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God's Perceived Absence: A Time Of Reflection

 



Today's Scripture:


The women, who had come with him out of Galilee, followed after, and saw the tomb, and how His body was laid. They returned, and prepared spices and ointments. On the Sabbath they rested according to the commandment.??

--Luke 23:55-56


God can be maddeningly hard to get. When God says that His ways are not our ways, He really means it (Isaiah 55:8).

We have these encounters with Him where He breaks into our lives with power and answers our prayers and wins our trust and waters the garden of our faith, making it lush and green.

And then there are these seasons when chaos careens with apparent carelessness through our lives and the world, leaving us shattered. Or an unrelenting darkness descends. Or an arid wind we don¡¯t even understand blows across our spiritual landscape, leaving the crust of our soul cracked and parched. And we cry to God in our confused anguish and He just seems silent. He seems absent.

Many great saints and characters from Scripture have experienced what has been described as the "long dark night of the soul," among them:

Job: ¡°I cry to you for help and you do not answer me; I stand, and you only look at me.¡± (Job 30:20)

King David: ¡°My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning? O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer, and by night, but I find no rest.¡± (Psalm 22:1¨C2).

Many great saints suffered greatly from a sense of God's absence, among them St John of the Cross, St Therese of Lisieux, and especially the greatest known saint of the Twentieth Century: Mother Teresa. One can only imagine the experiences of the unknown saints--those relegated to Nazi or Stalinist or other communist death camps and others whose lives and expectations came apart at the seams--and all others whose faith and perseverance in the presence of severe temptation to abandon all hope lasted for agonizingly long periods of time.?

What of those in many parts of the world with that experience at this very moment?

And--although we ?can only imagine the experience of the apostles on the original Holy Saturday--from the time Jesus died on the cross on Friday to the time the empty tomb was discovered Sunday morning--we can imagine Peter and the disciples suffering a similar despair and questioning of their faith. The one they had left everything to follow--the one whom they called "Teacher" and "Lord" and "Master"--the one for whom they had such high hopes and dreams and aspirations--He lay forever, for all they knew, stone cold in a sealed and guarded tomb.

They remained together in a locked room--but they did so out of fear of those who had crucified Jesus coming for them next. We know that at least one among them--Thomas--would not believe again until Jesus personally appeared to him and offered him the opportunity to touch His wounds. We can only marvel that the others apparently never completely abandoned hope and were ready to receive Jesus joyfully when He did appear--in spite of how hopeless their time and circumstance seemed.

Atheists will tell us that the reason God seems silent is because he¡¯s absent. ¡°No one¡¯s home at that address. Duh.¡±

In the silent suffering seasons we can be tempted to believe it. Until we step back and take a look and see that existence itself is not silent. It screams God (Romans 1:20). As Parmenides said, and as Maria sang in The Sound of Music, ¡°Nothing comes from nothing; nothing ever could.¡±

Believing atheism on its own terms is like moderns believing in a flat earth. ¡°From where I stand, it doesn¡¯t look like God is there.¡± Right. And if you only trust your limited human perceptions, the world looks flat. The only reason you know the world is round is because of authoritative scientific revelation and many corroborating testimonies.

For a time, scientific discoveries seemed to favor an atheist perception of reality. Ancient misunderstandings of the way things "worked"--often referenced in Scripture---challenged our faith in its overall reliability as a blueprint for God's relationship with us and for our salvation, and especially challenged our belief in miracles.

More recent scientific discoveries--from the Big Bang (the universe being created and having a finite existence); to the realization that the universe is so "fine tuned" for the existence of life through the most amazingly infinitesimally narrow parameters of possibility per scientific understanding of how the "laws" of physics and chemistry work, making a "natural" (i.e., non-theistic) explanation extremely unlikely without intelligent design; to current models of "reality" based on quantum theory that suggest that what we perceive as "reality" might best fit the model of our living in a "simulation"--suggesting that we "exist" in the construct of a hyper-intelligent "mind."

None of this is absolute proof and none negates one's reliance on faith for the theist or the atheist, but it does all point in the direction of a God who created it all and with whom we are invited to pursue a relationship with. In that pursuit--per God's invitation--He stands ready to reveal Himself to us (Deuteronomy 4:29; 1 Chronicles 28:9; 2 Chronicles 15:2-3; Psalm 25:12,14; Psalm 34:3-9; Psalm 145:18-19; Proverbs 2,3-6; Proverbs 8:17; Jeremiah 29:13; Lamentations 3:25; Matthew 6:31-33; Luke 11:9-13; Acts 17:24-28; Hebrews 11:6; James 4:6-8; Revelation 3:20; Revelation 21:6).

