Gene, there are several way to get it done. You could transmit into an
antenna and put a second antenna on the counter, or you could get a 30 dB or
higher power attenuator and place it between the transmitter and the counter. I
have a 1 kW 40 dB attenuator that I use on my test bench, but these don't come
cheap!
A directional coupler would also attenuate the power into the counter, while
the transmitter power is going to a load. A sampling loop could also be
used, but it's hard to know how much power is getting into the counter input. A
loop can be made by getting a piece of coax that matches the counter input
connector, and making an insulated 1 inch loop on the other end, between the
center conductor and the braid.
A great safety measure is to us a fused device on the counter input, to
protect it from excessive power. You could make one with a small 1/8 amp fuse, a
small box and RF connectors. Many commercial ones are also around.
Stuart K6YAZ