Jozef? Marcin apparently did not reach Kazakhstan and possibly died along the way either at Vorkuta or perhaps even before at Katyn or one of the other execution sites. The cold and wet conditions at Vorkuta might have made him ill and he died there or perhaps even before then he might have been arrested and sent to Katyn et al and been finally executed. I did not think he would be important enough to send to Katyn and he was already a civilian by 1939 but he was an artillery sergeant and I read that the Soviets did subsequently arrest a large number of former veteran officers and sergeants and so on in Dec of 1939 so perhaps he was arrested in late 1939 or early 1940 on that basis and sent to Katyn et al. How can I establish if he was sent to Katyn et al, can that be done? Finally, what happened to Anna, Maria, and Jozef? My uncle cannot clearly remember if they accompanied him to Persia so where did they go?:- perhaps they finally reach Persia and somehow went missing although my uncle could never trace them through the Red Cross after the war and perhaps they died from illness in Uzbekistan or Turkmenistan or perhaps they remained behind in the USSR or remigrated to Poland after 1945. By now Anna and Maria have long since died and even Jozef is probably dead but if he survived and married and had children then perhaps I still have unknown cousins and nephews and nieces on that side of the family:- where could I look to find out about that? My family's history is a bit like a "matryoshka" doll:- one mystery inside of another and another and so on and as soon as I sort out one mystery it introduces yet another but I'm really quite amazed that now I can actually get some documentary information to answer these questions:- I had a dream some time ago with a premonition that such a day would arrive but I thought it was just wishful thinking but here it is happening. Thank you. <> <> Have found some information regarding Henryk Chamot some of which you might be aware of. From the index of the repressed there is a record of Anna, Boleslaw, Henryk, Jozef and Marcin (see attachments) being deported to Wo?yńska and exiled in Archangielska. a <> Have found some information regarding Henryk Chamot some of which you might be aware of. From the index of the repressed there is a record of Anna, Boleslaw, Henryk, Jozef and Marcin (see attachments) being deported to Wo?yńska and exiled in Archangielska. |
Hello, thank you for your reply, sorry for the slow reply, I was away for awhile dealing with other matters
(and unfortunately I will again be away for the next few weeks dealing with some surgical issues). My mother always thought Australia would have been better since the climate was definitely nicer but obviously there were other problems for Poles in Australia. However it still looks good to me, the employment situation is much better in "Oz" than here in Toronto which is a place I am really learning to dislike intensely after spending my life here. I think the reason that so many Polish war vets (1st and 2nd Corps) came to Toronto was because it was closer than anywhere else (except Britain which also did not want us) (and also "Ameryka" which also did not want us until at least 1949). One advantage we had here was that although our community was quite marginalized at least it was big enough that we could shelter inside of it so I got to grow up inside a "Little Poland" and although I could not really understand my parents and their friends for a long time I realize now in my old age how very special that really was. Btw, when I was a child we all got sent to summer camp at "Kaszuby" (which was near Barry's Bay in Ontario) and there we would meet some Polish children who got sent there all the way from Australia:- it was odd hearing them speak their Australian-flavored English which contrasted quite a bit with our "Near-Midwestern" (ie like Chicago) English but when everyone switched to Polish it all came out with the same Polish accents we acquired from our parents at birth and our parents all came from the same places in Poland:- it's so strange to meet someone visiting from faraway "Oz" whose parents grew up in a village close to our parents and perhaps even next door. I got the same experience at a "Kresy" reunion in Toronto several years ago. At least here the police constables were often on our side too at least informally since so many of them were also war-vets who had served with Polish soldiers in Italy and France so that certainly helped a bit. Thank you. ps:- The weather here can be so unpleasant at times:- as in -25dC with a wind-chill of -40dC (and me in a dress at the bus-stop!):-brrr!!!. Of course we certainly have more water than Australia does (and in certain seasons we also have a lot more mosquitoes and blackflies!) and let's not talk about the snow (which needs endless shoveling from your sidewalk and driveway!). |