But back to our perceptions: what we experience as God¡¯s absence or distance or silence is phenomenological. It¡¯s how we perceive it. It¡¯s how at some point it looks and feels but it isn¡¯t how it is. Just like we can experience the world as flat when we¡¯re walking on a huge spinning ball, we can experience God as absent or distant when ¡°in Him we live and move and have our being¡± (Acts 17:28).

In reality, God wasn¡¯t absent or silent or indifferent at all toward Job or King David or the saints or the apostles. It¡¯s just how it felt to them at a particular time. Nor, in reality, is God silent toward us when our experience of His presence is lacking. When we feel forsaken by God we are not forsaken (Hebrews 13:5). We are simply called to trust the promise more than the perception.

But why the Silence? ?Why does it need to feel that way? Why the perceived silence? Why can it seem like God is playing hard to get or like He¡¯s just standing there looking at us when we cry to Him for help?

I don¡¯t claim to understand all the mysteries of this experience. No doubt we underestimate the effects of remaining sin on us and our need for this discipline in order to share God¡¯s holiness (Hebrews 12:10). But I believe there are clues for another purpose as well. I¡¯ll phrase them as questions.

Why is it that ¡°absence makes the heart grow fonder¡± but ¡°familiarity breeds contempt¡±?

Why is water so much more refreshing when we¡¯re really thirsty?

Why am I almost never satisfied with what I have, but always longing for more?

Why can the thought of being denied a desire for marriage or children or freedom or some other dream create in us a desperation we previously didn¡¯t have?

Why is the pursuit of earthly achievement often more enjoyable than the achievement itself?

Why do deprivation, adversity, scarcity, and suffering often produce the best character qualities in us while prosperity, ease, and abundance often produce the worst?

Do you see it? There is a pattern in the design of deprivation: Deprivation draws out desire. Absence heightens desire. And the more heightened the desire, the greater its satisfaction will be. It is the mourning that will know the joy of comfort (Matthew 5:4). It is the hungry and thirsty that will be satisfied (Matthew 5:6). Longing makes us ask, emptiness makes us seek, silence makes us knock (Luke 11:9).

Deprivation is in the design of this age--of our experience here on earth. We live mainly in the age of anticipation, not gratification--or rather, not lasting gratification. Gratification of our senses is always an ephemeral experience. If we pursue it for its own sake it can lead us to madness of covetousness, obsession and addiction to things of this world, chasing an impossible dream by ever more desperately perverse means. We live in the dim mirror age, not the face-to-face age (1 Corinthians 13:12).

The paradox is that what satisfies us most in this age is not what we receive, but what we are promised. Gratification and fulfillment and the peace that surpasses all understanding come to us in self-emptying and self-denial, not for its own sake either but in surrender to God and His purposes and in seeking the fulfillment of His Kingdom in loving service to Him and others for His sake--yet this experience can be transitory as well. The chase is better than the catch in this age because the Catch we¡¯re designed to be satisfied with is in the age to come.

And so Fredrick William Faber wrote in his poem ¡°The Desire of God¡±:

Yes, pine for thy God, fainting soul! ever pine;
Oh languish mid all that life brings thee of mirth;
Famished, thirsty, and restless ¡ª let such life be thine ¡ª
For what sight is to heaven, desire is to earth.
(Thank God for poets and songwriters!)

So you desire God and ask for more of Him and what do you get? Stuck in a desert feeling deserted. You feel disoriented and desperate.

Don¡¯t despair. The silence, the absence is phenomenological. It¡¯s how it feels, it¡¯s not how it is. You are not alone. God is with you (Psalm 23:4). And He is speaking all the time in the priceless gift of His objective word so you don¡¯t need to rely on the subjective impressions of your fluctuating emotions.

If desire is to earth what sight is to heaven, then God answers our prayer with more desire. It¡¯s the desert that awakens and sustains desire. It¡¯s the desert that dries up our infatuation with worldliness. And it¡¯s the desert that draws us to the Well of the world to come.

The disciples--for these reasons and/or for whatever other reasons suited God's purpose--needed to experience this. They needed time to mourn and to reflect on the meaning of their experience. They needed to learn patience and perseverance in the face of adversity. They needed to learn to maintain hope and faith and trust in Jesus and His word when all were severely challenged. They had to process both their emotions and their shattered expectations of what their life with Jesus on this earth would be like.

Jesus, of course, had given abundant warnings of what was to transpire, but they had only heard what they wanted to hear and had failed to process all that He had said. Would we have been any different? Considering the radical challenges of the Gospel versus what we are generally willing to process and accept of it, are we any different today?

