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..."Attitudes."
Sheila Bush
Beautifully stated, Jim!
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You wrote: " Everything is a lesson God would have me learn, and all learning is really forgiving.. So bring on the appearance of conflict. Each time I encounter it, I will either respond from fear, and go to war, or respond from love, and forgive." My daily struggle, if and when these days, is accepting my husband and his own inner struggles, along with the resulting and seemingly offensive and childish behaviors. I am especially concerned about our teenage children who perceive him negatively for the most part. The book and the Course have assisted me in learning what a powerful gift this man has been to me and our family. It seems that I do choose each day whether to respond in love or fear, and thanks be to the Holy Spirit it's usually love, and forgiveness certainly follows. But it means that I am also learning to forgive myself and accept my own behaviors, attitudes, and perceptions. This is a quote I will tape onto my computer monitor, as it simply and beautifully nips it in the bud for me! When I struggle with my own perception of anyone at all as appearing less than the child of God s/he is intended to be, I will read: "Everything is a lesson God would have me learn, and all learning is really forgiving.. So bring on the appearance of conflict. Each time I encounter it, I will either respond from fear, and go to war, or respond from love, and forgive." Jim, this is my gift this day! Thank you!!! Sheila Namast: I honor in you the divinity that I honor within myself and I know we are one. From: "Jim Dunn" <jldunn8@...> Reply-To: Disappearance_of_the_Universe@... To: <Disappearance_of_the_Universe@...> Subject: RE: [Disappearance_of_the_Universe] Gary to Petr, youngnel, and Jim on "Attitudes." Date: Thu, 15 May 2003 21:50:08 -0700 Gary, In the groups I have led and the on line chats, I try to emphasize that we will always find what we seek. If we want peace, we will laugh gently at the "seeming" discord within the course community. Remember, the need to be right will surface as long as we still think it holds some value. ACIM has convinced me that no one else has to "do" the course.. It was created by J entirely for me. If I can understand that "Salvation of the world depends on me," then I will not care if Ken and Robert agree of disagree, since I invented both of them in my dreamscape anyway. Everything is a lesson God would have me learn, and all learning is really forgiving.. So bring on the appearance of conflict. Each time I encounter it, I will either respond from fear, and go to war, or respond from love, and forgive. Bless you Gary for this wonderful, uncompromising book. Jim Dunn -----Original Message-----
From: Gary [mailto:g35813@...] Sent: Wednesday, May 14, 2003 11:51 AM To: Disappearance_of_the_Universe@... Subject: [Disappearance_of_the_Universe] Gary to Petr, youngnel, and Jim on "Attitudes." I think all three of you, within your fine observations about duality, non-duality, etc. managed to come up with the Answer. That's a very good sign. Petr very wisely put the focus back on the Workbook and forgiveness, as did youngnel ("constant practice of the teaching") and you Jim, in the way you look at things. As my contribution, I'd like to put here a slightly edited e-mail I sent to a fellow Course student who has been on a spiritual path for many, many years and has studied the Course without it producing very much happiness in his life so far. I think it speaks to a very important issue and can be of value to all of us: Dear ----, You mention how confusing it is to have highly intelligent people like Wapnick and Perry disagreeing with each other. Perhaps we should take more note of the things they don't disagree about. I remind you of the following two statements from ACIM: "This is not a course in philosophical speculation, nor is it concerned with precise terminology. It is concerned only with Atonement, or the correction of perception. The means of the Atonement is forgiveness." (CL77) "Forgiveness is the central theme that runs throughout salvation, holding all its parts in meaningful relationships, the course it runs directed and its outcome sure." (W324) My teachers stressed that without forgiveness, metaphysics are useless, yet time and time again I see people engage in philosophical speculation when talking about the Course; at the same time, I see very little discussion about forgiveness or specific examples of people doing it. That's why I think there are a lot of unhappy people doing the course. I don't know you specifically, so I'm only speaking in general terms here. And I include myself when I say that my teachers were very clear that if I wanted to be happy, I'd use the Course for what it was meant for. I see all around me, from my study group, to friends, to people throughout the Course community, very few people using the Course purposefully and habitually to practice forgiveness. I think I could count on two hands the people I've seen really practicing the Course! (But then I've only been looking for 10 years.) So if you want to be truly unique, you have a marvelous opportunity. If you ever read my book again, I would try to notice most the parts that deal with forgiveness of our relationships and the situations that confront us. I'd say no more than 4 out of the 17 chapters in my book were dominated by metaphysics, but the theme of forgiveness can be found in all 17. I'm not suggesting that you didn't see those things the first time; I'm suggesting they must be utilized with great effort until they become almost automatic. For as the Course says, "Miracles are habits, and should be involuntary." (T3) In other words, unintentional. It takes a long time for that to become such a deep part of you, but it is possible. I wish you God's speed. Peace, Gary. Yahoo! Groups Sponsor < 077076:HM/A=1564415/R=0/* rtid=3170658> < pmail/S=:HM/A=1564415/rand=737383066> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: Disappearance_of_the_Universe-unsubscribe@... Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service <> . _________________________________________________________________ MSN 8 helps eliminate e-mail viruses. Get 2 months FREE*. |
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