开云体育Hello. A number of comments [below] such as “…except Britain which also did not want us…” and “...’Ameryka’ which also did not want us…” reminded me of my family’s experiences. After the war in Britain my father earned a university degree in engineering but could obtain work only as a coal miner or window cleaner. Colleagues of my father encouraged him, with family in tow, to venture to either Spain or South America to start a new life. Spain was riddled with revolution and South America was something of a mystery so we set off instead to America. “The Land Of The Free” wasn’t altogether welcoming either and after about one year my family bid the States farewell and made Oz a new target. What a great move that was. However, the resentment openly expressed by many Aussies towards a foreigner with a funny and unpronounceable name was unkind and depressing. We were lonely but father had survived at war the slaughter of family and fellow countrymen and for being spared from death was grateful, very grateful to be alive and thus was determined to “make it work” in Australia. He refused all offers to take up membership of “Little Poland” cliques. I didn’t understand my parents’ attitudes and behaviour in this regard but now at my age I too regard their approach to a new life in Australia as special and a valuable lesson in accepting the maxim “When in Rome do as the Romans do”. I’m aware this is not a forum for political expression but I’ll risk the ire of others by stating Australia is a multi-cultured nation, not a multicultural nation and I don’t believe it augers well for those of us who love living in Oz. Regards, Konrad Wraczynski. On 13 Mar 2016, at 8:20 am, eve.marie123@... [Kresy-Siberia] <Kresy-Siberia@...> wrote:
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开云体育I grew up in Riverstone, New South Wales, Australia, ?a little town which time forgot, complete with steam trains and a small Polish Community mixed from all over, living with each other as in a village in the old country, but there was a definite two sides to the fence.? Little Poland or Aussie.? ? I wavered between the two sides, seeing many living in Little Poland and rejecting it later in life and others totally defiant from start of school, not wanting to know their heritage, or speak their parents language and many parents did not talk of the war and their personal experiences and others hid behind the Vodka. ? We had monthly Polish dances, where the grown-ups, would teach the younger how to dance, speak the Polish language, drink and eat good Polish food, ?but then the Rock n Roll, Twist and Stomp came in. ?I was lucky, looking back in hindsight, to learn the old dances, something the Aussie did not know, except for the Barn Dance, Heel and Toe Polka, ?we learned at school. ? Our food was looked down on by Australians, but with the Italians and other cultures, whom we felt comfortable with and shared recipes, they gradually became brave enough to taste our cuisine. ? We traded eggs for honey, made our own cheese and grew vegetables, teaching the Australians many things and they came to respect our parents, even with their funny way of speaking and accents. ??Especially respected my father for his Horticultural and building skills. ? I was severely teased at school and with my parents domestic difficulties and lack of money, because they had to labourer jobs, now recognize this as PTSD re home life, which terrified me and my brother and we could never fit in with our own kind or Australians, which in turn reflected on our education. ??We managed reasonably well, later in life. ? I began research and understanding the Polish experience, returned to my Roots, ?which explained much, if not all that occurred with my parents during my childhood and I am now proud to have Polish blood in my veins.? ? ? Whereas, my brother like many others, totally rejected his childhood, his parents heritage and went into denial until his death, causing sickness after sickness in his own body, until his body deteriorated so much, he died last year and even at his funeral, we were not allowed to be Polish, sitting separate from his family and told not to speak of our heritage. ? Now in these last few years, I have seen an acceptance and honour given, in Australia, ?to people of Polish decent, with our food, our culture, getting a revival and new interest and we are becoming multi-cultural in the true sense. ? I look fondly back to those days of growing up with parents who could not speak English, using me as translator, our way of life on 6 acres of land, our little farm and would not change it, except wish my parents were not afraid or so traumatised from WWII and they could communicate freely with relatives in Poland, without the censorship or fear of retribution to their loved ones back home, taking away their loneliness in an Alien country, which became their second home and they gave their all and their life to, ripped away from Poland, wanting to be connected but could not because of Communism and their own Exile, accepting their new Country Australia as home until death, where they became free to go back to their real home and family. ? Warmest regards Lenarda, Sydney Western Suburbs, Australia ? ?? ? From: Kresy-Siberia@... [mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...]