The good news: Jesus--who had insight into all their faults and failings--Jesus who was aware that they would fail their first really severe test--Jesus who knew that Peter would deny Him, that Thomas would demand extraordinary proof, and that all would desert Him in His hour of need--had nonetheless, at His last supper, pronounced them--all of them, except Judas the conniving betrayer--CLEAN! All the other apostles would learn from their shortcomings and failings and, through faith in God and His grace, go on to lead extraordinary lives guided and empowered by God's Holy Spirit. They would still have their faults and failings--the Book of Acts references some of them--and all except John, who died in exile after a long life, would be martyred for standing by the faith that they testified to.

But back to us: what if we didn't know the end of the story? What if, like the apostles, we feel overwhelmed by darkness and the absence of the perception of God's presence? What of the horrible things that go wrong in our lives and in the lives of those near and dear to us? I can't offer answers to how things will play out for any of us--not even for myself--but I can reference the fact that the experience is a common--and even a necessary--matter for us to endure; to quiet our minds and to still our hearts and to reflect on God's word even when we do not sense His presence. That seems to be the place where God often speaks to us--if only He finds us listening and willing to hear Him, trust in Him, and follow where He would lead us. But there is still that time of waiting and enduring--just as the first Holy Saturday was for the followers of Jesus. ?



(This reflection was adapted from "When God Seems Silent" by John Bloom. I bear the sole burden of responsibility for all alterations and adaptations of this work and any misunderstandings or ?other mistakes derived from such).


Re: Daily FunTrivia for Apr 18 25:

 

Bummer :(
I finished the week with a 9.?
I missed question # 1.

With the advent of larger storage space and relatively easier software interfaces, a particular method of collecting data has become practically ubiquitous in our lives. To which kind of application does this method of collecting data refer?

Mary
Live long and prosper

On Friday, April 18, 2025 at 09:23:26 PM CDT, Mary Landers via groups.io <maryeland@...> wrote:


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daily email trivia category?Sci / Tech:?General Computing:?General Computing: Deus Ex Machina!
1With the advent of larger storage space and relatively easier software interfaces, a particular method of collecting data has become practically ubiquitous in our lives. To which kind of application does this method of collecting data refer?
    ?online poker
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    ?hamster hoarding
daily email trivia category?Music:?Food and Drink in Country Songs:?Food and Drink in Country Songs: Where Everybody Knows Your Name, Vol. 1
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3Which American author wrote a novel that challenged racial stereotypes and the taboos of its time, and then never produced another during the 20th century?
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    ?James H. Cobb
    ?Harper Lee
    ?Thomas Perry
daily email trivia category?People:?Other People:?Other People: Famous American Mustaches
4This tasty beverage can give anyone a mustache who wants one (even some who don't).
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    ?Milk
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daily email trivia category?Celebrities:?Before They Were Stars:?Before They Were Stars : Famous Child Stars
5I first sang a song for dear Mr. Gable then went to live in Kansas with an aunt and uncle of mine but got lost somewhere over the rainbow when I ended up in a land of "Munchkins" . Do you know who I am?
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daily email trivia category?History:?War History:?War History: Miscellaneous Wars
6Who fought in the Vietnam War (1961-1975)?
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    ?U.S. and Vietnam versus the U.S.S.R.
    ?France and the U.S against the Vietminh
    ?South Vietnam, Australia, New Zealand and the U.S. against the Vietcong and North Vietnam
daily email trivia category?World:?Israeli Government:?Israeli Government: The Life and Times of Theodor Herzl
7In what way is Herzl's contribution recognized in modern-day Israel?
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    ?His grave occupies an important place in the national cemetery
daily email trivia category?Movies:?Degrees - Easy +/- 10:?Degrees - Easy +/- 10: 15 Degrees of Keanu Reeves
8Hugh Grant played the love interest of an American actress, played by Julia Roberts, in what movie?
    ?Nine Months
    ?America's Sweethearts
    ?Four Weddings and a Funeral
    ?Notting Hill
daily email trivia category?Geography:?Central America:?Central America: Capitals Latin America
9Havana is the capital of?
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    ?Mexico
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Daily FunTrivia for Apr 18 25:

 