Sent: Sunday, 13 March 2016 10:52 AM To: Kresy-Siberia@... Subject: Re: [Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot ? ? ? Hello. ? A number of comments [below] such as “…except Britain which also did not want us…” and “...’Ameryka’ which also did not want us…” reminded me of my family’s experiences. After the war in Britain my father earned a university degree in engineering but could obtain work only as a coal miner or window cleaner. Colleagues of my father encouraged him, with family in tow, to venture to either Spain or South America to start a new life. Spain was riddled with revolution and South America was something of a mystery so we set off instead to America. “The Land Of The Free” wasn’t altogether welcoming either and after about one year my family bid the States farewell and made Oz a new target. What a great move that was. ? However, the resentment openly expressed by many Aussies towards a foreigner with a funny and unpronounceable name was unkind and depressing. We were lonely but father had survived at war the slaughter of family and fellow countrymen and for being spared from death was grateful, very grateful to be alive and thus was determined to “make it work” in Australia. ? He refused all offers to take up membership of “Little Poland” cliques. I didn’t understand my parents’ attitudes and behaviour in this regard but now at my age I too regard their approach to a new life in Australia as special and a valuable lesson in accepting the maxim “When in Rome do as the Romans do”. ? I’m aware this is not a forum for political expression but I’ll risk the ire of others by stating Australia is a multi-cultured nation, not a multicultural nation and I don’t believe it augers well for those of us who love living in Oz. ? Regards, ? Konrad Wraczynski. ? ? ? On 13 Mar 2016, at 8:20 am, eve.marie123@... [Kresy-Siberia] <Kresy-Siberia@...> wrote: Hello, thank you for your reply, sorry for the slow reply, I was away for awhile dealing with other matters ? |
开云体育Thank you so much Lenarda - very interesting, informative and moving. Reminiscent, though mine is at a much lower level I think, of my growing up in Chicago during the 1950's and beyond, but NOT in a Polish neighborhood. The "other worlds" were not just "American", but of a number of nationalities within the Chicago area; treated in various different ways by the Germans, English, Irish and the Jews - and by the other Poles. Not a very effective melting-pot back then!? Warm Regards, Dan Zamoyski Bakewell, Derbyshire, England To: Kresy-Siberia@... From: Kresy-Siberia@... Date: Sun, 13 Mar 2016 12:42:32 +1100 Subject: RE: [Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot ? I grew up in Riverstone, New South Wales, Australia, ?a little town which time forgot, complete with steam trains and a small Polish Community mixed from all over, living with each other as in a village in the old country, but there was a definite two sides to the fence.? Little Poland or Aussie.? ? I wavered between the two sides, seeing many living in Little Poland and rejecting it later in life and others totally defiant from start of school, not wanting to know their heritage, or speak their parents language and many parents did not talk of the war and their personal experiences and others hid behind the Vodka. ? We had monthly Polish dances, where the grown-ups, would teach the younger how to dance, speak the Polish language, drink and eat good Polish food, ?but then the Rock n Roll, Twist and Stomp came in. ?I was lucky, looking back in hindsight, to learn the old dances, something the Aussie did not know, except for the Barn Dance, Heel and Toe Polka, ?we learned at school. ? Our food was looked down on by Australians, but with the Italians and other cultures, whom we felt comfortable with and shared recipes, they gradually became brave enough to taste our cuisine. ? We traded eggs for honey, made our own cheese and grew vegetables, teaching the Australians many things and they came to respect our parents, even with their funny way of speaking and accents. ??Especially respected my father for his Horticultural and building skills. ? I was severely teased at school and with my parents domestic difficulties and lack of money, because they had to labourer jobs, now recognize this as PTSD re home life, which terrified me and my brother and we could never fit in with our own kind or Australians, which in turn reflected on our education. ??We managed reasonably well, later in life. ? I began research and understanding the Polish experience, returned to my Roots, ?which explained much, if not all that occurred with my parents during my childhood and I am now proud to have Polish blood in my veins.? ? ? Whereas, my brother like many others, totally rejected his childhood, his parents heritage and went into denial until his death, causing sickness after sickness in his own body, until his body deteriorated so much, he died last year and even at his funeral, we were not allowed to be Polish, sitting separate from his family and told not to speak of our heritage. ? Now in these last few years, I have seen an acceptance and honour given, in Australia, ?to people of Polish decent, with our food, our culture, getting a revival and new interest and we are becoming multi-cultural in the true sense. ? I look fondly back to those days of growing up with parents who could not speak English, using me as translator, our way of life on 6 acres of land, our little farm and would not change it, except wish my parents were not afraid or so traumatised from WWII and they could communicate freely with relatives in Poland, without the censorship or fear of retribution to their loved ones back home, taking away their loneliness in an Alien country, which became their second home and they gave their all and their life to, ripped away from Poland, wanting to be connected but could not because of Communism and their own Exile, accepting their new Country Australia as home until death, where they became free to go back to their real home and family. ? Warmest regards Lenarda, Sydney Western Suburbs, Australia ? ?? ? From: Kresy-Siberia@... [mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...]