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daily email trivia category?Sci / Tech:?General Computing:?General Computing: Deus Ex Machina!
1With the advent of larger storage space and relatively easier software interfaces, a particular method of collecting data has become practically ubiquitous in our lives. To which kind of application does this method of collecting data refer?
    ?online poker
    ?database
    ?word processors
    ?hamster hoarding
daily email trivia category?Music:?Food and Drink in Country Songs:?Food and Drink in Country Songs: Where Everybody Knows Your Name, Vol. 1
2Tracy Byrd sings about going "Ten Rounds with Jose Cuervo". What kind of liquor is Jose Cuervo?
    ?Kahlua
    ?Tequila
    ?Tesguino
    ?Mezcal
daily email trivia category?Literature:?Authors and their Works:?Authors and their Works: One Book Wonders & Second Time Flops
3Which American author wrote a novel that challenged racial stereotypes and the taboos of its time, and then never produced another during the 20th century?
    ?Stephen Frey
    ?James H. Cobb
    ?Harper Lee
    ?Thomas Perry
daily email trivia category?People:?Other People:?Other People: Famous American Mustaches
4This tasty beverage can give anyone a mustache who wants one (even some who don't).
    ?Coffee
    ?Milk
    ?Pepsi
    ?Tea
daily email trivia category?Celebrities:?Before They Were Stars:?Before They Were Stars : Famous Child Stars
5I first sang a song for dear Mr. Gable then went to live in Kansas with an aunt and uncle of mine but got lost somewhere over the rainbow when I ended up in a land of "Munchkins" . Do you know who I am?
    ?Shirley Temple
    ?Judy Garland
    ?Elizabeth Taylor
    ?Vivian Leigh
daily email trivia category?History:?War History:?War History: Miscellaneous Wars
6Who fought in the Vietnam War (1961-1975)?
    ?Vietnam and China against Japan
    ?U.S. and Vietnam versus the U.S.S.R.
    ?France and the U.S against the Vietminh
    ?South Vietnam, Australia, New Zealand and the U.S. against the Vietcong and North Vietnam
daily email trivia category?World:?Israeli Government:?Israeli Government: The Life and Times of Theodor Herzl
7In what way is Herzl's contribution recognized in modern-day Israel?
    ?There is a city named after him
    ?All of these
    ?There are streets named after him
    ?His grave occupies an important place in the national cemetery
daily email trivia category?Movies:?Degrees - Easy +/- 10:?Degrees - Easy +/- 10: 15 Degrees of Keanu Reeves
8Hugh Grant played the love interest of an American actress, played by Julia Roberts, in what movie?
    ?Nine Months
    ?America's Sweethearts
    ?Four Weddings and a Funeral
    ?Notting Hill
daily email trivia category?Geography:?Central America:?Central America: Capitals Latin America
9Havana is the capital of?
    ?Guatemala
    ?Mexico
    ?Cuba
    ?Panama
daily email trivia category?Hobbies:?Beverages (Non-Alcoholic):?Beverages (Non-Alcoholic): Soft Drinks
10What gas is dissolved in certain soft drinks to make them fizzy?
    ?carbon dioxide
    ?oxygen
    ?carbon monoxide
    ?helium


*** Submit your answers now & compare scores:


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The Cross On The Way To Glory!

 


Today's Scripture:


Jesus went out with His disciples across the Kidron valley to where there was a garden, into which He and His disciples entered. Judas, His betrayer, also knew the place, because Jesus had often met there with His disciples. So Judas got a band of soldiers and guards from the chief priests and the Pharisees and went there with lanterns, torches, and weapons.?

Jesus, knowing everything that was going to happen to Him, went out and said to them, ¡°Whom are you looking for?¡± They answered Him, ¡°Jesus the Nazorean.¡± He said to them, ¡°I AM.¡± Judas, His betrayer, was also with them. When He said to them, ¡°I AM, ¡° they turned away and fell to the ground. So He again asked them, ¡°Whom are you looking for?¡± They said, ¡°Jesus the Nazorean.¡± Jesus answered, ¡°I told you that I AM. So if you are looking for Me, let these men go.¡± This was to fulfill what He had said, ¡°I have not lost any of those You gave Me.¡±?

Then Simon Peter, who had a sword, drew it, struck the high priest¡¯s slave, and cut off his right ear. The slave¡¯s name was Malchus. Jesus said to Peter, ¡°Put your sword into its scabbard. Shall I not drink the cup that the Father gave Me?¡±

So the band of soldiers, the tribune, and the Jewish guards seized Jesus, bound Him, and brought Him to Annas first. He was the father-in-law of Caiaphas, who was high priest that year. It was Caiaphas who had counseled the Jews that it was better that one man should die rather than the people.

Simon Peter and another disciple followed Jesus. Now the other disciple was known to the high priest, and he entered the courtyard of the high priest with Jesus. But Peter stood at the gate outside. So the other disciple, the acquaintance of the high priest, went out and spoke to the gatekeeper and brought Peter in. Then the maid who was the gatekeeper said to Peter, ¡°You are not one of This Man¡¯s disciples, are you?¡± He said, ¡°I am not.¡± Now the slaves and the guards were standing around a charcoal fire that they had made, because it was cold, and were warming themselves. Peter was also standing there keeping warm.

The high priest questioned Jesus about His disciples and about His doctrine. Jesus answered him, ¡°I have spoken publicly to the world. I have always taught in a synagogue or in the temple area where all the Jews gather, and in secret I have said nothing. ?Why ask Me? Ask those who heard Me what I said to them. They know what I said.¡± When He had said this, one of the temple guards standing there struck Jesus and said, ¡°Is this the way You answer the high priest?¡± Jesus answered him, ¡°If I have spoken wrongly, testify to the wrong; but if I have spoken rightly, why do you strike Me?¡± Then Annas sent Him bound to Caiaphas the high priest.

Now Simon Peter was standing there keeping warm. And they said to him, ¡°You are not one of His disciples, are you?¡± He denied it and said, ¡°I am not.¡± One of the slaves of the high priest, a relative of the one whose ear Peter had cut off, said, ¡°Didn¡¯t I see you in the garden with Him?¡± Again Peter denied it. And immediately the cock crowed.

Then they brought Jesus from Caiaphas to the praetorium. It was morning. And they themselves did not enter the praetorium, in order not to be defiled so that they could eat the Passover. So Pilate came out to them and said, ¡°What charge do you bring against this man?¡± They answered and said to him, ¡°If He were not a criminal, we would not have handed Him over to you.¡± At this, Pilate said to them, ¡°Take Him yourselves, and judge Him according to your law.¡± The Jews answered him, ¡°We do not have the right to execute anyone, ¡° in order that the word of Jesus might be fulfilled that He said indicating the kind of death He would die.?

So Pilate went back into the praetorium and summoned Jesus and said to Him, ¡°Are You the King of the Jews?¡± Jesus answered, ¡°Do you say this on your own or have others told you about Me?¡± Pilate answered, ¡°I am not a Jew, am I? Your own nation and the chief priests handed You over to me. What have You done?¡± Jesus answered, ¡°My kingdom does not belong to this world. If My kingdom did belong to this world, My attendants would be fighting to keep Me from being handed over to the Jews. But as it is, My kingdom is not here.¡± So Pilate said to Him, ¡°Then You are a king?¡± Jesus answered, ¡°You say I Am a king. For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to My voice.¡± Pilate said to Him, ¡°What is truth?¡±

When he had said this, he again went out to the Jews and said to them, ¡°I find no guilt in Him. But you have a custom that I release one prisoner to you at Passover. Do you want me to release to you the King of the Jews?¡± They cried out again, ¡°Not this one but Barabbas!¡± Now Barabbas was a revolutionary.

Then Pilate took Jesus and had Him scourged. And the soldiers wove a crown out of thorns and placed it on his head, and clothed Him in a purple cloak, and they came to Him and said, ¡°Hail, King of the Jews!¡± And they struck Him repeatedly. Once more Pilate went out and said to them, ¡°Look, I am bringing Him out to you, so that you may know that I find no guilt in Him.¡± So Jesus came out, wearing the crown of thorns and the purple cloak. And he said to them, ¡°Behold, the man!¡±?

When the chief priests and the guards saw Him they cried out, ¡°Crucify Him, crucify Him!¡± Pilate said to them, ¡°Take Him yourselves and crucify Him. I find no guilt in Him.¡± The Jews answered, ¡°We have a law, and according to that law He ought to die, because He made Himself the Son of God.¡± Now when Pilate heard this statement, he became even more afraid, and went back into the praetorium and said to Jesus, ¡°Where are You from?¡± Jesus did not answer him. So Pilate said to Him, ¡°Do You not speak to me? Do You not know that I have power to release You and I have power to crucify You?¡± Jesus answered him, ¡°You would have no power over Me if it had not been given to you from above. For this reason the one who handed Me over to you has the greater sin.¡± Consequently, Pilate tried to release Him; but the Jews cried out, ¡°If you release Him, you are not a Friend of Caesar. Everyone who makes himself a king opposes Caesar.¡±

When Pilate heard these words he brought Jesus out and seated Him on the judge¡¯s bench in the place called Stone Pavement, in Hebrew, Gabbatha. It was preparation day for Passover, and it was about noon. And he said to the Jews, ¡°Behold, your king!¡± They cried out, ¡°Take Him away, take Him away! ?Crucify Him!¡± Pilate said to them, ¡°Shall I crucify your king?¡± The chief priests answered, ¡°We have no king but Caesar.¡± Then he handed Him over to them to be crucified.