Sent: Sunday, 13 March 2016 10:52 AM To: Kresy-Siberia@... Subject: Re: [Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot ? ? ? Hello. ? A number of comments [below] such as “…except Britain which also did not want us…” and “...’Ameryka’ which also did not want us…” reminded me of my family’s experiences. After the war in Britain my father earned a university degree in engineering but could obtain work only as a coal miner or window cleaner. Colleagues of my father encouraged him, with family in tow, to venture to either Spain or South America to start a new life. Spain was riddled with revolution and South America was something of a mystery so we set off instead to America. “The Land Of The Free” wasn’t altogether welcoming either and after about one year my family bid the States farewell and made Oz a new target. What a great move that was. ? However, the resentment openly expressed by many Aussies towards a foreigner with a funny and unpronounceable name was unkind and depressing. We were lonely but father had survived at war the slaughter of family and fellow countrymen and for being spared from death was grateful, very grateful to be alive and thus was determined to “make it work” in Australia. ? He refused all offers to take up membership of “Little Poland” cliques. I didn’t understand my parents’ attitudes and behaviour in this regard but now at my age I too regard their approach to a new life in Australia as special and a valuable lesson in accepting the maxim “When in Rome do as the Romans do”. ? I’m aware this is not a forum for political expression but I’ll risk the ire of others by stating Australia is a multi-cultured nation, not a multicultural nation and I don’t believe it augers well for those of us who love living in Oz. ? Regards, ? Konrad Wraczynski. ? ? ? On 13 Mar 2016, at 8:20 am, eve.marie123@... [Kresy-Siberia] <Kresy-Siberia@...> wrote: Hello, thank you for your reply, sorry for the slow reply, I was away for awhile dealing with other matters ? |
开云体育Dan, it was the same at Riverstone, with even the Polish not mixing except for the monthly dances and no telephones, so when you walked past a Poles house and they were in the garden out front, they would ask about your mom and dad and gossip about the others and as children, when we walked through the streets, would carry messages from one house to the other, on our journey. ? ? Our doors were not locked and most were welcome to visit, always had Vodka for the blokes.? ? We did not mix with the Germans, Ukrainians and English didn’t want to know us, cannot remember Irish, except for the Priest and never saw any Jews.?? ? We tolerated the others, getting our home made tomato sauce from the Italians and trading Eggs for Honey with our Australian neighbour, who used our land to keep his bees and run his horses, which gave us a good source of fertilizer for Dad’s garden. ? Also, I was country Polish, living in Australia at Riverstone and not accepted by City Polish, living around Sydney suburbs and having their University Education. ? I have overcome all this now at age 65 years and do not care, knowing who I am and where I come from. ? Regards Lenarda, Sydney, Australia ? ? ? From: Kresy-Siberia@... [mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...]
Sent: Sunday, 13 March 2016 1:26 PM To: Kresy-Siberia@... Subject: RE: [Kresy-Siberia (Yahoo)] Marcin Chamot ? ? Thank you so much Lenarda - very interesting, informative and moving. Reminiscent, though mine is at a much lower level I think, of my growing up in Chicago during the 1950's and beyond, but NOT in a Polish neighborhood. The "other worlds" were not just "American", but of a number of nationalities within the Chicago area; treated in various different ways by the Germans, English, Irish and the Jews - and by the other Poles. Not a very effective melting-pot back then!? Warm Regards, Dan Zamoyski Bakewell, Derbyshire, England ? To: Kresy-Siberia@... ? I grew up in Riverstone, New South Wales, Australia, ?a little town which time forgot, complete with steam trains and a small Polish Community mixed from all over, living with each other as in a village in the old country, but there was a definite two sides to the fence.? Little Poland or Aussie.? ? I wavered between the two sides, seeing many living in Little Poland and rejecting it later in life and others totally defiant from start of school, not wanting to know their heritage, or speak their parents language and many parents did not talk of the war and their personal experiences and others hid behind the Vodka. ? We had monthly Polish dances, where the grown-ups, would teach the younger how to dance, speak the Polish language, drink and eat good Polish food, ?but then the Rock n Roll, Twist and Stomp came in. ?I was lucky, looking back in hindsight, to learn the old dances, something the Aussie did not know, except for the Barn Dance, Heel and Toe Polka, ?we learned at school. ? Our food was looked down on by