So they took Jesus, and, carrying the cross Himself, He went out to what is called the Place of the Skull, in Hebrew, Golgotha. There they crucified Him, and with Him two others, one on either side, with Jesus in the middle. Pilate also had an inscription written and put on the cross. It read, ¡°Jesus the Nazorean, the King of the Jews.¡± Now many of the Jews read this inscription, because the place where Jesus was crucified was near the city; and it was written in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek. So the chief priests of the Jews said to Pilate, ¡°Do not write ¡®The King of the Jews,¡¯ but that He said, ¡®I Am the King of the Jews¡¯.¡± Pilate answered, ¡°What I have written, I have written.¡±

When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they took His clothes and divided them into four shares, a share for each soldier. They also took His tunic, but the tunic was seamless, woven in one piece from the top down. So they said to one another, ¡°Let¡¯s not tear it, but cast lots for it to see whose it will be, ¡° in order that the passage of Scripture might be fulfilled that says: They divided My garments among them, and for My vesture they cast lots. This is what the soldiers did.?

Standing by the cross of Jesus were His mother and His mother¡¯s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary of Magdala. When Jesus saw His mother and the disciple there whom He loved He said to His mother, ¡°Woman, behold, your son.¡± Then He said to the disciple, ¡°Behold, your mother.¡± And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.

After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, ¡°I thirst.¡± There was a vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to His mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, He said, ¡°It is finished.¡± And bowing His head, He handed over the spirit.
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Now since it was preparation day, in order that the bodies might not remain on the cross on the sabbath, for the sabbath day of that week was a solemn one, the Jews asked Pilate that their legs be broken and that they be taken down. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first and then of the other one who was crucified with Jesus. But when they came to Jesus and saw that He was already dead, they did not break His legs, but one soldier thrust His lance into His side, and immediately blood and water flowed out. An eyewitness has testified, and his testimony is true; he knows that he is speaking the truth, so that you also may come to believe. For this happened so that the Scripture passage might be fulfilled: Not a bone of it will be broken. And again another passage says: They will look upon Him whom they have pierced.

After this, Joseph of Arimathea, secretly a disciple of Jesus for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate if he could remove the body of Jesus. And Pilate permitted it. So he came and took his body. Nicodemus, the one who had first come to Him at night, also came bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes weighing about one hundred pounds. They took the body of Jesus and bound it with burial cloths along with the spices, according to the Jewish burial custom. Now in the place where He had been crucified there was a garden, and in the garden a new tomb, in which no one had yet been buried. So they laid Jesus there because of the Jewish preparation day; for the tomb was close by.

--John 18:1-19:42


In the reflection below, I concentrate my focus on the themes of John's Gospel, that being the focus of today's Scripture pericope. Most of what is in today's reflection is a somewhat?updated version of some previous Good Friday postings, and it still holds true for me. That said, I encourage you to compare and contrast today's Gospel selection with Luke's account in my Palm Sunday posting a few days ago, and/or the other Gospel accounts of such as well, and see what additional?insights might emerge for you in doing so.


God's blessings to you all,


Greg

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He was arrested, tied up, interrogated, tortured, and executed. After that His executioners took and divided His clothes among themselves. The cross is always a story of suffering and death. There¡¯s just no way around it.

How is it that something as brutal as this has become the centerpiece of our faith?

There is something about this story that is both attractive and repulsive, compelling and embarrassing. We glory in the cross and we denounce such violence when it happens in the world today. So why is this story of suffering and death at the heart of our faith?

Who among us has not known suffering, loss, sorrow? Who has not wept and felt powerless at the suffering and loss of another? Who has not in some way been touched and affected by death?

The cross is not exclusive to Jesus. It¡¯s your story and my story. It¡¯s the story of Syria, America, Ukraine, Russia, Nigeria, Gaza, Israel and anywhere death and violence reign. It¡¯s the story of everyone--of those we've loved and those we've hated. It¡¯s the story of those we've known and those we will never meet. It¡¯s the human story and the cross stands in the middle of that story.

How do you make sense of the cross? What do you do with the world¡¯s suffering? How do you understand your suffering? What explanations do you have for the tragedies of life? What do you say when someone asks you about her or his suffering?

This is the universality of Jesus's suffering and death on the cross. Jesus is one with us in our suffering. Suffering is real and death is real. We live in a fallen, imperfect world, and as long as that is the case, suffering and death will never go away. ?

Jesus is never more real, more human, more embodied, more identified with us, than He is on the cross. It¡¯s not at His birth, or in His teaching and preaching, or the miracles He performs, or even at His resurrection. It¡¯s on the cross. It¡¯s in His suffering and dying. It¡¯s in our suffering and dying.

Almost everyone ran away from Jesus¡¯s cross on that first Good Friday. They betrayed their Lord--even denied Him--and one sold Him out completely. It was a horrible betrayal--but would we act any differently? Perhaps--perhaps not. However we are all reluctant to face our crosses because the cross of our life is just too painful. We want to get away from it. We want to find something good in the horrific. We want to explain away the suffering. We want to make sense of that which makes no sense to us. We want to flower the cross before its time and jump from Palm Sunday to Easter Sunday.

We cannot, however, get around the cross of suffering and death. We can only go through it. Today does not offer answers to or escape from our sufferings. More than any other day in the church year, today holds our sufferings before us. It¡¯s a hard day. I don¡¯t like it and I don¡¯t want to face my sufferings. I suspect you don¡¯t either. But there in the middle of our lives stands the cross.

What is your story of suffering and loss? When was a time you thought your heart couldn¡¯t break anymore than it already had? Who are the loved ones you¡¯ve lost? What is the pain that never goes away? When has your world come to an end? When have you cried in the daytime, but had no answer from God, or by night as well but found no rest (Psalm 22:2)? What suffering do you bring today?

I wish I could make it all better for you. We can, to a certain extent, ameliorate the pain of those whom we try to support in their tragedies and losses. We can be there for them and make their burden a little easier. We can help carry their cross. But in the end, we cannot take away the cause of their hurt. We cannot bring back lost loved ones or cure terminal illnesses or whatever else the source of their pain might entail.

Jesus likewise does not take us down from our cross. Instead, He gets up on the cross with us. I'll state that again: Jesus does not take us down from our cross. Instead, He gets up on the cross with us.

Today is not called Easy Friday. It is not called Happy Friday. And it¡¯s not called Painless Friday. What is today called?

"Good" Friday.

We cannot avoid sorrow, loss or suffering in our lives. ?Good Friday is what carries us through our sufferings and deaths. It did yesterday. It is today. And it will tomorrow.

The good news is that Good Friday is not the end. The good news is that, unlike those who were grief-stricken beyond imagining by the crucifixion of their Lord, we know what follows, and the good news and the glory that awaits in Jesus's triumph over sin and death which we celebrate on Easter.

The bad news is that there is still plenty of suffering and death in this world--and likely in our own lives--where we don't know the end of the story. We might possibly feel abandoned by God or not feel His presence. We might join with Jesus in crying out, "My God, My God, why have you abandoned me?" Such is our experience in and on our own crosses. The pain is real and the suffering is real. It certainly was real for Jesus as well.

What Jesus knew--through faith, trust and hope beyond His suffering--were that those words were the preface to Psalm 22 which parallels the suffering that Jesus underwent and ends with the glory of what is to result from His doing so.

The way through victory is through the cross. The way to triumph over sin and death is through the cross. That is what awaits those who bear their crosses for His sake and who place their faith in Him. Let us stand with others in their suffering--to lend what support we can--to help them bear their burdens as best they can--and to remember the triumph and glory which is to come!

Thanks be to God!

AMEN!!?


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OT: I'm back posting in groups/emails

 

Sorry I haven't been posting in a while, I was sick with cold/flu and there were some days I didn't feel like going on my laptop. I would check my emails by phone but not respond to a lot of them, wasn't ignoring anyone :)

I missed everybody.

Cindy J






Jesus Demonstrates Love And Servanthood

 


As we approach the Easter celebration on Sunday, I will be sending out what I hope will be daily reflections for today, tomorrow and Saturday in addition to what I hope will be my Sunday sermon/reflection. Today is celebrated as Holy Thursday in many churches, and I'll reference one Scripture passage read in many churches on this occasion this year:




Before the feast of the Passover, Jesus, knowing that His time had come that He would depart from this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.

During supper, the devil--having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon¡¯s son, to betray Him--Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He came from God, and was going to God, arose from supper and laid aside His outer garments. He took a towel, and wrapped it around His waist. Then He poured water into a basin, and began to wash the disciples¡¯ feet, and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around Him. Then He came to Simon Peter who said to Him, ¡°Lord, do you wash my feet?¡±?

Jesus answered him, ¡°You don¡¯t know what I Am doing now, but you will understand later.¡±?

Peter said to Him, ¡°You will never wash my feet!¡±?

Jesus answered him, ¡°If I don¡¯t wash you, you have no part with Me.¡±?

Simon Peter said to Him, ¡°Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head!¡±?

Jesus said to him, ¡°Someone who has bathed only needs to have his feet washed, but is completely clean. You are clean, but not all of you.¡± For He knew him who would betray Him, therefore He said, ¡°You are not all clean.¡±?

So when He had washed their feet, put His outer garment back on, and sat down again, He said to them,?

¡°Do you know what I have done to you? You call me, ¡®Teacher¡¯ and ¡®Lord.¡¯ You say so correctly, for so I Am. If I then, the Lord and the Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another¡¯s feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do as I have done to you."?