Australians, but with the Italians and other cultures, whom we felt comfortable with and shared recipes, they gradually became brave enough to taste our cuisine. ? We traded eggs for honey, made our own cheese and grew vegetables, teaching the Australians many things and they came to respect our parents, even with their funny way of speaking and accents. ??Especially respected my father for his Horticultural and building skills. ? I was severely teased at school and with my parents domestic difficulties and lack of money, because they had to labourer jobs, now recognize this as PTSD re home life, which terrified me and my brother and we could never fit in with our own kind or Australians, which in turn reflected on our education. ??We managed reasonably well, later in life. ? I began research and understanding the Polish experience, returned to my Roots, ?which explained much, if not all that occurred with my parents during my childhood and I am now proud to have Polish blood in my veins.? ? ? Whereas, my brother like many others, totally rejected his childhood, his parents heritage and went into denial until his death, causing sickness after sickness in his own body, until his body deteriorated so much, he died last year and even at his funeral, we were not allowed to be Polish, sitting separate from his family and told not to speak of our heritage. ? Now in these last few years, I have seen an acceptance and honour given, in Australia, ?to people of Polish decent, with our food, our culture, getting a revival and new interest and we are becoming multi-cultural in the true sense. ? I look fondly back to those days of growing up with parents who could not speak English, using me as translator, our way of life on 6 acres of land, our little farm and would not change it, except wish my parents were not afraid or so traumatised from WWII and they could communicate freely with relatives in Poland, without the censorship or fear of retribution to their loved ones back home, taking away their loneliness in an Alien country, which became their second home and they gave their all and their life to, ripped away from Poland, wanting to be connected but could not because of Communism and their own Exile, accepting their new Country Australia as home until death, where they became free to go back to their real home and family. ? Warmest regards Lenarda, Sydney Western Suburbs, Australia ? ?? ? From: Kresy-Siberia@... [mailto:Kresy-Siberia@...] ? ? ? Hello. ? A number of comments [below] such as “…except Britain which also did not want us…” and “...’Ameryka’ which also did not want us…” reminded me of my family’s experiences. After the war in Britain my father earned a university degree in engineering but could obtain work only as a coal miner or window cleaner. Colleagues of my father encouraged him, with family in tow, to venture to either Spain or South America to start a new life. Spain was riddled with revolution and South America was something of a mystery so we set off instead to America. “The Land Of The Free” wasn’t altogether welcoming either and after about one year my family bid the States farewell and made Oz a new target. What a great move that was. ? However, the resentment openly expressed by many Aussies towards a foreigner with a funny and unpronounceable name was unkind and depressing. We were lonely but father had survived at war the slaughter of family and fellow countrymen and for being spared from death was grateful, very grateful to be alive and thus was determined to “make it work” in Australia. ? He refused all offers to take up membership of “Little Poland” cliques. I didn’t understand my parents’ attitudes and behaviour in this regard but now at my age I too regard their approach to a new life in Australia as special and a valuable lesson in accepting the maxim “When in Rome do as the Romans do”. ? I’m aware this is not a forum for political expression but I’ll risk the ire of others by stating Australia is a multi-cultured nation, not a multicultural nation and I don’t believe it augers well for those of us who love living in Oz. ? Regards, ? Konrad Wraczynski. ? ? ? On 13 Mar 2016, at 8:20 am, eve.marie123@... [Kresy-Siberia] <Kresy-Siberia@...> wrote: ? Hello, thank you for your reply, sorry for the slow reply, I was away for awhile dealing with other matters ? ? |
Eve-Marie
Hello from Australia, where I managed to?escape?to in 1995 after decades of Canadian winters in Montreal, Ottawa and Toronto. I was born in Montreal to Polish?parents, Survivors of Siberia and of the Warsaw Uprising. I went to Harcerski obóz (scout camp) in Kaszuby, Barry's Bay, Ontario. Our "Hufiec" (regional scout group) in Montreal was actually called "Kresy" though at the time I had no idea what that meant. In 1976 I was at the world jamboree of Polish Scouts (ZHP) outside Poland, held at Kaszuby. Scouts attended from Australia, Argentina, the UK and the USA. Were you there? Czuwaj! Stefan Wisniowski Sydney Australia |