-John 13:1-15



We can all probably relate to Linus in the ¡°Peanuts¡± cartoon strip when he shouts in frustration, ¡°I love mankind; it¡¯s people I can¡¯t stand!¡±?

It¡¯s easy to love the human race in the abstract, but when it comes to loving specific people who, like us, have their own faults and foibles, and might often irritate us or rub us the wrong way--those who might even be our enemies and wish us ill--the process becomes a lot more difficult!?

What the Gospel of John chose to mention of the Last Supper differs somewhat from that of the Synoptic Gospels, and serves as an introduction to Jesus's lengthy last discourse to His disciples. The Synoptic Gospels' accounts of the Last Supper are less detailed for the most part, yet provide information not mentioned in John. One such matter was a great squabble which broke out among the Apostles as to which of them was the "greatest", followed by Jesus's teaching that the greatest is the one who serves others, not one who seeks self-glory (cf. Mt 20:25-27 and Lk 22:24-30).

I think it's important to consider the context of that dispute in terms of today's lesson. Jesus not only teaches by word but by example what servant hood in God's Kingdom is about. Jesus probably quietly began this task while the squabble was going on.

Few jobs could then be considered more menial and degrading than washing another's feet--so much so that only Gentile indentured servants could be required to do so--yet Jesus does so Himself for all of His apostles, including Judas! Jesus breaks bread with all of His apostles at this Passover celebration--including Judas! Jesus even makes it possible for Judas to leave discretely and not call attention to himself from the others in doing so. Even Judas--whom Jesus knew would betray Him--experiences Jesus's love and generosity.

When Jesus washed the feet of His disciples He was demonstrating unconditional love. Later in this chapter Jesus said these words; ¡°A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men (and women) will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.¡± In other words, in God's eyes, no task is demeaning or humiliating when done out of love and concern for another.?

At this point Jesus had very little time left to teach His disciples. In order to leave the world with followers who would truly ¡°get it¡± He had to demonstrate the importance of unconditional love. If the disciples didn¡¯t love each other, how could they possibly build God¡¯s Church? How could they possibly teach others how to love??

The disciples--those not seeking to actively betray Him--had to understand themselves as equals. None was more deserving than any other. None was more faithful than the others. Each had to accept the others with out bias or judgment. They were to love as Jesus loved them. ¡°Truly, truly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him.¡±?

Are you getting the picture? Anyone can wash feet. Loving another person unconditionally is quite something deeper.?

Christ¡¯s love should be a reality in all of our lives. John emphasizes through repetition Jesus¡¯s love for His own (John 13:1): ¡°Now before the Feast of the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.¡± That last phrase seems to be deliberately ambiguous. It can mean that Jesus loved the disciples up to the end of His life. Or, it can mean that Jesus loved them totally or to the uttermost. Both are certainly true.?

John also emphasizes that Jesus¡¯s disciples were ¡°in the world.¡± Jesus was about to depart from this world, but His disciples were still in it. As Jesus will pray (John 17:15-18), He doesn¡¯t ask the Father to take these men out of the world. That is the sphere of ministry to which He sends them. But they are to be distinct from the world. But walking in this world means that you get your feet dirty. Thus the need for cleansing.? Thus the need for each of us to assist one another in helping all of us to achieve "cleanliness" and to encourage a state of "cleanliness" among us all.?

John (13:1) states that Jesus ¡°loved His own.¡± John 3:16 states that God loves the world, but here the emphasis is on Jesus¡¯s love for His own, not for the world. God loves the world by providing redemption for all that would believe in and follow Him according to His word, by means of His impending extreme self-sacrifice on our behalf. The invitation goes out to all. Yet at the same time, Jesus has a special love for His own that He does not have for the whole world. As Paul writes (Eph. 5:25), Christ ¡°loved the church and gave Himself up for her.¡±?

You understand this principle. As a Christian, I¡¯m called to love all my brothers and sisters in Christ, but I have a special love for my wife. I¡¯m called to love all God¡¯s children, but I have a special love for my own child. In the same way, Jesus has a special love for His own, whom the Father gave to Him (John 6:37). If you have put your trust in Christ, He wants you to know and to feel His special love for you. He loves you ¡°to the end.¡±?

So John wants to ask you: do you know the love of Christ as a reality in your life? Does His love humble you before the cross? Does His love cause you to hate your sin? Does His love motivate you to serve others in love, even as He has loved you? And, if you¡¯ve never experienced His love, will you respond now to His love??

"Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends" (John 15:13).?

Thanks be to God for demonstrating His great love for our sake and? for the sake of others, and for His calling us to follow His example in how we live our lives as well!?

Thanks be to God indeed!

AMEN!!